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This girl I like drinks
(m/14)Theres a girl that I'm getting to know that seems like a great person. She has an awesome personality, hilarious, and athletic, definately three things I look for in a girl. She likes me a lot and I think I'm starting to like her... but theres one catch.. she drinks. I set high goals for myself and like to plan my future, and never would I even THINK about taking a drink till at least 3 or 4 years. I always hate to hang around people who do drink and I guess I'm scared to make a commitment with this girl in case she gets me into drinking too. I mean, if she or I would get caught drinking, it'd screw up our lives big time. What do I do? Continue to like the girl and ignore the drinking?..or discontinue to like her?
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well im basically that same girl....id say thats he probly drink for pain or drinks for a reason like.. she plays.. a sport? that is not accpeted my the student body so she hangs out with older people who play the sport and they did it to her so gradually pull her away from the people she drinks with invite her to a mive one nite.. gradually pull her away ask me more questions about her
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okay i think that if you really like her then try talkin to her about it tell her that you don't like that she does this kinda stuff. and if shes really the one you like and how you discribed her then im shua she'll understand. and if she flips out on you then shes not wut your looking for. i mean if shes into all that then she prolly gonna pressure you into doing it too and even if she doesn't you'll feel like you'll need to to b accepted by her. thats wut i think is best so talk to her about it.
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p.s hope every thing works out for ya if ya need n e thing else im always open so leave a message
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You don't have to do anything you don't want to. Think about this....If you start a relationship with this girl, and she offers you a drink, tell her that you don't drink..straight up. If she seems bothered by this or continues to pressure you about it, than get out of the relationship. Apparantly, if it bothers her, than she is not someone you should be with. You have high standards for yourself, and there is nothing wrong with having high standards as far as what kind of girl you are looking for. Be strong and don't give in to pressure. You have a lot going for you, and you have a lot of life ahead of you. I give you props for having goals...and morals. Good for you
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