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Facts About Me :)>> Born and raised in Brooklyn, NY but now residing in Pennsylvania
>> 22 years of age and in college. Graduated with an Associate's Degree in Medical Administration, now working with a laboratory as a jack of all trades customer service rep, hoping to pursue a higher degree in the healthcare field.
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Okay I really need your advice please!!!! And soon really soon and long or lots of answers!!! Alright. So what are some things thatguys want to hear from their girlfriends. Like compliments or things to call them. Things he likes to be called and things that he will think I'm cute for. Thanks alot!! :)
Hello :)
My partner likes for me to compliment the way he looks. For example, sometimes I'll touch his hair and say "wow babe, your hair is so soft", and the touching+compliment will boost his self esteem. I also compliment his body, saying how strong he looks. It boosts his ego lol. Basically, if you're close enough with your bf, he'll want attention, affection, appreciation... So compliment his smile, his eyes, his body, the way he touches you, anything! As long as you mean it, and don't make it sound like you just read it off google ;)
Also, don't compliment too much, because then he'll probably feel uncomfortable, at least, that's what I think. Good luck, and I hope I helped!
Uniq
OK i ended it with my boy friend a while ago and now well...... I WANT HIM BACK!!! I have been giving hints that i really like him and some of my friends have said some things, i have tried to talk to him but it doesn't work!!!! please just help me!!!!
Hey, thanks for the inbox Q,
Well if he doesn't want you back, there's nothing you can do. Honestly, he's either happy being single, or wants you to beg him to take you back. I wouldn't suggest throwing yourself at him, I'm pretty sure you can meet other guys who will appreciate you and show you they care. I'm not sure how old you are, how long you two had been going out, but chances are you're in High School, so you have plenty of time to find the right guy. Have fun in the meantime, trust me, you'll wish later on in life that you did. Sometimes, the right guy comes along when you're young, sometimes when you're more mature in your 30's... just be safe and have fun. Enjoy life, and search for love if you want to. But don't beg someone to take you back. If you want, you can sit down with him, tell him how you feel, and see how he responds. That's the mature way :) Good luck, and I hope I helped!
Uniq
I am home for the summer from college and theres this new guy my friends have been hanging with and i have begun to develop a small crush on him but we never have hung out alone. I dont want to ruin the friendship by bringing in romance in case he doesnt like me! but anyways me and him exchanged numbers the other night but it was completely friendly. And then tonight he texted me around 11pm asking me how my day was, what i did just small talk...if he is going out of his way to talk to me do you think he might like me as well?
Hello :)
Of course he likes you, but most likely as a friend. He probably enjoys being around you, and thinks you're just as cool as your other guy friends, so why not get to know you? How long has it been since you guys met? I would suggest getting to know him better, and letting him get to know YOU better. The more you two know about each other, the more you'll find out how compatible you two are. Oh, and make sure he doesn't have a girlfriend. Anyway, I'd say let a couple of weeks go by. Then flirt with him, let him know how cool he is, and invite him out! If he says no, then just play it off and say we're going out as a group, we don't have to be alone. Good luck, and I hope I've helped!
Uniq
Cached -similar what does it mean when searching on google?
Hi :)
Maybe this can help:
http://www.googleguide.com/cached_pages.html
That's for the cached part. Similar is just basically going to do another google search for you, with pages similar to that link. For example, type "dude" into google, and click similar on the first link. Then watch what happens. Good luck!
Uniq
I was just diagnosed this morning with it. How long does it take to go away?
Hello :)
Go to google, and type in your question. I'm sure there are many forums that have discussions on Gastritis. Good luck and feel better.
Uniq
how do you turn someone one on ive been trying to turn my boy friend on with out doing anything to risky i dont want to take my cloths off or show anything yet?
Makes life SO much easier.
http://tinyurl.com/24autt4
-Uniq
how do you block someone from your phone? i started talking to this guy but then realized he was a jerk and i don't want him texting me anymore.
Hi :)
You can have your parents (if they own the line) call the company and ask them to block the number. Or, they can change your number. I'm not sure about texts, but some phones give you the option of sending certain people to voicemail. Either way, you'd have to explain the situation to your parents lol. Good luck!
