Hi everyone I'm Sean. im 14, very athletic and all of my friends come to me for advice so it gave me the idea of coming here to help everyone I can out. if you need me outside of advicenators you can look up my facebook: sean hoel or send me an AIM...but only if u neeed it cuz i dont want any spam lol.
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Location: St. Louis MO
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Age: 14
AIM: metrostika26
Member Since: December 26, 2005
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Ok, so the day before yesterday I shaved my vagina, leaving just the strip at the top. It was smooth and good and stayed that way for about a day before it started growing back in. I got NO bumps and NO itching, so it was all good.
Yesterday I didn't shave and then today I went to go shave it again. Well, I had a fresh razor that I had just finished shaving my legs with, so it wasn't dull and none of the blades were cut. I began to shave from my upper/inner thigh inward toward my vagina. It was fine, but it still looked a little stubbly. So, I felt and the hair was growing in the OPPOSITE direction. So I started shaving that way (right to left) and up/down.
It was sort of painful, but I figured it was because the hair was so thick and the friction or whatever. Well, soon I saw little nicks coming up ALL OVER it. There were about five of them. There's no way I can get smooth by just shaving in, and I can't shave any other way or I'll have nicks all over my vagina.
I did everything right. I soaked in warm water first, scrubbed, used shaving cream and conditioner mixed, lathered it on thick, and used a fresh blade. I did everything I was told to do and I end up shredding myself. Any tips/ideas?
HELP ME!!! (link)
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instead of razor shaving try the nair stuff or that venus stuff that u rub on and use like the razor they give you that has a rubber tip on it to whipe away the cream and removed hair.
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so today my friend was supposed to kis sthe boy she likes right and lately he sbeen doing things that makes it seem like he like sher, but thiers a problme , today she didnt do it, and he was waiting outside the classroom and she was inside i went up to him and said listen i need to know. do you like her or what? he said only as a friend.!!!
now this girl is my bestfriend for life i tell her everything she tells me everything and so i told her what he said, but calmly and rationally i let her know he dosnt like her and she started crying,a nd now she is like really upset more upset then ive ever seen her, because she fell for this guy and hard but he was a jerk and lead her on. please help me in what i can do or say to her thank you (link)
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i think the best thing you can do is try to find her a nice guy that makes her feel better, my experience is guy friend can cheer girls up better than girl friends can cheer girls up, i dont really know why. so just ask one of her nice guy friends to talk to her and tell her bad stuff about the guy she liked. try to keep her mind off of him and think about how it could be a good thing that she doesnt like him. list off all of his bad things like if hes an asshole or if he has cheated on GFs or something like that. anything to make her feel good about not liking him anymore and just talk to her about her favorite things to try to cheer her up. Its an alternate way but i hope it works
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Hey im a 16 year old female...i just started going out with a guy ive liked for a long time. He asked me out on the 31st. I think this might be a stupid question but ya know...so when do we know when our one month..two month..and all our anniversarys are?? theres not a 31st in every month...i dont know how it works and ive just been wondering cuz i dont get it haha (link)
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just celebrate it on the last day of each month. or you can do it week by week on the DAY he asked out...like if was a monday, yur anniversery would be 4 weeks on that monday.
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I've liked this guy, lets call him "ryan" since septemeber, and I thought he liked me too..like he used to flirt with me, and it felt like he was leading me on.. but then he went out with one of my good friends.. which at the time, i was dating her brother, so i couldnt say anything to her because she would have told my boyfriend and you know how that would have turned out, then he goes out with some senior who BTW is REALLY ugly, and very manly..lol then now, hes talking to this girl whos EXTREAMLY ugly and is a total BIOTCH!! and he NEVER notices me!! I feel like that song Tear Drops on my guitar by taylor swift, i cry all the time to that song, because we're friends and i try and give him hints but I feel like he doesnt want anything to do with me..=[ and I REALLY like him!! I cant help but to smile and giggle when hes around, and I felt for a while, that i was falling in love with him.. but I know for a fact he doesnt like me, because he told me, when i made up a story that people were saying that he liked me... just to see what he would say.. so what do i do to get his attention?? I'm a pretty girl, and I'm nice, and a fun outgoing person.. i really just wish he would notice me more than a friend.. and I dont want to be rejected! HELP ME!! how do I get him to notice me?! (link)
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well you can start by just saying "hey lets hang out some time." or if you know that he doesnt like your as a fact, there isnt much chance of getting himm to like you but you can still explain to him that you want to be friends, like the way you used to be. sorry if its not much but hope it helps anyway. good luck and just be friendly towards him.
