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i am 15 years old and i have a boyfriend and i dont take other peoples boyfriends away (like lostgrl616 thinks i do) man what a great friend she is?but i have a newphew and he is 2 years old and i have one brother and he is getting married in augest which his soon to be wife also has a child and he is also 2years old i like to play softball and hang out with friends and ride my four wheeler look at cars go to the movces shop and i have 9 piercings all im my ears and i want my nose pierced and also my belly button but i hope you can understand a little bit more about me and people call me desirae or desi or des

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ok i have a gf lets call her dani well i asked dani out like a week ago and me and her are ok been talking on the phone online but we haven't gone anywhere and all my friends are like take her to DQ and take her tqo the moviesso i said no. But now im thinking of it shold i take her out and where? and her parents donr know and she doesnt have an older sister or bother to take her anywhere.What should i do tell her to go with a friend and i pay for both or pay for dani and stuff? What should i do!!!???{were both 13 and we love each other}

well maybe you can bring a friend for he friend so then your friend can pay for her friend or if you want to be a really nice guy pay for her friend to but yeah take her to the movies a scary one so that when she gets scared she will jump on you most guys like that well i hope i helped
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we both know that we like each other and we flirt like crazy. we are now starting to cuddle a lot. and i make him laugh he makes me laugh and i really like him alot. and we are definitely hugging a lot. i am running out of ideas about what to do. he can't have a gf right now cuz of his school work (it's bad). so what do i do? i'm a 17 year old girl.

well you guys dont have to be boyfriend and girlfriend you can be friends with benifits and stuff like that and when his grades do come up then i am sure that every thing will work out so i think that you should wait and just give it time if you to do really like each other i am sure that you can wait
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13/f. OH MY GAWD. K so like I just have a 5 person orgy. (we usd condums) but the guy I was doing at the time has an std and he wore a condom but it broke and he spermed in me. And then I had sex with 2 other guys and rubbed my vagina on a chick. We all might be in danger. Today my vagina was bleeding! What do I do? I might be pregnant and have an std, and Im apposed to have sex again today with a different guy! Wut do I do?!?!?! help me!!

xoxo

P.S. Dont call me a slut cause im not!

ok you are only 13 you are a slut. if you knew that the guy had std then why would you go and have a 5 person orgy? you are really stupid. and maybe all of you guys should go get tested. it would be the smart thing to do but that is asking to much for you to do i dont kno what to tell you exept you are a slut hope i helped rate me
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My boyfriend broke up with me 3 weeks ago. I really like him still but today he asked out my ex best friend. She said no but told my friend she only said that because of me. She told her that she is thinking about saying yes to him. The thing is, she has always hated him. We broke friends because I spent too much time with him and now she's saying she's thinking about going out with him. We're still kind of friends but not as good as we used to be, she knows how I feel about him. I don't think she even likes him that much, why is she doing this?

she could be doing this because she is jelous and maybe she still wants to be your friend and that she didnt want to hurt you and that she wants to be friends or she thinks that you are going to say something to him so i dont know just i hope that things will work out for you and your friend.rate me
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ok my grandma used to live with me and she passed away(in my living room) and everytime i close my eyes to go to sleep i see her laying in her bed and she is Dead i do not know what is wrong with me! i have not been able to get to sleep for awhile. Does anyone know what i can do without seeing anyone??? Please help me
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well if you see her a lot still it means that she is looking over your family and if you dont want her there and you think that it is her ghost tell it to go away be like your dead go away like 3 4 times it should work hope i helped
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I used to like this boy and I found out he was a total idiot. I used 2 like b in love with him and I don't even know why. The sad part is I lost him to an "Artificial Plastic Barbie". This girl so plastic its scary. She dyed her hair blonde and its like bleach blonde. She wears globs of eye makeup like you can't imagine to cover up wrinkles she has and thats why I consider her "artificial". I don't kno why he likes her, but now they both talk about me behind my back and say how weird I am and stuff, and I didn't even do anything to them! Now this feeling of love that I used to have has turned into hate. I have never hated anyone really, and I have never hated anyone this strongly. I hate her and him for just liking each other. It bothers me. I can't concentrate in class, I can't sleep, I can't have a normal conversation with my friends anymore without mentioning how much I hate them. I don't want to be this way, but I just am. I really need some help!

