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Q: Okay... Me and my boyfriend have been going out for 2 months... it will be 3 months on the 6th of january..! Well see my friend and her boyfriend have been going out for not even 1 month and they have already kissed (tongue) and held hands and more! Me and my boyfriend have kissed but it seems that we are never alone because of this girl that likes him... she is always there, she won't just leave me and him alone for just a little bit! What should i do? it is bothering me so much that my friends are afraid of me breaking up with my boyfriend over this girl always being there!

Talk too the girl or wrote he a note asking why your doing this or ask your frineds to talk to her or better yet as your BF too and tell him to say he dose not like her but can still be friends.

Q: hey i'm just wondering if it's wrong to go out with someone whos 2 years younger than you? like if i'm 13 [going to be 14 in march] and he's 11 [going to be 12 in july]... but i like REALLY like him, but idk if it's not right or anything.
Thanks a bunch

It is ok too date younger guy/girls. Do what'ch want but people might tease you for doing that but if you really like he be strong and do it.

Q: (Sorry lame queation everyone hates answering BUT...)Well I just started going out with this guy, "Greg" and I really like him and he really likes me. But the problem is, neither of us are very touchy-feely people, and so my friends are constantly yelling at me for not holding his hand, giving him a kiss, etc. Well I think that I should, so what should i do to just be a little bit more physical, I guess...

Do whatever YOU feel confertable with. Don't do what your friends what you yo do.

Q: okay .. i`m a sophmore in high school and the school is extremely huge .. its the biggest in the state of SC .. anyway .. going to school in a big high school means that there's a lot of guys! which is good for the us (the girls) but , i just can't seem to "get" one. its not because i'm ugly --what i think it is , is the fact that i am what you could say "a quiet one" i lyk can't talk to any "hot guys" i get all nervous and crap and then if i do talk i make a complete IDIOT outta myself. I dated this 18 year old for almost 2 years on and off and it was the best 2 years of my life .. i was happy and he treated me well but then we called if off since he was going to college and i was starting high school .. so i have mixed feelings about that also .. i want a boyfriend but i dont know how to get one i guess is my question .. how should i do this?!

Sincerely,
Boyfriend-less

well try you best to talk to them or pass notes and stuff. that works for me. i am really shy too but i got a boyfriend. just try to be yourself.

Q: ok i went out wit this one kid for 32 days and we were really close and i just broke up wit him 2 weeks ago and he has rally hot friends and i hang out wit them but the guy i went out wit isnt there wen i am and his friend tom always flirts wit me like he always sits by me or tells someone to move cause he wants to sit there he winks at me n he like does silly stuff like joke around like oh ur sexi but i dunno r these realy signs?? i sort of wanna kick it wit him and hes going to homecoming alone and i want to go wit him becuase i htink it will be fun and his bday is on homecoming day should i ask him or wait til he asks me i got the hots for this ki it means a lot to me please help me out oh and his ex gf is kinda my friend and she still likes him alil but he dont like her at all he said sorry this is long but i want u to kno exactly wats goin on thnx 4 readin

just ask him all he can say is no but it seems like he likes you. If you friends gets jelouse tell her you broke up .

Q: I NEED HELP!!!!!...Ive Been Goin Out With My Bf For Like 2 Weeeks But we Knew Each Other Like 1-2 Weeks Before He Asked Me Out...Well I Talk To His Cuz A Lot(Ive Known Him For Like 6 Months) And He Told Me That His Cuz Has Another Gf Besides Me...So Last Night I Called Him And Ask Him If That Was True And He Said, "Yes , But I Didnt Kno"...(How Can You Dont Kno If Your Goin Out With Sum1????)...Well I Asked Him If He Likes Her And He Was Like, "Not As Much As I Like You....Once I Get Here From Camp ill Cut Her"...All My Friends Are Telling Me To Cut Him....But I Love Him Soooo Much To Let Him Go....What Should I Do???...Should I Cut Him???... Dont Wanna Get Hurt!..Can sum1 PLEASE Gimmie Advice...Thanx...

yes cut him a guy did that to me and i cut him as soon as i new or you could talk to him ans suff.

Q: okay there's this guy at school...his names chris and i've liked him for a year now and last year we had 4 classes together and this year we have 4 classes together again! and we've been talking alot and he's sooo hot! and last friday night at the football game he sat down by me on the hill and i pulled out a pack of gum and he said "you know you wanna give me a piece of that right" and so i pulled out a piece and tried to hand it to him but he wouldn't take it...so i was like "uhhh" lol and he said "my arms are too tired i need you to unwrap it and put on my tongue" and omg he stuck out his tongue!!! i laughed and blushed and did it and then we just talked the rest of the night! does he like me?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!? HELP PLEASE!!
~*lashes*~

he sounds like a jerk to me. Making you do things like that for him. But h prolety likes you.

