I AM A VERY NON-JUDGEMENTAL PERSON. I AM VERY INCITEFUL AND HAVE MANY LIFE EXPERIENCES. I CAN ALMOST RELATE TO ANYTHING, TRUST ME! I ASPIRE TO BE A SINGER AND HAVE MY OWN ALBUM SOMEDAY BUT NOT SURE HOW TO QUITE GET TO THAT POINT. LET'S TALK, IM HERE FOR YOU.
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I've never really have made out with a guy before. This weekend me and my boyfriend are going to hang out. He was waiting for me to make a move which I overheard him telling his friend. And I want to make a move and make out with him. Any tips or anything that will help me out?
Thanks!(:
I will rate(: (link)
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ok you want to excite him right? well ok this may seem trampy but it works. wear something a little sexy if you see him checking you out then ask him what he's looking at if he responds nevously then first kiss him sweetly and then start using tongue. if he says something assertive then grab him and kiss him and be aggressive with it.
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what is the difference between .com .net and .org
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.com = commercial- usually tries to sell something
.net = network
.org = organization
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I'm so virgin it's not evevn funny.
I've never had sex, never fooled around, never had a boyfriend, and I've never evven had a first kiss with anyone other than my Grandmother.
I've missed my period for over a week. I looked up the signs of pregnancy and I have them all...?
It sounds so silly for me to ask this but it's bothering me.
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omg i was so paranoid like that!!! No you are NOT. trust me. most of te signs of pregnancy are those of starting your period. if you still don't trust this go get a test. it's no big deal.
any more ?'s
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i need song feel-good, sing-to-in-the-car, fun songs for a summer playlist. they don't have to be recent songs, nor do they have to be any certain genre (although i don't think many hardcore or metal songs can be classified as "feel good" or "fun", haha). i'll provide some examples that already made the list:
- "all i wanna do (is have some fun)" by sheryl crow
- "big yellow taxi" by counting crows
- "pocketful of sunshine" by natasha bedingfield
- "four minutes" by madonna ft. justin timberlake
- "boys of summer" version by the ataris
so yeah, you catch my drift. help me out (: (link)
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summer sunshine~ the Corrs
anything by Anna Nalick
looks like we made it~ Shania Twain
Forever and for always~ Shania Twain
it's like rain~ Alanis Morrisette
sand in my shoes~ Dido
Mary's in India~ Dido
no sleep tonight~ The Faders
stupid cupid~ Mandy moore
crush
i'll always remember
unwritten~ Natasha Beddingfield
anything by santana
anything by Michelle Branch
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When you get your cherry popped, is it true that you can't feel it pop sometimes? Ex: Playing sports. (link)
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Ive been told that the ONLY way for your "cherry" to "pop" is to have sex. Im not entirely sure but Im pretty confident when I say that it'll hurt or you'll atleast feel it.
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i think a guy might like me, but everyone says show him your interested.
how can i do this that even someone really stupid and oblivious would get the hint but subtly, not being like hey i like you.
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Ok you smile from over your shoulder that is a sure way to mega flirt.
-when you look at him and he sees you don't look away (even though it's hard) smile and whisper hi
-make small talk
-ask a question like hey do you know so and so.
-be confident!!! every guy loves confidence.
any other questions feel free to ask
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i'm not looking for songs about love...just sex..they can be about sex or just have a good beat i don't really care but i don't like r&b very much...rock and alternative rock and punk and stuff are good...i like things with a fast pace and dirty lyrics
k thanks (link)
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XD ok here are a few
animals by nickleback
crazy bitch by buckcherry
anything really by akon but he's sorta r&b but sexy
I don't know if you like techno or anything but..
on the floor by felix project
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ok i read that having sex can cause you to have a urinary track infection or whatever it is called. why is this? i dont see how sex can cause it. (link)
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When you have sex you are putting yourself at risk for many different infections and diseases. The truth is that guys CAN have uti(urinary track infections) it is less commnon for a male to have one but bacteria can cause you to develope one.
feel free to ask anymore questions
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I'm a 16 year old girl and I'm completely lost right now. I used to be a straight A student just half a year ago. Now, I'm messed up. I can't concentrate. I eat all the time. I take long naps and procrastinate on homework. I'm moody, I feel suicidal, worthless. Pathetic. I feel like I'm one of those people who will never amount to anything. My parents don't give me attention anymore and they're giving up on me. I feel helpless. I have all advanced classes and find myself fading in ability to work and everything else. I feel like I can't do it. And just a couple of months ago, Ive been getting As and Bs. Now I'm slipping by the day. I don't do my work. Nothing. I'm lazy. Or I have A.D.D. I don't know. How can I at least try to get my life back on track before Ive messed it up really badly? I'm not failing or anything. But I know I could do better. But I just...can't. I mean..I got my first bf this year...but I don't think that could be the cause of it? It's like a midlife crisis..please help. :( (link)
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Okay...
