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hey! im sarah, and i live in hot atlanta!well in a suburb but o well!i have brownish hair with brown eyes and i go to ecms! i give advice and have taken some, so i would ,love to help with w/e yall need!! write me! luv ya lots!!

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Ok well i been wid mybf for over 9 months and i have been thinkin bout"IT" lol well i wanted to wait till i was like 16 but i dont think im gunna b able to wait that long cuz im 13 now turnin 14 next month but i feel im conforablen stuff n im almost definately positive my bf iz!! lol so my questions iz do u think i should or do u think im to young?!?!?!?! plz help!! thanx



~*~ Should I?!?!? ~*~

to young!! ne thing could happen and u could wined up pregnant at 14! and if ppl find out mite call u something mean! i would say too young!

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Iam 15 years old, 5'2 and i weigh 121 pounds,am i fat or over weight? How can i lose weight? Please help!

well idont think u r at all im 5'0 and 98 and think im fat! well exercise!! o ya and CRUNCHES! 50-500 a nite! b4 bed works great and no snackin! it will work like a charm!! good luck to u!!!

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Today when i went to the bathroom i noticed that i had ALOT of discharge in my underwear what could it be? should i do anything about it?

hey it just mean ur period is comin soon! no worries!

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well, i have known a lot of girls since my elementry school, and i would like to become good friends with these girls. most of them are my friends and others i would like to be my friends. some of the girls i would really like to be good friends with and be included with things. to most of the girls i am thought of as a friend. but i would like to be a best friend to most of them. so, what should i do?

hey! well bff just dont come out of the blue, they talk on the fone and hang out A LOT! so invite these ppl over, or just call them to talk hey i talk on the fone with my bff's and sometimes we're not even talkin! lol but we also hang out a TON! so invite them over n hav fun! good luck!

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Dear Sarah,
Hey I'm a gurl (12) and I got this crush on this guy rite. the prob is he told me he likes me, but he's got a gf. His gf is really nice and I don't want him 2 cheat on her, but I really like him! whut do i do???
signed,
desperate!!!!:-(

hey! well..i wouldnt go out with him rite now since u and his gf's r friends, i tell him sry but i dont want u to cheat on ur gf.. cuz i mean i dont think that really rite at all.. but if u REALLY like him do wut u want but my advice is dont let him cheat! hope i helped!

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Hey Sarah, I hav 2 gud bffs (i'm a gurl so r they), but the prob is there obsessed with those old disney movies like snow white and stuff! I wouldn't really mind, but were 12!!! almost 13! I mean theres nothin wrong with disney movies, but I think there 2 old!!! whut do i do?
signed,
confused

hey! talk to them about it ask hey lets watch another movie, and ask them y they want to watch these movies, if their ur bbfff's they should understand. hope i helped!

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okay i need help there is thiiis super fine gurl and she flirts with me i mean bendin over huggin kissin and were good friends. im scared to make the move cause she might say no and end our friendship or she might say yes and that would be great wat do i do

hey! well to me sounds like she def likes u! i would prob go for it! and if not if shes really a friend it mite be a lil weird but still the same! hope i helped!

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its three of us. we are all best friends. but i feel like im the third wheel. hey are always hanging out without me like its no big deal. i care. what in the world do i do?

hey

idk, but like im guessin its cuz they mite live closer or something! rite now im in a lil sticky thing my friend is always nice wen its like the three of us then this other girl comes and she like leaves... its soo weird! well talk to them about, maybe u can invite them over more. i thinks its jsut cuz they r closer this doesnt mean they dont like u! maybe they mite like u more! u never kno! im sure its not wut u think! hope i helped

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everyone says they love my clothes but i dont think its the greatest thing in the world...i think they are just saying it to make me feel good i duno...and this year...my mom is only giving me a budget for my clothes shopping! what do i do?

hey!

well i would love it if some1 said that to me! cuz i would love to hav good clothes! and trust me they rnt! they shouldnt lie about a compliment! well i only get jeans they rest I hav to buy like im buyin most of my clothes this year... it sux well i hope u get some good clothes!!

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ok..heres my thing you guys...

*my best friend lost her virginity last year and alot of people consider her a whore now :(
but anyways...my boyfriend wants me n him to lose ours now for our 1 year anniversary hes 16 and im 14...i really dont know if i should becuz i dont wana be considered a whore or nething like what happened to my friend....please help me in doin the right thing!!
signed,i honestly dont know what to do

well... i would say NO! thats way to young, sry but u wouldnt want to be the whore? i dont think like that one like hour or so is worth everyone callin u that, just tell ur bf u want to wait.. hope i helped...

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I'm 15 years old and I'm pregnant. I don't know what to do and who to turn to. I've only had sex once with my boyfriend and I took a couple pregnancy tests, which all came out positive. No one knows about it and I'm so scared. My parents will be so disappointed in me, it'll kill me and they'll probably make me get an abortion. I'm also scared my boyfriend is going to leave me because of it. What should I do? I really need help.

hey, its totally up to u, i mean do u want a baby rite now? 15?! its really young if it was me, id either get an abortion b4 a lot of ppl knew or out it up for adoption, it could ruin ur life, but if u want to keep it, then u can its all wut u want 2 do! hope i helped!

