Hi My name is Lauren.Im attending college as an english major,and I hope to teach one day.Im a great writer,and I give great advice.My friends always come to me when they have problems.The only problem now is that I moved to Texas from Kansas,and I dont know anyone here.So I hoped I could at least help people who need someones advice.Im mostly good with relationship questions but feel free to ask me any thing.I will always answer your questions,and I will be honest.
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Our team would be really good is my team would actually listen to the coach and I. I'm both the captain and the girl with the most experience, yet none of them take my advice. In fact, most of them snub me, until I get stern. Then they listen....for the first or second time, then they go back to doing what they were doing to begin with. Anyone have any ideas on what I could do as captain/teammate that would get them to be better? (link)
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I was never a cheerleader or a captian,but a good way to get them to listen is relate to them.Explain to them why you are telling them what you tell them and if any of them plan on doing it in college or els where they will listen.If there just in it for the glory then post new try outs.Explain to your team that you just want the best that you know they can do better.Honestly if they dont listen to that there not worth it.You should have a group of girls who want to do the best the can not just cheer and get it over with.Im sorry i coudlnt be more help.I wish you the best of luck
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i was just wondering if im anorexic. all my friends say i am and they all say im really really skinny and i am but i think my tummy and thighs are really really fat. so im trying to loes weight but my friends keep thretening to tell a teacher if i dont start eating. and the say you have to eat 2000 calories a day and that haveing water for breackfast doesnt count cos it has no calories in. also does anyone know how to stop your tummy from rummbling? iv tried drinking water ( which is why i hve it for breakfast) but it doesnt work that well
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by the way i'm 13 (year 9) and i weight 6 stone. does anyone know how much your supposed to weigh?
(sorry about my spelling and stuff) (link)
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Weight depends on hight and age and if your in the 5ft catagory you should be about 110 to 130lbs.Your 13 and I dought your fat at all.So you think you thighs are big,others think there small.And just because you have a little belly dosnt make you fat you might just be undefined.Start doing crunches if you really dont like it.But if your not eating you need to,its unhealthy to starve yourself.Yes not eating is a sighn of Anorexia.You thighs are going to be big there built of muscles its normal every girl thinks there thighs are hug is just us being insecure.For you health and your friends benifits start eating and instead of starving yourself work out.Working out gives you more energy and it will gradually show in your appearence.Its more saticfing,and your tummy growls because it needs food.There is no way to stop it,its natural.Please take my advice I only care about your safty and so do your friends.There great friends if they see your problem and offer to help they only care about you.If you have other questions please feel free to ask any time.
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so i had a dream last night about one of my 'friends' ( sorry long story but basicly she hates me) and she came into my room and we started having really graphic sex ( were both girls and i think im in love with her) it was really graphic a today i felt even more akward around her than ever. i feel really dirty and i didnt even reilise i could think like that. so i was just wondering what this dream means. or somthing
girl 13 (link)
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Dear Girl 13
Dreams are dreams we all have weird ones and they dont always mean what you think some mean nothing at all.If you are having real feelings for this girl you will know in your heart.And honestly you need to find out if she has them back.I know you dont want to come out and say I love you if you think you will only get hurt.Who knows it could have just been a random dream that really is nothing at all.The most I can say is make sure that how you feel,and if she dosnt return the feelings dont let her know yours.Eventually you will get over her.Honestly every one gets curious about there same sex it dosnt make you weird or gay.It just makes you curious,if you feel like you really are gay then you should accept it.Every one is diffrent,it dosnt make you a freak.I hope I helped feel free to ask me more if you need me to explain myself better.
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So I tried to take everybodys advice and STOP talking to this guy Gio because hes 19 and I'm 14 and blah blah blah, But heres my problem,
I did mention we had sex a couple times,
I'm NOT sure if we used a condom EVERYTIME,
And I'm waiting for my period but it hasn't came yet.
I'm kindaaa freaked!
What If I am pregnant!
I'm not sure what I should do!
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It happens to the best of us,we get in over our heads and then we stress.First off dont stress,stressing about it can cause it to be late.Second How late is it,and has it been late befor.Im a girl and mine is very irregular,some times i have one twice a month and skip months at a time.If your not used to missing them then go get a home test.Have a friend who is over 18 whom you trust get it for you.They have dollar tests at the dollar store you have to ask the person at the register.They are very accurate but only use it if its been a few weeks since your missed period.I wish you the best of luck and hope your not,your young and you have a life to live.And please remember to be safe and use condoms not only because of pregnacy but there are tons of STD's out there you really never know.And sweetheart your friends are right watch out for them older guys I was like you once and I had to learn the hard way.They just want to use you as another mark on there wall.When you find a guy who will wait untill you are ready,you will know he truelly loves you and hes woth it.
Lots of love La La
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The the first time my friends asked him out for me he said i dont know so i asked my friend if they would ask him out for me a second time, he always stares at me in class and my friends see it. and they asked him something i never asked them to ask him! they asked why do u always stare at her then (me) he says because she makes weird faces! but yet in class hes real nice 2 me! is he just playing games? (link)
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I agree with her,but if you really like him and want to make him want you.You should act like he dosnt exist.I personally found that ignoring a guy makes them want you more.Act like he is the most uninteresting thing you have ever seen.Dont look at him and refuse to let him get to you.Who knows he might ask you out or even better you might find a new crush.
