All my attempts to improve my life or move forward just set me back. All my acts of kindness are misunderstood. Nothing I thought I was good at succeeds.
Be honest, is there just a point in life where you should stop caring about anything and wait patiently for death? Because that's what I'm feeling.
Male, late 20's.
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Miscellaneous category? Maybe give some free advice about: Random Weirdos? trueadvice3 answered Tuesday June 22 2010, 12:40 pm: Hey bro, hows it going?
first and for most I applaud you for posting your question on here and I am more than happy to help you.
- I want you to know that there are points in life where everything we say and do seems to be pointless and most of all useless.
- But at the same time, life just will not get tired of bringing to our lives the most difficult obstacles possible that we must face like brave warriors.
- I know you might be frustrated and angry/impatient with yourself and the people around you right now but all you need is time to think things through and talk to someone that will be there to listen to you.
- Your acts of kindness might be misunderstood by many but you know you are only wanting to do good and that's all that really matters.
- tell me, what acts of good have you done that have been misunderstood? maybe it is all just about knowing how to do such acts so as to not make them seem like you are wanting to do harm to others.
- I know you are a strong person I believe you can overcome this issue and I am here to help you out and most of all listen to anything that might be bothering you in this world.
- Believe it or not, there is indeed a potent reason for you to want to continue your life! I know so... it is just that right now you are too confused and have given up hope but I am here to bring that hope back and be here for you to talk about the many things that are stressing you out.
- I need more details on your issue to be able to fully help you and I know you can make things better... it is all about working on certain key things that will ultimately make you feel better both physically,mentally, and emotionally.
- Life is can be amazing and truly pure... full of bad and yet glorious and superb experiences, it is up to you the warrior to fight through any obstacles that come your way with a little bit of help from people that truly want to help others, these warriors can become the best they can be.
- I wish you all the best and looking forward to your response to my question I am here to listen to you.
-trueadvice3 [ trueadvice3's advice column | Ask trueadvice3 A Question ]
VannaTheStrange answered Wednesday June 16 2010, 3:18 pm: Look, I understand what you are going through for the most part. I have had those feelings...heck most people have had those feelings before! I'm not saying your feelings aren't important, because they are.
What i'm trying to say is that YOU are important. YOUR LIFE is important! The things you do or say ARE IMPORTANT! You may not get the credit or the payoff you have been wishing and hoping for, but don't give up on being a good person. Because it sounds to me like you are trying and that things just keep getting in the way.
Take some time to step back from your problems and do something that genuinely makes you happy (meditate, exercise, walk, swim, write, read, take a shower or bath, hang with friends, etc). You will feel much calmer and relaxed. Also, you may want to talk to your doctor about possibly getting on medication for depression. That's what I had to do! [ VannaTheStrange's advice column | Ask VannaTheStrange A Question ]
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