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Once you've deleted everything to the trash can on your computer, and then deleted everything from the trash can, is it PERMINATLY gone from your computer? Like, people can't find it after you've deleted it from the trash and everything? Please let me know ASAP! (link)
Once to empty the trash can on your computer its gone poof, but if you got the things you wanted to delete off a website thats innapropriate i'd do this:
1. go to tools
2. internet options
3. general
4. history and clear all files so it erases that memory aswell.

hope i helped.
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alright, well, I'm mormon, born and raised.
anyway, I have no clue what Ash Wednesday and Lent are, my friend had a big black mark on her head, and i asked her what it was, she just said ash wednesday, then i offered to go out with her on saturday to get something to eat and she cant. i asked her why, and she said Lent? What are these? what religion is it, and why?? (link)
its roman catholic religon. ash wednesday is the beginning of lent. lent it technically when you give up something you like/love for forty days. the black thing on her head was ashes, it symbolizes the cross or christs death. our holiday is kinda weird to you, but its what we beleive in.


Hi, I'm a 14 year old girl in Junior High. Today, I was called down to the office and accused of doing drugs. (Which I DON'T.) The guidance counselor and vice principal then practically strip searched me, made me empty my bag, take off my shoes, and then they called down a nurse to give me an eye test, take my blood pressure and listen to my heart to determine if I was high. Their reason behind all of this? Apparently earlier, a girl whos name they "could not tell me" told the office that "I was seen in the bathroom with a tube of white powder." I had been in the bathroom, but I had absolutely NO tube shaped items or any item, not even any makeup with me, that looked like powder.

My mom and I are thinking of suing the school district. Do you think that this is a violation of my rights? I do not think they should of searched me just because some random girl TOLD them that. Obviously she was lying. Do you think this is enough to bring forth a lawsuit against the school? (link)
the school doesnt have a legal right to search you without your permission.
i'd sue them.
case closed.


i haven't pooped in almost a week. gross, i know. i've been taking some sort of stool softener or laxative and fiber choice to try to make it better and i haven't been eating that much because i feel all bloated. help? no, i can't go to the doctor, though... (link)
kay well. probably the reason your not doing number two is because your not eating. obviously your number two is made up of bad food bacteria etc.
i'd advise to start eating alot of fruits, yogurt or something light if you feel bloated
just remember
the more you eat
the more you actually HAVE to go.
but if my advice doesnt work
go to the doctors
i didnt go
for like four days
and i went to the hospital
and i had a stomach infection.
not to scare you.
but just get a checkup,
if you feel actual systems tell your mom.
i told mine.
but i just said
mom
i rly dont feel good.
i havent gone in like
a week.
good luck.


What is the difference between anal and oral sex?? (link)
oral is like blowjob anything that you can lick or suck. anal is when his penis goes up your poo hole [:


Ok well i look for sites to find an html code for my pics right? the only close thing i can find is putting it in is in a slideshow but i was wondering if there was any way where i could pictures in like 'interests' section..cause i went to a site where they gave me those codes, but only to certain pics... i wanna use my pics but put it different places like about me, and books and music n stuff...ive been to a lot of sites wondering how..any trick or certain i could put? (link)
you can go to tinypic.com or photobucket.com i prefer tinypic.com because its way faster, so all you do is find your picture on your computer press enter and tinypic will give you the code, url, and image url so just take the code that has the and put it wherever you want on your myspace profile.


ok so i have hair like a couple of inches below my shoulder and its thick and wavy and really thick and gross. it's so hard to straighten because it is so long and thick. im getting my hair cut i want to go a little shorter and maybe layers? what would be a good managable hair style for me? pics would be nice. (link)
My hair was long a think.. like thick then anything possible. So i got my hair layers from chin level down (it really helps) then i got it so my hair goes into a V design, also get it thinned so it weighs less. the only problem with layers is that its more annoying to straighten because there's different levels of hair.


so me and my friend made wish bracelets...where you make a wish before you tie the string around your wrist and then your wish is supposed to come true when your bracelet falls off and all...

so i'm going to get straight to the point. can you change your wish? like after you've tied the string? or do you have to cut the old one and make a new one and redo the wish? (link)
no, rules state its one wish per bracelet.
and cutting the bracelet off gives you bad luck.
so just i guess put on another wish bracelet.
or wait till the one you have on now falls off.
thats the only solution.