Uniq
okay im leaving for the summer and staying with my boyfriend. i love him and i want him to have something of mine that he can have to hold and think of me. hes giving me his sweatshirt, and i think itd be weird if i gave him mine cause he cant really wear it. i dont have a specific perfume i wear or anything. maybe like a pillow from my bed (he likes it lol) or like my bracelet i wear with my name on it? i have no idea. i dont even know if the idea is good in the first place. so any ideas or thoughts would help, thanks!
Hi :)
What I used to do was give my teddy bear to my boyfriend, and spray our favorite perfume on it, so whenever he'd have the bear, it would smell like me :)
That's my favorite thing to do lol... But you can also leave your bracelet, or a picture too! Creativity is the key :P Good luck and hope I helped!
Uniq
basically in the beginning of the relationship my boyfriend was all mushy and i really hated it, like i just started going out with him and i already could see how much more he loved me then i loved him.. like i just wanted to chill and have a good time. basically 6 months later we broke up at a party for dumb reasons, but now were back together. But it's different like im more in love with him and now i'm the mushy one and hes not. I've talked to him about it and he's just like you made me like this, i dont know what you want me to do. I love him so muchhhh and it hurts. =/ I know if we went on a break he would just get use to being single and move on, so dont tell me we need time away from eachother please.
Hey :)
I've been with my boyfriend for 2 and a half years, and I went through this stage as well. At first, I was very attracted to my bf (I went after him) and during the first few months I was just so infatuated. There came a point in time where the tables were turned, and I showed less interest, whereas he showed way more than he ever had. Don't worry, if it's meant to be, eventually everything will balance out. I'm not sure how old you both are, but I'm assuming you two are maybe 16 or 17... Anyway,if you two were to go on a break, and he really does 'love' you, he wouldn't move on. He'd still care about you, trust me. If he does move on, this wasn't on the path to being serious. Perhaps you should sit down and talk to him. Ask him whether or not he's looking to take this relationship to higher levels in the future. Basically, whether he plans on building his life next to yours. For now, just don't throw yourself to him. Show him you care, but give him space. Don't be too affectionate, and if after a couple of weeks he shows no sign of improvement towards showing you how much he cares, talk to him and let him know how it makes YOU feel. Don't put him down either. Hint some suggestions. Relationships take work ;) Good luck, and hope I helped!
Uniq
Job for a 15 year old
Hello :)
You can TRY applying to stores like movie stores, drugstores, pretty much big companies that many people know about. Go around your community to small stores and ask if they are currently hiring. Remember to present yourself decently, but don't fake everything because if they do decide to hire you, the true you will come out. You can also try babysitting, mowing lawns, etc. Or, you can start out as a volunteer or intern and perhaps down the road, if they like the way you work and your attitude, they'll decide to hire you and pay you. Good luck!
Uniq
hey im a 23 year old girl ive been with my husband for 8 years we've been married for 2years. we have a beautiful son together. I love my husband sooo much . but for the last 2-3 years ive been having sexual feelings towards women . i thought it was just a phase at first or a fantasy but still to this day i feel the same. i only seem to get arroused when i see or think off women in a sexual conent . am i bi? or lesbian or do u think its just a fantasy of mine
Hello!
I agree with the advicenator below as well. You can always ask him to have a threesome, or, if you'd get too jealous of that thought, you can have him watch you two or ask him if you can try something with another woman. It's definitely true that getting turned on by other women is normal. Some females only like it through porn, others might get these feelings in person, so the only way to know the truth is to experiment. Good luck!
Uniq :)
okay im only 16 and by boyfriends 19. i dont know what to do because my mom says that im not allowed to date him because she said so, but i really like him and my mother just wont see my side. so what should i say so shell let me show her that i really like him and should stay with him?
