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what's there to know? i'm a sixteen year old girl from raytown mo.. i have long black hair.. and brown eyes.. i'm 5'10 and a half.. and i love ♥ music ♥.. feel free to ask me anything.. i'm a pretty knowledgeable person.. i know a lot about many things.. haha.. okay.

advice

Whenever im out at my cousins house all of the guys think im hot ( this is in a different city) But when at school no guys really think i am. I think im pretty except my smile, i really need braces and im getting them in about a month, do you think thats why no one at my school thinks im hot?

I've always been told, that the people you know, don't think of you in that way.

Now, if you have confindence, outside of your school, then more people will see that you hold your head up high.

Be brave.. don't ever think of yourself as anyless than beautiful. Even if you have a not-so-perfect smile, flash it like you have the best smile in the world.
It's all about how you carry yourself.

Not that you didn't already know that! ;)

Good Luck, and God Bless.
-Hailie

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my friends boyfriend recently got stabbed by his ex-girlfriend. my friend thinks it is all her fault because he got stabbed because of something she told him to tell his ex. and then his ex went locco on him. does is sound like her fault?

will rate...
smartass answers not welcome

PS-wat can i do to comfort her?

It isn't her fault.

If he really thought/knew she would go crazy on him, he probably wouldn't have told her.

All you can do, is be there to comfert her, and make sure that she knows she can go to you.
Make sure she has you shoulder to lean on.

-Hope it helps.
--Good luck, and God bless.
Hailie

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Well i have this friend lets call him albert.. well okay (SORRY IF THIS IS LONG ILL RATE 5s FOR SERIOUS ANSWERS) so i have known albert since 2nd grade.. and well i need opinions on this.. okay so

1.) Albert is always flirty, touchy, smiley, etc. around me

2.) I asked his friend how he was around people he liked and he said that list above (but thats how he always is around me so im not sure)

3.) Me albert and melinda (other friend not really important) were playing in the snow.. and he always kept tackling me and throwing me in the snow and jumping one me and not letting me get up.

4.) Once i was saying about how no one liked me and stuff and he said thaat i was wrong and i told him he couldnt argue and he said he could etc.

5.) One day albert was preforming in some kind of club and he came over and was talking to me for most of the time and poking me etc. and then hugged me later on.

6.) One morning before school he came up to me and he put his arm around me (lower back not shoulder) and just stood there.

7.) Once when i was mad at him he asked all of my friends why and my one friend told me that he "flipped" out and was asking why he was mad and stuff like that

8.) He complimented me on my earings at my friends party

9.) He kind of kept moving towards me at my friends party and kept poking me and when he was sitting down he kept telling me to sit next to him.

10.) He told me that i should go to my friends party (more than once)

11.) I told him that some kid said to me i hate you you suck and he was like his life and face suck and that he hated him..

12.) He once told me if anything was seriously wrong i would be one of the first to know

13.) Once i asked him who he liked and he told me he couldnt tell me and he said his friend would tell me the next morning and his friend was like can i tell her can i tell her and he was like no.. and then he said something to him and he was like okay.. and he said some girl and then i found out he liked someone else too.. but he wouldnt tell me who that was.

WHAT IN YOUR OPINION DO YOU THINK? DO YOU THINK HE LIKES ME AS MORE THAN FRIENDS OR JUST AS FRIENDS?

thnx 4 your help

Well,

from what you have stated. I think it's very possible that this 'albert' character likes you.

You should really give it a try. It could work out for the best.

I would suggest throwing him the signs that maybe you like him as well. That might encourage him to move forward, and oh.. I don't know, as you out!

Good luck to you.
-Hailie

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Hey my hair right now is black with brown streaks i want to change the black to blonde and the streaks to streaks of light brown, white blonde, and blonde.
Here is what i look like. http://myspace-738.vo.llnwd.net/00254/83/76/254976738_m.gif Do you think i should do it?

I agree with the others.

Keep it the way it is. It looks stunning!

-Hailie

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Okay I had a weird situation.... I've liked this guy for like 7 months, well I love him.... he's bisexual, but has a crush on someone else.... which dosen't really bother me much cause we're EXTREMELY close! Anyhow, there's this new guy at work...only problem is HE'S 15 and I'm 17. Everyone says I like him or whatever, but I like to hang out with him cause we're VERY ALIKE (To the point where it scares me)....so I dunno whether or not I'm crushin on him, and then at that, there's a girl I've been thinkin about more than usual...like she's cool or whatever...but I dunno if I'm lookin at her cause I've never been successfull with males or whatever...but I dunno, I dun wanna be BI, I'd rather stay straight, but my luck with guys is horrible...but this whole thinkin about her thing has just started, it's weird....I dunno. ANY ADVICE WILL HELP.... just tell me what yall think....

Personally?

I don't think you need all that much advice!

Luck has nothing to do with it. Luck is just a word, that was made up as an excuse for something going right.

If you want to stay straight, that's fine. Nobody should have a problem. As for the girl situation.. don't worry about it. Every girl has her doubts about one another.

I wish you luck.
-Hailie

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okay, so this guy i am "together with" which means we are pretty much going out without the label. anyway, he says he likes me alot, but doesnt think we would be able to have a relationship because he doesnt think i would want him to finger me, or i wont give him head. and the truth is, i just think it would be akward.. but ive gone out with him before.. and i really want a relationship with him.. he doesnt want to have sex with me.. just do everything else. but ive never given anyone head, and ive never been fingered.. im 14.. and i didnt think i should be doing that stuff.. what should i do?

Well,
Let me say this.. just because everyone else is doing it, doesn't mean you have to.

Following the crowd, doesn't help. Nobody is going to think more of you if they know you've done sexual oriented mumbo jumbo.

Expecially at 14. I'm a sixteen year old.. And I've never done anything of the sort. I'm holding off, which should turn out for the better.
If he really enjoys being with you, he won't pressure you into do anything of the sort. If you have worries about this, go to him. Talk to him about it. Make sure that that isn't all he wants you for.

Don't rush to grow up. Enjoy what you can, while you can.

God bless.
-Hailie

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I have been with my boyfriend for three years n still havent got pregant n it is really scaring me because I want a baby now.What shounld I do.

I'm not quite sure if this has been said already, but here goes.

I've always been told, that the stress from wanting a baby, can put off on actually getting one.

Whenever the stress is gone, or you no longer feel the pressure to have a child, maybe it will happen.
Don't rush things.

Good luck to you.
I hope it helps.
-Hailie

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In the Cha Cha Slide by DJ Casper, what the heck is the Charlie Brown? Can you give me motions? That would be greatly appreciated. thanks a lot.

I have always described it as:
Put your left foot in front, and your right in back.
All you do, is rock. For an example? A rocking Horse. One that goes from front to back.

Maybe that'll help you out a little more.
-Hailie

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well this is one of those typical. " I love him but he loves someone else" kinds of things. I just need help with what to do. He always is telling me like they're problems and stuff but that they like eachother and stuff and it hurts so badly so see, and i just want a way to deal with it cause i never want to lose him as a friend or w.e he'll be in my life.

Y'know.. I'm in kind-of a similar situation.
-My ex-boyfriend, (my first.. nonetheless) has a new girlfriend, and he is always telling me about their problems. And I agree. It hurts.. badly.

I would suggest just to swing with it. Don't let what he says get to your heart. Consider this, if they should ever.. "break-up" he'll probably need you there to be strong for him. Everyone needs someone to lean on, and if you let him know that you will be, by listening to what he has to say, and trying to give him advice, he'll know he can come to you for anything.

(first advice, I hope it does you some justice.)
Good luck.
-Hailie

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