from what i understand, it hurts everytime. because the anus is a muscle meant for pushing things out, not letting them in. it stretches to allow the penis to fit. it will hurt a lot at first, have the guy go slowww. after it gets all the way in, the pain will get better. it is possible for it to go in even if its tight, but it will hurt. make sure there is lubricant, he goes slow, etc. and it hurts everytime, its not like your anus gets loose or broken in, because it is a tight muscle. after it stretches to accomodate the size of the penis, it returns to normal size. it is possible for it to bleed if it is too rough or there wasnt enoguh lubricant. [ icey0990's advice column | Ask icey0990 A Question ]
alex_ABC_123 answered Thursday November 29 2007, 11:41 pm: 1. the first time its painful, but then it gets good.
2. Yes, but more like the 1st, 2nd, and 3rd time. It really depends on how "tight" you are.
3. Just for the first few time of sex. Like, not after or anything, just during.
4. It is possible, but thats only if you "cherry" pops. Which is really called a hymen. Its just a peice of skin that you can break by having sex, sports, putting in tampons, various ways. But, that will only happen once, unless something has gone wrong.
5. It is possible, but it will really not feel good at ALL for you. (if you are the girl, which i'm guessing you are) Lemme, tell you now, it will hurt like CRAP! but it does eventually go away, after about the 1st-4th time.
But if you are thinking about doing this, make sure you really are ready. Because it really doesn't sound like you are. But, that choice is up to you. Good luck! Hope i helped, don't forget to rate!!
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