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Ok well I like this guy, whose name is Frankie. Frankie is a total skater dude, and I’m well... kinda preppy. The only reason I’ve really talked to him is cause he sat by me in a couple of my classes. When I talked to him he was really nice.. and sweet. I finally realized I liked him. I really don’t know if he likes me because he's so different from guys I normally like.. And so different from me. Anyway we had this little inside joke thing where we always like wave to each other outside of this one class we have 2gether... and yea.. He always smiles and waves when he sees me and he is so nice. I mean from what I can tell I barely know him though... it really stinks. Yesterday he switched some classes and now I have no classes with him... I’m really upset. It ruint my whole day yesterday anyway.. I really want to talk to him and just get to know him better. But there are some problems... I’m pretty outgoing but I can be really shy around guys and stuff.... Frankie is totally different from me, and a skater dude... most of his friends totally hate me.... And most of my friends don’t really know him (and I wont tell them who he is)... and I have no classes with him. He still waves to me though. I need advice on how to like talk to Frankie and like really have a conversation with him or just play around. I’m pretty creative, but with all the problems I dunno what 2 do.... And I’m just not very bold when it comes to guys... please help me find a way to talk to Frankie! (PS. in case it helps, I'm 13) (link)
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hMm... when he waves to you just walk up to him and stop him (being late to a class once shouldn't hurt anything) and tell him you really wanna talk to him and give him your screen name or get his or something like that. Then talk to him and get to know him better and see if you still like him.
It shouldn't matter whether your friends like him or not if their only reason is because he's different from you guys. Everyone deserves a chance. If your friends have a valid reason like they know something not cool about him then you might wanna take that into consideration. Don't lose your friends over a guy. His friends probably don't really know you either so maybe try to talk to some of them if you have any classes with them but don't talk about Frankie lol. Just be nice to them and stuff and then if Frankie likes you they'll probably put in a good word.
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okay well im 13 and im a girl and i like this guy but he is older then me but we have been good friends for a long time and im starting to like him since we've been hanging out..and everytime we hang out he always flirts with me but when he is around his other friends he acts like i dont even matter to him but when its me and a couple other ppl he talks to me alot and flirts alot..and it kinda seems like he likes me but idk..how could i tell if he is just a really good friend or if he likes me likes me..im sorry this is long..lol (link)
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Just ask him. He's probably just shy to tell you if he does like you. If he says he only likes you as a friend then tell him to stop the flirting (in a nice way lol) because it just confuses you.
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well im 13 nd im a gurl...there is this guy i like n every1 is tellin me thats he is gonna ask me out but he havent yet n i dunno if he will n im get really shy weneva i talk 2 him n usually im a crazy person soo itz wierd. ne thing i can do bout he shyness? n one more question> there is this bytch at my school n she thynks she betta then every1 else which shez not n she calls every1 a bytch b4 she knowz them. I m one of the girlz she really hatez nd i guess i kind of provoke her a lil cuz wen ever i pass her i mutter bitch or i yell " stop stuffin" but lyk she thynkz im jelous of her cuz of her boobz..wtf i dont care bout my boobz newayz i really wanna tell her off but my school is SUPER strict i kno i will get supspened or maybe juss detion 4 a few daii so wat should i do bout her
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CoNfUzzEd (link)
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The Love Question: Most people do get shy around the person they like. I don't really think there's much you can do besides just like try to put it in the back of your mind that you like him and just treat him like you would treat any guy friend of yours.
The Girl Question: Just ignore her. If she's not doing anything to you that makes you uncomfortable (like screaming vulgar things and spreading rumors) then there's no reason to start anything with her. Stop yelling stuff at her because she can get you in trouble for that just like you would get in trouble for telling her off because it's harrassment. Ignore her but if she starts making you uncomfortable to the point where you don't wanna be at school just because of her then talk to your principal, assistant principal, or guidance counselor and they'll take care of everything and if you do get them involved for some reason, they'll tell her everything that's said has to be kept confidential so she can't go around like "OMG she ran to the principal. what a baby" because she'll get in even more trouble. At least that's how my school works. lol
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Okay well in my past relationships I have never really had a real kiss or "made out" with anyone, and like I really want to because I know I am missing out on something great but I get nervous whenever I talk about it with boys, like it freeks me out.. I want my "first" kiss to be perfect and IDK! I am just freeked out about what might happen, its weird, I wanna kiss, but when it comes up I feel sick to my stomach and all butterfly thing! (link)
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A lot of people are nervous about any kind of first thing whether it's kissing, giving a speech in school, or something sexual. Don't let it bother you too much and definitely don't just kiss someone random if it's your first kiss. If you want it to be perfect then you have to wait for the right guy who you feel comfortable with and gives you good butterflies!