Hey :)
Before I answer your questions, I think you should ask yourself why exactly is your mom against you dating this guy? Is it because he's older than you? Does he not present himself decently? Ask her why she doesn't want to see you with him. Don't whine, don't fight. Let her know you want to have a serious one on one discussion with her. Maybe she will understand. You're 16, you're still developing emotionally and mentally. Sometimes, not all the times, older guys are more experienced on how to sweet talk females, how to hide things, etc, which is why I was thinking the age might be the problem. Nevertheless, try and hear your mom out if she gives you any valid reasons as to why she doesn't want you with this guy. Whatever you do, don't sneak behind her back. It'll break her trust and she'll say that he's changing you. Plus, (from personal experiences) I've noticed my parents were usually right when it came to criticisms on any bf's I had. You have a whole life ahead of you, you can meet mr. right today or 10 years from now. Good luck! I hope everything turns out well.
Uniq
this is really intended to be for guys 20+ but anyone could answer i guess.
what do you think about girls waiting until marriage? like say if you're engaged to a girl and she tells you she's a virgin and has been waiting for you, is that a turn-on? any comments on it is great
Hello :)
Many men that I know find it extremely attractive if a girl is a virgin. They see you as clean, innocent, and a couple of other things on the naughty side. So chances are, most guys you'll meet will find it as a turn on. Hope I helped!
Uniq
where do u live? please i need help!
Hey :)
Wonder what you need help with lol. I'm in New York.
Uniq
i have never really met my dad and not im starting to but idk. no one knows if im really his because my mom slept around a lot when i was concieved..im getting a paternaty test done bu idk wat to do..which leaves the question..what if im not his?
Hello :)
Here are my thoughts on this subject:
I'm not sure if you live with him, or if he's even supported you throughout your life. If he has been there for you like a father should be, then so what if he isn't your dad? If you love him, and he loves you, that's all that matters. If he's raised you like you were his own blood, THAT's a real father. If you feel differently, then that's completely fine. Everyone is entitled to their own opinion. Just remember, your mom will always be there for you, and if you're not his daughter, just go with what your heart feels. You need to be comfortable, and in the end, your feelings are what matter. Good luck, I hope everything turns out well, and take care!
Uniq
which is the proper way to use the capital words in my examples...
I USED to like soccer.
I USE to like soccer.
She was SUPPOSED to call her.
She was SUPPOSE to call her.
everytime i write an essay i forget which is the right way. please help, thanks!
Hello :)
USED and SUPPOSED. Good luck!
Uniq
16 and 17 year old girls, what are your opinions on and experiences of sex?
Being a 16 year old girl turning 17 in two months, and still a virgin, and also the kind of girl people assume have had sex, I'm definitely not comfortable with my lack of experience, and can't come up with any reasons why I havn't had sex except for, well, it just hasn't HAPPENED.
So I'm interested to know what other girls my age think. Have you had sex or are you a virgin? If you're a virgin, what are your reasons and how do you feel about it? If you've had sex, how did you lose your virginity, what is your sex life like now and how do you feel about it?
A lot of detail (though obviously I'm not asking for anything too personal or graphic, just your thoughts on the subject) because I really hate being a virgin at my age, and would like to know what your views are.
I'd really appreciate answers, thankyou!
Hello :)
I'm 18 and I am not a virgin. I lost my virginity when I was 14 because back then I was very naive and didn't know how to say no. I was literally just a little girl in my opinion.
Losing your virginity may not seem like a big thing at first, but it really is. It's YOU. Something you've held on to for so long. If I could go back in time I would stay a virgin until I was married...
Your sex life improves as you mature and have intimate relationships with people. If you get a boyfriend or girlfriend, I would tell you to make them wait, make sure they fall in love with you, and you with them. Make sure the relationship is secure and not full of lies and dishonesty. Make it happen with that special someone :)
Good luck, and hope I helped!
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okay so i have been talking/texting this boy for two weeks straight. and i thought he was really into me. like he would text me first basically everyday and say hi to me in school all the time. so i thought everything was going great.
then on the bus one morning i get these swarm of texts and they were all from him, they said:
well i did want to say something, ive been thinking recently and im not sure if i want to get into a relationship again...well atleast not yet...i dated jess for so long and trust me im over her cause she is crazy but i just dont think i wanna start up something right now...like i think your a really nice girl and i think its so cool that you like a lot of the same things as me...im sorry if i sound like an ass im really not trying to be. i just wann stay single for now, and as i said its not you id say the same thing to anyone. im really sorry i dont want to sound like a jerk cause trust me it isnt you, who knows maybe in the future.
it was a complete shocker to me! i didnt expect it at all. now im so confused on what i should do. if he ever liked me/likes me? idk. his old girlfriend and him went out for almost 2 years, and hes right she is crazy. but idk im so confused. HELP ME! what do i do? what did all this really mean?
