ok heres the thing: my best friend is kinda going out with this guy and im kinda jealous of the guy...heres the problem...my best friends a girl...so am i...am i jealous of the fact the she likes him (as in i like her too) or am i just jealous of the attention shes giving to him?
Additional info, added Tuesday February 22 2005, 10:07 pm: oh yeah...im not jealous of HER having a boyfriend, im jealous of her boyfriend having HER. Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? greencard answered Tuesday February 22 2005, 10:26 pm: Either, I hate to say this, you like your best friend, or maybe you guys are really close. That wouldn't even be gay, it's just you guys are really close, and now maybe you feel like he's taking your place. I don't know the whole situation, but from what it sounds like, you just want to be the center of her attention again. That doesn't mean you're in love with her, just means that you're used to things being a certain way. [ greencard's advice column | Ask greencard A Question ]
MyPainIsReal answered Tuesday February 22 2005, 10:04 pm: Ok, no one can really tell you if you like her. You could. That is something you yourself are going to have to sit down and think about to know. Think long and hard to figure it out. Why do you like her? You could be jealous. I've found myself like that. And a lot of people do. Mostly girls. Sometimes, when you're best friend has a significant other and you don't have that you just get jealous. It's natural, and normal. You want what she has. Totally understandable. Think about if you like her or not and you'll figure out if you like her or if you are just jealous. No one can tell you. It's all in what you feel. Xo [ MyPainIsReal's advice column | Ask MyPainIsReal A Question ]
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