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I'm BLAiR, Im a SENi0R this year, Finally! I have waited 4 years for this! I would like to say I'm enjoying it, but I think its one of my most challenging years yet. Im so excited to go off to college and meet new people. I hope to go to aTm! I love polkadots and duckies too. I have been through a lot with guys and relationships so shoot!
NO QUESTION IS STUPID!
♥BLAiR

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okay, this may sound sick but i know what popping your cherry is...but does it hurt that badly? im 18 and i have never had sex....and i have decided i want to with my boyfriend of 4 years. but when you rip your hymen or whatever why does it hurt so bad?? if you could answer that that would be great thanks!!

i have never heard that popping your cherry hurts so bad, just sex for the first time in general is not usually pleasureful for the girl. you can rip your hymen many different ways, bike riding, horseback riding, etc...
let me know if that helped!
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im 14 and i wear a some makeup. just like a thin line of black eyeliner, soft eyeshadow colors, and black mascara. yeah, nothing out-of-this-world. anyway, i was wondering what you guys think is a good eyeshadow to match light blue eyes and light brown/long hair. oh yeah and a lot of freckles on the cheeks.

i usually do like a light brown or a light gray and i really like those. still, i wanted to try something new but i didnt want it to be like 'whoa, too much'

pink usually doesnt work for me. idk it just doesnt work with likee, the texture of my eyes.

ok thanks.

im just your girl for this! i have light blue eyes, brown hair, and lots of freckles. Almay makes stuff for specific eye colors, its probably about $5.99 and if you dont want to buy it you migth already have the colors, basicall its brown, light blue and dark blue.
1.put the brown on your lower lid, a little below the crease.
2. put the dark blue on the crease.
3. put the light blue half on the crease halfoff, to where its just a little highlight.
then you might want to do a thin line of eyeliner on the top along the lashes and a some mascara.
pretty much everytime i wear this someone says something about my eyes looking pretty.
heres the link to the product:
http://www.almay.com/pg/main/catcoleyeslips.aspx?catid=32&catnm=Eyes&subid=5&subnm=Blue&col1=224&col2=225

=) let me know how you like it!
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HEy baby i hear you have a big butt how big is it

uhhhhhh
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I didn't know what category this fell under...
You'll know who this is when you're finished reading this.

I just wanted to apologize incase I freaked you out or something. I know I can be kinda crazy at times, so it isn't hard for me to freak people out, and I just have a feeling I kinda freaked you out with that letter. The truth is, I do wish we were closer. I wish we were better friends than we are now, because, well, you know, but I never talk to you or anything, 'cause you know I'm just the most timid person in the world lol... Well, I just wanted to say sorry if I did freak you out, and let you know that...

lol, im not going to lie, it did freak me out in the begining, starting with the first myspace message, i was thinking "who in the world is this chick?" haha but im cool with it now, i feel honored, ill see you in the halls next year so im sure we will probably talk and im shy too! =)
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im hoping you know who this is and i just want to say sorry

hmmm nope i dont, who? and sorry for what?
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ok well im a 15/f and my bf is a 16/m. we have been together for over a year now and i know what people are going to say your 15 sex can wait and i know it can. i mean i want to wait until later on in life but yet i sometimes feel like im ready to do it with him.. i mean me and him have talked about it before and he says he thinks hes ready but it all depends on me. i mean i love him to death and never felt this way about a guy before..he tells me he loves me alot and wouldnt make me do anything i wouldnt want to..hes told me that hes never felt this way and wouldnt know what to do if he lost me. but i mean when i say i want to i know for a fact ill chicken out because im so self conscience and like because of pain and possible bleeding. we talked about it last night and like when he wants to and stuff but he told me its up to me. like how do i know if im ready? how bad does it hurt? and like would i bleed alot? like i dont want to screw up and stuff like im scared to do it how do i get over it?
sorry its so long
thanks
(i rate)

That is really awesome that you have a guy that wont pressure you into anything, thats important. As for when you are ready, maybe you arent because you are questioning yourself you know? but if you really like him and he means a lot to you and you both want to share the experience together, go for it, if you feel comfortable. i think when it comes right down to the moment you probably will have second doubts and you just have to give those a quick thinkover and make your final decision. ill let you know this im pretty sure it wont be pleasurable for you, i have always heard the first time hurts, and i cant speak from experience, sorry, but i have definitely talked about it with someone.
if you decide to go through with it please be safe! =)
♥BLAiR

