Well.
If you are clinically depressed that would mean that even when everything is going right you still feel sad.

I just suggested to someone that they keep track of their feelings in a journal.

Write down when you feel these thoughts and why you might feel them. If something bad happened like a fight with a friend or at home and you feel like running away or depressed because of that then I would have to say that you are not clinically depressed, as in having depression, but are just upset.

If something or everything is going good and nothing bad has happened recently and you just feel run down, fatigued, loss of interest in activitys for no apparent reason, than you might be clinically depressed and would have to get an evaluation by a doctor to then go on medicine.

You can take a self test online, print the results and take them to your physician for further testing.

http://www.abc.net.au/cgi-bin/common/quiz/scaletally.pl?presname=health/depression

There are many more you can take just go to www.google.com and type in "Depression Quiz" Or "self diagnostic depression quiz"

Or something along those lines.

Phones at the verizon store are made for verizon plans. You can go on ebay.com or amazon.com and buy an unlocked phone which is a phone that is able to be taken to any phone company and turned on so long as they accept that phone. For example. You cannot take a sidekick II to a verizon store and have them activate it. Sidekicks are only for Tmobile because verizon doesnt support phones with SMS Cards in them. If you are interested in a phone I would tell you to get the name of it and call sprint and ask if they are able to activate that type of phone. If so, then go on one ofthose websites or a radioshack or some electronics store and buy an unlocked phone then take it to sprint and activate it. Unlocked phones are expensive and run around 300 dollars. The reason phones are so cheap when you sign up with a plan is because the plan lowers the price so you'd have to get a contract to get the price. Make sure its a phone you really like because of the price, unless money isnt an object

--Edit: Well. I was a cutter also, for 5 years so I know where you are coming from but that isnt a healthy alternative. If you have AIM, we could exchange screen names, and we could talk on here so this isnt as public?


Well you just told everyone here on advicenators so thats a good first step. Suicide is a horrible thing for anyone to do and it causes emotional pain to everyone that knows that person and the people who love them. I would suggest visiting this website

http://www.metanoia.org/suicide/

It has helped me and my friends many times when we felt that we were at our wits end.

Dont make any spur of the moment decisions, if you are contemplating it I would sleep on it and chances are you'll feel better in the morning. The most common times to think of suicide are when things are unseemingly unbearable. That is generally when our adreneline is pumping and we dont think before our actions. If you take time to think it through and write down the reasons that you feel you want to commit suicide, you can help yourself understand ways to fix them.

Try keeping a journal and record your thoughts from day to day to see when the feelings seem most strong. If they seem stronger around times where something big happened that day (fight with a friend, parents fighting, bad day @ school) then chances are you just dont know how to deal and need to find a release.

Music is always good. Running/exercising/smoking(if you smoke cigarettes. If not I dont suggest it.) Screaming into a pillow, punching a pillow, calling a close friend and talking about what happened. Or if you dont want to tell people exactly whats going on you can talk to a counselor and tell her that you are stressed and ask if she knows any counselors or psychologists that she could recomend you go see to have someone to vent to. everything that goes on between you and the shrink will remain confidential.

If you need anything further - Message me.

I would say to not worry about it right now. He might only feel obligated to date you because he feels bad or you could get let down. Let their relationship take its course and try to become real good friends with him. Show him your personality and hope for the best. Dont overdo it so it seems obvious though. I wouild let things happen naturally. If he ends up falling for you and breaks up with her than great, and if not then it wasnt meant to be. If its real it will find a way. If you dont want to do this you can always step up and say that you have feelings for him and see if his feelings comply with your own. :)

K well they have DDR for XBOX yes but it isnt as good as the one for playstation 2. The games for playstation 2 are DDR Max 1 & 2 and Extreme 1 & 2. The ones for XBOX are Ultra mix 1-3 I believe. Ive heard bad ratings about the ultra mix. If you have a playstation 2 I would recommend getting those games. As for no stores being around, you can always buy them on EBAY, Amazon & Overstock. Or a walmart/gamestop website. =]

www.ebay.com
www.amazon.com
www.overstock.com
www.walmart.com
www.gamestop.com

www.tagged.com
www.face-party.com
www.slingo.com
http://www.isketch.net/isketch.shtml (amazing)


search google for games if you want to play a game. a bunch come up

you could also partake in a forum
like on realpics.net or buddypic.com

(they're picture rating websites but you meet cool people on them)

