I am 16 years old and a guy
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There's this guy I've known for a few years. We had a math class together & became real good friends. I ended up liking him but he had a girlfriend. Well, he graduated and I haven't seen him until now & the feelings are coming back. He doesn't have a girlfriend this time.
Anyways, I went with him and his sister (a close friend of mine) to the lake this past weekend. His sister told me on the way there he said he didn't like me, but the way he was acting that night was totally different. He kept grabbing my hand and holding it, looking at me and smiling.. we watched a movie in his sister's car and he was holding me the whole time, & also when we went to sleep. There were other things I probably don't remember..
So question 1: do you think he was lying? I don't think he was, because his attention was on me the whole time. But his sister and the other people with us said different. I just want to know if he's playing mind games.
Not ONLY that, my best friend, who used to go out with him, wants to have sex with him again. I told her no, but all she would say was "I will, watch me. If I'm not with anyone I will." She has done this to me SO many times. But then again, it hasn't just been him. She's been trying to get back with all her ex's lately. She's tried to get one's phone number, and the other she hangs out at his house a lot & told me she liked him again. That didn't last for long though.
Question 2: Should I even worry about her? I just don't want her around him if that's all she's going to do. She has done me this way with so many other guys I've liked & I'm tired of it. I'm not gonna let it happen to me again.
Thanks! (link)
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First things first, some friend if she goes after all the guys you like, even when you ask her not to. That set aside...I think he deffinately likes you, and he was lying to his sister. If he wanted to hold you hand and be close with you the whole night, he likes you. At least thats how i would show i like a girl.
And for Q#2, try not to get into situations where she would be around him. And maybe bemore stern with your friend, and tell her stragith up that you will be very mad at her if she does.
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what can i do while grinding with a guy to turn him on and give him a boner? like is there a certain way to move my ass, like slow or some shit like that (link)
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When I'm grinding with a girl i usually get turned on at a slow-medium pace..not so much fast. Thats just for me.
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So me and my friends we are really good kids... and we have really wanted to do something i dont know "rebellious" so should we?? we were either gunna drink or go get high or something... but i would just be a once in a lifetime thing though. oh and i am 14 by the way (link)
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Just because you drink it doesn't mean you are not a good kid. I'm 16 now, I drank a maybe once when i was 14, I have smoked weed(not anymore, only a few times) and i drink pretty much every weekend, not very healthy, but its just what I do. I am still seen as a good kid, but it might be the fact that just about everyone in my town pretty much drinks/smokes every weekend. You are only young once, remember that. If you feel you will have fun, do it. Just make sure you are safe about it, do NOT think you are invincible, especially if you havenever drank before. Seriously limit yourselves, or have someone around who has drank before who can kinda watch to make sure you don't drink too much.
In the end, be safe about it if you do it, and you are only young once. Live it up.
***Since i couldn't send you a message i EDITED my answer. If you are all small people, and have never drank before. you wont need that much. I woulddrink beer, considering it is your first time ever. probably 3 beers each would be good. even less for girls.
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i'll take any answers but i'd like guys opinions too.
for guys, if your at the mall, how do girls normally catch you attention ?
and for anyone, how is a good way to get a guy's attention at the mall? like if its a guy you see there alot but never talk to him but you know he's noticed you before? (link)
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If you are at the mall with your friends, as a guy i would notice you if say you kinda looked at me and say giggled with your friends. Idk maybe its just me but that would make me feel that you noticed me, and in turn I would notice you. say you are at the food court, try to grab a table by a guy you want to notice you, and if you catch him looking your way smile at him.
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Okay, well my cousin and I love to sing. We really wanna get our music on our iTunes accounts so we can put it on our iPods, or even burn a CD of our music. But we have 2 problems.
We don't know how to beep out the words of a song, and if we did, how would we replace the words with our own voices?
And the 2nd problem is, how would we burn a CD of our OWN music? Would we use Windows, or iTunes? Which is better?
Thanks for all your help and please give all the information you have!
Thanks again! (link)
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Look for the instrumentals of the song beats you want to use, and record your voice on it.
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What is heathier for you to eat-
A food with more sugar or a food with more salt? (link)
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Neither are bad unless taken in excess amounts. Too much salt over a period of time will make your blood pressure go up. Sugar does not necessarily make you gain weight...it is a good source of energy. As long as you are active sugar will not make you gain weight, unless you eat too much.