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okay so i just got my heart broken. i really liked this guy and i THOUGHT that he maybe liked me.all my friends thought he did too. especially since 3 days ago he asked me out on date which ended up being cancelled. so on friday me and one of his friends who i talk to alot made this deal. .... if i kissed my guy then he was going to kiss my friend who he liked.so today came around and i was pretty sure that i was going to do it. then i realized that he was acting realy weird. so i decided no to do it and later on without me knowing one of my friends asked him if he liked me for the millionth time(my friends never stop) and he said no. he said he thinks i am pretty and all but that he just wants to be friends.now i dont know what to do and am feeling like shit. he has hurt me so bad and i feel led on. pleeze help (link)
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I think you have to consider all of the possibilities, maybe he just had a bad day, maybe hes confused with himself, maybe he likes another girl. i dont kno but it sounds like he just doesnt know anymore. if he did like you and asked you on a date maybe he got really bummed when it got canceled and he might think that you didnt like him anymore. i think you should ask yur friend to tell him 'she likes you still so why dont you like her anymore' that way he would know that you like him and it might change his mindc and give him more confidence towards you. Also have your friend tell him that you were sad when he said he didnt like you. and after all that he can either say he does still like you, or explain in more detail why he doesnt like you. either way you will have a happy ending, or at least an honest answer. hope it helps
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so i know this kid and we'll call him tom. tom flirts with me a lot. he desont try to make it subtle or anything, either. he gets in my face and tells me that we're going to date one day, and he's going to kiss me, and hugs me every chance he gets. im not a flirty person, and as much as i actually like tom's advances, it;s hard for me to flirt back, especially when people are watching. i mostly end up laughing it off and backing away. last weekend though we were at a party and i told him to stop. i was laughing when i said it, and it's not like its the first time ive ever said it, either. i was jsut nervous because he was telling everyone how i liked him and wouldnt admit it and everyone was looking at me. so after i told him to stop, he backed off. he seriously backed off. like he ihgnored me for the rest of the day until we left at around 9, and then he asked for a hug. he hugged me for a good five or six seconds but he was no where near as flirty as he usually is.
then i went to my friends house at about 1 my friend got on myspace (duhh) and he messaged me asking her asking us to come to his house because its the next street over. we said no and he promised not to touch me. we still said no. i really just didnt want to because i was ready for bed. he was being really overly nice about me and he usually likes to tease me.
i think im bothered that he isn't focusing all his attention on me, and i know thats shitty because i didnt treat him all that well when he did.
but seriously wtf is going through this kid's head and how do i even begin to apologize or tell him that im interested? :[ (link)
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i think you should just talk to him and tell him that your just not a flirty person, taht you do enjoy his company, but u want him to back down just a little bit while maintaining his same attitude. good luck
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so, recently, i've been realizing, that, i flirt, wayy tooooo much, wiht like any guy. i can't help it.. its just easy and fun. and i feel HORRIBLE about it. are there any suggestions to help me stop flirting so much, or anything at all?
thanks
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flirting isnt a bad thing, it just isnt always good, i think what would be best for you is a commitment to someone, then you would think twice about flirting with some guy cuz your bf would get jealous and mad, do u have anyone in mind that likes you?
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im ready to give my boyfriend oral sex but im not sure of how to START it
not really initiate it because well get heated in the moment and like laying on the couch but i dont know where to go from there....like move down and unbutton the pants...etc
ive went inside his pants while we were just making out and just grabbed it a LITTLE and sorta rubbed it up and down but even when i did that...it seemed sort of....not smooth to do it...like it wasnt easy to glide and slide my hand up and down....
sort of stiff with the skin on his penis...
i just need a little quick [not all detailey and specific] way of doing it...you dont need to give me the process of doing it cause i know that..just how to start it all off...
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ok he should be laying on his back, you could be laying on top of him, you slowly slide yurself down and undo his belt and unzip his pants, give it a grab or 2 to get it flowin, then just do it.
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i am a 15 year old girl. I have liked this one guy for about like since 6th grade and now i am going to be a freshmen...so about 4 years. well we always flirt and like hold hands or are really close to each other. he was a girlfriend but he wants to do IT with me. We meet at his locker all the time during class to talk about it. So friday i went to his locker like he told me. I was nervous even though i realy would love to kiss him. he was saying how he thought i like him and i told him i do but what about your gf, he told me that she didnt have to know. We were standing there and i a thinking what if i made the first move? He didnt think i was enthusiastic this time, because this has happened before him asking me to hook up with him. should i make the first move? if so where, how should i tell him that i want to hook up. should i call him and ask him to meet me somewhere?
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yea im not a fan of cheating at all. i think you should tell him "I'd love to but i wont do anything until you break up with your girlfriend" and if says no, that means he could just be using you for extra action, if he says yes, he cares about you enough to ditch his gf, then you guys arent breakin any trust or anthing like that. its fair and square. i had a bad experience with cheating once so i cant stand it =/
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Hey everyone im 13/f and me and my boyfriend already hug and kiss and all that stuff but like i want to cuddle with him but i want to turn him on and i dont want us to kiss and have it be like every other one i want it to be difernet ya know?? so i guess what im trying to say is how can i cuddle with my guy and turn him on at the same time
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if your alone with him you can just lay with him some were, like in the grass just lay next to him or use his chest as a pillow or somethin like that, then passionatly and slowly make yur way up to a soft kiss ;) works every time. be careful though, you dont want to lead him on to too much but im sure youll be fine with it
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to guys really like big boobs of just perky boobs how much do they like to see and do they like to see you bra straps how can i be way sexy but not asking for it? (link)
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it just depends on the guy. im a fan of B or C perky instead of low hanging DDs. some guys cant stand small boobs that and they gotta get the DD38s. its just personal preference. and yes the strap is hot in some cases...not if yur wearing like a dress and lettin the sleave coming over yur shoulder to show it. wear a tank like the person above me said.