Hello :)
I say you should respect his decision. He sounds like he's telling the truth, and he was being as respectful as he could :)
If they went out for two years, he's probably afraid to get close to someone considering he just came out of a long relationship with someone he wasn't meant to be with. He needs time to reevaluate what he wants/needs, and I think it's great that he's not diving into another relationship so quickly.
Remain his friend. Support him in everything he does. And who knows, he might just ask you out sometime in the future!
Good luck
Uniq :)
This is probably going to be long.. Just a fair warning.
Yesterday morning I'm kinda early for school (i'm usually late to school) and I find that there is shit smeared over the drivers side of the windshield, I call my mom and she got a hose and cleared it off, and there were pancakes all over my car. I wanted to wake my father and call the cops but she had most of it off already. (Please don't say, "Should've called the cops". The neighborhood I live in is very country and very quiet, nothing happens. I get to school and tell my best friend. Later in the day I find out it was her boyfriend, I'm furious now. He treats me like total crap and my best friend let's him do it. She told me the vandalism was just a joke and that I'm over-reacting. This is getting tooo serious now, we got into a fight before because I told her that he flirts with me and is really mean to me. (His texts say stuff like "Heyyyy sexyy" "Let's Fuck" "Let's go do stuff. =P") I told him to stop. I told her about it. I don't reply to his texts, and I don't speak to him because I don't want this drama. I think the vandalism is too far. What is your opinion on the matter? What would you have done?
Hello :)
First off, who the hell does this guy think he is? Don't take offense to the following comments I am going to state. Your friend is naive for letting him treat you like crap and for not standing up for herself about the flirty texts he sends you.
Unfortunately, it sounds like your friend is just infatuated with this guy, making her a little reluctant to do what she should. I hope she soon learns some guys are just not worth losing a friend over. I also hope she realizes not every guy is as faithful as he may seem.
Have you showed her these texts? I would suggest doing so if you haven't...
If I were you, I would have given my friend a little tough love, told her that she needs to realize how much of a immature scumbag this guy is, and that she can do better. If a guy will play pranks on someone he isn't close to, and will disrespect you, what makes her think he won't do the same to her?
I also would have told this guy to screw off. Excuse my language but guys like this piss me off. Stand your ground. Tell him to stay away from you and your property, or else, you won't hesitate to call the cops on him for harassment.
Good luck!
Uniq :)
I am leaving for college in the fall and planning on staying together with my boyfriend. There is a handful of people I know who have actually made it through their freshman year with out breaking up. Has anyone gone through something like this... How did you make it work? Do alot of these people end up cheating? Everyone keeps telling me to break up with my boyfriend before college... And I know it make sense, but I can't break up with someone I love without a legit reason.
Hello :)
Well personally, I am living with my boyfriend and have been together for three years already. We felt that it would be best if we didn't go away for college. So I have no hands on experience with this kind of questions.
Now, on that note, there are two sides to this story. Yours, and his. If both of you guys believe in a MONOGAMOUS relationship, and you're sure that he will think before he does anything, then go ahead with the plan (you going to your college, and him to his.) The reason so many people tell you to break up is because when you dorm away at college, you meet lots of new people, including roommates. And I am assuming plenty of co-ed get togethers happen. Drugs and alcohol, etc. And since all of these things influence the way you lead your life at college, there are possibilities of your significant other cheating, falling in love with someone else, or getting tired of not being able to see you and have the time that a couple needs.
Personally, if your boyfriend and you are mature enough to abstain from any bad behaviors at college, it is possible to maintain a relationship. It will be hard but love is love, right?
So, the decision is up to you BOTH. Make sure to talk to him about this. Maybe he's thinking about these things too, and is afraid to upset you. Let him know how you feel, tell him your thoughts, ask him questions.
You haven't mentioned how long you two have been together, so I'm assuming the relationship is serious for the sake of the question lol.
Good luck! And be good at college haha
Uniq :)