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Q:
I'm 13, and basically, I have pretty bad breats. It's genetic. Small and pointy, and barely 32A. (I suspect it's probably going to stay that way too, because I started developing 5 years ago and my whole family looks like me) Do you think I'd look ridiculous if I wore a bikini to the pool next week? If so, what would look ok?

Try a slightly padded swimsuit from say Aeropostle. There are really cute ones there. They are slightly padded and im sure you will look great!AbBeY!!!

Q: I feel that I really need to lose some weight on my inner thighs, stomach, and upper arms. What should I do? Are there any spefic exercises? Anything I should stop eating or start to eat? I'm totally clueless on what I need to do so please help and I will rate!

--Thanks

Start eating fruits and vegies.Start doing crunches, pushups and lifting weights.Stop eating fast food. Treat yourself once in a while with maybe 1 bowl of ice cream. Look at calories or calories from fat and carbs.Hope i helped!!AbBeY!!

Q: im going to six flags friday and i need a nice bathing suit that ties on both sides of the bottom piece and ties on the back and at the top of the neck on the top piece. ive looked at hollister and jcpennys ... and i found nothing. it cant be over 50$. i kinda need one with alittle bit of padding too. not just the material. and i was wondering how i could lose weight. like what exercises can i do to lose alittle bit of weight by friday. i mostly need exercises that work the thighs and stomach area. because my thighs are big and the stick out and my stomach is kinda big and my belly button i just dont like . any suggestions?

For a swimsuit try Areopostle or Old Navy. For weight. Eat healthy and run alot.Hope I helped!AbBeY!!!

Q: i love to sing and i have a really nice voice. but i cant get over my fear of singing. i want to be in my Spring Musicals and definatley Sing for my 8th grade year at the talent show. i joined chior so that can help and it has. i had a solo to do but it wasnt infront of alot of people. im afraid if i will freeze up infront of tons of people. any ideas on how i can make sure im over it and how to get over it just in case im not. i also sing with my instructor but its easy not singing infront of a little bit of people. so if you have any tips please tell me. i want to do this and not freeze up.

Well you can start by saying its ok. But if you cant start with a dueut maybe. Or just dont look at the people.Hope i helped.AbBeY

Q: THIS MAY S0UND LIKE A STUPID QUESTION; BUT HOW DO YOU KNOW IF A GUY LIKES YOU? ♥

By the way he looks at you or talks to you.AbBeY!!

Q: hi i'm irish, and i burnnn super easily.
but i realy want to get tan this year.
any suggestions? other than self tanners?

try a spray on tan. AbBeY!!!

Q: okay so my boyfriend is a little younger than me and hes not a virgin .. and hes cheated in the past .. but i just found out about all this today from his bestfriend .. so what should i do? .. i really dont like the fact that hes not a virgin .. and he just turned 14 .. so HELP !!

thnks chasity x

Well you need to talk to him about it.I think cheating means that this person doent love you.
You either need to sit down and talk to him or get out of the relationship

Q: ok my ex im going to go see a movie with him on friday and he said he is going to hold my hand i say ok thats all rite and mind you i have a bf. and then in had a dream that i was going to kiss him and someone found out and told my bf and he was so upset i broke up with him before and he looked like he was going to die and i didnt like that so i invited a freind to come along so it doest look weird and she might not be able to come if she doesnt should i still go? or should i not go at all? i mean i love my bf but then im falling back in love with my ex so if i kiss him & find out i dont and love my BF does it make it ok to do? or should i even go through with this at all? idk but if i feel to do this at all i ocbiously dont have much feelings for my bf imean i say i love him but i dont feel that tingly feeilng when i see him hes just there kinda feeiling! what should i do plz help me!?

Well you cant be in two relationships at once. You a need to sit down and think which one you love better. You need to tell the other one the truth. Don't keep your secret in for too long or it may become worse. Thanx for your question and i hope i helped . AbBeY