All of my friends always come to me for advice. I am pretty much the peacekeeper in my group. I know i have not been part of this for like any time at all, but i hope i can get bigger and help people with problems like i do the people i know. I will almost never say anything rude mean or annoying, but if i do withought thinking, just comment me and tell me so i can fix it!
-alex(:
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my boyfriend and I tried to have sex for the first time a few weeks ago and he couldnt get his penis in.does this mean im too tight?and what can i do to fix this?do we just keep trying until it goes in? (link)
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Yes, it does mean you are too tight. The only way you can try and fix it is to keep trying. But, however once it finally gets in, it will KILL! Not to freak you out or anything, but as it sounds, you are REALLY tight, so it will hurt pretty bad as your probably know. But it does get wayyy better. Good Luck. Hope I helped! Don't forget to rate!
-Alex :]
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i lost my virginity, i.e had sex for the first time but i didn't bleed(not even a lil bit). is there something wrong with me? am i alone? im really freaking out here.thanks. (link)
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Thats not weird at ALL! The reason most girls bleed for the first time when they have sex, is because the broke their hymen "popped their cherry". You already could've broken yours, or maybe it just didn't go in deep enough to pop it. Oh, this is completely normal, don't worry one bit. Hope i helped! Don't forget to rate!
-alex :]
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is there ANY way you can block people from right clicking on myspace?
thanks. (link)
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uhhmm, i don't think so. If there is, i've never heard of it. But, to block people, you go to your top friends, and then go to "edit friends" then check the people you wanna block. Then don't forget to press save. xDDD Hope i helped! Don't forget to rate!
-alex :]
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how do i put icons as my photo captions? (link)
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and where it says URL, you can use photobucket or tiny pic (preferably photobucket)and make sure its saved. Then go to browse, find it, then press upload. THen it will be below that, and go to HTML CODE, and that will get it there. Hope i helped! Don't forget to rate!
-alex :]
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ok, so i boughtm y boyfriend something that cost 32 dollars.
he wanted it soo bad.
and now iw ant to give him something else small.
because, i'll feel stupid if i don't, haha!.
ok, so what are some good little gift ideas?
(ps, i can't get another that goes with the gift, there's nothing." (link)
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Give him like a box of chocolates, or like some hershey kisses, and wright a note that says like heres a kiss from me, or heres a kiss on me! Hope i helped. Don't forget to rate!
-alex :]
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i like acoustic things, or really pretty, beautiful songs like Sia, Breathe Me but i don't know of many artists with songs like these :/ (link)
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A good song thats slow and pretty acoustic and stuff is Teardrops on my guitar by taylor swift. Or Thunder by boys like girls (acoustic version) Hope i helped! Don't Forget to rate!
-alex :]
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Well, my parents never flat out explain things... so I'm hoping you can help.
1. I know guys can be horny..can girls?
2. What does it mean for a girl to "get wet"?
3. Is it actually normal for guys to get horny? If so.. is it a daily thing, or only for someone/sometime special?
4. Hold old are most guys when they start getting wet dreams?
5. How common is masturbating? Do girls masturbate too? (link)
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1. Yes, girls can be horny too. It just means that you really feel like masturbating, or having sex or something sexual.
2. It means that discharge comes out when you are horny.
3. Oh yes, most guys are almost always horny. Especially when they are around girls.
4. Probably around late middle school to early high school. It really depends on the guy
5. Some people masturbate everyday. Or even a couple times a day. Which ever amount you feel you need to do.
Hope i helped! Don't forget to rate!
-alex :]
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I like this guy, and I know he likes me back. Like I know. And I want him to ask me out, but I don't know if he will, for two reasons:
Becuase he doesn't want a relationship, and he might not wanna date me, especially since we already hook up on weekends, so he already gets some.
I REALLY want to date him though, so is there any way I can get him to ask me out? (I don't wanna ask HIM out, that would be wierd...)
15/f (link)
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Don't hook up with him. If you guys aren't dating, he shouldn't get anything. Maybe drop some hints. Flirt a LOT! Scratch what i said before, (i never erase anything i type on here, because i typed it for a reason) only hook up with him on occasion. Sometimes look at him, and make sure he seese you. Hope i helped! don't forget to rate!
-alex :]
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I am 15/male.
