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if you friends with someone and u have a strong relationship.But you feel more than that .Do you tell them how you feel even if it ruins the friendship? Please answer.



-confused

i would tell them how you feel if you think you have a really good relationship with this person... if you do they will be sure to understand, and if they dont return the feeling it definatly wont ruin the relationship (if its a really strong one)

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well is it wrong to go out with your friends ex but what if you went out with him before she did
I will rate a 5!

if you think about it then she is going out with her friend's ex which you already said it was wrong

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I have a friend who is over weight and is always saying Im so fat!! Even though she kind of is I dont want to be mean so I say no your not.I dont want to keep lieing to her but I dont want to just say Yeah you are.How can I just make her stop saying she is fat and ugly without hurting her feeling.I rate high..PS If we say something mean to her she freaks out and says omg I cant belive you just said that.

The next she says that, say that she shouldn't care what she looks like because she is a wonderful person or that you like her just the way she is..
if she keeps asking it she is just fishing for compliments from you

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I just had surgerey earlier like at 10:45, and had anastesia. My dad and I were supposed to go to another city quite a few miles away. Do you think that I could go? We would go at like 7 or 8 tonight. Oh, did I mention we're going on his motorcycle? Yea, we are. So..do you think this would be alright? I need answers as soon as possible. Thanks

***Jess***♥

I don't think so, you should at least wait a day to rest.

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Alright it's marching band season for me right now and i flat iron my hair...it tends to get frizzy and poofy by the time i get to school even tho my hair is very straight at home when i touch it up. any tips on how to keep it from waving and making the poofyness dissappear? Could it be the flat iron i'm using? thanks =)

it could be the flat iron your using. try do find a wide one with ceramic plate. if it isn't try putting product in before you anything. I think superscuplt by paul mitchell is good. You should try it. Tell me how things work out.

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I am always annoying my mom! I always try to have some stay over and she says no then i ask y and she gets mad! the only reason she says no is cuz i ask her all the time! Can someone help me solve this problem?!

-Unknowm

don't ask her like that night. Try to set things up with her maybe a week or two, that way she won't feel like she is on the spot.

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whats a really good .. fast .. free.. music downloader ? i have WinMX and so many of the songs arent able to be dowloaded .. i want a downloader where all the songs are goood to download and it has to be free! please help! a link to a site would also be awesome! i rate 5's.. thanks:)

try limewire.. it works very well

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does anyone sing here? know any songs to practice for a beginner? im near mezzo-soprano.

what i did is sign up for voice lessons somewhere. The person should be able to give you songs for you to practice.

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ok well im 14 and i have been a cutter since i was 12. im also anorexic. i have been since i was like 10. i also have trouble eating infront of people, when i have to eat. i just get nervous and very self concious when i eat around other people. even my parents. im 4'10" and i currently weigh 94 lb. i want to get over my cutting and eating disorder SO BAD! i have tryed forever but just run back to them. i think about suicide a lot, espically after this year. this year i lost a lot of friends. 2 died in a car accident on the same day and 4 killed themselves. it has affected me badly.
now i am addicted to cutting. i cant feel the pain anymore. no matter how much or how deep i cut. ive tryed the rubber band thing but it doesnt work. if you have any ideas on how to stop then please answer. i rate high.

okay first of all I am going to tell you what you told me not to, you do need to get help. But there are ways of doing it that won't be bad. If you have a really really close friend, tell her, maybe she could help you through it. Remember people love you and if you killed yourself, you never know you could just drive them to do it themselves. Is their guidance conselers at your school? At mine you can go and talk to them and be completly anonyomous. They might be able to help you.

I am sorry if this doesn't help you at all, but please don't kill yourself.

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