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i've been dating this guy for 3 months now, and when we cuddle with eacother, he usually puts his hand on my stomach a lot. Not only that, but when we hold hands, he sometimes nibbles on my fingers. what does his actions mean? female/17
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he's trying to turn you on :)
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ok so im 13 and i believe im bisexual but im not very open about it (i told my 2 bffs and then 1 got pissed off at me and told someone and now like 10 others have heard :*( ) but i have never had a relationship with either a guy or a girl. i wanna know who the lesbians and bisexuals are in my school cause i might want to get 2 know some of them. how can i find that out without going up 2 every girl and asking if they are attracted 2 girls?!?! (link)
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you just have to wait till some start being open about it which usually happens in highschool. :)
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Let's just cut to the chase, I can't eat in front of any boy that I like! It's so awkward and I just stopped eating at lunch. It got so bad that everyone started called me anorexic and I broke up with my boyfriend! Isn't that terrible? I am in 8th grade and this all started in 7th grade... The truth is that I really like him and I really want the relationship to work! I have gone out with him three times and I broke up with him for the same reason each time. I have been looking up the answers to my problems in yahoo and I read that many people go through what I go through everyday. I think that people are starting to see the pattern so I really need together over this! What are some steps I could go through to overcome this awkward stage in my life??? Also, I can't do anything in front of him! I don't even want him to see my hands! (I don't like them). I can't do simple things like run in front of him either because I'm afraid that my run will look too stupid! Ugh help, please! (link)
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you need to eat lunch honey! you actually gain weight if you skip meals just eat less calories and make better choices:)
im sure you're a beautiful girl and you're just a little self concious.
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This is really painful, I can't even find a word that sums up exactly how I feel.
I'm having a really hard time coming to grips with the fact that the person I fell in love with isn't really who I thought they were. It was an act. It was real for me; everything I said to him - how I felt.. was real. But I didn't mean nearly as much to him as he does to me. It was all fake, at least that's the conclusion I've come to.
I've known him for almost four years now. We started dating about 2 years ago, and it's been on and off. It started off really good, and then just went downhill from there. My best friend, who lives in Missouri (we're in Texas), told me he was texting and calling her telling her he loved her and wanted her to come back to Texas. It lasted literally our whole relationship which lasted about three months, and it was extremely stressful. I wanted to believe both of them. But I eventually ended up breaking up with him because he lived about 20 minutes away and neither of us has a car so we hardly saw one another. He would go days, even a week or so sometimes, without talking to me. And I'd never say anything just to keep peace; I didn't want to be a "bitchy" girlfriend. But I finally had enough and ended it. We kept in touch every once in awhile.
He would say things like "I don't even want a girlfriend right now unless it's you". So I kept talking to him to see if he wanted to try things again, but things never moved forward. He'd still talk to me and tell me how he felt about me, but I sensed something wasn't quite right. Back in October I went to MEPS for the Army and they put me in a hotel the night prior to going so we could all go at once. On this day he was texting me that I was the only girl he wanted. I got on the computer at the hotel and went on Myspace (which I deleted after this incident, it hurt so much) and saw that his profile picture had changed. It was of him and a girl laying in his bed. I went to his pictures and there was a whole album of him and his new girlfriend. My whole body tingled, my hands got clammy, and I felt like I was going to throw up all over the keyboard. I felt my heart constrict in my chest. He had JUST been telling me a few hours ago I was the only girl he wanted. I texted him saying "You had me fooled, don't ever talk to me again". He never responded. It's all I thought about at MEPS the next day.
Almost five months later, In February, he found me on Facebook (I'm sure he'd noticed I'd deleted my Myspace, he loves getting ahold of me way AFTER he hurts me). He posted on my wall saying "Wow, this is crazy I was just looking for you on this sh-t the other day". He had slithered his way back into my life..
Between February and now, there was about a two month period where we didn't speak. Then he called me on May 31 and we talked for maybe four hours or so. Let me sum up what he told me:
He said he was so in love with me; that he wanted to marry me, and have kids with him someday.
Now elaborate that to fit four hours of conversation. If you've been in a relationship then you know the little things we said to each other, that's just a summary. I didn't want to believe him, but I did. Because I love him.
Now he's ignoring me again. His ex girlfriend I knew from years ago found me on Facebook and called me. What a coincidence, right? She asked if I still talked to him, so I told her everything. It felt good to talk to someone who understood how he was. She had an app on her iPhone that makes up a fake number so you can text or call someone without them having your real number. She was texting him and in those texts he denied saying he wanted to marry me, and then he had his GIRLFRIEND text her telling her to "leave her man alone".. This is the second time he's had a girlfriend behind my back. He wanted to marry me?? While he's got a girlfriend?? I was so pissed and hurt I started crying. She said "Do you want me to call him on three-way so you can hear it for yourself?" and I said yes.
I listened in and he had no idea. I heard every word. "She's f**kin' crazy! She's obssessed with me, I think she likes that I don't like her. If I'm gonna marry ANYONE it'll be the girl I'm with now, I'm in LOVE with her!"...