Its pretty much exactley what it sounds like. Im sick of disapointing my parents. I fail school. I dress so awkwardley that there embarresed to be seen with me. Im a complete total fuck up. I have anger issues. Im always fighting with my mom. I told her i didnt want to be a part of the family, and the look on her face KILLED me inside. They found out i smoke, and my mom didnt do anything except cry. becuase her mom died at like 30 from cancer. Im always getting in trouble with them. Oh and i like men. and i cant tell them that becuase i cant and i wont deissapoint them more. Im sad to say that the easiest way to get through this, is to kill myself. Im not really looking for advice. Im kind of just venting to anyone who cares. :(
Sincerley,
Me. (link)
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Do you realize that killing youself, would just give your parents MORE pain than it would to tell them that you were gay. I mean come on, there're you parents, they will love you no matter what. It would kill THEM to know that you killed yourself. Also, never take the easy way out, it gets you NOWHERE!Plus, i'm positive there are plenty of other people that care about you other than just your parents. So, you would just be causeing them pain too. I'm really sorry you feel this way, if you need some advice just ask me a question ANY time. Hope i helped. Don't forget to rate.
-Alex :]
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Uh, oh...(maybe) three in a row!
I was listening to the radio yesterday, and the host said that there's a rumor (or maybe not just a rumor) that Britney Spears is pregnant for the third time. He mentioned that it should be "illegal," as a sort of half-joke...but is it true or not? Is she pregnant again? Just curious. (link)
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Sadly, she is preagnant again. I can't remember his name, but its a rapper guy. And, i'm pretty sure it's not illegal. Hope I helped! Don't forget to rate!
-alex :]
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Alright, I was just wondering a couple things.
1. Does getting it in "the ass" good? or painful?
2. Does it hurt the first time? Just like Sex?
3. If it does, for how long?
4. Is it possible for the butt to bleed afterwards?
5. Is it possible for the penis to still go in even if it's really tight?
*It'd be best to get these answered to the people who already had this experienced or what their answer is, it's a FACT.
*ALSO, PLEASE BEFORE ANSWERING, be mature about the questions I am asking.
Thank you. (link)
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1. the first time its painful, but then it gets good.
2. Yes, but more like the 1st, 2nd, and 3rd time. It really depends on how "tight" you are.
3. Just for the first few time of sex. Like, not after or anything, just during.
4. It is possible, but thats only if you "cherry" pops. Which is really called a hymen. Its just a peice of skin that you can break by having sex, sports, putting in tampons, various ways. But, that will only happen once, unless something has gone wrong.
5. It is possible, but it will really not feel good at ALL for you. (if you are the girl, which i'm guessing you are) Lemme, tell you now, it will hurt like CRAP! but it does eventually go away, after about the 1st-4th time.
But if you are thinking about doing this, make sure you really are ready. Because it really doesn't sound like you are. But, that choice is up to you. Good luck! Hope i helped, don't forget to rate!!
-alex :]
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Are 5th generation iPods obsolete? I literally JUST got mine before the new ones came out and there's a bunch of people parading around with iPod minis ALREADY. I like my iPod, it's compact, it holds 30 gig, maybe not as much as the new ones, but I barely have half of it filled. Is 5th gen just considered old and chunky or whatever? And, with iPod minis, what do they do? Are they like iPod videos or iPod nanos or what? Because I paid like over $200 for mine, it's my baby, but are the new ones like replacing EVERYONE'S? What do these people DO with their "old" iPods? Are people just getting new ones because of that, they're new and the "old" ones are just that, old? What's the point if the "old" ones are perfectly good? (link)
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Basically. I did acctually get the new ipod, and it has a lot more space on it, and plays videos, and is a heck a lot more compact.The new ipods are just a combination between the nano's, and the video ipods. So what you were asking, the old ones are pretty well, old. People who have the old ipods, either keep it, and except it, or just buy a new one. The old ones, are just fine, but just a little bit clunkier, and out of "fashion/style". And, since the ipod that you got was the "old" version, it defnitly should not be 200 dollars. The new ones are not even that high priced. So, either somebody raised the price to see who would buy it, or your telling a little lie. The new nanos, are only like 120 dollars. So i don't have a clue how those could have been so much HIGHER than that. Also, all of the ipods before, i have seen at stores for like 70 or 80 dollars. So hun, you got r-i-p-p-e-d off! sorry. Hope i helped! Don't forget to rate!
-alex :]
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okay so i have a pretty flat stomache but i have the biggest love handles ever. like they are over my pants and everything its disgusting i don't understand why they wont go away. are there any excercises or aynthing that targets that area?! please & thanks (link)
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Do side crunches.
you get in the regular "crunch" position, then drop you knees to one side, then start "crunching". Do about 25-30 on each side, then switch (drop you knees to the other side) Hope I helped! Don't forget to Rate!
