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This guy at school called me a b**** and I was with my friend who happens to be a guy and he fought him but the principle came and they both got suspended. When they were allowed back in school today I told my friend he didn't have to do that, but he said he did it for me and could'nt stand what that guy did to me, then after school he asked me out and told me that he's always like me, I didn't answer him I just said I had to go and kind of ran off. He's a really good friend and I don't want to rruin our friendship, but I think I may like him. I mean we go places and hang out and stuff but I have never considered us more than friends.
PLEASE HELP ! I rate 5's (link)
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well wow...what ever you choose i am sure it will work out but...he seems like a really nice guy, and he sticks up for you ( enogh to get suspended!) and he will support you so i think it wouldnt be a bad idea to say yes. wow well what ever you choose will come from your heart
xoxomadeline xoxolindsay
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Well I have some boyfriend but I really want to have one. But I don't want to ask anyone else also I dont want to look like a fool.
So if anyone can Help me please reply (link)
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is this about dumping your guy? if so then i would say to him that you dont want a boyfriend right now. best wishes
xoxomadeline xoxolindsay
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Okay so Halloween is only a month away and I've kind of been putting it off. Last year without thinking I promised my friend Kim (Names have been changed.) that she would come over to my house for halloween and we would be the pink ladies. I really don't want to be a pink lady and I don't know how to tell her. The worst part is I have no idea what I want to be for HAlloween. I want to be something totally original but pretty. I want to have a costume that nobody else has like last year I had an awesome costume and I loved all the attention I got for it. -Isn'tlifegreat?
age 13
P.S. I also have to tell Ashley she can't come over for Halloween because I really wan't to go to my friends Haloween Party. Gosh, I'm a mess. (link)
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well tell "kim" that no effence but you dont want to dress up as pink laidies say you want to look more....eligant. dresss up with like a really cute outfit and sparkels and youll look glamerous! wish you luck
xoxomadeline xoxolindsay
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I have been friends with Lauren since Kindergarden. We've always been close and I've ignored the fact that she's really geeky. Now, im in 7th grade and I'm starting to be really concious of it. Shes so embarassing!! Her nails look like a witch's and she won't let me cut them. I've been trying to slowly ignore her, but since we've been close since forever its hard to pull away. I know she won't let go of me. I'm her ONLY good friend. Tonight is the football game and I don't want to go with her even though she invited me. I want to go with my other best friend. Number one: How can I pull away from her? Number two: What should I do about the game tonight?? (link)
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you just need some space. when she calls your house dont anser....when she aim;s you dont respond when you let her attach to you then it is hard to let go....hang with your other best friend tonight have fun and forget about lauren....remember SPACE!
best wishes
xoxomadeline xoxolindsay
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Okay, So I have this friend right? She always corrects me and she asked me who I liked...And I said I liked a guy named Athony...Now she likes him too...and I like some else...and I can't tell her...and I REALLY REALLY like this other guy named Justin. I want to ask him out...but my friend will get totally p/o! Justin is in my C.A. and Reading class...and I sit right next to him...Sometimes I feel like Im just gonna Go up to him and kiss him..What do I do? (link)
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umm well i understand what your saying but i don tat the same time. umm if you really like this guy ...wow go for it ...ask him out! you cant sit and feel like your gonna kiss him forever! ask him and if your friend has a problem with that..well then shes not a true friend! wish you the BEST!
xoxomadeline xoxolindsay
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I'm going to a party tomorrow night and I'm getting quite worried about it.
There's this guy going who I don't talk to that much...but I've been to parties with him there before. Twice. And both times I ended up getting with him under the influence of a substantial amount of alcohol.
And I seriously don't want to do it again, but I don't want it to stop me from having fun...and I just don't know if I want to go any more, but its my best friend's birthday!
I'm pretty damn certain he'll try it on again if he gets the chance, so my question is how can I try and make sure he doesn't try it on? And if worse comes to worse how can I get rid of him without making things awkward for the other people at the party?
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ok well this is all abou tyour friend....you cant miss the party becuase of a guy! if he comes near you walk away and stick with your freinds they will support you! i no you can do it! i t may be tough but in the end youll feel bettter! wish you luck!
xoxomadeline xoxolindsay
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Hey.
Alittle over a month ago, I lost a friend to suicide.
It was terrible when I first found out, because I mean, I was talking to him the day before he did that.
He told me everything, and I tried to do everything to help. Could I have done more?
Its not really my fault, right?
-Erin (link)
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Wow a lot of pressure there. It wasn't your fault. What did you do to help? YOu could have gotten help from someone else. But no it wasn't your fault what he did. How old are you?
We are sorry much love
xoxolindsay xoxomadeline
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there were these kids today that were in my 4 th period class who were lookin at the picture of me and my boyfriend. to be honest he isnt the hottest thing out there but i really dont care i love my boyfriend to death. but they started diss him and sayin all this shit about him. they were sitting right behind me doin this and thought i was stupid and didnt noe what they were talkin about. can i turn that in for sexual harrassment? everything they said affended me and i got really sad and when i get sad i get quiet and that is what happened. i wanted to get up and hit ever single one of them and then show them what is so funny, but instead i thought it through and decided that they werent worth it so i ignored them and NOTHIN changed. they kept going and goin all period. (which was 30 mintuess left) here are my question:
1) could i turn them in for harrassment?
