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he might not be my real dad
i have never really met my dad and not im starting to but idk. no one knows if im really his because my mom slept around a lot when i was concieved..im getting a paternaty test done bu idk wat to do..which leaves the question..what if im not his?
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Does he pay child support? Does he provide for you? If he's good to you, I think you should title him as your you father blood or not. You have the choice to stay quiet about whether he is or not. He may write you into his will. Which would be a great advantage to you. If he doesn't treat you right or as his very own child, then maybe you should look into finding your actual father. Then maybe you can have a chance with a better fitted father figure but expect the worst and the best. Because your mom was sleeping around, maybe your biological father may not know of your existence. He may deny you or accept you. Try to think about this a little more. Getting a paternity test may ruin what you already have but if you are not satisfied with living a lie then maybe it will help you make more sense of whom you came from and who you are. The choice of finding your father could be life changing or could leave you short of expectations. Follow your heart and be prepared to handle what comes your way.
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Hello :)
Here are my thoughts on this subject:
I'm not sure if you live with him, or if he's even supported you throughout your life. If he has been there for you like a father should be, then so what if he isn't your dad? If you love him, and he loves you, that's all that matters. If he's raised you like you were his own blood, THAT's a real father. If you feel differently, then that's completely fine. Everyone is entitled to their own opinion. Just remember, your mom will always be there for you, and if you're not his daughter, just go with what your heart feels. You need to be comfortable, and in the end, your feelings are what matter. Good luck, I hope everything turns out well, and take care!
Uniq
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