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Im 14 years old and i do not eat Vegetables i do but very rarely! i do eat junk food alot but! i've been staying away from it now. but still i dont eat vegables! i do eat fruit and im very worried about geting a heart attack at 17 i dont know how high my cholesterol is!my mom tells me im to young to worry about that so what should i do! (link)
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Your mom is right you really shouldnt worry so much.A heart attack is very slim at a young age.But ofcorse we all arnt perfect and we stress alot about unimportant things.So I suggest staying away from unhealthy food such as fired food,anything with grease basically.To much salt can cause blood clots,and butter is bad as well.Truthfully I am far from that type of person,but I think its great you care about your body,and your health.Also dont stress to much about it stress is something you really dont need at 14.I hope I helped
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My girlfriend just broke up with me and we were both really sad. I'm an 18 year old male and she is 18 as well. she is the first girl i've had sex with. after a few days she told me i have to fight with her and talk to her more and we will get back together. i asked her how i'm doing and she said very good. but she has been really weird lately. she said i can't rush her with these things when i just asked how i'm doing. i love her a lot and she says she loves me too. but it just doesn't seem like she does. i'm getting more sad and more sad everyday and idk what to do. (link)
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Wow that is tough.First thing I think its stupid she wants you to fight with her.Yes fighting is a good way to show your diffrences,but if she truly loves you she should be happy that you guys arnt fighting.I know loving someone is hard expecially when you feel like your alone in it.I think you should stick by her if you really think she loves you back it will be worth it.But if she is pushing you away you need to confront her and tell her how you feel.Its not fair for her to keep you on the side lines.You desirve to be happy,in the end thats all you should look for is your own happyness.I hope I helped good luck
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My parents were divorced at the age of two.
I am an only child. and my mommy has always been a single hardworking mom.
My mom began to work night shifts when i was 12 years old. At that age i was still what you could call innocent. i had no intention what so ever of doing anything "wrong". After i turned thirteen i began watching porn while my mother was gone. i started meeting waaaay older guys and since they had cars i would invite them to my house. that all began around december. at first it was just making out. and during the month of december and january it was with only one guy. in the middle of january i met another older guy and he too began coming to my house at night. around february i made the biggest mistake of my life. i lost my virginity.
loosing my virginity was the worst thing i have ever done. but i didnt know what to do. when ever i had sex it made me feel loved,needed,understood. and i never had that type of feeling since i was always alone. from february to may i had sex with more than 10 different guys all of which were older than 20. By june i had had sex numerous times. and the worst part is i would hardly ever use protection. No one ever knew about this because no one would ever believe me capable of doing such a thing.i am a straight "A" student and i look like an innocent bright and kind girl which i use to consider myself to be. in june i decided to move to mexico since i have family over here. soo i had the oppurtunity to have a fresh start. luckily my mom never caught me doing anything. but i feel terrible. my innocence was completely gone in less than 3 months. i did things far too horrible to even describe. you guys have no idea how bad i feel. i know most of you are thinking what a slut! and i know i deserve it. but i promise im not a bad person. i was simply a confused, lonely girl that didnt know the definition of love. Thank God i am now living in Mexico and am proud to say i have changed dramatically and am a whole new person.i have not had sex in 6 months! which is a major accomplishment. i thank god every day that i didnt get pregnant. but girls please be smart and learn from my mistakes. some of you might not be so lucky and end up with a huge responsibility that you have to deal with for the rest of your life.
Think Twice.. (link)
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Im glad you posted this yes its not a question but its a problem you had.Trust me iv been there not the straight a stuff lol i was an average student.But I know how you feel I was the girl once I trusted that guy and I became stupid and reckless.Im glad you have turned over a new leaf and that your doing great things for yourself thats is a major accomplishment.Just always remember to be yourself and to love yourself befor anyone els.You are what matters not those stupid guys and there empty promises.Good luck with the new you. :)
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its my senior year, it would have been our one year on october 13th... (hes 18 graduated last year) basically he left me for another girl this september.. & she didnt want him. he came back to me, and i am deeply in love with him.. took him back. things are just different, we got into a deep conversation the other day, he said "were not going to last when you go to college anyways" .. i said "what am i doing with us then?" and he said "were just having a good time untill then" like are you kidding me.. at that moment i ended it. HONESTly i love this boy but am i right or am i wrong. Its hard cause my mind says im right but my heart screams his name and it echos inside me (link)
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She is right he was a jerk,and a scum bad for using you.Honestly all girls have been there.Its hard to get over a guy that yo care for.Truth is you will alws feel that pain,but one d you will wake up and relize that you can breath.That you can go on without him.It will take time but you are a strong person,and you will find someone who loves you.Not someone who wants to use you.
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im 17 f my friend is 15f and he acts like he owns me i was only friends to be nice cause everyone makes fun of him but he always cusses meoout if i dont wanna hang ooutof my ffriends or guuy s over i dont no what to do im sick of how he trys to run my life! (link)
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Iv been there befor.You only want to be nice,but he just wont leave you alone.Sad to say as much as you really hate being mean,and you dont want to hurt the poor guys feelings.You have to be mean and tell him to back off that your tyerd of him running your life and you just cant be friends with him.You will have to be as mean as you can and he will leave you alone.If you arnt he will just keep trying untill you give in.I hope this helps.
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