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sumtimes i just cant stand my family..its like they dont even want me..im thinkin about running away!!!...should i? (link)
No, maybe if you write them a letter and voice your opinon of how they are affecting you, you may be able to work things out. Don't run away as you will regret it and wished your family were there. Talk to someone else like a minister, teacher or another grownup. My family was like that, it was hard work but we worked it out! Good luck and I'll keep you in my prayers


On Sunday I'm going to the beach wwith my family and another family who has a 14 year old son. He's a year older than me and he's cute!!! I have these one pieces that i look good in, but i also have some bikinis. The problem with my bikinis is my nipples show through the fabric!!! Yuck!! Should i wear the bikini anyway or go with a one piece? (link)
Go with the one piece, as you don't want to advertise the merchandize! Just because others want to show off their bodies, you don't have to. Save it for when you get married. You'll be happy you did!


Okay, I know this might sound stupid, but in October, there's a Halloween Dance, and they encourage you to wear costumes. What are some good halloween costumes? I was thinking of being a pink lady, or dorothy, from the wizard of oz. Nothing to drastic, because I go to a catholic school. Thanks

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Have you thought of a Hersey's kiss? You need light grey garbage bags, newspapers and ribbon to write Herseys on it. You take the garbage bag(cheapest) or silver material and make the body in the shape of a kiss. Then with the rest of material make a hate with the Herset's flag. Or How about a nurse/doctor//milatary personal//get a grey wig and dress yourself up as a grandmother. Hope this helps, and have fun!


i know im 13 but ive been held back and now im starting middle skool. im really nervous. wut if the other kids dont like me, or if i dont fit in. wut if i get my classes mixed up and everyone makes fun of me? all u guys are in middle skool so PLEASE HELP!!! (link)
sounds as if your unsure of people liking you for who you are. My bet is if you make an effort to be all that you can be, you're going to have a great life. So what if you were set back. your parents and teacher(s) thought it would help you. Have you thought that maybe there will be kids you were friends with that will be glad to see you? Have you thought of visualizing everybody there in their underware? Try it, you'll be laughing inside and don't worry if a chuckle gets out, as it can get contagous and then others will see that you have a sense of humor. Just relax and take a deep breath and visualize yourself having a good time and you will. Good luck sweety and hope the best for you. I'll keep you in my prayers!


My boyfriend and I have been having sex since late June. Last night he asked me if i got it yet ( i got it june 30th, after we first started to) and i said no but im not worried about it im going to wait a few days because my comes so randomly. and it never comes on the same date. he is yelling at me about he knows he asked girls, but i think i know mmy fuckin period and a bunch of girls periods come different times and late. he is really stressing me out, should i go to a clinic to see or buy a test now? (link)
I would go to a clinic and get a test done. I would not wait. I would also take a second look at what you are doing and I would realize that you have your whole life ahead of you and think twice about sex. I messed up my life as I wanted to save myself for the right man and now that I may have the "right man" it will be special when we do get together (after marriage)but not as special as it could have been. I would also tell the Dr at the clinic about the lateness of your cycles, there maybe hidden issues (health wise)


There's this guy...we'll call him kyle. My friend started to like him when we liked this other girl. The other girl like'd him back, but then he started to like my friend. So after she told the first girl that she n kyle like'd eachother they kinda started to talkin n what not. I go away for vacation for about 3 days n when i come back kyle tells me that my friend we'll call sarah told him she didnt like him anymore. Little did kno kyle started to like me. I didnt wanna like him at first but as i got to know him i started to. I havent told sarah about me n kyle yet b/c he said i shouldnt tell her just yet but we are gunna. I feel bad because now sarah likes him again. It sucks because its my friend and she talks about him all the time now. Sometimes i think that kyle still likes her because they still talk. I dont mind the fact that they talk n what not it juss sucks because she's always tellin me what he says to her n i get that feeling like he wants her still. He says he doesnt n i wanna believe him...im kinda hoping its just the way sarah makes it sound when she tells me about her n kyle. They dont hang out but neither has him n me yet since this whole thing started. What should i do...i kno i will tell sarah at sum times soon but i dunno if kyle's feels are all there or not. His mom calls sarah his girlfriend ...i take it she doesnt kno about her sayin she didnt like him anymore. I'm juss scared to have my heart broken cuz this type of stuff doesnt happen to me. Please help! (link)
I don't know how old you are, but it sounds like you and your friends really don't know what you want. I would get things out in the open and if you are all mature enough would still be friends once the air is cleared. And if you all are not mature enough to do this then I would say that you all are not ready for a serious relationship and just stay friends.


Im 13 and im 200 pounds basicly and everyone hates me even my mom..Because im so overweight..my dad left my mom to go have sex wit another woman cuz theey wanted a "fit" daughter!!!!SO.....then like my mom had sex with another guy she waaas dating..and she took the pregnency test and shes havin triplets!!!!and she said shes givin me up..Cause im overweight..so im at my Grandmas house 4 now on.......so 2 make me happy my mom gave me 2 babys so..i was there NEW MOM!!! I feel like noone cares about me!!!Can you give me some things to say 2 my mom..about just dumping her children on me!!! (link)
After the mental abuse that you have gotten from your parents would you want those babies to live in that pain? Love them as your own and make your world and theirs a better place. Teach them how to love and respect others. Take and give them the love you never got and waych them give it back to you. It's more love than you could ever imagine. LOL and PRAYERS


How canI tell my boyfriend I am still in love with him . I am 14year old.
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You've got your whole life ahead of you sweetie, don't be in a hurry to get serious. Get yourself educated and get your life together before even thinking about a serious relationship. Saves a lot of heartache.


I met this guy on myspace. He's really nice and hes my age. He was sweet, and he asked for my number. I said maybe tomorrow. He lives far away, like theres a few states in between us. He told me he liked me, and there was something about me. I'm nervous, and I just have mixed emotions and I just dont know what to do right now. Please, any advice. (link)
Be careful, he could be setting you up (he may be different in person (an adult who goes after prey - young and volnuable. On the other hand if there comes a time that he would like to meet you, say sure - as long as my parents are with me or friends. You would want to meet him where there is less of a chance that something could go wrong


Okay.. guys can have orgasms right? I mean you dont hear if it often so I'm not sure how to go about pleasuring him. How can I get my boyfriend to have an orgasm? We're not ready for sex yet but .. are there any certain things I can do? Any tips would be really appreciated. (link)
Don't be in a hurry to have sex. When the timing is right, you'll know what to do. You have your whole future to look forward to with your husband (later down the road. Don't mess up the way I did. WAIT


About three weeks ago i started taking diet pills without my parents knowing. After i took them i started feeling really nervous. My heart feels like it's beating really hard and fast. I'm breathing really weird and it takes me forever to go to sleep cuz i'm soo wired. I stopped the pills shortly after taking them but i'm still messed up. Does anybody know what's wrong and how i could fix it??? (link)
what you are taking is more then just asprin. Most diet pills are a form of speed. The jitters you feel and not being able to sleep are not good, So I am glad you got wise and stopped. Remember, God loves you and made you in His image. So why change the way you look. He LOVES you no matter what you look like.




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