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okay well there are 3 guys in my story. guy number 1 is named Pyan. Guy number 2 is named Flint and guy number 3 is named Lavis. I am making up names here just so u kno cuz this sounds crazy. Okay but guy number one n I are like best friends at least we were n we had this thing a while ago n we were gonna go out n then he went back out with his ex. It was a mess but we still tried to stay close even wehen we went to two differnt schools. This year he promised me he'd come to my party n emded up not showing or calling to say sorry for about a week. I was so pissed. So while I'm waiting for Pyan to call...I get a message from someone i liked for a long time while Pyan wasn't as close to me. His name was Flint. We were really close to going out but then the plans fell through again. Well he got a g/f n i acted supportive n all that shit. So back to this day...he calls me (p.s. his gf jsut broke ^ w/ him after 7 months) and hes like let's go to the movies n I was like okay u invite ppl n i will too. well all the people couldn't come. and i really did only like him as a friend bvut after the movies we had made out n everything. it was a mess. he still loved his g/f n I tried givin advise n he helped me out w/ my problems w/ Pyan. now i dunno we couldnt do that. so when we both got home we talked. then i didn't hear from him for about 2 days. i went to the club w/ my friend at the beach so i couldn't clal him but we texted back n forth for two nights. then wehn i finally called him he was like ignoring my call 2 times until we used my friends fone n he was like i dunno about our friends/or w/e deal n he said ill call u later my friends over. okay so we called him a few nights later n i left about 2 or 3 messages over about 3 nights. n i knew when to leave them so he wasn't workin n could answer. oaky so i finally gave up on him. then there is this hot other best friend i have named Lavis. Him n I always talk n flirt n i went over his house like 2 days ago n it was so fun. n now i remember what it feels like to jsut talk to him n not be all nervous. I dunno which guy to go for...if you understand please help me this is a big problem!!! if you need more details email me.
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Wow... lol. I read that a few times and I don't know if i totally understand the entire story but I'm gonna try...
Pyan --- Unless he was like super super swamped with busy-ness, he should have called you before a week to apologize! That's a little long in my opinion. The different school thing is hard when you go out with someone so I think between the party and the different school, Pyan isn't a good choice.
Flint -- If you were really close to going out, why did he get another girlfriend? He could be a player and that means he's not trustworthy. Plus, why would he make out with you at the movies and ignore you for two days? That happened to me before and the guy was such a total player and that's why. And the avoiding your calls thing, hmm... sometimes it means they're busy. Sometimes it means they don't like you and from the situation, it just seems like he's just a player! lol. Good job on giving up on him. Don't pick him either.
Lavin -- He sounds like the nicest one. Since you feel comfortable with him, it would probably be best to go for him. You already trust him and you can be yourself around him and not feel like a total idiot.
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