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My name is Christina, and I'll try to answer questions honestly, and to the best of my ability. I give pretty good advice, I think.
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ok heres the thing: my best friend is kinda going out with this guy and im kinda jealous of the guy...heres the problem...my best friends a girl...so am i...am i jealous of the fact the she likes him (as in i like her too) or am i just jealous of the attention shes giving to him?
Either, I hate to say this, you like your best friend, or maybe you guys are really close. That wouldn't even be gay, it's just you guys are really close, and now maybe you feel like he's taking your place. I don't know the whole situation, but from what it sounds like, you just want to be the center of her attention again. That doesn't mean you're in love with her, just means that you're used to things being a certain way.
i noticed that you made those little heart with the &hearts. but everytime i try to do that, it never works. it turns up just as it is written. i tried to do it on my column but it just shows up like &hearts. i was wondering if i put it in wrong. is that possible? and is it &hearts or &heart?
okay I think I know what you're doing wrong.
& hearts and a semicolon ;
then put it together. & hearts ;
take the two spaces out.
and your finished result should be ♥
Okay one of my best guy friends is home for vacation. And I really like him like alot but he doesnt know (like no one told him). And I want to go to the movies with him tonight but his cell phone and computer arent working. So should I call his house (even though we hardly ever talk on the phone and if we do its on his cell phone) and if so what should I say?
ps. I would also like to invite his best friend who is home for vacatino also
PLEASE HELP I RATE REALLY HIGH!
Call his house! You should say, hey, I'm going to the movies later, and since you're in town I thought you might want to go.. and if you want to bring so and so, you can. & there you go.
Okay, so I said the wrong thing at one point and told my guy I didn't feel like I could trust him (of course, at the time, I was just mad and upset, and everyone says the wrong things/stupid things when they're mad).
The thing was, he lied to me about something totally mundane, and he did it to keep me from worrying, but he can't lie to me worth crap, and I can always tell when he's lying, but I never know what he's lying about.
I have major trust issues because my last guy lied to me, cheated on me, then lied to me about cheating on me and lying to me. Lol. I mean, you'd have trust issues too.
So yesterday we talked, and he said something about maybe taking it a little too fast if I felt I couldn't trust him, and now he wants to refrain from sex...lol. Like, he wants to go back in time to like, right before we had sex. So it'll be physical, but like...not physical.
I asked him every confirmation question I could think of, including "is this leading to some sort of a breakup? If it is, be honest and don't string me along," and he didn't even let me finish before he said "What? No!" like "that's ridiculous". I mean, we've been engaged since august, and we're still engaged - he laughed at me when I sounded all nervous about it - he said "just because I want to go back in time doesn't mean I'm changing the future," so I don't think we're breaking up anytime soon.
But I don't understand the not wanting sex.
I have a couple of ideas - one might've been that every time we've seen each other lately has kinda led to sex because our schedules are so crazy that we never see each other.
Anyone have any other ideas? Thanks in advance for your help.
Okay, he may be just saying that because he wants you to trust him, and he thinks that if he takes things back, maybe he could earn your trust back. If you want the sex to stay, then tell him you'd rather continue having sex, that you would just prefer him telling you the truth, even if it may make you worry.
I hope that helps.
wut does lylas mean and how do u make those hearts?
love you like a sister
♥
& hearts ;
take the spaces out.
Yellowcard...
what? lmfao if you're asking if i LIKE them, then the answer is no.
a greencard is something that an illegal alien needs to become a citizen.
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I wanted to know if there was a certain career I can go to for these things. I've been getting really interested with the mind and what makes us do the things we do. I've been getting interested in things like, eating disorders, mental illness, personality disorders, insomnia, ADD, OCD, SAD, why people lie and a lot of other things like health, vegetarianism, raw foodists, etc. I want to learn more about this stuff, but not just through the internet. What are some courses that teach you about this kind of stuff and how can I apply what I know through a career? If you know some careers, do they pay well?
I believe I'm suffering from ADD, OCD and SAD. As I'm researching these, I come across other disorers and I get overwhelmed and I want to learn about them all...
Take psychology, human A&P, and any other courses that speak of the mind and body. I'm really interested in those things too. You should be a psychologist, or possibly work in a mental hospital. You would be able to see all of those cases, and in CA, you'd be able to find plenty of places to research.
so I like this guy, he knows that I like him.. but I don't know if he likes me.. but I do know that he has NeVeR made out or anything.. I have never made out or french kissed anyone. I'm going to ask this guy out.. and I'm hoping he will say yes, if I do ever like go to the movies with him.. what do I do, cause you know how people say, that the guy will lead the way? well that won't really work because be have never made out.. so what in the nation am I sopost to do?
thanks!
I thought the same thing about my current boyfriend. I thought I'd be the first one to make the moves, and everything. But, he suprised me. When I first went over to his house, he was the one who kissed me. I think that you should wait, and if by the middle of the movie he hasn't tried to even hold your hand, grab his hand and hold it. Then, kind of just stare at him, until he looks over at you. And finally, just lean in and kiss him.
there is this one girl that likes the same guy as me and she keeps on stealing him. I know he likes me b/c he has admitted it, so why did he go out with her?? I really like this kid. Should I ask him out again when he breaks up with this girl, or should I find someone else?
Honestly, it seems as if he likes her, too. Maybe, he's confused, or maybe he likes her more. Nobody can explain why guys do what they do, but one thing is for sure. You need to talk to him. Find out why he didn't go out with you, and if he beats around the bush, or doesn't even answer it, then move on. You shouldn't wait around for a guy that can't make up his mind.
Okay here is the problem my friend just turned 12 last week but her room looks a little kiddish with like pink wallpaper,horse models and so on but she wants her room to look like a 12 year old kid's room but her mom will not let her get new furniture or paint her walls.So does anyone have any ideas on how she could make her room look good without getting new furniture and stuff?I will rate fives to anyone who helps with this room emergency no matter if your advice is not very good!!!
Posters. Buy a lot of posters, of guys, bands, etc. Then, completely cover the walls with them. If her mother won't let her use tacks, just tape them, but make sure you put them exactly where you want them to go, because with tape you may rip the poster. Then, throw all the kid stuff in the closet, and use sheets to cover up couches, etc. It may not be pretty, but at least it will be cheap, and help make it not look so young.
Aright well im 14/f and me and my b/f have been together for almost a year...and he hasn't tried anything, I mean im not waiting for him to do something with me...but is it weird that he hasn't tried anything after almost a year or does it just mean that he really loves me? Like he's always all over me and touching me, but whenever im around me friends they just keep on askin me "have you guys done it yet?" and ill just be like "no" cause we havn't. And sometimes they just end up saying that he's stupid to not try doing it with me (i don't think that) and that they expect us to do it now that we've been together for almost a year! So I need to know does he really love me or is it just weird?
Thanx
Look. I'd take that as a sign that he really loves you. Or, he doesn't feel that he's old enough to have sex, maybe he's one of those guys who are saving it. Do you feel as if you're ready to deal with the pressures of having sex? If you really do, and you want to with him, then maybe you should talk to him about it. Ask him why he hasn't tried. You might be suprised. He may not be trying because he feels that you don't want to.
theres this girl i like a lot and i know she likes me and tomorrow she is coming over and its not like ive never kissed anyone or anything but i want someone elses opinion...what is the best way to get into a situation where you start kissing someone without just throwing yourself to them
Sit and talk to her for awhile, then compliment something on her face. If you can't think of anything to say, you should tell her she's beautiful. Look at her, and give her the kiss look. Then, lean in to kiss her, and if she wants to kiss you she'll lean in too. Then, next thing you know, you're kissing.