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I think I'm allergic to the wax or lotion my salon uses or something, cause the last few times I went I got a little bit of hives and then I got a lot of pinples near my eyebrows. Should I try a new salon, or should I try threading?
thanks

This happened to me to, it was my first time though, so thats why i thought it happened to me, was it your first time? or 2nd or 3rd? because i think thats why, your eyebrowns just arent used to it. =)
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I just found out that my best friend's dad passed away today. I knew that he had some kind of cancer and she'd been visiting him in the hospital for some time now, I also know that she did NOT get along with him. I never met him because he lived in SC and her and her mom lived in NC. (they weren't divorced, it's actually kind of confusing) Anyway, I'm just not too sure what to say to her. We've been friends longer than I can remember and I know this must be tough for her. I've had some friends pass away, but the only family I've had pass away was my great grandmother and my sister- I was young when my great grandmother passed away and I wasn't even born yet when my sister passed away, so I don't know everything she's going through.

I was just wondering if anyone here lost a parent and what others said to you that was comforting.

I plan on telling here that I'm here for her no matter where I am or what time it is, and I will be there, but somehow that just doesn't seem like enough... I don't know, I'm just looking for some advice on what I can say and what would be comforting. Thanks in advance.

This happened to one of my friends, 2 actually, i think you are on the right track saying im going to be here for you, if you ever need to call me or to talk im just a call away kinda thing. i think its best if you dont say oh im sorry blahddy blahddy blah because that just reminds them over and over and other people are going to do that. you are going to want to be right there, but she might just need a little space, just talk to her and see. =)
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I just wanted to say thanks for the advice you gave me. I talked to my friend about me liking the guy, and she was okay with it. Now the only problem is that the guy likes someone else. Thank You!

Girl you are SO welcome, but that sucks about the guy =(
if you ever need anything else just drop one in my inbox!
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so my dance is on friday i want to go with this guy and we have gone out like twice this year already but i really want to go with him but i am tired of waiting! so i was wondering, do guys think its creepy if a girl asks them out??

thanks

i'll rate high

Im not a guy but i think most guys would agree that if a girl asks a guy out it shows confidence and thats very attractive. sooooo i think you should go for it girl! =)
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bye

so then was this you writing to see how i felt about him?

i really like you, talking on the phone, flirting/ arguing, we may not always get along, i might get so mad at you and make you cry, but we always work things out, what should i do so youll start likeing me again, and maybe go out with me again?

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i saw in a magazine ad that teenfreeway.com gives out free stuff, and free shipping too. has anyone ever been to this site and acutally have gotten free stuff? because i dont want to like get something and actually have to pay for it. thanks!

To answer your question i have recieved many magazine subscriptions, some of the stuff claims to be free, you just have to really read the details. =D
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o...hav you known for awhile?

Well you did tell me...
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i dont care i want to see if you actually know, but if his is 50/50 what is mine? who is this?

Well if this is Evan, im sorry i just dont see you as anything more than a friend. =)
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13/f

I hate myself. I look at myself in the mirror and just want to fricken cut myself, but I won't cut, thats just how I feel. I hate how I look. People are like your perfect weight, but I feel like I won't ever be pretty unless I have a completely flat stomach and muscular theighs. I just can't seam to accept myself. I've been told I'm pretty and stuff. It's just I see all these other girls with perfect hair and skin and I feel ugly! Then, I see these girls w/ all these hot guys, and it makes me feel like I'll never have that. I'm really sad. I don't really have anyone to talk to about it. I don't wanna talk to my parents. I only have one friend who I would talk to but he just tells me to go see a therapist or get antidepressants. I just can't seam to feel happy. So my question is, has any girls or guys gone through this and tell me tips on how to feel better. thanks..