I know how this feels. I struggle with multiple mental and physical issues. I had the exact same problem and I was so helpless. I've been on several medications and have been hospitalized twice. I go to a theraputic day school now because I have been missing school so much and my once above 100%'s slipped down to the 50's range. I recommend seeing someone like a phycologist! It wouls be good. I have a feeling that you may have anxiety disorders along with some depression. I'm no doctor but I have been through it all!!! Go see someone and contact me here if you wanna talk, need more advice or just check up (in).
good luck
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OK, well, i just want to know if this is normal
well, i like have dreams about having sex with some of my friends and i like it
BUTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTT
I like ALOT of guys....
is this normal....does that mean i am a lesbian?
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Of course not!!! IF anything you may be bisexual. Dreams are obviously extremely fabricated so if this seems odd to you them most likely you don;t have anything to worry about.
feel free to ask anything else.
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so my whole life i have add mild anxiety and for about ten months i could function after i stopped talking medicine but the past fourish months there's been alot of chaos and i cant control it by myself.
i sometimes find myself having random panic attacks.
little things like school stuff freak me out or just thinking about certain people or things make me extremely anxious.
my nervous are uncontrolable.
i would like to avoid not taking medicine.
anything would help.
thanks. =) (link)
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Well... I suffer from MANY and I repeat many different disorders. I have SEVERE panic attacks all the time. I have been hospitalized twice. School attendance was a real problem because of my anxiety so i became truent all the time. I am now in a theraputic day school. There are alternative day schools and yoga and exercising on a regular basis can reduce anxiety levels. activities and keeping yourself occupied is one of the best things that you can do. Also research grounding techniques!!! Alot of those are taught in hospitals along with cognative behavior.
best of luck to you and feel free to ask ANY questions I am here to help
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ok so im 13/f and i have a problem with cutting myself. i understand that it is a problem so that is the first step to recovery.
i want to knnow if there are any places ONLINE that i can get help for my problem. i dont want any1 to know i have these problems so i cant go to see a person. also i cant let my parents find out.
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You can look in the phone book for hotlines where you can remain annonomous. It is great and they may give you enough courage to tell someone to get you the help you deserve. Your life is worth living!!! I made this mistake please call a hotline. They won't make you do anything they will talk you through it.
feel free to ask anything else
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My dad doesn’t like me…and I know you’ll probably be like he’s your dad he loves you deep down I’m pretty sure he does…but no he doesn’t…..He never says he loves me or will miss me…he’s never given me a hug or anything.. …Like If he ever comes up to me and says I love…I would be weirded out by a lot..and be like umm..okay get a away from me you freak….It’s really awkward being near him…..Like he’s always yelling at me for the most stupid things…and it’s annoying….He’s really annoying….Like for example…every night I take a shower at around 9 and my dad’s like go take a shower and it’s like 8:30…so I’m like no later…it’s to early…he’s like what are you going to do. Wait till 10o clock like everyday…and I’m like WTF!! When do I ever wait till 10 o clock!! And it’s not like he says it every once in a while it’s every effing dayyy!! It’s soo annoying I’m tired of it…and not only that but the littlest things I do….like I cause an accident like accidentally spill my water on the table he’ll be god you need to pay attention..you never pay attetion..and I’m like WTF omg..it was an accident…and my grades aren’t that great rite..but I’m trying my hardest…but my dad’s like good you think everything hard..your not studying all you care about is straightening hair(which I don’t even do everyday), and myspace(which I haven’t gotten on ever since like 7th grade)…and stuff…good I just don’t know what to do..he’s always criticizing me…and it’s not like the good kind where you learn and it helps you..it’s like putting you down criticism…and I don’t want to talk to my mom about it because she’ll just get mad at me for even thinking that. And then she’ll probably go tell my dad..and he’ll deny everything…..Like he used to watch porn(gross I know) and sometimes he’ll forget it’s on history or it’s left on windows media player..and I used to tell my mom..and he would deny it..i’m just like SERIOUSLY!!….are you really going to believe..like it was left on..and he was the only one on the computer....and so ever since then it’s been even more awkward….because I wonder if he ever thinks of me like that….and one thing I especially hate is everyday I close the computer doors so I can do my hmrk….because I hate when it’s open b/c I feel like people are watching me….and every effing day my stupid dad has to come by and hit it open stare at what I’m doing then go to his room….and when I close it he’ll be like why are you closing it…are you on aim, facebook, myspace….and stuff…I tell him it’s because I like it closed…then he starts to yell at me and tells me to leave him open…GOD I don’t know what to do…I don’t want to sit and talk with him…because that’ll be awkward and knowing my dad it’s not like anything will change. He also yells at me for things I didn’t even do…like it’s my sisters fault and tell him it is…he’s like I DON’T CARE..YOU DO IT…and he’ll only believe me if I call my sister and she says it was her…then he’ll go on mumbling about it..and I’m just like OMG shut uppp…pleasee…GODD
