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HEY EVERYONE! MY NAMES CHANTAL. I'M HERE TO ANSWER THE QUESTIONS THAT YOU ALL HAVE. I'M NOT AN EXPERT OR ANYTHING OF THAT SORT AND DON'T CLAIM TO BE. I AM ON THE OTHER HAND WILLING TO GIVE YOU MY PERSONAL OPINION TO YOUR QUESTIONS. = ]

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How do you break an addiction to chocolate! no joke im addicted and now i have all this halloween candy i keep eating! please help! thank you and i will rate all helpful posts ;)

i'm with u on that one. i luv chocolate and luv luv vanilla frappuccinos. i see nothing wrong with eating chocolate. if you really wnat to quit though, i guess i woudl suggest in maybe finding a hobby that woudl get your mind of it.
hope i helped a little! good luck.

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im ready so don't be like it's when you are ready caue i am (: but approximately how long in a realtionship do you think you have to be in to be felt up..like i like this boy soo much and he likes me a lot too...but like 2 months or what..cause i dont want to get a reputation like "wow they went out for this long and he got it and so if i go out with her for that long i can get it"...soo just give me an estimated amount of time (: thanksss a bunch.

if it helps. im 14/f

it just depends on how comfortable you are with the guy and that you know in your heart that you are ready and not leting your homormones run it (not saying you are). then just go as you feel comfortable. whow long is the right time to wait. there is no "right" amount of time. depends on the couple. like the other advice given i agree just tell the ones that are close friends and not everyone and yeah probably eventually it will get out, but as long as you know it was the right time for you. hold your head high and don't let others opinions bring you down.
hope i helped some!

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15/f

okayy so im redoing my room and i was wondering if anyone has any cute ideas? i want to get like everything redone so any cute desks, beds, bedspreads, wall colors, pictures, bulletin boards,lamps, whatever. or any ideas for stuff to put on my walls

all suggestions welcome!

thanks soo much :]

i would say do like bright bold fun colors that just light up the room. maybe some bright pinks, oranges, lime greens! as for the wall i think having a bunch of photo collages of u and ur friends and family would add a lot of personality to the room.
good luck!

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so me & my boyfriend had sex for the first time last friday. and also saturday. & we used a condom & since it was our first time, we didnt do it too long since he popped my cherry & it hurt the second time. now im wondering if i could be pregnant? we used wasted 3 condoms & filled each with water once we were done with them & there was no hole, so the condom was good. so is there any chance of me being pregnant? i doubt it , but i just want more opinions.

if you are having sex there is ALWAYS a chance of getting pregnant, but since he did wear protection i wouldn't worry too much about it. unless you start getting symptoms, then go to the doctor and get checked out.

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maybe this sound pretty stupid


but what means "mono?"

i do believe you are talking about "mono" as in Mononucleosis. which i actually got a few months ago. you get it from contact with salavia from a person taht has it. mostly they call it "the kissing dease". which makes sense i got it from my ex b/f i do believe. usually the person just gets tired and sleeps a lot. there r more serious cases though. like in my case i got very nasous, hard time holding down food, high fever, dehydration, a lumb on my neck which was actualy a swallowen lemp node. i woudl suggest if u think u have ti. go to the doctors and get checked out.

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My bestfriend's mom past away in january. She's not doing good at all. Do you guys know any good poems or quotes that i could put in a card and give to her? I really would appreciate it.

thank you.

well i lost my grandpa which was like a dad to me and in my opinion instead of quotes or poems or in addition to them i would write her a personal letter and tell her how sorry you are to hear of her lost and that you will be there for her if she ever needs to talk or just a shoulder to cry on that you will be that shoulder. just let her know how much you truly care for her and how she feels. let her know that she will make it and it's ok to cry and let it all out and to just hang in there over time things will get better may not seem like it but just hang in there it will.
hope i helped some!

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ok so my friends having this problem with her bf and here is her question.........



ok so theres this guy who asked me out, and i just couldnt say no because hes like really really sweet and he did it in person, not through a friend...but the problem is that i dont like him...only as a friend, so now i have a bf that i dont like and the guy i really do like just now started to talk to me and flirt with me...so the problem is that i dont know what to do about my bf...like how to tell him that i only like him as a friend, but i really dont want to hurt his feelings, cuz i know he'll be totally heartbroken...what do i do???????

sorry that was kinda long lol

In my opinion i would tell your friend to break up with him as soon as possible if she only sees him as a good friend. the longer she lets it go on and leads him on into believing she does have more then friendship feelings for him then he is gonna get even more heartbroken the more time goes on. if you want a suggestion on how to tell him, i suggest you tell him how you feel just say it in a nice way that hey you know i'm sorry but i only feel friendship feelings towards you, your a real great guy and any girl would be lucky to have you, but i just feel that we should be friends. he will understand over time.
hope i helped some!

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i was wondering if you dont use a condom and a guy cums inside you, do you always get pregnant?

You don't always get pregnant, but there is a higly possiblilty you will. I suggest using protection next time. It just doesn't protect against pregnancy, but against any STDs too.

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16/f
im gettin really depressed cauz its already been a month of skool and im still single every one i know has a bf or reciently got one and we all know that when you get a bf your friends dont count as much soooo they spend most of their time with their bfs. i only have one friend who's a girl left and she'll probably get this guy she likes to ask her out this week so im gonna be totally alone fast! i got soooo depressed at that thought that i just started bawlin and i was at skool too so that means i was really depressed cauz i try really hard not to show that kind of emotion around my classmates. i dont know how im gonna make it though the week without losin it cauz just this sat. my all time best friend got a boyfriend, and now im afraid she's gonna desert me like my other best friend did adn i havent talked to her for 6 months cuz she spends every wakin moment with him! is there any way i can get a boyfriend before i go into a complete depression episode? or can i find a way to hang out with chics that have a bf ,and not feel like a third wheel?

I know how your feeling. It sucks not to have a b/f and at times it feels like you're teh only one without one. Let me tell you though, realtionships are overrated. They're not all what they seem to be. They take work and usually have lots of drama and emotion like a roller coaster with all the ups and downs. Trust me I would know, I'm 17 and just a few months back got my very first b/f and first kiss and so on. Then two months later it ended. My advice would be to just not think about getting a b/f let one come to u or if your shy be a lil more outgoing with guys at your school, but basically just wait and trust me you will find the right guy for you one of these days and in the mean time tell your friends how you r feeling neglected from them and you would like to hang out with them more like you guy sdid before she got a b/f. Maybe he could bring a guy friend for u to meet or she coudl and you guys could just all hang out. So best thing to do inmy opinion is just wait it out and in time you will get a b/f in the mean time just enjoy being single and talk to your friends about them making time to hnag out with you. Hope i helped some!

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