i feel like when I get pushed around, I'm too scared to stand up for myself and I just ignore what happenes.Also I'm kinda short and also white.Where I live most people are different races and believe they are tougher than a small little white girl...how do i be more assertive witout being a bitch?I just want to be able to defend myself.
My advice, be assertive. I mean I'm not sayin go out punchin people or anything. Just like, tell them to leave you alone and deal with their own lives. PUT ME ON U'RE FRIENDS LIST AND TELL ME IF IT WORKS!
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Well i really like this guy (mason) but of course he has a girlfriend. He flirts with me ALOT and is always hangn around with me, but then this girl seyd "She wants you to break up with yur g/f so yuu can go out with her" AND I NEVR SEYD THAT .. im so mad, he wont talk to me anymore! =[ **-- I rate 5s --**
i'VE HAD THE SAME PROBLEM! Tell him that you never said this. Then tell this girl that said ths crap to lay off and leave you alone. PUT ME ON U'RE FRIENDS LIST AND TELL ME IF IT WORKS!
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my father abuses me what should i do
U're father sexually abuses you? My cousin sexually harassed me. he continually did this to me and I did absolutly nothing about it. If you have a mother tell her. Then call the police. This needs to be reported. I DO NOT CARE IF HE IS YOUR FATHER! I told my parents about my cousin, he is now in jail. Do as I say because this is the same exact think I told my best friend(she has the same exact problem). Hope I helped! PUT ME ON U'RE FRIENDS LIST AND TELL ME IF IT WORKS!
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This might take awhile...but my ex boyfriend and I are talking again about going back out. Our past relationships...were good but then it wasn't. We broke up a couple of times. The thing is, he's a smoker...weed! Awhile ago...he use to do it constantly, then every other day. Then once a week, thne now once a month. I know he's trying, but not hard enough. The other day, I asked him..."What's more important? Your weed..or me?" He replied "Your more important then anything" So I was happy. But still I'm in confusion. We want to go out, but then again, rumors will start up and bets will be place on how long we would last. He's Qb of our Varsity football team(which is huge), and I'm well known for who i hang with, and the sports i played. In other ppls eyes, We look like high school sweethearts. Its just how do i tell him i wnat to be with him, and i like him so much, not the hundred other guys who ask for my number or gives me theres! They don't mean anything to me...just friends. But like what can we do to have a better relationship? how do i know if he's sincere about his feelings for me? How do i know it'll be different? Sorry it's so long, but thanx so much if your able to help me!
Girl, I went out with a pot smoker before. BIG MISTAKE. but, this is a better one. Try going out with him. Ask his friends if he's still smokin weed after like a week. If he's continualy smoking pot, i'm sorry, but u'll have to dump him.
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ok so my boyfriend and me have been going out for about a month and a half or so.. he goes to a different school and hes 16, im 13.. i loved him sooo much! last night i was talking to him online and i asked if he was gonna come and meet me at the ice skating rink (where i always meet him) and he said "maybe, i might go to the mall with some friends instead but if we dont go then ill come see you." i felt kind of offended by this that he wanted to go see his friends instead of me. i can only see him on friday nights so if he didnt come i wouldnt see him till next friday (if he decided to come) and so i was like oh, alright i guess. then later that night i was talking to one of his friends... (not a very good friend tho) i only met him last weekend when my boyfriend wasnt at the ice skating rink... we talked for like 5 minutes... then when we were talking online last night he asked if i was goin ice skating.. i said probably not, he asked why and i told him about me being kinda mad about john not going. so then i ask what jake has said about me to him. chris, (the guy im talkin to online) says he wont tell me what john said about me because he doesnt want to hurt me. i finally get him to tell me what jake does on the nights when he doesnt go to the rink with me. he tells me that john has been seeing another girl and goes to hook up with her and only comes and sees me if shes not availiable. im so upset when i hear this... but i think his friend likes me so i dont know if hes telling the truth... but john never tells me where he goes when he doesnt come.. it all makes sence... both stories do... i dont know what to do...
