I want to know three things:
1. Is she missing me or thinking about me?
2. Is there a chance I can get her back?
3. Why is she acting so mean to me
My girlfriend left me after two years and 3 months out of nowhere and her reason was "she didn't have feelings anymore" Later on her mom told me that she still loved me, she just needed to be free for right now. Yet she is already interested in another guy and is treating me like a complete stranger. She also threw a bunch of my stuff that I ever gave her away and blocked me from communication (text). Now that I realize the only problem in our relationship was that we were never separated, basically around each other for everyday without giving one ounce of space. People say to me, they don't know why she is going to this extreme and many tell me I treated her amazingly. She is in high school and I'm in college. I just want to keep fighting for this girl because she is special to me and people know that. Thank You for your advice.
1. Yes, and yrs. She's still thinking of you, that's for sure, and I can tell you, she misses you hella lot. Heck! I even miss my enemy now that she left, how much more if a person whom I love/loved crossed my thoughts.
2. Yes, there is, there's always a chance dude! Look, the only reason why she broke up with you is because of the cage you placed her into, and now, she's free, but still, she's surely in shock being out and she'll miss the nice warm cage you made for her.
3. Because... Girls! Sometimes they're insensitive, but trust me, she was just on her period, she should regret it by now.
Advice: Go talk to her, not to her mom.
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In the last year, my family's income was roughly 700k, which was about 500k after taxes. But in reality, my household only made about 180k, because most of the money is actually tied with my parents' S corporation, so that money mainly goes to other investors, and to run the business (including property taxes).
Would it work against me to say "I do not wish to respond" whenever possible? Or would it help with admissions to say that my parents technically made over 200k, or would that mean they'd expect more out of me, or something? I understand for FAFSA I can't hide anything, but I don't think it's fair I'd be unable to do work study or get financial need scholarships when my family isn't living large or anything. We live like a middle class family, not like an upper middle class or upper class family.
Would the admissions and financial need people be understanding of my situation? When admissions are "need blind" do they ever look at and/or consider one's income bracket? And would financial aid only consider me for academic scholarships, because of this technicality?
The numbers may look like a lot but my parents are spendthrift and they've never afforded putting us in private school, or having a family vacation that didn't have something to do with seeing other family members and/or urgent health concerns. Most kids I knew growing had more technology, toys, and etc. than my family did, living on the conservative side, even if they lived in smaller homes, but I think a big part to why my parents don't have a lot of savings is because of a relative's health needs and the money needed to start and operate a new business.
Would my financial situation affect my admissions at all or will there be added pressure for me to get better grades and extracurriculars than say, a lower income individual with the same stats I have now
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Ok, first of all, we're both aspiring scholars, and I've went in without any worries. My advice, is for you to say 180k when asked. Yes, that is still a lot, but you can still poke a hole and imply your relative's illness being a huge anchor to your finance. Now, from what I know, a family income isnt equal to the business income, it is the amount of money you're capablr to spend in a period of time, so you shouldn't worry :-)
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She started dating this guy a few weeks ago maybe a month. the first day they started dating he sucked her boobs and they have had sex and shes given him blow jobs. I know all of this cause she told me and i saw her text messages. she also started smoking weed which is really easy to get were i live. i feel like i should tell someone but i dot want to get her in trouble whet do i do?
I wont want to sound like a mom, so im gonna advice you this... Sex? That isnt really bad in terms of physical aspects, though its indecent, smoking weed though, that's the prob... My advice is use all your capacity to stop her, if you cant, then you need to tell someone else. If your afraid that this'll ruin your friendship, then you're selfish, why? Because a true friend would risk everything for the sake of one's state.
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I am really into online auctions. I work two jobs so I don't have a lot of free time & it gives me something to do. Probably not the best idea but I rarely win anything anyways because I am really cheap. I know of ebay but I am wondering if there are any other good reputable sites out there?
Google's your friend
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I'm 27 years old and I've been a member of the same church since I was born. I never really considered changing churches until a couple of years ago, but even then I keep thinking I'm gonna move soon, so I figured that there was no point.
Until a couple of years ago, we'd had the same pastor all of my life. We called him Brother Don and he was wonderful. He was a good pastor and although he didn't condone certain things, he taught us not to judge or condemn people who did those things. He loved all of us and he taught us to love each other and love everyone else we come in contact with as well. He treated everyone in the church like family and he gave awesome sermons.
When he left, we had another pastor come for a little while and then had a permanent pastor this past summer. We call him pastor Jason and I don't like saying this about him, but I don't think that he's a very good pastor.
It's hard for me to say these things without sounding judgmental of him and I acknowledge that, but he seems judgmental of others. He doesn't really teach unconditional love, but rather loving only people who go to your church or would be willing to go to your church. Perhaps I'm mistaken about that, but it seems like that's what he was saying. He also seems to like to judge others for the bad things they do.
He doesn't give good sermons and sometimes I feel like we hear more about his oldest son than we hear about God. Brother Don has four children and loves them as much as anyone loves their children, but he didn't talk about them much because he wanted to stay on subject and not tell a story about them unless it applied to the sermon. Jason FORCES stories about his oldest son into the sermon and if he doesn't have one, he just tells one for fun. I know people like to talk about their kids, but when your a pastor and spend most of your sermons talking about them, that's not good. Also it's always JUST his oldest son, never his other two kids and he makes it clear that his oldest is his favorite.. He says it's because his oldest son is adopted and the other two are biological, so he got to choose his oldest, but got stuck with his other two. This makes me wonder more about his character.
I love him and love everyone in the church, but I don't agree with most of them on a lot of things. For instance, this new friend of mine named Dave just came into my life. He happens to be an atheist, so as I Christian, I worry about him, but I love him. I want to be his friend, but so many people in our church hate atheists. They dehumanize them and judge them as being horrible people. They judge me for having anything to do with them and tell me that Christians shouldn't do that. They do the same with my gay friend, John and my jewish friend Spencer. I want to love everyone the way Jesus did, but the church doesn't seem to agree that we should,
So my question is should I feel bad for wanting to change churches?
You know? A church that teaches you to hate is not a church of God. Guess whose. Sure you love the churchgoers, and you 'love' pastor jason, but it's not about them right? You know what? If you can notice the wrong things your pastor is teaching you and still love him as a person? Then you're already a great christian. So my answer is, it doesnt matter. You already have your solid faith! But the others dont, so my advice is, dont change 'your' church, change 'your church'
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