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I have a pair of skinny jeans that are just blue jean. I have a couple shirts I got over the weekend and i need to know which shirt looks the best with these jeans.

Shirts I have :

-Pink shirt with cupcakes cookies and lolipops on it.
-Navy blue shirt with new oreleans saints symbols on it and a humming bird or each of the top corners.
-An Alicine wonderland shirt where she is walking through the forest
-A pink and white striped shirt that has half sleeves.

Thanks for the help :] (link)
i think the alice in wonderland shirt sounds cute. if your just wearing jeans, you want your shirt to stand out. also try wearing a lot of dangly bracelets/neclaces. that goes great with jeans.


Alright...christmas is in 3 days...and i STILL haven't gotten my boyfriend anything! I have no idea wat to get him, and im really starting to freak out. I need some ideas as soon as possible!!!
thanx!! (link)
ok well my best friend just did this for her boyfriend for their one year anniversery and he loved it. it may seem kind of babyish, but it's really cute. you could get him a build a bear. you could name it a nickname you have for him and get like a shirt with the sports team he likes and all the accesories. it's so cute to give to them.

if you don't like that idea you could make a bag of stuff that's like stuff that reminds you of him. a poster from a movie. a rock because your love is solid. stuff like that.

hope i helped!


Well im in this calss called advanced academic literacies and we have to present our travel business that my team and i came up with to the teacher. It will be video taped and all finalists go infront of the board of ed and administration from different school, it's actually a really big deal. Other companies will also be there. We present the week after new years and i would love some great ideas to use to make the project stand out, but not too cheesy and the presentation has to be within 5-7 minutes exactly. What are some ideas that will grab peoples attention and be like "ooo theres was really good?" thanks... (link)
you could do it in the form of a commercail or an infomercail.

good luck


i broke up with my boyfriend but i think he wants us to be bf and gf again and my friends think i still like him and the days go by and i get stupid and go back together with him i dont know what to do can someone help me please (link)
I was actually in the exact same situation recently.
Your probably more afraid of hurting him than yourself.
Do you like him?
If you don't, don't get back together and if you are already back together (I couldnt tell by the wording of your queastion) you have to let him down easy. You can try one of two options that helped me:
1. Tell him you want to take your status down to just friends, that feels like less of a breakup and just a status change
OR
2. Tell him you have a lot (nothing to do with him) going on in your life, and you need to take a break with him and just sort it out. Tell him that on a date you pick (probably about a week after) you will discuss your relationship again. when you discuss it (if he even remembers) just go with the whole...you have a lot of stuff going on thing. try to make him feel like hes the one breaking up with you.

If you do like him, just enjoy his company and see what happens.


everyone on myspace says 'hollerback'. what does that mean and can you maybe use it in a sentence so i can understand it better. thanks :] (link)
hollerback means respond.

like if you left a comment for someone instead of saying "comment me back" or "respond" you could just say "hollerback"


Hohumm. The ever popular question:

What did he mean by when he said this?

We were talking about girls at my school[they are really skinny]

He lives in NC and I live in TX. 16/f 16/m.

He says:
But I hate "sticks"
I say:
Now I really wish the boys here were like you D:
He says:
me too [insertmyname] me too
I say:
You wish the boys here were like you? :3
He says:
I dont know, yes and no, on one hand you get to hang out with me all day on the other well you know.

I dont get it >_ (link)
I think that he meant if he were the boys you hang out with...he would be happy because he would get to hang out with YOU. i don't what he meant by the second part. I would just ask him.

good luck.


what exactly happens when your water breaks? (link)
It means your going into labor!
Get to a hospital! NOW!


Yesterday I ran away.
I've been ditching alot and I have plans in life with my friends and they are like everything to me.
I hate school.
I hated being home so much I asked my friend if I could stay at her house and my mom hates her. she said no because she didnt want the cops coming to her house.
She took me home and I stayed there for an hour and I cried and I stopped a realized I didn't want to be there
I live in las vegas so I pretty much walked 20 miles to my friends house and I stayed there.
I felt bad but I had nowhere to go and I just needed to be away for the weekend.
Well my mom found her number and called her and threatened to get the police on her.Well instead she told her to come pick me up at 530 and she did because I didn't want to do that to my friend.
I'm still so very miserable here.
What should I do? I'm just so confused I need someone to talk to
anyone (link)
Tell your mom your not happy. don't say you never want to come home again that would piss her off.

Just say, im really not happy at the moment. I feel like i need to get away for the weekend.
Even if i cant stay at my friends house, can i stay with nearby relative or family friend for a few days to clear my head.

You have to sound mature and determined.

If that doesn't work, try talking to your school guidence counsler. I know it may seem stupid, but if theres one person who will get your parents to listen, its that kind of person.



