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my 2 bffs dating
im 13/f. my two best friends are dating(a guy and a girl) and they asked me if it was ok i said yes and i feel like a third wheel always and if they ever brake up i dont know what id do.
what do i do so i feel better around them? what do i do if they break up? all three of us always went places never just two so they still bring me everywhere. i told them they could go on dates alone without me if they like but they say its funner with me.
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If they are the same age as you, and I'm sorry to say this, but this is how I feel, they probably won't be together long. That's just how middle school relationships work. And for when they break up, just stay friends with both of them. Yes, there will be har dfeelings between them, but most of the time when stuff liek that happens the people will become friends again soon (by soon I mean 1/2 a semester to a semester). But if you feel like a third wheel, jsut say "Look, I don't feel comfortable when I go on dates with you two. I mean, I just feel like I am in the way" or say something along those lines. But for the most part, don't worry about it. Things will be back to normal soonner than you think.
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Even if they invite you on EVERY date do not go on all of them. They will begin to get sick of you. Just give them their space, but do not completely distance yourself. Can be tough, but you have to try. I hope that helps.
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