BELIEVE NONE OF THEM! dump u're boy and don't do anything about his friend. THEY BOTH AREN'T WORTH IT! Just wondering do you go to iceland irmo?
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Ok, so I went out with this guy, let's say in like November. Well we broke up after about 2 weeks and it was squashed, didn't talk much, started dating other people rather quickly and such. We've been hanging out recently and have had sex, but he has a girlfriend, and yes, I do feel used, but the way he acts and talks towards me, really sends me mixed signals and I'm not sure as to what to do. Any advice?
Signed,
Second Thoughts?
Tell him if he wants to hang and have sex with you to not treat you like a toy. seriously, because if he won't dump you for her, he ain't worth it hun.
you desearve better.
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foxychick993
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ok, my legs are so white right now! Im embarrised to wear anything other than sweat pants or jeans! They say italians tan fast,but that dosent happen with me! [[im also portuguese.]] Theres this sunblock that attracts the sun to get a tan with out burning,dose any one no where i can get that/what its called/and if it works?
**rate to 5's** thanks :)
Hey, DON'T GET A REGULAR TAN!!!!!!!!!!! Go to a taniing booth or get a spray on tan. I have been in a tanning booth. I never get a tan either and I went to a taning booth and I looked great. I wear skirts a ton now
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I'm sorry guys because I just didn't know what to title this. I'm a 14 year old female and I've been having some problems lately and I was hoping you guys could help me figure out what to do. While I was out to dinner with my youth pastors, I accidentally let it slip that I cut myself. After that, they were all worried and concerned and stuff. I didn't quite see what the big deal was at the time because I'm not trying to kill myself, I just like the way it feels and it really helps me through the hard times. Well, one of my youth pastors has been checking up on me recently and I don't want to tell her, but I cut. She tells me I can call her if I ever need anything or if I ever want to talk, but I find it somewhat hard to do that. I just feel like I'm slipping away from God, my friends, and just everybody. I don't know what to do. I keep lying to her and telling her I'm not doing it, but the truth is, I've done it one time since we've started talking about it. I don't want to tell her because I know if I do, she'll make me tell my parents and there is enough drama going on in my home life that I don't need to bring this into the mix. I know I shold probably go see a therapist, but I don't like the thought of sitting in a stranger's office and telling them what's wrong with my life because then I feel like a crybaby and it would just be weird to tell a stranger that kind of stuff. I'm just at a loss of what to do because my youth pastors think I'm a good kid and stuff, but they don't know the stuf that I'm hiding from them. I guess my questions are: should I tell them? if so, what should I say? how can I get 'reunited' with God? I would really appreciate your answers. Thanx in advance!
well, me and you have a lot in common. I am a thirteen year old female catholic. I once was raped and hated myself for not telling my parents so the way I got throgh it was cutting myself. I lost too much blood and ended up in the hospital. I don't want to sound like ms mom, but it can kill you, as u can see. I told my parents and I got involved in a ton of stuff instead of cutting myself. I work at as a volenteer at a theripedic horse riding center, I am a cheerleader, and I have a boyfriend! Try getting into stuff like sports and try new friends. Surrounding yur self by friends can help.
U're welcome. HOPE I HELPED!
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i've liked this guy for a while. lets call him bill. and we're pretty good friends. so lately i've been getting some signals from him. we took some pics with his head on mine and people made him put his arm around me but yet it stayed there until i got up to do something. then hes all "i miss u wanna see you" when he was gone. and lately we've been getting tormented cuz people think that we like each other. well i like him but that not the point lol. so lately hes been blowing me off not talking to me at school and barely online anymore. i'm so confused! please help! does he like me like everyone thinks he does or what?!?!!
Go up to him and ask why he's blowin u off. It's worth while ain't it! And my advice kiss him and go out already
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