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all my life i had never had a boyfriend and i thought it was me but 3 days ago my brother finally confessed. he told me that he told all the boys i like not to go out with me, its a rule not to go out with my sister. hes 17 and i'm 13. y does my brother want to........... y did my brother ruin my life? (link)
hes prolly just protecting you. but im shua that if you talk to him and tell all the guys who asked you out or liked you in the past then things will get better.

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my friend is really nice to me when its just me and her but if she is with another friend she is such a butthead to me and i get mad at her all the time and stuff but then we havce a fun time or we talk o0n the phone and we r friends again like all my friends are friends with her so it sucks and now im mad at her again wut shuld i do ? (link)
well i would say that maybe she thinks that her other friends and you dont get along that well but if you do then i shouldnt c a problem with this. maybe she is just being bitchy or maybe there is sumthing that she doesnt like about you or maybe you guys just need to spend more time together with out the other gurls. when you say ..'im mad at her again' maybe she gets anry cuz your always getting mad at her for dumb reasons like this. all ya gotta do is talk to her.

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Does anybody know where I could get a icon that says my name?Plz help.thanks!my names tasha.thx bye (i'll rate) (link)
you can make one at iconfun.com

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is it alright to wear a tampon during cheer practice?...are tampons supposed to stick out like 2 centimeters?...and well i was @ cheer practice, and we were doin jumping jacks..and after wards..i didnt fil it in me any more!..and i found out that i was juss layin in my panties!..can u help?! (link)
try gettin a smaller size like for starters
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This was to guy but I guess girls could answer too.lol.But what do you guys think of girls making the first move?I mean i've kinda been seein this guy and we've only been dating for like two weeks but we haven't done really anything accept hold hands and like kiss.And no tongue in those kisses either!Well I'm 14 and I guess I wanna make a move on doin more since he's to shy too..Cuz he is kinda shy.So what should i do?Go for it?Or wait till he does...Plz help. THanks! (link)
i would say deff make the first move guys find it sexy when a gurl is conifdent. so don't b shy and just when the moment is right look into his eyes and start leaning twords him and then he will get the point. start with soft slow pecks then once he gets the hang of it slip it in..and you get the rest. but when you do make the move make shua its at a practical moment when you two are alone or sitting next to eachother not when he had a mouth full of food cuz your at mickey D's! lol

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I'm looking for a guy that woud fit me well but each time i go out with the guys i fing something i hate about them right away...what should i do? (link)
maybe you should b more open minded cuz if you give up on every guy right away then you'll never find the perfect guy every had pet peves you just gotta let them grow on you. but if they really bug you that much then try talkin to him about it and politly say like.."i honestly don't like it when you do ....." or next time he does it just say"stop thats annoying..." and you can add a lil giggle in it so its not too harsh.

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ok im going into 9th grade and im trying out for varsity...we already had one tryout and i didnt do very well i dont think...i need to be tougher going to the ball....any suggestions??? im a fast learner and im willing to work hard! leave your AIM sn if u can help and also leave advice!! (link)
okay ive been playing socca for 7 years so i hope i can help out a lil
so you say you need to b more aggresive..
i've really never had a problem being aggresive cuz i play socca wit the boys.. but i would normally just say.."im not affraid of the ball and im not affraid of the big tough gurl witht the ball.. then just charge after it and don't thikn that your gonna get hurt cuz the ball will hurt if you let it hit you you have to hit the ball..and the playa. you can also try really sneaky moves like slide tackling and tripping others but make shua when your doin illlegal pushing and tripping that the reff is far away so he wont call ya.
but other wise just have fun and play hard

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hey thanks for answering my ? well i got another one...

well my bf told me b4 he " u know " he'll pull away and everything and he said hes going to take care of the baby if we have one and give it the best life possiable...and if like my parents kick me outt or w/e he'll like talk to his parents to like let me stay with them and w/e so i dont know!! (link)
i think that you should just take a day off... try and forget about every thing for a day just so you don't feel over welmed. then after awhile take everything one step at a time.. first talk to your parents tell them that in this point in your life you really need them. don't make them get stuck babysitting while your away partying but ask them for a place to stay and someone to talk to. then about your bf... do you think he is husband material? maybe thats the best you can do is get married it will b alot easier on the baby. but if not then try to stay as close to him as possible you don't wanna start a fight or n e thing cuz then that will ruin everything!
i think thats all i can tell ya for now
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hope i helped a bit


ok i have this sister who is always bisy...always at photo shoots and tours and stuff and i NEVER get to c her! i love her soo much but i see her more in magazines and oon tv then i do in real life...i know she has a carear but i miss her? how do i deal, and what do i do? (link)
i would deff talk to her on the phone alot when ever possible and tell her that you miss her alot and that you feel lonley when she not around maybe she'll come home for more visits if you tell her now you feel. and b happy for her that shes doing so well in life. i knoe you prolly are.
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ok here is my problem. I've always loved penguins, but lately I've been feeling a sexual attraction to them. now I think that's as sick as the next person, but there's just something about penguins. what do I do? (link)
is this ryan? cuz i knoe this ryan guy who loves penguins and.... he seems like he would put up a joke question like this?????


