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♥ ♥ Well my name is Alexis. I'm 14 and I live in Florida. I have alot of friends and many of them ask me for advice, so i decided to become part of the advicenators community. lol.... anyways.... i love watching and playing sports.~~~GUYS, are a number one priority for me!!! truness! lol. I've come accross alot of problems and i think i have made my way through them pretty well. now im out to help others... so ask me a question! ♥ ♥

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well my hair is like a bit past my shoulders and its kinda frizzy or like idk it doesnt stay straight and isnt very smooth/silky... or like it will always dry out when I dont blowdry it or itll just kinda go different ways at the end even when I do. I dont know what to do about it if you could help that'd be great. thanks :-)

use leave in conditioner, it will take care of the smooth silky issue.
hope i hepled
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How long does a girl have her period? like how many days?

i ususally have mine 3-5 days but you can have it up to 10. everyone is different. if it starts getting way long or way too short i would talk to a doctor.
hope i helped
xoxo

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Hey, do you guys know any styling products that you can put in your hair while its damp and makes it straight when you blow dry it? Thanks

you can always just buy leave in conditioner. when your hair is damp just use it and smooth it through. brush your hair out after its dry. works for me
hope i helped
xoxo

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Okay..there is this girl in my school who nobody really likes..we used to be really close but then we both changed..and shes a big lier..she asked me while I was away from the computer if we were friends..and how it seems like we arent because we dont hang out anymore..She said she had a gift for me because she was recently on vacation..but I dont know what to do because if I accept it then she will wanna hang out all the time and talk on the phone and that kind of stuff and I cant keep giving her excuses?!..What should I say whenever she tells me that stuff again? Please help me!!

accept the gift, but accept in in a "wow thanx" way not in a "omg thank you we should hang out sometime". say something like "you didnt have to get me anything"
hope i helped
xoxo

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I'm a 15 F. This boy likes me .. almost all the girls that I've talked to like him or think hes cute. He's really shy though... He gets his friend(who is my friend too) to come up to me and say that he thinks I'm cute and ask me questions. All he's ever really said to me is hi or bye. I think it's really cute that he's shy and it shows that he's not rude or agressive like the other boys. Well the thing is.. I'm shy too and I dont know how to get a conversation going when he's with his group of friends and I'm with mine. Any ideas?

you should ask him how his day is going, ask him if he is doing anything this weekend, if he is busy then ask him if he wants to hang out next weekend. invite some friends. my friends always know how to start a good conversation
hope i helped
xoxo

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i have a dance this friday and i dont know wut to do w/ my hair. i have straight, thin, brown hair that goes a little past my shoulders. thanks!

I think that you should put your hair up in a ponytail, then put curls in it with a curling iron, next, use boby pins to pin up the curls into the hair tie, i do this when i have a formal dance to go to
hope i helped xoxo

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im in alaska hunting wolverines with my uncle and i was wondering what is the best type of gun to use to save me cousins from these evil forces that wont let us be

i would suggest a 12 gage. i think its the best, especially if the wolverines are attacking your cousins. i would kill them in a situation like that. hope i helped. -alexis-

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Ok..im on a really good volleyball team. in the past like 10 yrs we've won alot of state championships. But the thing is..she over works us. everyday we run a mile..then we go in the gym for about 2 hrs n half and just do volleyball. If we mess up..we do punishments..she yells like never before. We do suicides if we miss a serve or do a error. Its starting to get to me..i want to be perfect..and its stressing me out. How do i stop this?

ok... well if you are really good she is prolly trying to make you better or keep you guys champs. i know how it feels to be over worked. if it really starts to bother you let her know how you feel. tell her you are getting exhausted.
hope i helped -alexis-

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i just started at a new school last week september 8th the first day i noticed this girl,jasmine had all the same classes as me me not knowing anyone decides to be friendly and say hey im new and i think we have the same class want to walk with em there and jasmine f*ck no f*uckin girls are stupid so i was like w.e and just went to class later dureing that day i realize she in every one of my classes!i didnt say anything to her the next day in Health we had to ask everyone what there favorite show was mine was boy meets world and she yells out boy meets world is like 70 years old her is full house and this kid dustin says yea and so is fullhouse she gos ya well at least its good and today she made fun of my friends outfit and my voice and just other stupid things....im very girly i dont have that many friends becuase im new but im making it it always seems like im the kind of girl that girls like jasmine love to pick on(she thinks she all that)but why do you think shes doing this she dont evan know me?and what am i spose to do next time shes talkin crap bout me?

sometimes people pick on other people just to feel good about themselves. i dont think its right. try making friends with some of the other people in some of your classes, not everyone is like that. try to come out a lil more and show her what you are really like. i think that when she knows you for who you are she will stop the whole "mean girls" thing. -alexis-

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i am in love wit a guy that is 3 years older then me. is a big difference? well my parents dont want me talkin to him anymore. i talk him on the phone everyday. my parents think i should talkin to him perminently but i cant. i love this guy but i cant tell my parents that bc they think i am to young to have a bf. it is like i am 13 i should be able to have a bf. But they wont let me. what do u guyz think i should i really need ur help!!