It's not a virus, lol. Its called a booter. Sometimes when you go in Yahoo chat rooms there are booters in there and if you piss them off, they have programs that they plug your username into and itll send you a bunch of messages that will freeze your computer and eventually boot you. i used to do that a while back, you can get booters, or see what they are at darkyahoo.com

It wont harm your computer, its just basically to piss you off. So dont worry about viruses or anything. Just change your sn so that they dnt know it. I mean they could be sending you a virus, but its doubtful.

Yahoo isnt very safe, and yahoo chat rooms are horrible, and they have all sorts of problems - I wouldnt bother with yahoo, heh.


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Ehh. Well if you changed your sn they might be in your computer.. I had that happen to me and when I changed my sn I went into settings and under privacy settings, or ignore (im not sure which), theres an option to ignore everyone who isnt on your buddylist. That should prevent you from getting the booting messages.

If you notice anything weird about your computer like.. your mouse moving on its own, or things being deleted without you doing it.. then I'd get a very strong virus protection and firewall - and put it up like.. zonealarm, and leave it on all the time with the strongest level of protection. See if that helps .. and if they do anything past that, like worse, like threats or anything - call the police and file a harassment report and they can find their IP and locate them.

Basically its an action in which two people are participating or "teaming up" on another person.
This can be used in referance to sex, beating someone up, playing a game, etc.

I more frequently hear it when pertaining to sexual things.
For example, two guys having sex with a girl. One will have sex with her for a little bit, then the other guy comes in and does his thing, then it goes back and forth.

Not sure the point, but yeah.

I think that it might be a sign of some obsessive behaviour. See, OCD people absolutely HAVE to do those things. If they dont their life is ruined, and they do it without even thinking. If you absolutely have to do these things, or its really traumatic you most likely have OCD. If you are able to go a day without doing them, then you just might be obsessive about certain things. I'm the same way. My OCD consists of counting, and things related to personal items such as my laptop and cleaning and such.

Things like that dont seem like a real problem and you wouldnt need medication for them. It doesnt seem to be effecting your life in anyway. The people who get diagnosed with it and need medication for example.. If whenever they see a red car they have to shout as loud as they can. That would be something that would effect their life. What you have is actually very good, because it will keep you in order. Most people would kill to compulsively be that way.

If you really cannot stand doing this, then mention it to your mom again and say that you really would like to get evaluated. You will then have to go to the doctor and tell them the symptoms that you have, or do this online assessment http://www.healthyplace.com/Communities/ocd/nimh/screener.htm
then print your results and take them to the doctor with you. They will then refer you to a psychologist where you can go and get examined.

Good luck!

Haha! That wikipedia definition was quite amusing. Its a boy who dresses like a girl and whom I think is absolutely stunning. He has a large fan base of scene kids, and is really popular on myspace. But he's a recording artist, and professional makeup artist. He does makeup for stars in hollywood. How he got his start was basically on myspace and people picked up on him and thought he was basically amazing. He's met alot of other myspace celebs such as forbidden and chris chaos. Also he did a song with hollywood undead, the band that got famous on myspace.

AHHH
I smell sex and candy, yeah , whos that lounging in my chair.. whos that casting mysterious stares in my direction and mama it surely was a dream, yeahh

Its called sex and candy by Marcys Playground

Eh. I disagree with the people below. Since its cartilage there isnt any extreme danger if it gets infected.

But.
I pierced mine myself and I didnt think that it hurt at all, and I did it SLOW. Imagine that, heh. When you get it done at a professional tattoo parlor, it will go in extremely fast and you hardly feel anything. (I got my tongue pierced professionally, and they go super fast, haha) Anyway though. If they pierce it with stainless steel or gold you should be fine. Just make sure that the place is sanitary and they use a piercing needle instead of a piercing gun(their less sterile). When they pierce it they will either give you some stuff to clean it with or tell you that you have to clean it with peroxide or alcohol. There is a possibility that it can get infected, but I believe tahts only if you dont take care of it well. You're supposed to clean it 2-3 times a day, at least. If a bump forms, dont pick at it, like the person below me said. It isnt an infection, its part of the healing process and it will go down. Some people get a bump and some people dont. I personaly didnt get one, but I was fortunate.