Oh i have been there and done that, i have finally learned to accept it though, because im sure you are beautiful the way you are hun, and beauty is in the eye of the beholder. i have also heard and believe you have to love and accept yourself before you can love and accept someone else, which makes pretty good sense right? also theres a guy out there for you who likes you because you are the way you are. i promise. try working out, that always makes my self esteem go higher and make me have a better opinion about myself, go running a few days a week to build the muscles up in your legs and then do some crunches or sit ups everynight.
hope i helped, if you need anything or want to talk further IM me or drop one in my inbox. you are beautiful the way you are i assure you that though, because everyone is beautiful in their own way. oh yeah even the "perfect" girls have some insecurity, they just dont let it show, because i also assure you no one is perfect. hope i made you feel a little better. take care. =D
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oh u already guessed it...so i have no chance with this girl? but does my asian friend do? and do you know who this is?

im not saying nghia does either theres a 50/50 with him i guess... and yes im pretty sure i know who this is, and i dont think you want your name on here so im not, buuut unless you dont care tell me otherwise.
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i need a new hairstyle like im sooo sick of the one i have now, which ive had for like everr.
my hair is about shoulder length,maybe a little past,brown, i have an oval shaped face but not a extremely large forehead.lol. i was really leading to like sidebangs but idk how that would look..if anyone has any ideas what i could do with my hair i'd appreciate it :] pictures would be nice too so i can bring it in when i get it cut.thankss =]

i think side bangs would look awesome! i took that steplast year, heres a picture you could show your stylist for the bangs but you probably dont want that much layering, you might want to say keep as much length as you can with long layers.
hope i helped!

http://news.softpedia.com/images/news2/Ashlee-Simpson-In-Hospital-2.jpg

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hey im kind of in love with this girl i've known since 6th grade and im about to be in 11th after summer, when ever im around her i feel so good and i love talking to her on the phone even though it is about nothing. the problem is that she still likes my asian friend just because he is a pervert, she says she doesnt but you can tell she wants to have his babies..i dont know why..how should i tell this girl i love her?

so i like nghia because he is a pervert? lol nice, but no not really. and i know exactly who this is and how you feel and im sorry but i cant say i feel the same. but i love you lots as a GOOD friend anyways =)
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Alright, so, my sister and I have a great relationship with our mother. We talk to her about everything and anything and we love being around each other. Well, most of the time that is. Yeah, we have arguments and sometimes we don't get along just like other mothers and daughters. But, within hours, sometimes even minutes, we make up. That is, unless her sisters are around, then she turns into a bitch.


When they're around my mom nitpicks at everything we do and lectures, yells at us about it. It's insane because she's NEVER like this when they're not around. When they're not here, she only gets us in trouble when she feels she needs to but when they're around, it's for EVERYTHING it seems.


My sister and I argue about clothes all the time, we're sisters, we do that and usually, if she was wearing one of my shirts that I wanted to wear that day my mom would take the shirt and tell both of us to find something else to wear. Well, around my aunts, she tells us to go to our room and doesn't let us go out that day.


And today, my sister got these new Coach shoes that I've wanted as a birthday gift and never got. They're the white, turquoise, and pink wedges with the bow around the toes if anyone knows what I'm talking about. So anyway, I went to my mom and asked her was up because I was the one that wanted and asked for them. I made the mistake of asking in front of one of her sisters and she rolled her eyes at me. Then, my mom started bitching at me so I asked her what her problem was and she said "I'm so sick of my two irresponsible, disrespectful, ungrateful daughters!" After that I just went up stairs.


When we talk to our dad about it, he says he'll talk to her but of course he never does. And he doesn't notice because he's always at his office. What do we do? If it helps any, I'm 17 and my sister is 16.

When i read this it seems to me as if when your mom is around her sisters she wants to impress them by diciplining(sorry for the spelling) you to prove shes a good mother maybe? my advice to you is to maybe talk to her when her sisters ARENT around one day and tell her how you feel that she acts different and treats you adn your sister different when she is around her sisters rather than not. let me know how it goes =)
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i really like you, talking on the phone, flirting/ arguing, we may not always get along, i might get so mad at you and make you cry, but we always work things out, what should i do so youll start likeing me again, and maybe go out with me again?

The only person that i can think of that this could be is Nghia, and well if it is, i dont believe you, 1. because the other day you told me you effing hate me, 2. because you are like that to mess with me. so prove that you really like me again. actions speak louder than words. and if its not nghia then do tell who you are =)
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