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hey. i had a girlfrend rite. she dumped me becase she said she didnt want a boyfrend. the next day she gets another boyfrend.wat is that about

hey well im sry but she prob dumped u cuz she liked this other guy, well u dont deserve her ne way if she did that to u! just move on and forget bout her! good luck!

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My friend gets really mad at me when i hang w/ peeps she dosnt like. she wont talk to me for days how can i tell her thats she's my bbbbbbbbbbbbbfffffffffffffff but i want to hang w/ other people too??? LoVe
-Me-

well... thats happened to me, like u can do w/e u want really dont tell her that tho! lol but if shes ur friend shed let u hang out with some1 else! cuz u can hav more than one friend, just tell her ur my bbbbbbbbbbbffffff, but i have other friends too.. im sure yall both hav other friends! and maybe yall could hang out more oor something! lol good luck!

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another person on this site gave me sum advice, they told me to tell my over weight friend that she needs 2 wear more clothes u how less skin. so i did wut they said, she blocked all my s/n's on aol msn nd yahoo!! i cant call her cause she hangs up on me wen i do. shes my bbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbb--ff!!! nd now she hates me wut should i do? should i wait 4 her 2 chill u no think it over?

hey!

bad advice! u could just like mention it to her or somrthing, but u prob shouldnt hav taken their advice! rem this is 7th grade! or w/e grade ur in! this wont really matterin a month! lol ya, like shell be mad at u for a lil, but explain to her that it was advice from some1, or some1 told u to say that.. make sure she knos the truth do not lie! lol all friends just need to steam and just be kept alone for a while and eventually shell forgiv u! hope i helped!

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Hey, (14/f) I am friends with my exboyfriend. We talk a lot, and are pretty close. I am going to a different school this year so it's going to be really hard to see him and talk to him, but i really value our friendship. Whenever we talk though he alwayse brings up other girls, and how hott they all are. I know that I shouldn't get jelous since we are just friends now, but i do. So I can't deside weather he is making me feel jelous so i dont forget him, or if he is just talkin to me like a close friend.

-Really confused

hey! well if yall r close then im sure hes just talkin to u being his colse friend, he prob isnt tryin to make u jealous ppl at my school always do that! lol good luck!

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i have this 1 friend who gets on da net just starts talking 2 ramdom guys. wen they give her their # she tells pll dat they go 2 her school but moved soshe gets pll 2 3 way m cause she doesnt have long distance. not 2 long ago she was talking 2 dis guyy named matt nd she told me dat he went 2 her school but moved 2 arizona. so i belived her nd called him now she doesnt talk 2 him nd i found out dey dont no each other. shes relly stressed bout not talking 2 him how do i tell het that his not worth it. i'm afraid shell cut her self cause dats wut she does wen she gets mad

hey hun,

well u should never make a big deal over some guy! they are not worth ina few years this wont even matter! u need to tell her to stop talkin to ppl hoo she doesnt kno also, thats how some ppl get raped, and kidnapped! cuttin ur self doesnt help at all! make sure she doesnt! just tell her to get over it, cuz trust me it will never matter! lol hope she gets ova him!

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ok , i dont kno what to do anymore . im babyysitting this 4 yr. old little boy . i came at 9:30 this morning and like 10 min. after the mom left for work , he's throwing his toys at me , one hitting my chin , then he took some statue thing the parents hav and starts biting on it . nd i cant control this kid . can u help me pleasE

hey! well u can maybe out him in time out, or something but the best thing u can do is tellin the parents and if it doesnt stop i guess just dont babysit him ne more! i kno i wouldnt want to do that! well i hope i help!

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plz u all i'm bout 2 loose my best friend..ok look...we were supose 2 meet @ 1 of our hang outs ...n then i didnt show up..n i didnt call her and she got pissed but i have done these things b4 not meaning to hurt her i had just had a death in my family (father) and everything was hecktic..i have told her this over n over again...she doesnt get it...wat do i do???

hey!

ur father died and ur best friend doesnt understand?!?! wut kind of friend is she!? sry but shes really gettin made for something really stupid! u prob deserve better! good luck!

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I have been going to the same Christian school all my life. Now Im entering high school and I have the choice to go to the public highschool near my house. Im worried about not making friends or getting into trouble in the public school. Its my choice but I cant decide. Which on should I go to and why? Please help! I know its a stupid question but please .. Thanks!

xO mE

hey!

well my mom had to do the same thing, ide go to public cuz it can prepare u for colledge n stuff, and u will make friends its gonna be dif but mostly itll be lots of fun! well g2g!

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HeY! Besides taking Midol or asprin, what a good way to realive or get rid of cramps?! ThAnKs!! I really need the advice! =)

hey

u can take a warm bath or put a heatin pad on them! it should feel better soon!

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