....He called me, remember.. he's the one who poured his heart out first.. how am I crazy?
Another thing that makes this even worse is that I had sex with him after we had that long conversation and I found out a week ago that I came up positive for Chlamydia. So not only did he cheat on his new girlfriend with me, who he said he wants to marry, but he gave me an std. She has it too now, I'm sure. But she'll just have to learn about him the hard way like I did, right?
On top of this, remember that "best friend" I had? Well, he showed his phone to me and she was texting him things of a sexual nature. I'm not friends with her anymore, obviously. It made me think "how long has THAT been going on without my knowledge??".
So I'm leaving on the 20th for basic training. All of this happened within the same two weeks.
It hurts so much. Everything he has ever told me was probably a lie. He cheated on me, and had girlfriends behind my back.. and all the while he was pretending to love me. I think I fell in love with a "character". Nothing more than an act. And my best friend betrayed me. I got screwed over by two MAJOR people in my life so close together.
He tried to get ahold of me the other night, but I ignored the attempt. He's actually probaby part of the statistic of mentally abusive people out there, I most likely need therapy because of the things he's told me and done to me over time. And how controlling he is.. What do I do now? How do I begin to move on? Should I even say anything to him? He supposedly thinks I'm crazy, so I should just keep up my progress of not talking to him right? Am I nuts for even caring about this, am I crazy?????? :'( Please help... (link)
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girl i know how you feel. you will always care but don't let it show, totally ignore him and cut off contact and it will get better in time.
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I am in a tricky situation where I'm trying to get with this girl. I'm not saying I haven't had my first, I'm saying I have never had a kiss with feeling. I get close to her, but can't find the opening, Im worried if I try she'll think I'm pushy. Please help (link)
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hold her face and really mean it and do it slowly. you could also pick her up and kiss her:)
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We had sex last night and she started crying. What can I do to comfort her ? (link)
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find out why she was crying. if it was just emotions comfort her with kisses and stuff but if it was painful take it easier and make sure there's enough foreplay so shes ready ya know downstairs. :) hope i helped
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Can you get in trouble if you are at a party or someones house and they are doing like heroine or something, can you get in trouble for just being there?
Just purely curious :)
well actually what if people are just doin pot and I'm there can I get in trouble if the cops come? (link)
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oh yea you can. i suggest not being around people like that in any situation..it could never end well.
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I am a female. Me and my boyfriend have been discussing taking the next step in our relationship, and we are both ready. But I was just wondering...what do you ladies do while your man fingers you? I don't really know what I'm supposed to do as the recipient. Laying there doing nothing just seems like it would be awkward. Any pointers? (link)
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breathe a little hard and moan and kiss him. guys love that:)
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so i have these ugly black spots all over my legs and i was told that it's because of shaving i can't wear skirts or shorts because it makes me feel well kind of "ugly" i was wondering if any of you knew what i could use to get rid of it i tried bio-oil and it doesn't work
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are u light skinned? try tannin it may cover them up.
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Ok so I'm 15, in highschool,I'm about 5'3 I'm thick I have brown hair with blondehighlights medium length it's straight,and brown eyes and very few breakouts, I have alot of friends and they all tell me I'm gorgeous,but Im always telling myself I'm not I like this guy and he likes me back were tLking Nd I figured since I have. Bf I'll think of myself more positively,but no o still think I'm ugly and I want to do something about it,can anyone please help! I want both teenage boy and girl advice but mainly boys advice...Please help!!!!((; (link)
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you're only as hot as you think you are so just start looking at your good qualities instead of your bad ones:)
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so i shave down there and it always leaves bumps and makes me feel uncomfortable around my bf. i use shaving gel and a new razor and everything... i dont wanna wax it cuz it will hurt and i cant get lazer hair removal so any advice on what might help? (link)
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i always shave with my hair and not against it. try that. :)
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I just bought my first car, but I've never even done anything with a car before. I got my license and that's about it for my whole experience with vehicles. Anyway, I know my dad has his truck warm up before he goes anywhere in the winter. I don't know if he does this so the interior is warmer for him to sit in or if it has to do with the car needing to be warmed up so it doesn't break. So, do I need to make time to warm my car up in the morning before driving to school or can I just hop in and go? It's a 1999 model so it's kind of old and used too so I really don't want to mess it up right away. K Thanks (link)
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only diesels do.
