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My name is Vanna and I am 23 years old. My hobbies include but are not limited to: Photography, writing poetry & stories, playing bass guitar, playing on the computer, making youtube videos, chatting with friends, reading, crocheting, t-shirt reconstructions, writing pen pals, making new friends, learning new things and hanging out with friends & family.
I am very open minded, will try pretty much anything at least once. I love to live life to the fullest and try to think as optimistically as I possibly can! I'm also pretty random and am always being creative & unique. One of my favorite things to do is to dance in the rain! It just makes life not seem so bad, as if you're starting anew...
I work at a newspaper doing classifieds and legals. I am a bisexual woman who is married to her soul-mate! I have no kids of my own as of yet, but I do have two wonderful step-kids that I love as if they were my own. I suffer from depression and being overweight, those are two things i am working on right now!
I've just switched over to living a vegetarian lifestyle. I want to lose weight and be healthy the right way. I have studied up on being vegetarian A LOT and own 3 different books on the subject. I try to make sure that I get all the appropriate nutrients and vitamins throughout my day. :)
I have been through a lot in my life (sexual abuse, physical abuse, emotional abuse, miscarriages, depression, aloneness, bullying, etc), just like everyone else I'm sure! I love answering questions and will offer the best advice I possibly can!
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I just forgot to turn of the lights at my kitchen and my mom got mad at me for it. How can I remember I just woke up and she goes at my quickly oh go eat already I mean wait a minute I don't have to rush. See she is really mentally abusing me holding me down and everything. Is it ok for her to be mad at me over the stupid lights. That fucking bitch. She is never going to stop with her emotional abuse. (link)
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It sounds to me like she has problems of her own that she needs to work on. If you haven't told her how you feel, I would suggest you do that soon. She may not even realize the way she's treating you.
I'm not standing up for her at all. She shouldn't be lashing out at you for small things like that. Maybe ask her if she needs someone to talk to...you might be really surprised at the answer!
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I'm going to the doctor friday for a virginity test. I don't want to break my mom's heart. Is there anyway I can make it seem like I'm a virgin? They are checking physically..any advice? (link)
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First off...there's no way to make it seem like you are a virgin if you aren't. There's a theory that you can rebuild your hymen by not having sex for 7 years, but i'm not sure that that is at all true. If you use tampons, it is possible that your hymen broke while using them, like mine did. The best advice I can give is for you to just tell them. They're going to find out anyways and they're going to be embarrassed, disappointed and not to mention really angry with you if they have to have a doctor tell them what you should have. Just tell them. Don't be afraid! I'm here if you need to talk :)
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im a girl. i think im attracted to my softball coach and i prctically see him all the time. how do i get over liking him! (link)
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The best way to get over someone is to throw yourself into something else (ie another guy, friends, hobbies, etc). The truth that you will have to face is that you guys can't be together because of the age difference (among other things!). He will not be the last guy you are ever attracted to. Also, try not to spend any time alone with him if you can avoid it!
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basically what the subject says..... but wat if hes shy ? (link)
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The best way to tell whether or not a boy likes you for sure is to just simply ASK him! If you're shy yourself you can pass him a note or something else along those lines. Make sure to get him alone so that his friends can't sway what he says either way. Don't be afraid to be rejected because there are many many other guys out there that would love to be with you :)
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I had said to this boy in whom I've once dated "I hear you and (my friend) have really been hitting it off" INQUIRING ABOUT MY FRIEND. His reply was "ha, yea, totally..."
He usually answers her texts right away, they just talk about random stuff, he laughs in basically all of his texts, he doesn't talk much though, so usually his texts are about four/five/six words, around that area and when I said he should come to a party she's having where her and I going to do something that he does, he said "yea, maybe". I feel like they like talking to each other. The thing is, they never talked face to face. And she claims that after the first text conversation they had he started to realize her, she said she feels like him and his buddies would quick glance at her at lunch and stuff like that, but she isn't quite sure about that. I'd really like to see him and my friend together! (:
I'm just a little confused with the "..." part. Why do you think he put that there? Thanks!
P.S- He is going to be a senior after this summer and she is going to be a junior. (link)
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Honestly this is something that you should leave between them. I know that you are trying to help and you would love to see them together (kudos for that!), but you can't force people to be together or like each other.
He may not want to tell you what is going between them, because he may not be sure what's going on himself or he may not want to hurt your (or your friend's) feelings. Also the fact that he's a senior may play a big role in it.
He may just not want to start a new relationship when he will be graduating in a year. There are lots of other factors that could contribute to the way he's acting: his home life is complicated, stress, etc.
My best advice is to not read too much into it for now. No matter what is going on, there's not much you can do to fix the situation. I know it sucks to hear it, but just wait and see what happens!
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All my attempts to improve my life or move forward just set me back. All my acts of kindness are misunderstood. Nothing I thought I was good at succeeds.
Be honest, is there just a point in life where you should stop caring about anything and wait patiently for death? Because that's what I'm feeling.
Male, late 20's. (link)
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Look, I understand what you are going through for the most part. I have had those feelings...heck most people have had those feelings before! I'm not saying your feelings aren't important, because they are.
What i'm trying to say is that YOU are important. YOUR LIFE is important! The things you do or say ARE IMPORTANT! You may not get the credit or the payoff you have been wishing and hoping for, but don't give up on being a good person. Because it sounds to me like you are trying and that things just keep getting in the way.
Take some time to step back from your problems and do something that genuinely makes you happy (meditate, exercise, walk, swim, write, read, take a shower or bath, hang with friends, etc). You will feel much calmer and relaxed. Also, you may want to talk to your doctor about possibly getting on medication for depression. That's what I had to do!
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My friend said to take a ibuprofen pill to stop your period from coming for a few days. I want to go swimming today and I took one because my period is coming up due. I got to thinking and this is a really cool medicine then but how will I know if I'm pregnant if it has delayed my period, right? Will ibuprophen affect a pregnancy test then?
So, does ibuprofen really deley a period or what? (link)
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No it does not. Actually it will make you bleed more. I've used it before on my periods for pain and rather than make it go away, it made me bleed even more! I do not recommend using pain pills in this way. That could become a habit and make you really sick!!!!
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