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ok, well all my friends have secrets. Everyone does.. right? well i dont know why but EVERYONE tells me their problems and secrets, sometimes it can be something really small that i can stand like "i like _____" but sometimes they're REALLY big like "i've been raped! dont tell anyone!". Now i'm really popular when it comes to friends so i'm holding ALL of THEIR secrets! one of these days i'm gonna combust and tell everyone all these secrets. I want to be there for my friends, but i dont want to go crazy holding everyone thought, secrets, and personal problems. What do i do?! (link)
Just be honest with your friends just tell them that you are always going to be there for them no matter what but you dont want to be the one holding all of there secrets.Just tell them how you feel.. but then again it should make you feel special because they can come to you no matter what .. You have great friends dont loss them.♥ good luck..


Ok well this goes to my last question but ne ways I have this bf and we've been together eight months went through roughs times well I found this other guy. Who was nice comforted me and made me feel happy. He asked me out I said I didn't know cause technically me and my other bf called it quits cause we knew it wouldn't work long distance over summer. So I didn't know which one to pick but now I've decided to stay with my eight month bf and stick it out through rough times but what should I say to the guy that asked me out because I don't know how to tell him I don't want to date him while being nice. Take in also when I tell him that I don't want to date him I don't want to hurt his feelings were really good friends and he's my ex. I'll rate good! (link)
You should just be honest with this guy tell him that no matter how many time you and your boyfriend fight you still love him and care about him and you guys have so many memories together that your not ready to throw it all away yet. Tell him that your sorry if you gave him any mix feelings and that you would like it if you can still be friends with him. Just be honest with the boy dont lead him on cause you wouldnt want the same to happened to you. And dont worry sweetie all relationships have their bad times it makes them stronger when you can work through them.. Good luck..♥Rate me


ok im 15 and sometimes i feel like my boyfriend wants me to do more than just making out. But i dont think im ready and i dont want to yet. We've been together for 6 months and some people say thats a long time. But what should i do? is it bad for me to be 15 and not wanna do anything yet? is 6 months along time?

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6 months is not a long time a year maybe lol.. Dont listen to what your friends tell you if you are not ready to do more with your boyfriend then dont do more with him. Giving something up like that should be just to anyone it should be to someone that you love and want to spend the rest of your life with. So take your time and just keep it slow with you man. maybe he doesnt want to move fast either.Hope I helped. And just remember its your relationship not your friends.♥ rate me


there are these girls in my school and they bully me to often.It is interfering with my grades.help! (link)
Just tell them to leave you alone or ignore them if that doesnt work tell someone.. Sorry i cant be of any help.♥ but all i can say is ignore them


ok i don't know why i feel so angry my x b f who was very rich had a party! Something my friend called a health party i personally think he had it to show off. I am really angry because he never invited me i really don't know why i am angry!! I think its because he once told me i was his bestfriend.He invited my friend because he goes to her school and i heard he invited 4 boys who are also rich and my friend said the 4 boys don't like him.Am i correct to feel angry i now think i hate him because i was always there for him and he was never there for me.What shall i do now? (link)
It seems to me that you are sorta jealouse because you didnt get to go. Just call him up and let him know how it made you feel or you can have a party and invite all his friends and not him just dotn let him know that he is getting to you..♥ Rate me


i feel like i am in love with this boy from secondary school!!! he asked me if i wana be with him! i said yes and i have not heard since i was thinking about trying to bump into him because i know what way he goes home but i really don't want him to know i have done it on purpose. I was planning on going today, but i might get clothes ready and go and bump into him tomorrow. Thing is i am really scared! please help or advice me i am 16 female we moved school last year so i have not seen him for a year now and he always has his phone off. (link)
Okay to me your question is kinda confusing. you said your with him but you havent seen him in a year ? what kinda relationship is that can you please make it clear 4 us to read.♥


ok, so i have been with m bf, for a month now, but ive know him for like ever, (not forever) but, everything is wonderful, but it seems like i have a feeling and i don't know what it is..its been going on for like 2 weeks, and my friends seem so worried about me, I don't know what to do...