~ Doesn't wanna b a hater ~

its fine that you hate him you will get over it he is probley only with her cause she is fake and he wants a piece of ace(@$$)and well i dont think that you should even worry about them just be yourself with your friends i just still think that you have feelings for him which is why you hate him is because you still are in love with him hope i helped
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my friend knows i like him and i gave him my number today cause my friend gave him the wrong number. and i gave him ahug and he gave me one back. he seems to be protecting me by standing up for me when people make fun of me or when people are stocking me like this one boy who likes me but i don't ike him. does this mean anything that he is standing up for me?! could it be a sign of love?! what should i do to thank him?

well i think that you should thank him tell him that you like him and then make a move i can tell that he does like you or wants to get to know you more so let him know you i think that things will work out betwwen you to and well make a move and its good that a guy will stick up for you and yeah it does probley mean that he will love you
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uMmMMM.. ii like this guy n he said he likes me but.. i liked him at the beginiinq of the year n he broke my heart 3 times be4 sOo ii dont know what i shud do shud i just ask him out or move on since he hurt me be4

well i think that maybe you should move on because he has broke your heart before and think that you can find some one better then him ne way you dont want someone to break your heart do so i think you should move on you will find the right guy
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Okay i have this friend who has a sorta g/f in another state...they only see eahother 6 weeks out of the year (camp)and they rarely ever talk on the phone, only a little bit on the internet. He's been really upset about not seeing her and shiz b/c of the past holiday season and upcoming holiday. I'm want to convince him having a long distance relationship is too hard but i don't want to just tell him flat out its wrong.I know that its not my business to tell him who to date but i just don't want him to be sad anymore. He's always sad and i don't like him being sad...so how do i do that? Someone please help me! Thanx! I appreciate it!

maybe you should just come out and tell him like they will still be friends and he will thatnk you i mean you are only looking out for your friend and he should resect that and i am sure that later on he will hope i helped
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hi .. i'm 13/f and i'm trying to break into the modeling industry... but i found out that most industries require you to show parts that i would prefer not to... does anyone know of any modest ((perhaps christion)) modeling agencies in the new york area... thanks in advance =)


~>Rae

well i dont know any but maybe you can search on google . com hope i helped and that things work out
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i need an answer with in 25-30 mintues
alright so theres a guy basketball game at 6..my best friend wants me to go and she just called the thing is my boyfriend is over protective like that so he mite care if i went to a guys basketball game but..hes playing football sot heres no way i can call him and ask him or w.e for a while..should i just go and tel him and tkae the chance or should i go and say i went shopping with ym mom or should i just stay home?

i think that he should trust you and that you need to go because if he loves you then he can trust you hope i helped rate me
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Ok i have been with this guy for like 8 months and i really love him hes only had like 2 other real g/fs and his longest relationship was 5 months..the only thing he did was finger one of them and she asked for it hes never got anything and we have done alot more stuff but i am so jealous of them and i dont know why and both of them are ugly so am i jealous and how do i get over them?

hahahhahahah i know this one grl and she has the same exact sorry as you that is preety crazy and then she aslo likes to cook i mean what kind of world is this shelby YOU NEED TO FORGET ABOUT HIS EX GIRLFRIENDS IF HE DIDNT LOVE YOU WHY WOULD HE BE WITH YOU FOR THIS LONG ?????YEAH GET IT THROUGH YOUR HEAD YOU ROOSTER AHAHAHAAHAHAHA!!!!!!
BUT YEAH THINK BOUT IT SHELBERZ HE DOESNT LOVE THEM AND WHAT YOU GUYS HAVE BEEN THROUGH IS EVERY THING SO JUST STOP THINKING ABOUT IT I MEAN I DO THE SAME WITH ROBERT ONLY CAUSE THAT WHOLE PICTURE THING REMEBER THAT GRL JESSICA WELL YEAH I AM JELOUSE OF HER CAUSE THEY WENT OUT FOR 7 MONTHS AND SOMETIMES I THINK THAT HE STILL LOVES HER AND NOT ME BUT HE SAYS HE DOESNT SO GO WITH WHAT YOUR BOYFRIEND DOES HOPE I HELPED RATE ME
DRJWLC4 HAHAHAHAHAH YOU ARE A LLAMA LOVER YOU TURKEY LAUGHER