I dont think that 3 years is that big of a difference. i think you need to talk to your parents and explain how you really feel about this guy. if they still dont approve you need to talk to your boyfriend and see how he feels about the situation. have your bf talk to your parents. maybe he can convince them that he really isnt that bad of a guy.

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One of my good friends is dating this guy, Erik, that I liked for 2 years, but she never new it. And so they been dating for 7 months, and Ive been a bit down latly. He just recently broken up with her, And he said he did it cause he wanted to go out with me cause he heard I liked him. But I don't wanna hurt my friend, beacause she's really down, and crying and all. I feel really bad, but on the other hand I really wanna go out with him. What should I do?

~Amberlynn

ask her for permission. tell your friend how you have felt for the past 2 years. if she is a good enough friend, she will understand. if you dont feel comfortable asking her... then wait till she is way over him and then get together with him. hope i helped.

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ok...well tomorrow is picture day, and i have this zit!! YIKES!! so...how can i make it go away by tomorrow?

DONT POP IT! i definitly would suggest not popping it because it will make it more red. tomorrow before school put some ice on it to make the swelling go down. then cover it up with a light concealer. it works great for me

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dear,,toxic xoxox i hav been a friend of yours for quite some times now and was wondering if u could help me out with the hugh situation..thanks..much love pimp..

im so sry about the whole situation with hugh the foo. i think you should leave him behind because i know that at first you were afraid, your were petrified. i know you relized you could live without hugh by your side

its ok. i got over cappalap the capricorn. just try to forget about hugh the wannabe boo's nonsense

i love thee

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Hey i need some help.. i think im prude..like scared to kiss a boy like i feel embarresed like i dont do it right or something i mean i have pecked boys but never freched or madeout and alot of ppl call me prude and idk wut to do cuz even my bf calls me prude and i like him alot nd wanna kiss him but i jus cant :-/

X.oX.o --> aShLeY

what I would do, is when you and your boyfriend are out just go for it. i dont think he would mind especially since he calls you prude. and if you dont feel comfortable just wait, the right time will come.

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I was watching shorties watching shorties and i was wondering... can u really get high off of sniffing whipped cream?

Not from sniffing it. But you can get high if you put the nozzle in your mouth and press it to the side and make the gas come out. Its VERY dangerous and I definitly wouldnt recomend doing it.

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arite i'm 15 i been goin out wit this boy for almost a month n knew him for like 2 1/2 or w/e cept it's online. he lives somewhat close n everything n he's my age-ish. he really wants to meet me cuz we have real strong feelings for each other, strong as they can get over the computer. i've seen his pic he aint seen mine but i told him everything i look like, eyes hair, and that i'm overweight. he said he doesnt care n he just wants to be wit the person he cares for this much. i'm a naturally shy person n i'm even more shy/scared now cuz i don't want to lose him. how do i meet him n not be shy or scared? shuld i trust that he doesnt care about looks? what do i doooo?

What I would do is ask him that its ok to bring a friend along the first time you meet. That way, it's safe and it will feel more comfortable for you and most likely more comfortable for him. After you meet him for the first time and decide that he really is worth trusting, go out with him alone.

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Well the other day one of my very close friends told me that she was a lezbo i mean lyk i totally support that n all but i feel wierd what should i do?

I have alot of friends like this. I know how it feels. It is VERY uncomfortable. but if you learn that they havent changed, except in the fact that they are intimate toward same sex people it will be easier. Just try to block it out and act like she never changed. She really is the same person inside.

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my mom recently found out ive been cutting myself so now she questions it all the time and along with alot of other people do! i just want them to back off, its kind of a personal problem. what should i do? pleez help n' thanks.

I think that you should listen to your mother, then tell her your side of the story. If you explain to her why you do it, maybe she can help you or she will learn that it's your thing and she should let you do what you want to do.

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