2) tomorrow if they start it again should i stand up and give them a piece of my mind?
3) do u think i should tell my boyfriend about this? (he doesnt go to my school)
p.s
i am a 14/f and a freshman (link)
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sorry but no. there are always goning to be people who like to she you hurt. but you just have to ignore them. maybe ask them to stop or something. well hope that helps!
good luck!
xoxomadeline
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Ok, long story short, I fell in love with one of my best friend over the summer. Yes, I'm 13. Yes, I know you're about to tell me that this is mere infatuation rather than love. I'm just gonna spare you a 1 rating: It's not infatuation. I know love, and I know infatuation. And this is definitely love. I can feel it as right as 2+2 is 4. Anydangways, she knows very well how much I love her, but she still only likes me as a friend. Now that the school year's started again, our attitudes have sort of changed. We used to joke around all the time, but nowadays, we see each other in the halls, and either we just say "hi" or we stay silent or involved in our conversations. Personally, whenever I'm talking to my friends in the halls, and then I see her coming, I'm suddenly turn silent and I say something like "Yeah, I know, I'm weird." or "Yeah. That's it." Or something to end conversation and not embarass myself. Also, I've been hoping to see her: whenever I'm near where she lives and talking to someone about something, I think, "I'd better make this conversation a bit smarter in case she comes near. Just to be safe" or something like that. And I'm always trying to impress her. I don't know why, we're best friends, and she knows how much I love her. What's going on? Why do I just suddenly lose all my intelligence, self-respect, and logical reasoning, not to mention my will to do what I please, whenever I think about her? It's like in that manga D.N.Angel, whenever Daisuke thinks about Risa, he becomes Dark and loses control of his body. Sorry, I babble a lot. I'd better stop now. Please help me! (link)
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wow 13! those are the hard years. well take it from me (i am a girl) all girls like it when they are surrounded by boys! like flirt with her and make her like you! all girls like to be swept off their feet. well hope that helps you!
good luck!
xoxomadeline
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okay, so this boy that i went out with like about 2 different times told his friend he wants to go to prom with me (yes, i do realize its only september) .. does that mean he likes me?? because its weird. Everytime i come back from away he Im's me right away.. and he talks about me a lot his friend told me. so whats the deal? and i dont even know if i would like him back either...? (link)
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i think he definatly likes you! but if you dont feel the same dont go with him...its you special night too! Let your own heart decide!
xoxomadelinexoxolindz
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well i dont eat a lot anymore....i eat like once every like 4 days and then im not hungry so i eat like a cookie and thats it ....its not like im trying to i just dont get hungry anymore and its like really bothering me...and all my friends are like i need help cause i do have anorexia but i just am not like hungry...and i think im fat but i know im not...but even the most skinney person in the whole world thinks they are fat sooo its normal in girls...right???? well
ill rate 5 for good answers
~to scared to focus~ (link)
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Ok don't you do this. You are not fat and you know it. You will get unhealthy if you dont stop! if you are conserned about eating food u should stick to a healthy diet but dont stop eating all foods! no one is that skinny except celebriities for other reasons though. You need to stop this before it gets worse. Protect yourself now before it becomes a habit. We are concerned about you so please get back to us. We will try to help you with every problem you have. Trust Us! Much Love!
xoxoLiNdSaYxoxoMaDeLiNe
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f/14. October 1st is my boyfriend and my four month anniversary. for stupid reasons, we never celebrated other anniversaries. so this is our first. i wanna do something specail for him. any ideas will help. i don't care how cheesy or lame it seems. we like doing that kind of stuff for each other.
i'd prefer ideas that didn't involve using money because we both come from poverty stricken backgrounds so we decided not to do anything like that. (link)
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money isnt everything. you can give him your LOVE. maybe like giving him chocolate or a cake. little things like that make a huge differnce! or maybe a card and a stuffed bear or something. as long as its from you ...he'll love it!
wish you luck!
xoxo madeline xoxo lindz
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13/f Okay..for the girls you may know what I'm feeling here..
Well do any of you other girls ever really want a boyfriend? Well that's the way I'm feeling..I mean lately I just feel..ugly. I mean no guys at school like me and today a few guys asked me out but I know(at least I think) that they were kidding. And in a few weeks I will be going to Cedar Point with my friend for her birthday and she's bringing two of her guy friends. She's saying that me and her guy friends would make such "cute couples" but I don't know..With my luck, they probably won't like me.
I don't know..I guess I'm just really self-concious about this..When I look at other girls, they are so pretty and it makes me feel like I'm as ugly as dirt.
And all of my friends think I'm pretty but I don't. I think I'm fat and that I'm totally unattractive.
If you need to look, I'm about to go upload a picture of myself onto my advice column
Does anyone know why I'm feeling this way? I understand that it's probably hormones but..
Thanks in advance for any helpful advice. (link)
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Hey!
Every girl is pretty inside and outside. Even though you might not think so it is true. There is someone that likes you but you just don''t know yet. besides there are plenty of guys out there...one of them is for you! it just may take a while. So keep your head high and trust your inner self.
wish you luck!
xoxo lindsay xoxo madeline
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