I rate high (link)
Well what kinda problem is it and maybe i can help you..


I'm so confused about my style...I like all different sorts of music, and I have so many different views. One day I'll be wearing Abercrombie, the next day Hot Topic type stuff...how do I find a style and STICK with it? (link)
You shouldnt worry about your style people like you for you.Wahtever you feel like wearing wear it if you feel comfortable in it. Hope I helped.♥


How do you shave a mustache and stuff?? im 14 and i want to cuz i dont wana have hair there! and i dont want it to be pokey so what do i do for that?? and how often do i need to? (link)
Well im girl but I always watching my dad shave his beard and mustache and he always uses a clean razor and saves up words or whatever the way the hair is growing he saves when ever he starts to get hair coming back through.Hope I helped.♥


hey people..lol..how do you let a guy know that you like him and that you want to go out with him..without saying "i like you"???

DeeMocha (link)
just ask him if he wants to han g out sometime like go to the movies or come over and just hang out and flirt with him and he will end up finding out sooner or later..


I was a competative cheerleader for 5 years, but I was forced to quit in January 'cus my coach dropped me in tumbling and I broke my knee. Well, I just made my middle school squad and our camp is at the gym I used to cheer at and the coach that dropped me is coaching my squad the routine. The coach is real jerk and is constantly mean to me since we quit when he dropped me. How do I get thru the week with him goin out of his way to make me miserable? *Ill rate* (link)
Just show himt hat you are the best cheerleader there and that he doesnt bother you. Dont let him to get to you and he will end up giving up.Just ignore him.. Good luck at camp


heyy i'm wicked bored of my old screen name and I want a new one, does anyone have any ideas? i'm blonde, short, a cheerleader, and i like boys

-mariah (link)
you could have some sn like:
xoMariahxo
lilblondeCheerleader
blondebabe

thats all i can think of hope i helped


I asked this question about one year ago. I moved in my 8th grade year. I miss my friends terribly and I still see them and talk to them almost on a daily basis. My grandmother who lives in the town I moved from said that if I really wanted I could live with her. Now that sounds so easy but my parents are the problem. I get in fights with my mom about almost anything and she has thrown things at me in the past. And my dad only listens to what my mom says. My dad lies to me so I won't move back to my grandmother`s. When we talk about it he always tells me family is more important then I think. It's just that it is no fun for me were I'm living. But I wonder if I could live without them.A part of me wants to go to my grandmother's with all my friends I think right now I just need to convince the other side. It's the summer now and if I'm going to move back I have to make a desicion soon. Please help me I need it. P.S I am 13,female (link)
I thinkt hat you should ask your parents if you can live with your g ma intil summer is over that way you can get away from them and see your friends by the end of summer if you like how things are and your parents are fine with it see if you can stay with her during school to..Hope I helped.


Well 2 days ago i went over to my boyfriends house of 5 months for about 5 hours! and everything was great till yesterday. He blocked me onine, And i tryed calling his cell phone but he didn't answer but he called me back saying sorry, he was just miserable about a few things and didn't want to talk to anybody. I was okay with it cause i can understand. Well later that night he told me that he was thinking about us all day and i asked him what? and he said that he doesn't feel "sparks" between us anymore! It kinda hurts to hear that after the day before. What can i do to get the "sparks" back? he sent me a text this morning saying that he really loves me and that he is really in love with me and wants to spend his life with me. but theres soo many things going on around him that hes not sure of what to do. But my question is what can i do to get the "sparks" back, and make him feel better? and please don't say anything sexual cause were both not ready for that. ooo and if it helps im 14, and hes 16!! thanks bunches, i'll rate if you can really help me!!! (link)
Well you can always ask him to come to your house and you can cook him some lunch*if you know how 2 cook* and just tell him that he can talk to you About anything in the world. that you are going to be there to listen that will help get things off his mind.You can always do what I did for my boyfriend. It was our 3 month anv. and I took all the cute pictures that me and him have together and put it on a big poster board and put little notes on it. Like hold me tight. our first kiss, and sweet little notes like that .and it made him remember all the good times we had together and after all the bad things that happened in our relationship we have been doing better now.. Hope things work out..