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what do you do when ur a freshman dating a sophomores (14/f) and all the sophomore girls hate you bc ur dating a sophomore? all these sophomores are getting all these other people to be against you, what do you do?

i m dating a sofomore to and i am a freshman i dont think that it matters who you are going out with as long as that person likes you to just why dont you tell them to f off or something because there is nothing that they can do i mean like what if they go out with juniors then what do those juniors do get mad?those sofomore girls dont own your man so dont even let them get to you hope i helped
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Heya Im 15 (in 6 days) and female! There is this guy i like him he likes me. But he is popular (captain of the football team) and im not popular his mates cant stand me thus because im not popular. He hasnt told me he fancies me but tells me im pretty and calls me 'bubby' (babe). And he makes it obvious he does. We only smile to each other have talked a few times but he always makes the first move. Are there any good tactics that i can approach him with? How do i fake being confident? Because i get so scared of his friends.No one believes i can get a bf because im not popular but i have faith in myself i just need to put that faith into practice . please reply thanks ever so much xxx .

i dont think that it should matter what his friends think i think that it should only mateer what he thinks he should not listen to hhis friends just because they dont likwe you dont let them fool you if they say that he doesnt like you just be yourself and maybe you can try maiking the first move it doesnt matter if yoiu are popular or not well i hope that i helped rate me
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what are some good sites for teenagers. like advice, stuff on beauty, fitness, and stuff that teenage girls would like! im always bored so i just wanted to know a few sites so i can unbored myself! &heart; nothing disgusting please! thanks

well if you like clothes then maybe you can go to like alloy.com or delias.com and maybe that willl help you hope i helped rate me
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Ok im 14 yrs old and i want to get into some kind of cooking class and i canot fine ANYTHING online.....will sum1 PLZ help!!

maybe you can go to www.google.com and then type in cooking classes hope i helped
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Okay so I've been goin out with guy for about...4 months and i dont really like him.But it would feel soo weired if i dumped him bcuz hes a big part in my life.Idk what to do...

well if you dont like him then you can find someone elsse who is a bigger part of your life and that it isnt fair to him if ou are leading him on and that he can still be a big part of your life when you to are still really good friends even if you to break up well hope i helped
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What do you get for a Male who is 16 likes heavy metal music, likes family guy, and doing dnagerous stunts?!

maybe you can go to hot topic in the mall and bring him with you and then he picks out a few things that he likes but then you pay for it
maybe a cd or something
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I like someone and my crush likes me too. Whenever he tells me to call i make up an excuse not to because i get really nervous. Hes getting sick of it what should i do ?

i think that you do need to call him if you like him n he isnt gunna wait forever for you so call him the next time he tells you to and everyone gets nervous it is natural
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several years ago, I was best friends with this girl , we were each others confidant, and could tell anything to each other. The rest of the crowd really didn't matter if we were together. It was after a year of knowing her that I realized that I was absolutely in love with her. I didn't do anything at that point because I was in the middle of applying for school.

It's been a couple of years now, and I'm still in love with her. She went off to college in another state, and our lives have gone off in different directions. Her life has changed (she's popular, beautiful etc. which she wasn't in high school), so i don't talk to her anymore, but I still can't get her out of my mind. I haven't been able to date or even be interested in another girl- because I know that she was the one for me. We both graduate next year, and I'm wondering if I should just lay it all on the line, and offer her my heart. WHat do you think? I rate well. -LloydDobbler-

P.S. This is a really complicated story and if you want to help me beyond this, i'd appreciate it.

well maybe you should get her # and maybe call her and then you to start to talk like every day and then you guys finally see each other and then you offer her your heart it seems like she liked you to and have you guys talked since hyigh school? well just give her a call get on a plane find out were she lives and go to her house and suprise her well i hope i helped and every thing works out
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