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hey my name is heather and im 13in a tough situation... in fith grade i had 5 best friends . i had known them all since like 3rd grade but now its ninth grade and they all have moved away except for 1named caitlyn.(we promised wed be friends to the end)i dont no how but this year she became so popular and she ditches me like evryday at lunch for guys.i want to stay friends with her but she now treats me like her servant.Im trying to make new friends also but its hard :(
-lonley (link)
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Tell her how you feel. Popularity gets to people's heads just because it makes them feel like they have a lot of friends which in most cases they don't. You've been there for her for a long time and she just recently met these people. She should be staying with the person/people who has/have been there through everything she's gone through rather than people she just recently met and doesn't know if she can trust them or not.
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i went out wit this kid for 5 months nd i was like totally in love wit him but his best friend who im pretty tight wit that hes feelin this otha chick so i dumped that bitch on the curve! i was really pissed.. but that was in june nd' ive gone out wit like two otha ppl since (nutin serious) but im still madly in love wit him.. when eva i see him in school we dont even talk no more like at all.. we jus walk right passed each otha. but he says that hes still feelin me when i talked to him once the whole time since the beginning of september. some people jus tell me to talk bout otha guys when im near him to like one of mah friends to get him pissed but i dont htink that'll work.. wat do you think i should do??? o ya im 15!!!!! (link)
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Just tell him how you feel. Honesty is the best policy and if you can't be honest with a person then you shouldn't have anything to do with them and if that person can't be honest with you, same deal.
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Hi, i'm a 16 years old (girl)lol. I really like this guy, and i know he really likes me too, but theres just this little problem...he has a girlfriend and really likes her too. They've been going out for prolly about a month now. We flirt all the time, but it kills me to see him with her. I dont' kow what to do...help me please. (link)
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If he is with that girl and likes her as much as he likes you, then you shouldn't bother with him because obviously he's playing her and you simultaneously. Find someone who can just stay with one girl at a time.
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ok i like this kid hes one of my best freinds ive liked him since valentines day!! really long!! but then my other bestfreind went out with him it didnt work and ended after a week he said b4 they go out i dont wann hurt you i was like i cant stop u ya i do still like you but what evah he goes u nevah kno one day mayb you and me will work out and then after they broke up he imed me nd we talked n now were cool again and whatever and we chill and like i like him so much but i guess the other day after he called his x a fake he told her he missed her!! what should i do!!
im 15 1/2!!! (link)
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Sounds like he's playing you both. I wouldn't go out with him without making him prove he likes you more than her. Did he say he misses her as a girlfriend or as a friend? Because sometimes when people break up they just miss having the other person to confide in, not in a girlfriend/boyfriend way but as a friendship. Hang out with him some more and try to get him to open up about you and about her and see where it goes from there.
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my friend she likes my bf and she said she aint gonna be my friend if i still go out wit chris (link)
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I need some elaboration on your question because I don't really know what to tell you. lol.
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hey mii namez sherri! ive liked this boy since 9th grade 'nd im in 11th now well last year we went out but he dumped me cuz he said he had "family problems" but after he sorts them all out we will get bac together which we never did tho hes kinda a player so i shoulda known not to mess with him today he left for the marines but b4 he left we had a long talk bout "US" he said he still lovez me n everything but he scared bout leavin thatz y he dont wanna go out with me but lk 2 dayz later i found out that he goes with this other grl. i wuz so heartbroken we got into this big arguement n we havent been close since. the last time we actually had a convo. wuz the 7th of august n he didnt even call me to say goodbye since he left for 3 months. i dunno wut i should do...should i jus not talk to him nemore or wait for 3 months n c if he calls me...i dunno i really do still love him but i dont think he wants to even b friendz with me bcuz he had a goin away party n he didnt even invite me to it. well i hope u can help me out thx ..o yea BTW im 16 (link)
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I say just don't talk to him. I mean, he's obviously a player and you don't deserve that. That about wraps it up I think lol
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Hi there...5 months ago i meet some guy he was amazing and realy nice to me!He likes me and i like him to but the only problem is the distance he lives in UK an I live in USA a month ago i heard that he did something with some girl...u know...and he wasnt talking to me he was ignoring me he even block me from his msn messenger so one day i emailed him and told him what was going on and what was wrong? he emailed me back and said that he didnt wanna talk to me cuz of the pressure...so i got pissed and i told him off i told him that i m hurt and that i knew about that girl and what happen he was like im sorry...and he said ....we can be like we were...I really love him and i wanna be with him but im scared cause he might do something again..or with other girls....please help me!:( (link)
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Before you "are like you were" make sure he earns your trust back. He has to think of ideas on his own to do so. I'm not really into long distance type things, especially that much distance so I don't really know exactly what to tell you. Sorry!