If it gets infected and it hurts and begins to form puss(greenish yellowish stuff), you will need to remove the jewelry and clean it out and then let it heal and get it repierced again.

So those are the dangers, if you wouldnt even call them that.

Positive things, hm.
It looks good, I think.
Its adds a little something extra to your face.
Its small enough to cover up or even hide
They make clear nose rings for extra coverage.
It isnt in a spot where it can be easily ripped out (at least I dont think so)
& I dont think its terribly painful.

Heh.
Hope that solved your inquiry.

First you confront the issue and tell him that you think he has a problem and you're worried about him. Of course hes going to deny that there is an issue because people who are anorexic dont see that they have a problem, they dismiss it as nothing. Some common signs of anorexia are obviously loss of weight, pale skin, hair becomes frail & sometimes falls out

Also people who have it tend to wear darker baggier clothes, and hats to cover their thinning hair. They try to hide their dramatic loss of weight by wearing bigger clothes. If he does any of that, he might have the eating disorder.

Talk to him about it and try to get him to admit it or at least admit that he needs help. My cousin was anorexic and almost died, and she wouldnt eat until she was ready and admitted that she had a problem. She was 5'7" and got down to 70 pounds and almost died of a heart attack before she admitted she needed help.

He might not admit it, but if he doesnt admit it to you bring it to his parents attention, Like the person below me said, he may hate you for it but he`ll hate you even more if it gets any worse and you didnt do anything about it.
He'll be kicking himself later for not listening.
Anyway though, tell his parents and if its really bad after he sees a doctor and they diagnose him with it they will put him into a facility where they will make him eat at least 3000 calories a day to start gaining weight again.
The type of facility that my cousin was in was they would take away all her privelages and say she couldnt see her family or take a shower until she ate a certain amount of calories. Its harsh but it works.
I hope he doesnt ever have to experiance that, and takes care of the problem before it gets any worse.

But like I said previously. Confront him, and give him a bit of time and see if he comes to you. If not, corner him and make sure he cant change the subject or leave to go somewhere else. If he doesnt admit it and a few weeks go by and hes gotten worse, tell his parents and take it from there.

Hey doll. Aw thank you. Well, Yes I'm bi & I've known since 5th grade. So heres my story, lol. I came out in 6th grade and my friends freaked and turned against me, so I said that I was lying and i really wasnt and everyone pretty much forgot about it. I then waited till I was in 10th grade and I brought it back up again and everyone was cool with it. I dont know how old you are or what grade you're in, but it seems to me that the older people are, the more mature their friends seem to be. When my friends we're younger they didnt fully understand the concept, and they were used to it because everyone is generally classified as straight in middle school cause its "normal". But when I was in 10th grade, like I said, everyone was cool with it. Hopefully it will be the same at your school. If your friends are iffy about it and think that you might have a crush with them just simply explain that just because you're bi, your friendships arent going to change, and it doesnt mean that you automatically have a crush on every girl. I dont have a crush on any of my friends that are girls, because I've known them forever. If they are your really good friends, they should understand that.
So, yes Im sure it will pass. When first coming out, the initial reaction is generally shock. Once they get over the initial reaction, it should be smooth sailing. Im sure you might have a few people who might not like the idea and decide to be immature and start problems, but dont worry about them, they dont matter anyways. Just ignore that if it happens, because it simply isnt worth it.

Im still figuring out this whole thing, haha. So if you need any further help, you can give me your sn (i have AIM, yahoo & MSN) and I can IM you =]]

Girls do the same things sexually that a guy and a girl would do. Touching, kissing, making out, oral sex, etc etc.

As for the shaving thing; Every girl has their own preferance. If you are dating her and dont quite feel comfortable yet, I suggest waiting a little bit before doing sexual things. Once you are comfortable with her and talking to her about things, ask what she prefers that way you know.

I wouldnt just shave for her though.
Its your preferance too.
If you dont want to, then dont. She should understand.

