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Hi my name is Sarah, im 17 and going 2 be 18 in september. i love helping people out so if u ever need me feel free to message me
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okay, i'm really bad with guys. i don't know why but whenever i talk to them i sound all nervous and stuff. but thats beside the point. does anyone have any good flirting advice? or can any guy tell me what kind of hints to you that a girl likes you. also, guys, what do you like to talk about with girls so i can have a good convo with the guy i like (link)
mmm ok talk 2 him make him smile coplent him tell him things you like about him play with his hir if hes in your class sit on his desk text him talk 2 him be urself and you can almost talk 2 him about aything


What kind of things happen in drug rehabilitation?
Also, if you had the AIDS virus, would you be able to detect it in a standard bloodtest? (link)
they do a lot in rehab like tell what kind of drugs you use and like what kind of rehab because theres a lot and im pretty sure but just ask your doctor to check for it


okay to make long story short, I should start off by saying im 16/f

well I am not allow to date or have bf or anything like that but ive been seeing this guy for over month and half... its going pretty awesome. anyways what i was wondering is, how I say I love you? in a such cute/romantic/unique way?

I was thinking of giving him this picture I drew... its a single rose (the one i sketched from the roses he gave me on valentines day) and it has a poem saying

Roses are red
Violets are blue
and i wanted to tell you that
I love you too

but I'd like to know some other ways just in case that doesnt work out or I dont find that (because I had to hide it from my 'rents and I hid it too well and cant find it :( so any ideas???) (link)
i love that idea it soooo romatic


Hi im 14/f. I really love helping people, and I am very interested in other countries. Is there any volunteer abroad program where I can join in? I really love children, and I know there is alot to do with children, but any type of volunteer work is good. I also know alot of Spanish, but I would like other countries too. The only thing is that it must cost under 500$ please. But if you cannot find any, than any amount would have be fine as well. Thank you very much. (link)
i am in a club called N-teens and we do cummity service you can always find a local soup kitchen to help out with you could also go to an animal shelter and help out there, ask ur chuch if theres anything that you could do, get names of local children that are less fortunate and send them easter baskets,you could also go to a local hospital and teach those kids math and other activites with them like play games and other things


I know i shouldnt hook up with him. If this was the first time he has brought this up i would be scared, but it isnt. When he was single he wanted to hook up with me still, but i was just getting over him so i said no. Then he kept writing me and i started to fall for him again. I liked him for three years, after i pointed out how hott he was the other girls jumped for him. He knows i like him but he has been showing feelings for me in the past 4 weeks. I want to go for it, but i dont want to hook up in school. What do i say to him to convince him to do it outside of school????

---Troubled Heart
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hun what i would tell you to do is talk to him that should help


So...My boyfriend is coming to my place 4 the first time today (I've been to his hgouse a few times and to the mall and stuff ).I cleaned my room so my mom will let us down here,she said we could have the living room for a movie or my room if I cleaned so I can do whatever...Heres my question : What are some fun things I can do that I can get out of REALLY quick if my mom comes in ??? I'm not aloud to make out but I do and ya so ??? AND ANY TIPS FOR THIS ??? (link)
ok first thing ill tell you is DONT HAVE SEX because if you get caught doing that your screwed majorly, when you watch a movie cuddle up next 2 him underneath a blanket, if you want to do anyting like sexual ie handjobs, have him finger you or something like that make sure your under the blanket in case your mom walks in.. anymore questions feel free to contact me


yeah i think that it might be the water as well .
but like
ughh
it started and then went away and started again
and i dont know maybe its the fact im in the water but i didnt go it the water at all yesterday
so iono whats wrong
but are periods supposed to be irregular for a while til i get used to it .
and its not that much blood .