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I started dating this guy freshman year (last year) when I was fourteen. He was a sophomore and sixteen. Well, we had a pretty good relationship in the begining. We had fun and laughs and he made me feel special and all that jazz... Well after about two months of dating, while we would be making out, he would slip his hand down my pants. And I'd pull it out... He'd put it back, and I'd pull it out... and it just kinda went like taht. We never really talked about it... then one night I don't know what happened but I just let him finger me... And I dunno, it didn't feel like a big deal at the time. After that things in our relationship started changing. He got a lot more possessive and mean and I became a whipped little puppy dog to him. I would do whatever he said and that's NOT the kind of person I am... I really really liked him though for some reason. To the point where I fell in love with the guy. It was a strange love but I DID care deeply about him... He continued to finger me when we'd hook up and eventually around month four he started asking for handjobs. And I'd keep saying no becuase I dont know, I was fourteen and I just wasn't ready for that. Well.. One day he basically just pulled down his pants, grabbed my hand and started making me rub his dick. I tried to pull my hand away, at least I think I did, but I couldn't. Either because his grip was too hard or because I was just so shocked that he did that. Then I started crying... and he let go but we didn't even talk abotu it! I just let him get away with it, I don't knwo why I was such a stupid stupid idiot. Month six rolls around he wants a bj... No, no, no. I kept saying no but he would aslmost try and perseude me. He'd say things like "If you loved me you'd want to make me happy. And I make you feel good but it's completely one sided." I started to just feel so guilty (and he had me so whipped) that I just did it... God you have no idea how much I wish I coudl take it back. I was sooo stupid! He dumped me four days later. He said he didn't even like me anymore but he wanted the bj before we split. He said he only stayed with me for the last three months cuz he liked the physical part of me. He told all his friends and basically the entire school, "she put out. We'd make out aaall the time and she gave me head". And I guess I deserved that... I was stupid for believing him. And letting him just used me like that. I just can't over this... I'm still hurting and I don't know how to make it go away. All of that physical stuff made me SO connected to him. And I was so owned by him that I don't even feel like my own person anymore and it's been like five months since we've broken up... I like this new guy but now that we've started kissing and stuff I feel so... Ugh I don't know. I just can't get over what happened and I don't want to trust guys... or myself. And as crazy as it is... I still like my ex... Whats wrong with me?! Can anyone please talk some sense into me. I don't even know what I'm asking withthis question I'm just lost and I don't know what to do... Please help. (I'm fifteen, sophomore) (link)
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ok this is crazy..the same thing happened to me about three years ago (sept the cryin). it took me a year to get over him but im soooo glad i did. he's no good for you girl! and he shouldn't be tellin people your personal stuff like that. please move on..it sucks but u have to. goodluck:)
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So, my boyfriend and I are having a sexual relationship, and we sleep over at each other's places quite often.
I was just wondering what are some things I could do in the morning when he's still asleep, but which would turn him on and so on. Possibly leading to morning sex, but that's not a must.
Please don't suggest just playing with his manhood. I want something a bit more sophisticated, considering how he's woken me up quite a few times in the morning.
Oh, and we're very comfortable with each other.
Any suggestions, ideas?
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kiss on his neck, arms, hands, etc. and playfully scratch him:) he'll get the hint.
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How would you go about bringing up birth control to a parents who is 100% against sex before marriage? I wouldn't if I didn't have to, but I don't want to worry about getting pregnant.
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you tell them you're periods are getting really bad, and that you want to see a doctor to maybe put you on the pill to fix them. :)
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so about four months ago my ex broke up with me and recently i found out that its over for good.
i want to move on with my life. i know ill never be able to forget what happened but i dated the kid for eight months and he was there through an important time in my life.
so i was just wondering, what are some ways that i can move on?
what sucks is that i didnt get any closure. he broke up with me over the phone and that sucks cause its not like i could totally give my goodbye. (link)
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it just takes time, lots of comfort food lol, friends and an even better guy:) it took me over a year to get over this one guy and im so much happier without him now. good luck(: anymore questions, feel free to ask me.
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how do you know when your cherry is popped (link)
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well some chicks bleed but others don't. basically if you have had sex its been popped.
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18Female.
So I recently lost my virginity, about two/three weekends ago. Oh my gosh, it was amazing haha. But now it's all I can think about like I want it all the time. And I don't have a boyfriend, and the guy I wanna do it with is about four hours away for hockey so he will rarely come back but once I see him, I can get it from him ;)
I don't know what to do though. Masturbating doesn't work, I hate it actually. Like I need a guy, I need that feeling and I'm going crazy! Is it normal for me to think about it all the time, I know guys do but now I feel like a perv or something haha.
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bahahahah:) yea its normal hun..trust me i lost it in febuary and i still always think about it! it will get pretty bad when your ovulateing (or however you spell it). hope i helped(:
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What are some things to do to a guy while you're making out/being fingered? I feel like its harder to to something when i'm laying on top of him because when he's on top of me i'll run my hands through his hair or touch is body but thats all i can think of. Its hard when hes kissing my all over and fingering me I feel like I can't really move.
Can someone please give me some advice? :) (link)
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moan haha guys frekin love it:)
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I have a boyfriend & he's bi , He likes guys more then girls but he likes me a lot , maybe even love but anyways , I'm worried that I can't turn him on because I heard it's harder to turn Bi guys on , What can I do to turn him on ? (link)
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maybe act more like a guy.. take control sometimes;)
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