Hey! I have thick, wavy dark brown hair that goes a few inches past my shoulders in the front..does anyone know how to scrunch hair..well with like the type of hair I have? Please Help =D (link)
your hair sounds alot like mine and i scrunch my hair alllllll the time. all i do is use gel and apply it to wet hair then i flip my hair over my face and bend over to get the underneeeth part of my hair and just massage the gel in its really hard to describe but just like grip abunch of hair in your hands with gel and squish it around in there and then flip your hair back to normal and do that to the rest of your hair. since you already have wavy hair it should turn out good. maybe even into lil curls that wut my hair does but i don't knoe that much about your hair so have fun!
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What if my boyfriend is embarrased to kiss me in front of his guy friends ? does that mean he does not like me or he is using me or somthing ? (link)
i think that its a good sign.. it shows that hes not only using you to show you off to tall his friends. i think thats cool that hes not only using you to just b cool around his boys! i think that maybe he likes it when you two kiss in a private space where you both can feel it and not with a whole audiance watching lol.
hope i helped out
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hey

ok, well this guy and i r good friends we talk like for 3 hours every day. well i dont know if i should say he is my boyfriend because he never asked me out but he calls "boo-boo"(i dont why) and babygirl and all ways says i love so he acts like hes my boyfriend but i dont know if he is or not. plz tel me what you think thnx alot

~*~Emily~*~ (link)
okay i think that you two just might b friend with benefits. i mean does he hook up with other gurls? or is he really commited to you? cuz when there is commitment then hes prolly thinkin bf gf. but if theres no commitment hes only a lil horny and using you to get some. talk to him ask him wut the dL is and maybe that will help.
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ok i've seen so many questions on here bout how do you french kiss and so on..all the answers are well it just comes naturally & just "go along with what he does"..ahh that just makes me even more scared..like>I< wana know what to do i don't wana have to just "go along with it"..lol hOw? WeN? WuT?..hmm i guess what i'm tryin to ask..is what exactly to you do..StEp-By-StEp..haha and what are some different ways to try [sumin to impress him,make it look like i'm NOT a beginer]after i get the hang of the basic ways..kk..umm yeah..any bit of help is greatly appreciated..xOx (link)
okay its kinda hard to explain and you dont wanna hear "go along with it its all natural" and thats prolly wut i would normally tell ppl so i found this website that ive been recomending non-stop to quetions like this so i think you should check it out
myjellybean.com/flirt
they give you all kinds of tips so go check it out asap!!!
hope i helped
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okay i knoe alot of ppl are havin sex and all and i used to want ta have sex really bad but i was talkin to my friend and she really explained to me that its a really good idea to wait for mariage. so thats me new plan. but c i talked to alot of guys about having sex... and now i dont knoe how to turn them down..?? i mean will they think im dumb if i say i wanna wait till marriage??
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well i think that its a very good idea to wait untill you actually find sum one you love and are gonna share the rest of your life with. i deff agree with your plan and honestly its my plan too. so about turning all these other guys down i would just tell them straight up that your not ready.. and if they really like you then they will understand and not react in such a harsh way.
and all the ppl who your soo worried about them thinkin your not cool for that ... just ignor them i mean you dont wanna do sumthing you will regret.
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dont kno why i wanna do that stuff for its juss that all of my frienz and stuff is doin it... n they r out havin a good time and stuff and i aint.. i realy dont know why i wanna do that stuff i juss guess i wanna do it.... plzz help (link)
well i don;t knoe wut you want me to help you with right now it seems like you have your mind set on getting fried. so w/e its all up to you im just tellin ya its prolly not a good idea.
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My angel is leaving for the Navy in about 14 hours and I am having a lot of trouble coping... Does anyone know any good coping skills for me to try? I really would appreciate advice... (by the way, I am 17 and female) ~SammyPie (link)
i would just spend the next few hours hold him in your arms and tellin him how much you luv him. just breath in and out and maybe say a prayer idk if your religious but w/e works. and talk to him but don't b all freaking out cuz im shua he doesn;t wanna go i mean hes gonna miss you too so dont loose it and make it hard for him too.
hope i helped
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i really want to go out and hang with my friendz and stuff and i like want to drink and smoke pot. but i dont know how to do that with out my mom and dad catching me.... i just wanna go out and have fun like every one else is having... plzzzzz help and i also wanna go out wit my boyfriend and have some fun with him.. but i can never get out of the house to do nething with my friendz or boy friend (link)
i think that your parents wil let you get out of the house for one night or so but y do you wanna smoke and drink? thats not a way to have fun maybe yea thats the "in thing" but its deff not the cool thing. im shua you can do alot more fun things that wont cause bad consiquences. and plus if your parents do let you out for a night and your gonna go out and do all this then you cum home all baked and drunk do you really think that they will let you go out again?
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(m/14)Theres a girl that I'm getting to know that seems like a great person. She has an awesome personality, hilarious, and athletic, definately three things I look for in a girl. She likes me a lot and I think I'm starting to like her... but theres one catch.. she drinks. I set high goals for myself and like to plan my future, and never would I even THINK about taking a drink till at least 3 or 4 years. I always hate to hang around people who do drink and I guess I'm scared to make a commitment with this girl in case she gets me into drinking too. I mean, if she or I would get caught drinking, it'd screw up our lives big time. What do I do? Continue to like the girl and ignore the drinking?..or discontinue to like her? (link)
okay i think that if you really like her then try talkin to her about it tell her that you don't like that she does this kinda stuff. and if shes really the one you like and how you discribed her then im shua she'll understand. and if she flips out on you then shes not wut your looking for. i mean if shes into all that then she prolly gonna pressure you into doing it too and even if she doesn't you'll feel like you'll need to to b accepted by her. thats wut i think is best so talk to her about it.
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I'm 13 and a girl I hate dumping people and my boyfriend like me a lot and I dont really like him any more does any one have any good ways to dump him I need help with out breaking his heart...thnx (link)
i would write him a note or talk to him on the phone but don't wait much longer cuz the longer you wait the more you'll lead him on... like maybe hes gonna buy you a braclet or sumthing then it will b even harder to break his heart after that. so write him a note or talk to him on the phone. but don't have a friend do it cuz then it shows that your not tough enough to tell him yourself. hope everything works out for ya.
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