why is there so much hate in the world? Every one is labeling everyone. Today I got so mad cuase my friend who is emotional and likes black, some kid walked up to here and asked her if he could teach him how to be emo. It really hurt my feelings even though it wasn't towards me. But Even if you are emo. punk. goth, hard core, why does it matter? as long as everyones being thereselves then it should? why does everyone catorgorize everyone? it's rude.What is the difference between punk, goth, emo anyway? help please (link)
everyone judges people, it just how we are it's in our nature if somebody saw me they'd probably say i'm emo because i wear band tee's and dark makeup. it's more like what suits you if what you wear but people who dont know you label you. labeling is how people are, we cant change it. not everybody has the same opinion as you do sorry to say but you cant be something your not. punk; are like they usually have mohawks and they do knit its basically a music genre thats turned into reality they die their hair weird colors they wear studs and they have lip rings. their like emo but calmer.
goth; all black, heavy makeup, they usually wear dark colors to, most are satan and also wear heavy makeup like the punks, black lipstick listen to gore, metal.
emo; most of them are told to cut themselves, emos are very emotional and get depression easily. they dont brag like 'oh i'm emo, hahaha look at me' thats poser. emos are silent they dont brag we mind our business you mind yours that how we go. usually we wear bright makeup, skinny jeans shop at hot topic pacsun +etc. we listen to metal, rock, punk/rock, indie, pop(sometimes), never EVER country. we liek originality we dress in comfort, thats all.


I have a deep fear of germs and getting sick. Even the thought of catching a regular cold drives me crazy. I was my hands for 10 minutes, and at school, I wear a bandanna that covers my nose and mouth to help keep the germs away. I mean, hey it's not my fault that kids at my school go swimming in 10 degree weather over the weekend, and then catch a cold. Basically Everyone is sick at my school ALL the time.

Some of my teachers get mad at me when I wear my bandanna, but if they make me sit next to, talk to, and help out sick people, why shouldn't I be able to wear it? I'm not going to get sick because of one stupid person. Last week, I skipped alot of my classes just because I sat next to sick people in them and I don't want to get sick. Mainly because I just started working out, and if I'm sick, I won't be able to work out. (yes, working out is REALLY important to me.)

Now my question, I guess my question is, is there anything else I can do from getting sick? Any healthy tips that you can inform me on? (Besides obvious stuff like washing your hands.) Do you think the bandanna is a good idea? I've actually considered wearing a surgical mask but then people would think I'm even weirder.

Also, how possible is it that I'm going to get sick if I sit next to someone sick, for about 45 minutes every day? (Keep in mind that I'm wearing my bandanna over my nose and mouth.) ANY advice you have would be helpful because I'm flipping out right now. (link)
kay. i think personally your being paranoid. the bandana hun is liek over-excessive just try getting halls for your mouth incase any germs do enter your mouth, if a teacher tries to pair you up with a sick person explain to the teacher after school you have a problem with being paired up with sick people or get one of your relatives to write a note to the school. in class also try moving seats or getting another assigned seat so you wont be near anybody sick. get hand cleansers those antibacterial ones, and get your shots so you wont get sick from common colds. being around people who are sick doesnt mean you'll totally get sick immediatly. i think you have a phobia. [:. look if somebody has a cold remember common colds do get treated easily and if you've had all your shots there's nothing to worry about. hope i helped [:


would it be rude if i broke up with someone in a letter? (link)
thats the hardest way
to break up with someone
best advice
do it in person
letters are just.. wrong
it should be banished
it hurts badly.
like very very badly.



Hey there.
I'm pretty confused as to what the song
"Welcome to the Black Parade" is supposed
to represent. Someone told me its a religious
song having to do with Hell and sins.
But I'm totally lost as to what its supposed
to mean. Can anyone fill me in? (link)
kay, not to be harsh.
if you dont get a song.
dont listen to it.
its retarded, and you look messed up.
dont ask fucking questions like that.
your probably a poser kid trying to pretend to understand something you totally dont.
please stop embaressing yourself.
its shameful.


“You can change your environment, but if you do not change yourself, the environmental changes are not effective”

I have an idea.. but I'll like to hear about what others view it as.

