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okay. i am very deperate for help right now so any advice you give me i will rate you a five.
i have a very hard time admitting this. but my dad is in fact an alcoholic. he is always in denial, meaning that he doesnt think he has a problem and gets mad when you confront him in any way about his drinking. me and my mom are the only people aware of this in my imediate family. my little siblings haven't a clue. my mom has threatened divorce even though she does not mean it, just to make him stop. it is an embarrasing thing and he is very selfish. i feel like i am babysitting him all the time to make sure he isnt sneaking in the garage or the side of the house. i need help confronting him, like i need to really hit him hard this time to make him think twice about doing it again.
another thing, i recently found a few bags of marijuana that belong to him that he gets from a friend at work i am assuming.... my mom does not know about this, and i am too scared to tell her because then i definately see divorce in the future. my sister and brother would be devastated, and i probably would too i mean he is my father and i love him. what do i do about the marijuana situation?
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i know its hard to deal with this. you SHOULD tell your mom about the marijuana. she should know about that.
your dad needs to get help. stage an intervention with a rehab facility if the habit gets any worse. i know that's hard as well, but it WILL help. it will make him think, and the center will make sure he gets the help he needs. if you need anyone to takl to im here.
love and hugs
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Is it wrong to masturbate yourself?Will anyone find out without telling them? (link)
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its not necissarily WRONG... i mean because everyone does it whether they realize it or not. and unless you are talking about it to someone in class or something and someone else overhears, people probably won't find out. i mean, its not like its written on your forehead. dont worry.
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What does it mean to say, for example, someone in you family has been twice removed? (link)
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this is a good question... my best friend and i are third cousins.... (basically our grandmothers were cousins, our dads are second cousins... yeah)
ok say if your uncle got married. his wife would be your aunt. but her sister or brother would be your aunt/uncle once removed. (because theyre not related by marriage exactly)
so lets say the aunt that married into your family had a sister. (your aunt once removed) her husband married into your aunt's family. i think the way that goes is that HE is your uncle twice removed. does that help?
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I need to be more outgoing. I really want to be able to go up to people and just talk to them. I want to have more confidence. How do i do so? I keep missing my chances to meet new guys. (link)
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im the same way. i always have been and i find myself asking the same questions. if you find a guy you like, get to know him. this year i tried getting to know the guys i wanted to like me first, and even though i didnt end up going out with them it still helped to boost confidence. and then who knows? maybe the guy will like you back and you'll end up going out.
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ok me and my boyfrind have been datin know for 9 months i am 14 and he just turned 17. we are in a long distance realtionshhip(he live about 2hours away from me) and he left on staurday for 2 weeks to a basketball thing and the thing is he went with his "firend" that likes him. like this girl is a bitch she always tryin to do something with him and trying to get me mad.i trust my boyfriend that wont do anything with her but they are stayin in the same room and bed..i know there is nothing goin on wit them because he doesnt like her like that and his sister would have already told me there is.. his sister is going with him too and the same room but different bed.. should i be worried.:( i trust him but not her. can someone please help me. (link)
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my friend is in a similar situation. she's 14 and her boyfriend is about to turn 17. he lives an hour away from us and is moving to a place that's even farther. since we dont know what goes on at his school, she is a little skeptical about staying with him. she says that he could be doing anything with the girls at his school. but he told me that he doesnt have feelings for anyone except my friend.
if your boyfriend really wants to be with you, and im sure he does, then you shouldnt worry. if she tries to do anything with him chances are that he wont let her in fear of losing you.
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I'm 13/f && I'll admit it, I have a big nose. I know I'm too young for plastic surgery but I'm really self consious of it so is there any way I could minimize it? Like is there a way I could do my makeup to make it less noticeable?
xO* GiiRL iiN NEED (link)
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hey. im 14 and i have a big nose too... or big compared to other people anyway. what i do is i wear a shiny lip gloss and i wear eyeshadow that matches my eyes. i.e. i have blue eyes so i wear purple eyeshadow or pink eyeshadow... and i make it stand out so that it is the focal point on my face... not my nose. does that help?
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how do you tell people your a lesbian i mean do you just say it or what
thnks
lost and confused!
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i think the best thing to do is tell them straight out. dont just say "hey im lesbian" but say something that will get their attention like "what would you say if i told you i was a lesbian?" i know a lot of gay people because im in theater. once they come out they have no problem being open with it. come out to someone you truly trust first. see how they take it.
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my school is having a talent show. i dont know why, but i cant sing in front of people. i've sang in front of my friend and she said i was really good. i think im good too, but im still scared about singing in the talent show. I have the perfect song and i keep telling myself i can do it but im still really nervous!! help me. how could i make it so i could sing and not be shy or scared? (link)
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the first time i sang at a talent show, i choked (literally) at the end because i was getting sick. you should just try singing in front of your parents first... start slowly. try singing for more and more people at a time. im sure that would help you. even if you just start singing randomly in a mall. (i did that once) if you still feel nervous, shut your eyes when you get onstage. not only does it block out who is out there, it looks professional. trust me on this, singing is my life.
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what would be a place to shop for the first day of school clothes if you were a goth or punk
stores not websites please!!!!
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Hey... i would go to Hot Topic, or PacSun. they have great stuff there. and in department stores lately they have been getting great tshirts and things like that. good luck!
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