I have a guy friend and I think we mutually like each other. The thing is, I won`t see him next year. What's an easy way to give him my # [don`t say email address/instant messanger] and what`s a way to do it without looking awkward. (link)
just tell him that you want to keep in touch with him and give him your number .. then sonner or later after talking on the phone let him know how you feel.


how long is a good amount of time to give a guy a blow job for? i've given them before but i dont know when to stop .. so i wanted to know like how many minutes or just until he cums? (link)
I used to always be worried about that to .. You can always use one of them falvored condums which you dont have to worry if he does or doesnt cum cause it wont get on you. I always tell my man to tell me when so it doesnt get on me cause thats just nasty if he doesnt tell you when just when ever he starts getting all tight in his body or making noise's or whatever. best thing i can think of us for you to tell him to sya when.. Good luck


i am a 16/f and i like a 19/m. we've been getting a lot closer lately and i know he likes me but i never gave him a straight answer if i like him. the thing is, i would love to go out with him and stuff, but he is my best friend's ex. they broke up because she cheated on him like five times. i couldn't believe she did that so i took him under my wing to try and cheer him up and we ended up liking each other. my best friend wants him back, but i'm quite sure he won't go back to her either because he's been hurt too many times or he likes me now. i guess what i am asking is, if you were in the same situation, would you risk breaking the friendship for the guy? do you think it would be possible to go out without telling her? (link)
You should tell her because she is your bestfriend and guys will come and go but friends will always be there just tell her that you and him have been hanging out and that he sorta likes you and you would like to see what happens. yeah she might be mad at first but real friends will see how happy he makes you and will let it go. if she cared about this boy alot then she would want him to be happy even if it is with her bestfriend. I hope things work out. just be honest with your friend you would want her to be honest with you.. Rate me


how do I get chuncks of black eyeliner out my BRAND NEW beige carpet? its like smeared in my carpet... in 3 spots, and ive already made it worse! help (link)
you can buy carpet cleaner. and let it sit on there for a while then scrub scrub scrub hope i helped.. good luck


umm I’m turning 16 in a couple of months and I haven’t really had a real boyfriend. I mean I did when I was in 6th grade and only for a week and we did nothing it was a waste. I have never had my real kiss but all my friends have and they think I have too even my best friend thinks so. Also all the guys I talk to think I have to because I’m very flirty. I never really set my friends right about all this because I was scared to tell them. But I’m going into freshman year and I haven’t had a boyfriend, my real kiss or anything and I’m really sad about that im also scared to kiss someone now because i could be bad at it and that scares me a little. I don’t know what to do. Guys have asked me out and guys have hit on me but I just never liked those guys that have. My question is: what is my problem is there anything wrong with me?? and I’m VERY picky about guys if that helps u answer my question. thanks for the help.

P.S Sorry that it is so long I'll rate high thanks!!

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You shouldnt worry about if you had a real boyfriend or even a real kiss.. The first kiss is something that you will want to remember for ever.And your first real boyfriend is the one that you will never forget.Dont worry there will be that special someone that will come into your life and you will be the most happiest person a live so dont think that there is anything wrong with you.


ok so..i broke up w/ my bf cuz his friends threaten me and fight w/ me and stuff and i just couldnt take it anymore..and now i think it was a bad idea to break up w/ him..wat should i do? (link)
i think that you should get back with your bf who cares what people say or think its what you and your boyfriend thinks. if he makes you happy then be with him. if you go around and listen to what everyone else is saying about who you should and should not be with then will you ever be happy? just let your boyfriend know what happen and see if he will take you back. hope things work out




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