Ahh i'm so frustrated--first of all for whatever reason my iTunes Music Store is not working.. whenever i try and open it a message comes up that reads "iTunes could not connect to the iTunes Store. The network connection timed out. Make sure your network settings are correct and your network connection is active, then try again" Besides this message, when i plus my iPod (nano) into my computer it doesn't show up on iTunes that it is plugged in... therefore i cannot update my iPod.... Suggestions anybody? :'[ (link)
Ok...for the ipod not lining up. the same thing happened with me.

go to itunes.com and download the latest edition of itunes. your itunes is probably just oudated compared to your ipod. thats what happened with me. (by the way in case your wondering even when you download the new edition, you keep all of your songs).

As for not being able to open the store, that only should happen if you have no internet connection or a very weak signal. do you have internet on that computer? if not, that is the problem.

hope i helped


You know those abercrombie jackets, or even hollisters.. you know how you see alot of girls, where they dont zip it up like right below there chest? & it looks like its 2 sizes to small. Well, when i went to go try one on, it was the same way, & i thought i was fat, bc it was so tiny, so is that the style? or is it just me? i deff. never thought i was fat before. i meann, i'm only 110 & 5'4.? (link)
No, it is the style.

I don't really like it because if it's a sweatshirt it should cover more than half your upper body, but thats just my oponion.

I've tried sweatshirts on there too and i am deffinetly not fat and they fit me the same way. same with all my friends.

dont sweat it. if you don't like the style try a not so name-brand store...like mandees or khols



I like my best friends boyfriend. I can't help it! I would NEVER date him, even if they broke up because thats just wrong and mean to my best friend. What can I do to get over him? He seems perfect and I wish that my best friend hadnt gone out with him in the first place. But I feel really bad for thinking that. (link)
Ok i just went through the same exact thing.
Don't tell yourself you could never date him because then your heart will like him more because of the "want what you cant have" thing.

i mean if they broke up you could go out with him like two years later.

First of all you need to tell a close friend that you trust (not his girlfriend).

Then just try to stop talking to him as much.
And relax, time will heal all wounds.

hope i helped, and if you have a more specific queastion just let me know.


I have this "friend" that I have been talking too for awhile. we have gone out one dates together. The other night i had texted her to say hello and got no response for most of the day. I had told her that I was going out that night, which i had no response. Eventually she texted me told me how busy she was and that she was on a date at the moment. Cant tell if she is trying to make me jealous especially when had told me that i was the one for her (link)
Ok well your relationship at the moment sounds WAY too complicated.

I really can't tell what your queastion is.

Do you like her??

If you like her then you need to tell her that. Just me like I felt so jealous when you were on that date cause I really like you. (girls love cheesiness).

If you don't like her then tell her that. Just be like, i dont know what our relationship is, but i would like to stay just friends.

Either way you just need to lay things on the table and find out whats going on because your getting into a complicated mess here.

Oh and by the way she probably WAS trying to make you jealous.

Hope I helped and good luck!


is this: http://www.claires.com/product.asp?name=prod&color=black&rcid=21&id=2733&scid=24 supposed to be a coach wallet? i know its not real but is it made to imitate coach? thanks (link)
yes. the G's might throw you off, but thats the way they are on fakes. its made to be a fake-coach but because of the G's you wont fool anyone.



Sigh...ive been reviewing the answers to other peoples questions about what to get for their boyfriends....and i just cant find anything that clicks. ive also been researching alot...but im hoping just one of you can help me out! :-)

So my boyfriend and i have been dating for a year now...and hes given me the most romantic presents and like presented them in the cutest ways...and i just dont feel like i can compare.
Does anyone have ANY really romantic thing to give him that will finally even us up? (if it helps...hes a 16 year old basketball/soccer player..dresses preppy..board game player...romantic...uhm...idk what else)
Thanks to all answers! (link)
ok well i dont know what your budget or resources are, but a moonlit picnic somewhere (since its so cold, you could do it somewhere like your basement or attic) is romatic. and there you could present him with like a bag of stuff that reminds you of him (include like hershey kisses, a poster from a movie you saw with him, a picture of you two together, etc). wrap it really nicely with lots of bows and stuff.

it would be really cute if to like find out either where you are or where the gift is you could send him on a scavenger hunt. the things could be either general clues or things about your relationship. you could have a mutual friend hand him the first clue and the put the other clues at stops along the way. include a note saying that the scavenger hunt is the beginging of your xmas present, and that at the end waits a suprise. also make sure you include in the note that you love him (if u've said that to each other obviously).

hope i helped!