-alex :]
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hi im thinking about getting sims 2. whats so great about it? what are some of the things you can do on it you cant to do on the other sims? (link)
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Well, on the sims 2 you can create a baby, and it will eventually grow up. And, you can create almost any age of person on there. There are waayyy better graphics, and have some new stuff added to the inventory. It's just wayy better. I bought it a couple of monhts ago, and have had soo much fun on it. However, it does make your computer go a little bit slower, because of all the space it takes up.Hope i helped. Don't forget to rate!
-alex :]
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whats good perfume scent? nothing like sprays from wal-mart, like actual perfume by designers.
15/f (link)
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i am like obsessed with brittany spears's. it smells soooo good. :]
-alex :}
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hi i have very damaged hair,
let me explain
i have got it permanently straightened twice within the last 3 years, and now its going back to its unruliness, frizzy, and dry..i also got it highlighted over the summer.
every shampoo that claims to help doesn't
also what products can i use to help with frizziness, and dryness, and also what shampoos etc.
thanks! (link)
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that happened to me a while back. But recently, i found this reallllly good shampoo that works. Its called Tres-sume. you can get it at target or walmart. But what i do, to make my hair soft and shiny, but even less frizzy, is to use the fructis shampoo also. (by the herbal esscense company) you get the kind for frizzy damaged hair, but ONLY the shampoo. Then when i am washing my hair, i mix it in with the tres-sume shampoo. and voila! perfect mixture! it repleneshes your hair COMPLETELY and makes it sooo soft!Hope i helped! Don't forget to rate!
-alex :]
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i had sex for the first time with my boyfriend who i love, he wasnt being tough or aggressive and he did it as gently as he could, but when i got home i began bleeding like crazy, when we were fucking, it hurt alot, but not to the point where i was gonna die, and i also did it on the last day of my period, but then for the past 4 days ive been bleeding, like everytime i wiped, it wasnt just a spot, it was a quite a wiping if you get me. We did it twice, but it was short, and i just stopped. I wonder if its weird that i bled so much, i thought it would be a little spotting, not a pudddle. Can you tell me what was the cause for it? did i get a small vaginal tear, becuase i was really tight and shit.please help me (link)
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You probably ripped your hymen. Most of the time, when you have sex for the very first time, it normally rips your hymen, which is nothing bad. It should stop soon. If it doesn't, then go see a gyno or something. Hope i helped! Don't forget to rate!
-alex :]
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Hi. Ok, I have an "hourglass" figure. My problem is, I don't know what kind of clothes flatter me. I currently weight 220 lbs, and i am 5 9. I would appreciate someone telling me what kind of clothes would flatter me. Normally, I wear waist high jeans and t-shirts, but i want cute clothes that are in style. Thank you!!!!! (link)
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Well, there are several kinds of things in style right now. It really depends on what you would like. You could try the "skinny" jeans, which sort of hug your ankle, and go up to your waist. Maybe some tee's from abercrombie like these:
http://www.abercrombie.com/webapp/wcs/stores/servlet/CategoryDisplay?storeId=10051&catalogId=10901&categoryId=12264&langId=-1&parentCategoryId=12203&from=divGiftingFlash
or something from forever 21:
http://www.forever21.com/category.asp?catalog_name=FOREVER21&category_name=denim&Page=1
or american eagle:
http://www.ae.com/web/browse/category_feature_item.jsp?catId=cat90046
Just surf these websites, and find something YOU like. Hope i helped! Don't forget to rate!!
-alex :]
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15/m
a lot of ppl don't have this problem, but i have a really big penis
its about 7 1/2 inches, i don't no if thats big or not, but if i get and erection during school its really noticable
wat can i do to keep my penis down ?
wat can u do to get rid of and erection? (link)
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I'm sorry, but i don't think i'm fit to answer this question. I'm really glad that you came to me for advice! But, if you have any other questions, please ask me. Also, if you want more help with this question, you can go to the "get advice" tab, then anyone can answer it. Or, you can go to someone like Rahzie. She is really good with this type of stuff! Heres her link:
http://www.advicenators.com/column.php?u=Razhie
Again, i'm so sorry i can't help you with this!
-alex :]
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Hey people! I am getting a ipod nano ( new one) for x-mas and i wanted to know if it is easy to download songs on it and does it cost money? I also want to know how do you download songs off of cds that i have. Some one pleeze help me! Thankz! (link)
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its extremely easy. I also got the new nano, and they all come with cords that you plug into the computer for charching, and downloading. so you plug that into the usb cord slot. Then, open up itunes. Under store or playlists, (it always switches for me) it will be easy to find. But, you can use limewire (which is illegal, but free) or itunes, which costs money. And if you have cd's that you wanna use, just put them into your computer, go to itunes, and there will be a place where you can click that has a cd graphic, and it will have those songs on there. hope i helped! don't forget to rate!
-alex :]
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