Just let things flow though. Ive only dated one girl myself, but Im bisexual. It was a little odd the first time, but we didnt do anything sexual. I just dated her to get back at my ex boyfriend so it wasnt anything serious, but people knew.
I just sort of went with it. The first kiss with a girl is the weirdest because I was always accustomed to kissing guys.

Anyway though. Talk with her about it. Say that you're a little nervous and dont want to disappoint her. Have her talk with you through it and give you pointers. Just let things flow, and I'm sure she'll guide you along the way!

Let me know how it goes love. ♥

Well. I must say. I personally love how you stumble across this website on accident, and feel the need to critisize what we are doing here. I would love to see you create an account and blow all of our "childish advice" out of the water.

Now. All defensive statements aside..

Like everyone said below, there are people of all ages on this site. I'm sure a 13 year old would feel more comfortable having their question answered by a fellow 13 year old, rather than an older person who might not be too familiar with what their going through. Which is why certain people answer certain questions. Not all of us are claiming to have a degree in psychology, and claim to be qualified to give advice, but some of us are striving towards that and this isnt a bad start.

The persons that ask questions on this site know that the members volunteer themselves and most likely dont have any qualifications. If the question was pertaining to something serious and we are unable to give advice about, most of us tell them to seek professional or medical attention to correct that problem.

We dont promote dangerous advice, or tell people to do anything illegal, so I'd say we have a pretty good establishment here.

As for the "little life experience" comment, I dont believe that age has anything to do with the ability to give advice. Everyone has an opinion, and the right to express such views, just like you are doing right now.

(Personally I dont think you are at liberty to judge a website based upon 5 minutes of skimming through questions, but thats besides the point)

I'm 17, and I've been through alot of rough situations that most haven't, which is why I enjoy helping other people on this site to reassure them that they are not alone in what is happening. Like I said previously, people who come to this site dont expect to get expert advice, they know that they will get their question out to a wide range of ages, and hope to find the best answer that suits their needs.
Remember, they dont HAVE to take our advice. We tell them what we think, and thats the reason they post the question: TO SEE WHAT WE THINK.

If they choose to take it and listen to what we say, that is up to them, and if anything happens in regards to that, it will be them that is at fault.

Also.
I dont believe im a "godsend"
I try and help who I can. If they say that I did, then great, I'm glad. If not; better luck next time.

Maybe you havent ever been able to be helped in your life, or felt as if there wasnt an answer, but 9 times out of 10 there is always an answer. It just might take alot of searching to produce one. It may not be apparent right away, or when its most needed, but it does appear.

Sorry you feel the way that you do towards this website, but I would rather have people come here to vent their feelings & receive advice, rather than trying to do something on their own and getting hurt because they were misinformed.

You should really sign up for this website. Try your hand at it. You seem to be far more qualified than us, considering you're being so critical.

Okay. She isnt "fake". She made up a storyline and made those videos for her acting career. She wanted to become an actress so she threw together a little drama, like a real world type thing. Made up this life as if she was filming her own movie. It entertained people and got them really involved. She wasnt trying to lie to people or fake a lifestyle, she just was pursuing one of her dreams I suppose. And vh1 picked up on her I guess, and she got the award for hot in 06 or something like that.

But, yeah it was a fake drama series. But everyones judging and assuming that she was trying to get some sort of attention and I dont believe that was it, heh.

But you're correct.

Its called an industrial piercing, i do believe. Regular barbells dont work because they have to be fitted for that exact piercing. When you get it pierced they do it with a barbell and it'll be long enough so that if it swells it wont have enough room on the bar. If you go to a website that sells body jewelry, it usually has a section for each piercing. Or you can ask your piercer, or even buy jewelry from them. I'm sure theyd have some ideas. Bodycandy.com has alot of good stuff too, for cheap.

Ehh.
I also have IMVU and IE7 and I havent had any problems with it, so my guess is that it could have something to do with your computer and how IE runs on it. Keep in mind the IE7 is still somewhat a beta, and their trying to work out all the bugs in it still.

I'd need more information on this to really help you. If you can provide more, drop one in my inbox and Ill do what I can to assist you.

my ultimate favorite songs by linkin park are Runaway & My December


My december is the best song by them in my opinion.. its just.. ahh amazing.

Go to www.azlyrics.com and view the lyrics of them all and if you think one of them might sound good then download it. but all their songs are basically amazingg

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