All my friends are like I love my dad…and their dad actually cares about themOne time I got so pissed off I ran away…it wasn’t like really running away…i went to the park in my neighborhood…and sat down…my mom was freaking out…and she was a work so she could’nt get in her car and come look for me. My dad was like w/e…and stuff…so an hour passed…two hours…eventually it was 7 and I left at 4…and I was like w/e I’ll walk home cause I was bored…so I start to walk home and I get to the front door..and my dad is JUST getting out of the drive way to look for me…I’m just like wow…you are such an amazing parent..you really care for your kids…and he did’nt come because he was worried…it was because my mom told him to go find me…Yea so that’ my miserable life…I don’t know what to do…I don’t know if it’s me not doing something right or if it’s my dad’s fault..but I just need to know what to do…I can’t take it anymore…
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Wow that was long. I can tell you must have been venting a little bit huh? Well sweetie I can tell you I know what it's like. I won't go into detail about my effed up life but it's his loss! You probably have heard this a million times in your life but you can't change anyone but yourself! He's going to be that way and you can try approaching it like this...
"Dad I know we don't get along but I want you to see things from my perspective! I want a dad to hug me and care for me. I want to grow up knowing that you were there supporting me. Maybe not only financially but emotionally and out of love. I am your daughter and you are my dad and it would mean so much if we could sit down and talk about things that have been on my mind." Handle it like that somehow. If he doesn't cooperate then he's missing out and atleast you know that you made an effort to have a relationship with him.
feel free to ask anymore questions
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hi,
im 14 and my penis is 4.5 inchs hard. is this correct or is it small for my age. (link)
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Well I am NOT a doctor so I am not for sure on these things. The average for an erect male is around 6-7.(last time I heard) But it may be possible that you are not fully mature yet. You are still only 14 so give it time you may grow. But it could be something else. If you are that concerned with it then go see your doctor.
some common causes:
medication (certain medications can "stunt" growth)
heredity (your dad may have a small penis or somewhere down your lineage)
havn't hit puberty (some guys hit puberty at a young age and others at an older age)
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ok so last night me and my friends went to a party down the street and my friend and i were supposed to sleepover my other friends house. but then at the last min of the night her mom siad she couldn't have anyonee sleepoverr and my friend and i were in deep shit ! my parents are divorcedd and my dad is in arizona with his wife and my mom was at her house but she didn't want my friend or i at her housee so i told her i would try to find a house to sleepover. then it ended up that no one could have a sleepover so we ended up getting a ride home to my dads house with no one home and sleeping there for the night just us to and i told my mom i slept at my friend that i was originally supposed to sleep at's house. so now my mom thinks something is up and wants to call her mom! pleasee help me !!!!!! i would appreciate not one of those goody-goody plans and sort of a white lie type thing. i didn't want this to happen like this. my friend got a little drunk from the party and we needed a place to go rather then the street. any clever idea's on how to get through this with my mom thinking i did sleepover my friends.
Here are some things you could work with:
-my friend and her mom that i said i was spending the night with are actully leaving for florida today
-my friend does have a cell phone
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Well you could just come out and say that you were nervous about your friend drinking and you panicked. Tell her that you knew she would be disappointed in you and you acted on impulse. It isn't a lie but it isn't the truth. Usually I would have an older friend with a mature voice answer the phone.(could give your mom that friends phone #) But sometimes things like this are better not kept a secret. After all you said your mother didn't want you home.
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i like 3 guys and with all of them, somethings stoping us. one of us its age, one has a girlfriend and the other says he doesnt like me. (but theres reason to belivie that he does.) well im really sick of being single and i want to be with someone. and theres always some1 i can be with but thats just the point. i want to be with someone who also wants to be with me. and i want to be with them. not because of how i look but i am in the inside. and i think that that at least 2 of theses guys do. (btw if it helps, we are all friends but like none of them know eachother. (link)
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I have been in the same situation before. I was 14 and one of the guys was 16. The other guy was 18 and the last was a few weeks younger than me. If you are close friends with them then first go for the one that you are most compatible with (see yourself with) and then when you two are alone ask them casually, " Hey do you ever see us as more than friends?". That will show you the direction you should move in from there. I truely would not go for the one with a girlfriend! That may cause unwanted and unneeded drama. Good luck and feel free to ask any more questions!!!
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