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Hi i was wondering,for 14 year olds...what would be better?..oral sex or regular sex?...also for oral would it be better for the girl to do the guy first or the guy to do the girl first..or would it be better for both to do it at the sametime because i know that someone might not feel like doing something after orgasming..also is it better for a guy to wear a condom for oral or not?
thanks =) (link)
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Wait for sex...you'll regret losing your virginity this early....oral is fine...it is safer if the guy wears a condom. It protects from STD's but if the guy hasnt been with any other girls you do not NEED one.
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when you saying, "when the going gets tough, the tough get going" does that mean, when you stand up for yourself, the tough people back down or something? if so, if i were to say "when the going gets tough, the tough get rough" what would that mean? thanks a lot, my brains been killing me about this. (link)
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" When the going gets tough, the tough get going"...that means if something you are doing is tough, you have to toughen up and do it. Your saying....i don't exactly know what it means....sorry
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okay, there's this guy i like in school, but i don't know what to do. I catch him looking my way a lot, but that's about it. He's friends with everygirls in my class, except four girls, including me. I don't know what to do. I really like him, and we kinda hit it off last year. But thenn we had summer vacay, and we didn't really talk.actually, there was no talking at all. now everythings weird, and we never talk. even when we were the only ones in a group together for an hour a whole week, or a group of three with the new kid, who dosen't speak english very well, we neer spoke. Help me, pleeeeeeeeeease! how can i start a conversation with this guy? help! guys, i would really like your help on who to go about this! thx, kitzy. (link)
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I have been in the same situation...try just starting a conversation about whatever classes you were in together last year. Be like "hey, do you remember ______ class last year" just as a start. I'm sure everything will fall into place.
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Hey i'm 16/F .so i like this guy.. and im pretty sure that he likes me back. I want to tell him that i like him because i hate having like stupid crushes and not being able to hook up with the people you like or go out with them. But i was wondering since he is kind of shy, what is a good way i could tell him that i like him. I dont want to just say "I like you" because to me that would be a little ackward. What is an attractive or like funny way to tell him i like him?
Thaaanks=) (link)
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Good idea coming to a guy with this, i'm 16 m too. I am in your same exact situation...and i know...it sucks. As a guy, to show that you like him, be just flirty towards him. If you are flirty towards every guy it will not mean as much though. If you pay more attention to him than any other guy who is around at the same time...he will start to feel that you like him. Try to get into like love lif discussions with him, either in person or on the computer. Ask him who he likes, and if he doesn't want to tell you he might actually like you.
Basically what i'm saying is that if you do not want to come right out and tell him "i like you"( i would'nt either), your going to just have to hint at it through flirting with him. Even have a friend talk to him, or talk to one of his fiends. Have them say something like "so i think (your name) likes you" just to see his reaction. Let me know how it goes, and if you need more advice on anything don't hesitate to ask me.
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I found out my best friend and my boyfriend have been hanging out one-on-one. It upset me, I really love him, but I know how my best friend is with guys and that just worries me.
My boyfriend and I got into a big fight about it, and my best friend promised it wouldn't happen again. But then, they hung out again tonight. I'm not sure what else to do, they know it bothers me. They're aren't doing anything, I mean she has a boyfriend, but I'm uncomfortable with them hanging out without me there. (link)
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I'm sorry but I've seen friendships thrown away for similar reasons. You can't have any type of relationship without trust. You have to trust both your bestfriend, and your boyfriend. If you tell them to stop hanging out, you are opening doors to a miserable relationship with your boyfriend, and no friendship with your best friend. In the end, just have trust, its a huge part in any relationship.
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How do you make this bar? |
What key(s) do you press?
Thank you for your help and this can be deleted right after I get my answer.
:] Have a nice day (link)
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Press Shift and the slash key thats under the backspace button.(it might not be under it, but its near it)
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I'm 13.
Me and my bf have been going out for 2 months and total on and off for a year and we havent kissed.
He is a shy guy and the only things he does is put his arm around mea nd hug me everyday. I'm having my 2 best guys friends to talk to him about what he should do to his girlfriend (me) and I dont know if thts bad. But I'm crazy abt him but shoudl i wait for him or just kiss him. PLEASE HELP ME LOTSSSSSSSSSSSSS.
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If he is shy...just kiss him. Unless you want to wait forever. Trust me, he probably doesn't know if its ok to kiss you or not, so if you kiss him he will know its fine.