:] (link)
to me it means if you change your opinion on how you think of the world (like friends, family +etc) they won't think of you different because you have only changed the environment, you havent changed yourself. e.g lets say your really rude and you hate everyone if you finally decide you dont hate everyone then thats the world, but you havent changed you you've only changed your outlooks on other people, but their outlooks on you haven't changed. sorry it was so confusing. :]


right now i really dont like the way i look...

i was wondering if you guys could tell me what you think of me HONESTLY!! i dont want to hear like pity answers (ill rate well even if you say im hideous!!)

heres some random pics of me from facebook:
http://photos-048.ak.facebook.com/ip002/v60/162/44/1223791587/n1223791587_30189048_5121.jpg
http://photos-101.ak.facebook.com/ip002/v54/74/80/1223791338/n1223791338_30173101_3546.jpg

so can anybody tell me what they seriously think of me?
and make up hints?? or tips??
THANKS FOR THE ADVICE!! (link)
kay.
your face is long get bangs, thats what i did to make my face look smaller.
your teeth are amazing.
-jealous-
[:.
and uhm your eyes are amazing
get eyeliner and maybe mascara to bring them out like BAM.


lately i have beenbeing really lazy and mopey. and it seeems like i cant do anything right. i always drop things and ge tmy workds mixed up. and usually im the center of aattenin and a "social butterfly" but lately i ust dont feel like going threw the trouble of trying to start a conversation. and im REAL good at the flute and the other day at my lessons i kept messing up on my music. it was very simple but i just made clumsy mistakes. Also people around school know me as the " ditzy girl" and i swweeaarrr i dont do it on purpose but my teacher will ask me sometihng and ill think she means osmetihng else and say sometihng esle and sometimes my friends tell me that im really random. of course idont realize it becasue it makes complete sense to me " like we can be talking about going to the beach..then id think of when i was at the beach and think of when i was playing beach ball, then id just sort of blurt out " whats the proper rules for beach ball" and since know one knoews what im tihnking they kinda just laugh and call me jessica simpson or that i have ADD..it gets realy annoying. (link)
dude. you are yourself. we all get blond moments like entirely, being called jessica simpson, or being said you have ADD is from people who judge you they dont really mean to hurt your feeling they kid around but if you really want them to stop tell them to or just walk away, i get blond moments, and randomness 24/7 it's not horrible its a gift not alot of people have. blond moments leads to hilarity which leads to career choices like clown, comedian +etc. it just means your funny, and your not alone i get called dyke, ADD kid, blondie, and alot more. just be yourself and if they make fun of you explain what you were thinking originally liek lets say their talking about cake, and you say 'i cant wait till my wedding' they'll make fun of you right? so just say 'no you tards, i meant like at a wedding theres cake' something that explaisn to them what you were formally thinking. hope i helped!


What is a bug when you download a something from the internet? (link)
a bug is like a virus aka computer virus, most likely one called trojan, you can get it from email attachments and just regular websites.
i'd get norton antivirus for protection because once you get trojan
your computer can get massively damaged you can lose programs, foles/documents, and it can ruin your computer entirely.


I have a question.

How do you make your mascara not - so - clumpy when you apply it?

Please don't say 'buy better, more high quality mascara,' because I'm sure it all works fine...

but any tricks?

Thanks in advance. (link)
get some toilet paper and wipe the mascara bursh after dipping it in the bottle just wipe the brush then put it on.
that takes away clumps


Hi I am a new user to this web site, and I have a small question, I would like to know when do I ovulate? I would like to try for another baby and I want to know when the best time to start tring. Thanks and have a great day!!

Deidra (link)
Actually being ovulated is about once your period stops. Your ovaries are still ovulated so once it finishes try and try. but you could try fertility drugs to help you but you'll probably end up with twins, triplets, +etc


Is it possible to get a pimple if your lower area? (link)
yeah.
i get one after i get my monthly.
so yeah it's pretty much possible.


I have a question about seepage since me and my girlfriend are worried about her getting pregnant. At the point of orgasm I have a fetish in which I have my girlfriend spread her labia and I ejaculate right on her vaginal area. She says she can get pregnant this way, but I dont believe she can seeing as its not ejaculated inside her. How likely is it? (link)
When a sperm touches air it dies or whatever, its gone. But if a sperm in the tiniest bit touches her vag she can get pregnant. I'd advise birthcontrol, or condoms because i'm pretty sure with what you kid's are doing she might get pregnant. wear protection until you marry her, if you dont plan on marrying use protection or don't use her.




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