Q: I wanna b the student concil rep. for my class in seventh grade...how can i win soo peeps will vote for me.....(and i am shy around the popular kids)

Put posters up and say what you'll do. Hope i helped plz rate.

Q: Hi my name is Jess i have this really really close guy friend who has been my friend since 1st grade now he has a g/f and i dont like him but for some reason i feel jealous. Could anyone tell me y im jealous?

it is problety because you like him or you don't want to see you friends but anybody but you.
Hope i helped
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Q: Hey! I have a problem....okay..I told my best friend to tell this guy that I like him and now he is nervous to even talk to me...and now I feel the same way about him.....I'm confused! What do I do?

Just write him notes and stuff. ask him in the note what's up i want to be friends and other stuff. plz rate hope i helped

Q: Ok, this may seem like a pathetic question, but I really don't know what to do.

Well, I started talking to this guy in one of my classes, and he's pretty cool. So I ate lunch with him (because I didn't know anyone else in that lunch). And so I was eating with him and all his friends. Then today, (and a little yesterday...its the second day of school)him, and some of his friends started to hit on me, and try to flirt with me, and wink at me and all that stuff. And it's making me feel really uncomfortable. But, I don't know how to get away from their table now, because I think that they think I'm going to keep sitting with them. I don't want to hurt their feelings, but I also don't like feeling uncomfortable like that. What should I do?? Please help.

well talk to the guy alone and tell then of give then a note or tell your friend to talk to then. He will most likely help because he is your friends and all.

Q: okay so recently ive been hanging out with some friends that i wouldnt normally hang out with them out of school or sports. They smoke pot and they talk about ti all the time. since ive been hanging out with them i have been wanting to smoke it but i know its not the right choice. What do you think i should do?

Don't be friends with then. Your friends are breaken the law by smoking. So don't do it you will also be hurting and harming your body. and it will go to your brain and make you stupid. So don't do it and make new friends.

Q: I transferred to a new school and my friends that i already know ignore me and i try to make new friends but im not good at that stuff. So at lunch everyone is saying ohhh talk and i dont know what to do or say.

Tell then your name and stuf you like to do and the same for then. If they are nice. If your friends ingore you then they are not really your friends

Q: Where are some cheap places to find a homecoming dress? I'm basically just looking for a black one, nothing too formal.

Wal-mart, Ross, Deb, and daisymaze.com

Q: so i am goin into da 8th grade and my skin is tan and i have dark brown eyes .i dont kno which eyshadow to use, and i don't know what i shud do wit my hair, my hair is dark brown and is straight. please help.
I RATE :)

i am total the same way 100%.
Eyeshadow- Sky blue
Hair- keep down and straght

Q: My parents wont let me get the 2nd whole pierced in
my ear but I really wanna do it. So i have dicided to do it on my own! Does any1 know how,and what i should use?? Pleaz dont earase this cuz i wanna make sure i pierce them the right way !!I'll rate high..I promise!!

Just get earrings that are nickel free or gold. then get rubbing alcohol. Sock the earring in them after that get ice and a neddial. then freeze you ear for 3-5 mins. poke the niddle throught then hurry up and put the earring in as fast as you can. Thats what i did. i have 2 holes

Q: okay i am on my sis computer again- > i go bac to school thusday and i really need help. I am about 5'4. I already know what i am going to wear. I am wearin dark blue jeans with no pockets in the back and a green shrirt that i got from WeT SeaL . I am getting my hair done tomoorw and i am getting it conrolled half of my head. My hair is madd curly. Ont eh frsit day of school should i wear my hair in a messy bun my hair down the curls or strightin my hair ..
please dont selate this i really need help

*I rate*
Nicky

If you have brown/black hair total- Straghtion it.
If you have Blown hair- curl it.
If you have red or any other color- put in messy bun.
Hope i helped

Q: Hey friend is really thin and she has her hip bones sticking out is that ok bc i always tell her to eat more bc she think shes fat *shes 5'5 108 pounds* is that ok?

yeah thats ok. i am 5,1 and 98pounds just keep telling her too eat and tell her she is not fat tell her that 108 is normal and about everybody. is

Q: i have beauty marks like mole things on my back and in the summer i am scared to wear a bathing suit and a tank top because i am scared that people and freinds will make fun of me.what should i do ?

Just put make-up if yu don't like it. But if someone does make fun of you say " I have beauty marks so i am pretty and where are your beauty marks oops sorry you don't have one so if i was you i would shut up" or something like that or use the mole remove things. Hope i helped plz rate. ty

Q: I have a wedding to go to in about..a month in a half and I need a skirt like knee lenthy kinda wavy and layered kind of skirt solid color i prefer maybe with a little design i dont care but anyways do you guys know any sites online to order cute skirts and shirts to go with it and a cute shoe site with high heels or sandals too. thanks so much!

Here are some. forever 21, Pac-sun, Old Navy.
Hoped i helped

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