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Q: I have a friend that ive known for several years. She lives a very long distance away from me and theres nothing i can do physcially for her. Her father makes her have sex with him on a nightly basis. Is there any way i can help her get help. Shes afraid of going against him, because he is paying for her college and everything. I love her to death. What can i do?

YOU HAVE TO MAKE HER TALK TO THE POLICE. THIS IS A MAJOR ISSUE AND HE SHOULD BE ARRESTED FOR IT. IDC WHAT ANYONE ELSE SAYS ABOUT THIS. PARENTAL RAPE IS HORRIBLE, NY RAPE IS FOR THAT MATTER. YOU NEED TO CONVINCE HER TO COME FORWARD.
irish
13/m

Q: In your opinion, is 13 years old too young to be fingered? If you really can't get any STDs then what's the harm?

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13 is WAS TOO YOUNG~!

Q: hey there,
theres this guy at school I really really like.
Before our xmas vacation,we had this party at school. Out of no-where, he just said "hey S".
A week later, he asks me about the yearbook comitee.
After the vic, we had PE together, he called my name and when I turned, he waved with a big smile on his face. I was so surprised, after that I developed a crush on him. But all he does is say "hi" and told me one funny thing my guyfriend did(they're in the same class). I really dont know, does he have a crush on me? Every time I decide to give up on him, someone says he glanced at my direction or was staring at me.
I really need your advice, should I wait or should I give up on him?

he might just be really friendly, or he does like you...
if i were you, i would wait, nose around abit, dont commit, just browse
irish
13/m

Q: i am sooooooooooooooo fuckin fat. i eat healthy and do 50 sit ups and do track and run up lke 20 stairs at least 2 times a day!why the fuck am i so fat and how can i be skinny again? please help im so desperate.

maybe you arent even big,
i think i am, i know i am not, but i still think it.
maybe this is how you feel.
irish
13/m

Q: Okay, my friend...Let's call her Jill, is really in love with this guy...Let's call him Jack. She's liked him since 6th grade. Well, Jill is one of my best friends and Jack, he's in my 2nd period and hes been flirting with me alot the past few months, and i'm sorry to say I've flirted back.
Well, this morning, he gave me a note and explained to me that he liked me. And then I heard him talking to his friend about me.

I really like this guy and I want to go out with him but I still want to be friends with Jill.

-I know that I should talk to her about it, and everyones telling me that if she's a good friend she'll support Jack and I's relationship, but i know deep down that there will be some sort of awkwardness around Jill.

So the question here is: How can I have a relationship with Jack, without ruining my friendship with Jill?

well, as corney as it is, cupid is right, follow your heart. be yourself and dont worry about them.
You should ask jill if she is ok with you going out with him first, before you say anything to him. friendship is more important than teenage flings
irish
13/m

Q: my best friend just called me 2 minutes ago. I was over her house earlier but her Dad said I couldnt stay for dinner which is weird because i do alot. Im practically part of their family. But anyways, my friend calls me and goes, "My mom has breast cancer." Then she had to go but she promise she`d call me back. PLEASE help! Anyone. I need something to say to her - Im crying because her mom is like so close to me and my family. I have never been through this and i dont know how to comfort her. ♥

im so sorry, for you and your friend..
my best friends father died 2 days before christmas and i didnt know what to do.
when i heard it, i locked myself in my room and stayed there for 2 days. i couldnt go to the wake, i couldnt even talk to him for well, ever since. DONT DO WAT I DID
you should be there for her but dont treat her differently, DONT constantly follow her and dont ill say it again treat her differently. Make her laugh, give her a good time, and just listen to what she has to say.
irish
13/m

Q: i wanna be a cheerleader but i dont think i can. what knid of things do you have to know how to do.i rate good

yeah i agree with fab.
also, you ahve to be normal weight, vanity punds are ok, but otherwise, you should try to loose a lil. no offence if you are over it, just people like thinner cheerleaders. personally, i dont like them, i think that they are like anarexic..
irish
13/m

Q: ohkay.. a few days ago i asked a question about how would a guy like a girl to make the first move as far as making out. i didnt get the kind of answer i was looking for. can anyone give me a detailed answer on a good SPECIFIC way to make a first move as far as making out?

well first of all, if you are going out, youd need to know how long. if its been a long time, like more than a month, then he should do it soon or you should. if its been shorter than that, dont bother making the first move....
irish
13/m

Q: i hear constantly about 14 year olds having sex... this is scary. what has the world come to? one day people will be having sex at 8 and then people will finally realise there is a problem. i dont see why 14 year olds have sex when they are so young... at 14 i was like, gross, why have sex? i'm 17 now and i am a virgin... i am proud of that and i like it coz guys respect me and i know a guy isn't going out with me for sex. what i want to know is why do girls lose that respect at such a young age? and how young were people when they lost their virginity???
- confused

im 13/m and i just wanna give you a guys point of veiw on this. no offense, but younger girls today are mostly sluts. NO OFFENSE TO YOU OUT THERE
but im just going into highschool next year and they seem proud of it. i dont want to lose my virginity anytime soon, which i know is weird for a guy, but i mean that is something special, but most younger girls today think that it is just like a wart and want to egt rid of it.
sean