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im 13/f. my two best friends are dating(a guy and a girl) and they asked me if it was ok i said yes and i feel like a third wheel always and if they ever brake up i dont know what id do.
what do i do so i feel better around them? what do i do if they break up? all three of us always went places never just two so they still bring me everywhere. i told them they could go on dates alone without me if they like but they say its funner with me. (link)
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Even if they invite you on EVERY date do not go on all of them. They will begin to get sick of you. Just give them their space, but do not completely distance yourself. Can be tough, but you have to try. I hope that helps.
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Can someone come up with some good techno songs i want more of them
thanks :] i do rate (link)
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Search for Basshunter. They have some great songs.
Vinylshakerz- One Night In Bangkok(LOVE THIS SONG)
Vinylshakerz- Club Tropicana
Tune Up- Bass Test
search for other songs by Tune Up, they are good
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what songs make you want to be a better person, motivate you, make you feel determined, or inspire you? (link)
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Coming from a real football/jock/meathead here haha.
Most of the songs from the rocky soundtrack which include: There's no easy way out(unsure of artist), Burning heart by survivor, hearts on fire by john cafferty
Josh Groban- You Raise Me Up( id ont know why, just inspires me)
Frank Sinatra-The Impossible Dream
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okay question
do guys actually look at a girls clothes?
what do they like or look at? i know its broad and that every guy is different but im talking about in general.
do they look at eyes?
do they like smart girls, pretty girls, stupid girls, flirty girls.
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In general, I have to say guys are all different, haha. That was kinda obnoxious of me. Anyway, I would say guys do look at clothes, but not like the brand, but the general style. Personally, I look at eyes, and im sure alot of other guys do too, because a girl with beatiful eyes can pretty much capture a guy. As for the last part, I have to say all guys are different. I'm sorry, but I can't speak for the general population of guys. I can't stand girls who act incredibly stupid. I do not find it cute or hot or anything, but then again you will find guys who do like that.
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i had this dream where you have like 3 or four different ones in one night.
the first one i had, was one that's been re-occuring. it was freaky. i was in this amusement park at night and me and my bff were climbing up this weird thing that wobbles back and forth, like made of paper, and we had to sing the national anthem on the way down. it was weird...
then the second one was this room of like nothing, all black and had a band singing in it. a cartoon band. and then my favorite contestant from american idol was singing to me in it.
then the third one was the ONE WHERE I WAS SO SCARED. AND I MEAN SCARED!
I was sitting at the table and then all of the sudden my dad told me the devil was coming to help me with my math homework. so he finally got there in a huge red coat, he was really tall and in human form out of a big van. and he just stood there.
i dont know what the heck this means but i am so scared!!!
his face was the face of a character i saw in a horror movie like one or two days before.
so maybe that has something to do with it
i'm Catholic
please help!!! (link)
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I would have to say it is something that has been on your mind...which may seem wierd. I doubt that directly, the devil helping you with your homework was not on your mind. But maybe you are having a problem with a class, and then that horror movie got thrown into the mix.
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15/f
what qualties do guys look for in a girl like honestly? (link)
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All guys are different. Not all are shallow pigs, remember that. Looks do matter, but are not most important. I do not need the hottest girl out there. For a relationship, personally I would like a girl who can make me laugh, who is laid back, intelligent, and not too nice. But thats just me. Everyone is different.
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Ok I feel i have to be perfect. I have to get straight As and everything and yes I DO want to get straight As but my parents get disappointed when i get like a B on my test cuz everything has to be an A and Im find as long as my final grade is an A. This one girl (who Im slowly distancing myself from because shes not respect to me, etc) was like "OMG SARAH GOT A C ON A TEST?" I was like "Whatever, I still have an A"
But in my one class I got a B, so now I have to get another A to get an A for the last semester and my dad is really putting pressure on me and I DO want to get an A (I get upset if I dont) but this year has been really negative this year and I feel overwhelmed and everything. I just want to cry because my dad got sick, i really have no true friends or anything,and i feel lonely.
and i have talked to my mom about this and shes like "No we arent." Ack. what should i do? (link)
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Well I used to be under the same presssure...and I sort of wish I still was. I used to be one of the smartest kids in my shcool, and now I just don't try and I'm still up there. But if I did still have that pressure it would be better for me. But you probably will thank your parents for pushing you, as if you keep it up you will get into a great college. But you should talk to them, and tell them that you don't need the pressure.
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