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okay well there are 3 guys in my story. guy number 1 is named Pyan. Guy number 2 is named Flint and guy number 3 is named Lavis. I am making up names here just so u kno cuz this sounds crazy. Okay but guy number one n I are like best friends at least we were n we had this thing a while ago n we were gonna go out n then he went back out with his ex. It was a mess but we still tried to stay close even wehen we went to two differnt schools. This year he promised me he'd come to my party n emded up not showing or calling to say sorry for about a week. I was so pissed. So while I'm waiting for Pyan to call...I get a message from someone i liked for a long time while Pyan wasn't as close to me. His name was Flint. We were really close to going out but then the plans fell through again. Well he got a g/f n i acted supportive n all that shit. So back to this day...he calls me (p.s. his gf jsut broke ^ w/ him after 7 months) and hes like let's go to the movies n I was like okay u invite ppl n i will too. well all the people couldn't come. and i really did only like him as a friend bvut after the movies we had made out n everything. it was a mess. he still loved his g/f n I tried givin advise n he helped me out w/ my problems w/ Pyan. now i dunno we couldnt do that. so when we both got home we talked. then i didn't hear from him for about 2 days. i went to the club w/ my friend at the beach so i couldn't clal him but we texted back n forth for two nights. then wehn i finally called him he was like ignoring my call 2 times until we used my friends fone n he was like i dunno about our friends/or w/e deal n he said ill call u later my friends over. okay so we called him a few nights later n i left about 2 or 3 messages over about 3 nights. n i knew when to leave them so he wasn't workin n could answer. oaky so i finally gave up on him. then there is this hot other best friend i have named Lavis. Him n I always talk n flirt n i went over his house like 2 days ago n it was so fun. n now i remember what it feels like to jsut talk to him n not be all nervous. I dunno which guy to go for...if you understand please help me this is a big problem!!! if you need more details email me. (link)
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Wow... lol. I read that a few times and I don't know if i totally understand the entire story but I'm gonna try...
Pyan --- Unless he was like super super swamped with busy-ness, he should have called you before a week to apologize! That's a little long in my opinion. The different school thing is hard when you go out with someone so I think between the party and the different school, Pyan isn't a good choice.
Flint -- If you were really close to going out, why did he get another girlfriend? He could be a player and that means he's not trustworthy. Plus, why would he make out with you at the movies and ignore you for two days? That happened to me before and the guy was such a total player and that's why. And the avoiding your calls thing, hmm... sometimes it means they're busy. Sometimes it means they don't like you and from the situation, it just seems like he's just a player! lol. Good job on giving up on him. Don't pick him either.
Lavin -- He sounds like the nicest one. Since you feel comfortable with him, it would probably be best to go for him. You already trust him and you can be yourself around him and not feel like a total idiot.
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Hey. I need some advice and you seem like you like helping people out so here i go:
I'm a sophomore and ever since last year, I have liked this guy in my high school and he has liked me back. However, this guy is a player. He goes out with many girls at the same time. He gets over all of them, yet he's never been able to get over me. He always asks me out and I always refuse him. Who would want to go out with a player and get hurt? He promises me that he'll change. Sadly, I caught him making out with another girl the day after. I was devastated. I sent him a letter that told him how I felt. In it I told him how stupid I felt for liking and caring so much about him for such a long time. I also told him I was sick of lies and false promises. I ended it by saying "don't write back or talk to me anymore...leave me alone, you've hurt me enough." I should feel better now that it's over, but I don't. The thought that he'll never talk to me again makes me sad. Even though he's broken my heart and played me from the very start, I can't help but keep liking him. Should I talk to him again? Should I keep trying to make "us" work out? Please let me know your honest answer. (link)
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Oh my goodness. I've been in that sort of situation before. Actually, I'm sort of in it now. lol. A lot of people are players, including girls, but when the right person comes, they can change their ways for them. Ask him if he's willing to change for you. He may just be all over other girls because he doesn't have you. He probably cares about you but since he doesn't have you, he thinks it can't hurt you and he's awaiting for you to actual accept his offers.