how much is the right amount ?
cuz iono
thankssssss (link)
yea, when you swim the blood will stop for a short amout of time and at first it will be irregular b/c u excrsize and b/c ur body is not use to it yet and in a couple years it might get regular but ive had mine for 2or 3 yrs and its still iregular b/c i do soo much ie sports,excersize and my body cant keep it regular but i get it like every coule of months and i usually get a heavy flow. so be sure you always carry exta tapons/pads on you at all times for just in case, so i hoped i helped if you have any more questions or concerned you can always contact me


hello! i'm wondering how much it will hurt the 1st time i have sex. i know it's different for different people. i have been fingered before so i didnt know if this would be around the same feeling or if theres actually even a big difference. would having been fingered make it hurt less the 1st time? (link)
just make sure you have foreply before you have sex so your "wet" so it doesnt hurt and just relax


i am seventeen and a virgin.
can anyone who has had one tell me what an orgasm feels like. i heard they feel really good. any explanation?? (link)
yes an orgasm feel amazing and dont worry ill be 18 this year and u can still have an orgasm if you really love him it feels like butterflies in your stomach and you can do anything with them and feel great


okay so ive had sex for the 5th time already. the first time was march the 5th okay. well we did it twice that night. then a day after we did it 3 more times. and it still really hurts and im not getting any pleasure. can u please tell me whats wrong or should i see a doctor i mean what should i do? what could it be? (link)
hun, try having sex in the shower or tub to help ease the pain if u still want to have sex and make sure he is well lubrated and you should also use a lot of foreplay to help get you "wet" if u have anymore questions feel free to message me


ok i started for the 1st time on tuesday
but i had no tampon or anything and i had swim and then wednesday it stopped
and i saw today it came back

and ever since tuesday my tummy hurts a lot
and iono
i feel weird

can someone help


and tomorrow i have a swim meet TOMORROW AND IM PRETTY SURE ILLL STILL BE ON IT
SHOULD I WEAR A TAMPON ? (link)
yes wear a tampon and take some modol for cramps and bloting relax about the meet and the reason it left is b/c of the water oh an it might be irregular a lot b/c u swim any more quesions just ask me i use 2 swim


I put out a bulletin on myspace saying, "i deserved that part."

so they all hate me, litterally. They are being commpletly unreasonable about it.

How should i react to them?! (link)
no, there mad b/c they didnt get the part, ps what play


where do you put it i have a double (link)
ok u should go to your local OBGYN or mom or any gurl u trust to show you how and where to put the tampon in at


um..do all tampons look the same and are just a different size? Because I thought they were round on both ends so that when you insert it, it won't damage up there but I looked at thsi box of tampax pearls and on the picture on one end it's really sharp like a needle! (link)
no there not really sharp as a needle there a actually pretty cofortable.


well like the last time i got my period was december.
but i also lost like 30 pounds since sept.
could that be why?
cos like im not anorexic, so why is my period gone and when will i get it back? (link)
that could be one reason and anther reason cold be it will be irregularfor the first 2 years


does anyone know of a few stores with really cute prom dresses?? i just want a store that not everyone in my whole entire school is shopping at. i would like to actually go to the store, so i don't want magazines or anything like that. Also, i do not want stores like JC Penney or Macys just because they're so popular around here.

thanks!! (link)
try bridal stores and divas, davies bridal and other bridal stores


ok so me and my boyfriend are madly in love, we've been together for over a year and we are planning on getting married. but theres a problem. im a VERY dominant person and so is he. we fight alot b.c im very opinionated and dont think before i talk. its not that hes controlling its that he refuses to let me be the dominant one. he would NEVER hit me unlease i told him to, the only place hes ever hit me was on the arm and i told him too. hes very protective over me and loves me more then anyone ever has. i wanna spend the rest of my life with this man but my attitude is becoming a problem. i have a HUGE attitude plus my need to be in control makes our relationship very shaky. i dont wanna break up with him but i need to find a way to calm down my attitude and control my stress!!!! (link)
when you get really frustrated with him just tell him u need a break and leave for a miniute too cool down and then go talk to him


solve by graphing.
y=2x-1
x+y=2 (link)
put it in y= mx+b form


I'm 16/f and my friend is 16/m. He hangs out with me everynight, and I see him every morning before school. Do you think I should just not answer his calls and kind of avoid him for a couple days? I'm not mad or anything, I just want to see how many times he'll call & what not. Is this a bad idea? I just want to see if he'll think about me more, once he realizes he hasn't seen/talked to me in awhile. (link)
yea ive done its not the best idea he'll think something wrong and it will probaly end in a fight not a good idea


Alright. Theres this guy. All my friends say he likes me. I think hes starting to. I want him to like me, and then i think ill like him more.
Whats a good way to make him continue to fall for me?
How should I flirt?
Help!
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play with his hair make him laugh and just be yourself




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