My boyfriend and I have been dating for the past 5 months. he broke it off, and i'm heart broken! its been atleast a month, {the whole reason he did it in the first place was because he told me that he loved me, i kinda sorta freaked out because i didn't want him to just be joking with me and then i tell him that i'm in love with him and he says i was jking.} but i am in love with himm!! i didn't realize this until we ended it. we still "date" but we're just not official. like we do everything we did while we were dating but, we're just not official. all of his friends tell me that he acts like he wants me back, and i've heard it from like everyone. but he doesnt' really talk to his friends about me like you know i do to my friends about him, so i'm just confused on what to do....

i really really really really really want him back but i'm not sure like what i should do? (link)
tell him

give him a box of chocolate (the way to a mans heart is through his stomach) and put a note inside that says...
i miss you (or something cheesy like that) do you miss me too?
with a yes or no that he can circle

good luck


so i have this friend, and she's been my best friend. But lately she's been acting different. And it's not like she hangs around differnt people or acting obnoxious, she just never invites me over, or includes me that much. I'm kind of uncomfortable around her now, but my school is so small that i dont really have any other friends, and the ones i do have are all leaving. Help?! (link)
this recently happened with me and my friend.

my advice?
just talk to her about it.
maybe somethings wrong that you dont know about.
maybe she wants space.
maybe she just didnt realize it.

no one can read minds.

you can either talk to her directly, or if that makes you uncomfortable send an email or rite a note.

in the email/note explain your fears but also write what a good friend she is, how much fun you have togehter, remind her of the good times, so that even if she was trying to get some space, maybe she will be reeled back in, but make sure you also explain your fears.

hope i helped!


On a cingular plan does incoming text messages charge you 10 cents every time you open it or only when you send one out? (link)
anything opened incoming, your charged for.
every outgoing text, your charged for.


ok i'll start this off with the truth, i fucked this up. but i regret it so much and just would like help. theres this guy josh, and i've never had as much in common with a person as i do with him, he used to like me alot and he told me we will probably have a future as more than friends again. from the second we first met we liked eacxhother.a few weeks went by and we werent even together yet, and one night i was very drunk and tried to make a move on his friend because i thoght he ditched me. hes not your average person and takes things very personally so he got very mad. he told me he didnt like me anymore and 2 days later told me he likes someone else. the thing is he still ims me every day, and when i saw him yesterday he told me that he never gives second chances, but for someone like me he probably will in time and that when he saw me he got butterflies in his stomach. hes saying all this when hes telling some other girl he likes her too. he keeps switching the way he feels on and off and its just really confusing me and giving me hope, and i dont know if its false hope or not. i guess the best thing to do is just wait it out, but if theres anyother advice anyone has id really appreciate it. (link)
ok...this kind of conversation might be akward.
so you might want to write a note or send an email. if he doesnt respond to either, then you have to confront him face-to-face or on im about it.

in the email say kind of what you said in your queastion. tell him you know you fucked up bad, but you were drunk, and you REALLY like him and you have so much in commen, and cant he please just give you a second chance. does he like you or this girl? you want him to be honest with you...etc

make sure in the email you sound sad, not mad or anything. because if you get mad he'll just get mad back. but if a girls sad, guys give in easier.

hope i helped


Hey im greg a 10th grader in average america and have a very extremly annoying love triangle problem.
So obviously there is this girl and w/e you no i like her she likes me you no so im hearing all this stuff that she likes me i like her so friday night comes and not totally but pretty much igonres me and was hanging out with this other kid scott. So i get home and talk to her online and are like wtf and she was like listen i really like you but scott likes me and me and him are really really good friends and i dont want him to not be friends with me if i go out with you and stuff. and i dont want to make her choose between us or anything like that but idk wat to do she thinks i want her to choose and are making it hard for her. k hopfully you can help me thnx. (link)
well, from a girl's perspective, that would be a hard situation to deal with.

tell her your not trying to make her choose, you just like her a lot, and dont want to lose this chance.
ask her if it would be ok if you talked to scott. you promise you won't be mean you just want to find out what the deal is.
if she says its ok, just tell scott:
i really like this girl, and i think i might have a chance. she doesnt want to lose her friendship with you, but thats all she wants to be is friends. is it ok if we go out?
and see what he says. if he says no and is a jerk about it, well then maybe the girl you like will see he is a jerk. and if he says its fine, go for it.

good luck!


What does it mean if you give someone your heart? Like, I got a question from my bf; it said 'if I gave you my heart would you love it or let it go'.

thankyou (link)
well i think what he meant was if he gave you all the love he had. thats just a pretty way of saying it.
if you love your boyfriend, you would love his love. so you would love his heart.
by letting it go it would mean not loving him back or mistreating his love.

hope i helped!

PS any guy who says that sounds like a really sweet guy




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