You should think about talking to him again to let him know how you feel about him. Ask him if he can try to change for you and if he can't, then it should definitely be over and you should try to move on. If he's willing to at least try to change his ways, he's trying to show you that he cares. Sometimes it's hard to change the way you've always been because it becomes a habit and he might need some time to fully not be a player anymore.. Kind of like when people are addicted to cigarettes if you know what I'm trying to say lol. Playing people is probably like an addiction to him as well as a habit and he has to work on breaking that habit.
If you two do get back together, let him know he has to earn your trust before he has all of it. Trusting a player too soon can lead to some very unhappy endings but don't always accuse him of things because that'll end the relationship too. That's what I did and it sucks really bad lol. Also if you get together, don't stalk him and not let him hang out with friends. He's gonna think you just wanna be around so he doesn't cheat on you ((i know you'll probably wanna do that. i would lol)) and he's gonna think you don't trust him and get upset.
Best of luck
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Okay well this guy i like we had this thing going nothing liek big but we both liked each other I'll just say. Now he has a girlfriend. So I'm pretty much heart broken. But I told him it was fine and I wanted him to be happy blah blah blah all that crap you tell someone when deep down your liek don't do it! lol well anyways now...I don't know what I shoudl do lol. SDo you htink I should just bare it and move on and let him just be happy with her. Or should I tell him I was lying when I said it was fine and I really do liek him alot? Do you even think it will maek a difference? lol
-Sam,15 (link)
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It depends on how strongly you feel about him. Do you feel like you're in love with him or that it's just a simple crush? If it's just a crush, I suggest moving on but if you feel strongly about him, you should have a one on one talk about your feelings. Let him know how you feel about him having a girlfriend and tell him the way you feel about him. It might make a difference but since I don't know the guy, I honestly can't tell you what his reaction will be but good luck =)
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Well hey keiko, my friend since i was 4 are in a BFF and not BFF situation. me and her have been in each others classes since 1st grade and we were in every class with eachother except 5th! and now that year just ended! i was stuck with the snotty girls! well my friend started hanging out with this mean girl in her class (cuz i wasnt there) and now she is acting like her!! and we used to go over each others houses and now she always invits her *NEW BFF* over! She doesnt answer me when i ask her if we are friends or not! should we be friends or not?
Just in case, i am 11 year old girl (link)
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I think you should still try to be her friend. Just tell her how you feel and how another person shouldn't influence the way she acts. She needs to be her own person and make her own decisions rather than duplicate "her new best friend."
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okiii my frend bre wusz bein in my buisness n we g0t into a BiG fiGhT n n0w wer` n0t tlkin shuld i taLk to her n makeup with her bcuz we arr in the same class for school next year n i dnt want drama to start between us ... please answer me im 14 n a girl (link)
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You should talk to your friend about it and try to make up. Depending on what "business" of yours she was in to, she may have just been looking out for you and you may have misunderstood her intentions. When you talk to her, just let her know that you feel like your privacy was violated and you still value her friendship but you don't appreciate her being in your business when she's not supposed to be.
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Alright i have a longg story here...
K i have a best friend who is practically in love with me and i went out with him a couple times...but mostly for pity...well i finally broke up with him for good and hes telling people that he doesnt need me..but i still want his friendship...
THEN there is another guy...which is why guy number one is mad...cuz i like a new guy..and i don even know if he likes me...i e-mailed him and told him that i like him...alot...hasnt said anything.....what should i do? is he ignoring! me?
and i want to keep guy numer one's friendship
(im a girl by the way..and im 14) (link)
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Ahh alright this is weird because like the same thing happened to me last year! lol. Try to explain to your best friend how you feel and how much you value his friendship. People like to know they're needed. Explain to him that just because a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship didn't work between the two of you that a friendship can work because they're two different things.
The guy you like.... he might be ignoring you because he's either not ready to know how you feel about him or he's not ready to let you know how he feels about you and is just avoiding the situation completely. He might not have checked his email either lol. Some guys (and people in general) prefer to be told in person how a member of the opposite sex feels about them so they know it's not a joke.. Joke emails and IMs and such get sent a lot about those types of things and he may think you're just joking with him.
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please help i am asking you if you could make a profiel and hompage for me i love ur quotes and ur dolls and grapichis i will give u my password if u can just plaese make me a profile and a cool hompage
i ant my homepgae to open up with the loyd banks song onfire
please plaese (link)
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Hey...
Thank you for the nice comments about my site but I don't make profiles and I don't make people websites either. If I did, there would be a request page on my websites.
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