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I'm Confused About Something he Texted me?
I had said to this boy in whom I've once dated "I hear you and (my friend) have really been hitting it off" INQUIRING ABOUT MY FRIEND. His reply was "ha, yea, totally..."
He usually answers her texts right away, they just talk about random stuff, he laughs in basically all of his texts, he doesn't talk much though, so usually his texts are about four/five/six words, around that area and when I said he should come to a party she's having where her and I going to do something that he does, he said "yea, maybe". I feel like they like talking to each other. The thing is, they never talked face to face. And she claims that after the first text conversation they had he started to realize her, she said she feels like him and his buddies would quick glance at her at lunch and stuff like that, but she isn't quite sure about that. I'd really like to see him and my friend together! (:
I'm just a little confused with the "..." part. Why do you think he put that there? Thanks!
P.S- He is going to be a senior after this summer and she is going to be a junior.
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Honestly this is something that you should leave between them. I know that you are trying to help and you would love to see them together (kudos for that!), but you can't force people to be together or like each other.
He may not want to tell you what is going between them, because he may not be sure what's going on himself or he may not want to hurt your (or your friend's) feelings. Also the fact that he's a senior may play a big role in it.
He may just not want to start a new relationship when he will be graduating in a year. There are lots of other factors that could contribute to the way he's acting: his home life is complicated, stress, etc.
My best advice is to not read too much into it for now. No matter what is going on, there's not much you can do to fix the situation. I know it sucks to hear it, but just wait and see what happens!
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