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I'm 19, just graduated from high school. I have a boyfriend, his name is Josh, and I love him. I am pretty good at giving advice. I'm just not ever any good at taking my own advice. haha Always have been. I can help everyone else except for myself.

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I've figured out that i am bi...but i am a christian..and i realize how wrong it is...and i hate myself for it...im trying to change myself.....but its hard for me to completely stop liking guys....but its so wrong...in the bible it says that doing stuff with another guy is an abomination..and they should be destroyed..that scares me..so i am trying to fight it off..i have a gf...and she's helping me thru it too...but my ? is...is it really wrong to be bi?..

Of course it's not wrong to be bi. I'm a christian too and I don't find anythign wrong with being gay or being bi. I guess what no one ever told you is that as soon as you accept Jesus into your heart you're forgiven for every one of your sins that you make or have made. That's why people who have accepted Christ as their savior and commit suicide don't go to hell. Even though people tell you, you will. That's how Jesus works, now isn't that great? So for those who say it's a sin and you're going to hell, aren't right at all. Just accept yourself as you are. And those who love you will do the same. Good luck and I hope you finally find out who you are. :)

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okay... i've been pondering this for a very long time now... say that you've been going out with a guy for a while and he's a year older than you... say when you met you were 16 and he was 17... when he turns 18 and you're 17 and you have sex... why would it be illegal? i mean it's not like he's 32 and you're 17... i really don't see anything wrong with that... also if you've had sex with the guy before like while you were 16 and he was 17 it would seem really stupid to not have sex for a year until the other person becomes legal... i'm sorry if this is confusing but i've always wondered

It's not stupid.. hmm... in some states the age of consent is different. Like in south carolina it's 16. That means a 16 girl can go out and have sex with an older guy. Check with your state laws, see what you can do about it. I don't see why it would be illegal though. Since there's only a year difference in age.

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Okay..I just broke up w/ my ex like 2 days ago and we were together for about 4 months.I went to a party last night and i met this guy and hes a 16 (im 13) and we like kidna hooked up and now i feel really bad since i just broke up w/ my ex..But I like the guy i met and me and him like eachother and everything but like my ex still likes me a lot and I dono if i should just worry about my feelings or be nice and worry about me ex's!Cuz i like this new guy a lot and he wants to go out and stuff.i dono..PLEASE HELP!

hmmm... are you sure this new guy doesn't just like you because y'all hoooked up?? I mean he might just think you're an easy girl and he likes that type of thing.. I mean it sounds like this guy is just interested in really one thing. I dunno, though, since I'm not you or the guy. If you like the guy, go for it, but guard yourself closely. Because if you get in to deep, chances are he's gonna hurt you in the long run.

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my mom just got married,so i have a stepdad...i don't like him cause he doesnt do nothin & tells me what to do...all he does is sit in his ''spider man'' underwear & watches buffy-the-vampire...how do i try to get along with him????
HELP ME....

Well first off, this man (who is not even your real father) should not be walkign around in nothing but his underwear around you. That's just kind've odd. Second, talk to your mom. Tell her how you feel and maybe she can arrange something for the two of you. :)

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ok say your in deep love but then you see another guy walk bye and say to ur friends oo hottie what does that mean? does it mean the guy you in love with ur not really in love with or is it just normal for ppl to do that?

Just because you say someoen is hot does not mean you aren't in love with the current person you are with. Just don't like it develop into more than you thinking he's a hottie.

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I'm not sure whether this beinglongs in activsm or not but I think that when the airplanes hit the twin towers on 9/11, the terroists actually thought what they were doing what the right thing to do. I know that they shouldn't have done it in such a destructive manner but isn't that what we're doing now? We're completely destroying Iraq and are we immature enough to say when we all realize that this was an idiotic thing to do, "Well, they started it!" Does anybody else agree with me?

-Insecure-

I completely agree with you and I know I'm going to catch hell for this, but so what.. I don't know any of you.

The war is one big waste. We went to find weapons of mass destruction and we've yet to find them.. but still our soldiers and innocence people are dying everyday because the so called leader of our country can't get his act together and get our men out of there. We got Sadaam. What more does Bush want? Oil? Does he not realize that the Iraq people aren't gonna give it up without a fight? That's why the gas prices are so outrageous. We can get oil from other places.. Hell... Alaska has enough oil to keep us going for at least 20 or 30 years but Bush doesn't seem to care about that. He just wants to wage war against people who've done nothing to us (except for the terrorist and they weren't from Iraq they were from Afganistan). And now that no more people are volunteering to go to war anymore, Bush has decided he wants to make a draft starting in 2005. And if the bill is passed anyone who turns 18 can just be drafted right into the war. Do you think that's fair to make someone who doesn't even believe in the crap, go? Didn't think so.

ANd about another girls statement she made about either being with the terrorist or with your country.. Well you don't have to support the war just to support your country. I love America.. I just don't like the way it's being run.

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i was renovating my house when one of the workman found a sum of money hidden in the wall. Abou this time the previous owner of the house arrived and claimed that he "left something behind" that his late uncle left hidden of whom he inherited the house from. i claim that it is mine. the workman wont hand it over on the basis of "finders keepers". can anyone help give me advice on whom has the better right to the money?

Technically yes it is yours. Since you now own the house. It's not the workers because well he doesn't own the house and it's not the previous owners.. Now if he still owned the house it would be.. What you need to do is contact a lawyer and see what they say.. :)

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i've been going out with my boyfriend for nearly 2 months now and we're both too shy to kiss, we both said we wanted to but neither of us has the guts to make the first move. I don't know how to make a move on him and i'm scared that it'll all go wrong but i'm sick of my friends calling me a fridge. what do i do? :(

One day while you're just sitting somewhere like on a couch, at a movie, outside, ANYWHERE! AS long as you feel like you're ready just lean in and give him a kiss. Don't go full-frontal the first time.. Just a peck will do. Then.. let him take it further if he wants..

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How do gay guys have sex? I now how leisbian have it but buti don't no how guys do!

They either do it anal or give each other blow jobs.. At least that's what I've been told.. *shrugs*

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