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I think my cousin and boyfriend are falling in love right in front of my eyes, and I can't do anything to stop it!
SHould I let love/destiny take its coarse, and let it pair them up, I mean if they're meant to be together, who am I to stop them?
Or do I fight for someone who appearantly doesn't even want to be with me?
Help!
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lol you should NOT go down without a fight. i think you should talk to your cousin about it first because shes family. i think you should explain to her how youll never talk to her ever again if she steals yur BF ;). then if your cousin doesnt give you a good answer, talk to your BF and see if their stories match. If they both say the same thing it means they like eachother because theyve talked about it. If she says one thing and yur BF says another it means they both generated an honest answer.
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Yet, I still find myself caring.
I used to go to language school early last year with this guy I met there and we spoke a bit then I left and we spoke sometimes on MSN. Well tonight we were talking and he basically joked "What's a hot sexy girl like you doing alone" and I asked if he really meant that, and he said then I wasn't hot and sexy at all, and I would be if I wore a bit more makeup. I felt very upset by this comment and got mad at him and called him a whole lot of names, and said I was only nice to him because I felt sorry for him, blah blah blah. I didn't mean a word I said.
Well he just emailed me, not apologizing or anything, but saying he was upset by what I said, and that its true i wasn't the most attractive girl there, everyone else was prettier but he doesn't try and sugarcoat things. Then he went on to say he feels horrible he wasted effort and breath on me when i was only being nice to him because i felt sorry. He said this cut him pretty badly because he thought we could've been friends.
Should I apologize to him? I have absolutely zero interest in him, but I feel guilty now. He did hurt me pretty badly though. I don't take comments about my appearance too well. Then again two wrongs don't make a right. I did insult him pretty badly. So what do I do? Sorry this is so long. (link)
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i would apologize to him and tell him that the way he said wut he did just hurt you and you dont like hearing that and just explain the situation. then after that i would lightly talk to him as an extended friend but nothin close and then hell eventually drift off and u wont hafta worry about him.
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See theres this guy and I really like him. He was one of my boyfriends and he recently broke it off with me. We were really really close with eachother and know its over. All i want to do is get back together with him. The problem is I dont know if I should or shouldnt and i dont know if i should just forget about him. And all I do know is think about him and I see him everywhere. Jst please. I need help. (link)
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well this happens to everyone. its the thing called "love". i have chosen not to like it myself lol. anyway you just gotta try to forget him because it will become a cycle. if u do go out with him it will just happen again and again. try to forget about him but dont stay friends with him, it will just get you attached to him again.
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i like a boy...."D" i cant get over him. it is WAY TOO HARD SINCE I SEE HIM EVERYDAY! i hate him yet like him. what can i do? (sorry is atleast a question) (link)
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lol thats pretty funny i knew that a while ago i knew u couldnt hate him. anyway its simple just think of other people that u like better and say wow he sucks compared to this guy and the problem is solved.
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i hate my dad. he annoys me like deliberatly..he annoys the F*CK outta me and im a vegitarrean and he like sits there talking about animal cruelty and laughing and im really sensative and it makes me cry then when i fight back my mom always takes his side and then he realates meto my brother whose on crack and in jail and it makes me so mad because i get some bad grades and my brother dropped outta highschool to sell drugs and i hate it..and i ran away and for 5 days they didnt notice me..the police did on the street..and i cant take it..i like cry all the time and at school im all bubbley and the only people who knnoww about me are my boyfriend and my best friend..and all i have is music and my bedroom which is constantly violated!! PLEASE HELP ME BEFORE I KILL MYSELF! (link)
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DUDE I TOTALLY KNO HOW YOU FEEL.well...kind of.
my parents are really annoying and my brother is constantly coming in my room annoying the hell outta me. I think that you should tell yur dad to shut the fuck up. you would get yelled at yea but maybe then he would realize wut hes doing is hurting you. well maybe not shut the fuck up but like sit him down and explain to him what he is doing and tell him that it hurts you.....if that doesnt work then shut the fuck up seriously then he will listen.
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hi, im 14 and im 5'6" and i weigh 118, what can i do to lose weight? i want to especially lose weight around my ab and thigh area. I dont drink any soda and i run 5 times a week, anything esle would be great thanks. xoxo (link)
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well you dont sound fat i mean hell im 5 1 and im 94 lbs and i got a two pac(not tupac) just diet and exercise is all i can think of. you dont really wanna lose wait just like replace the fat with muscle but dont go overbored because you really dont sound fat at all so why would you want to lose weight?
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The other day my french teacher said when you dont eat breakfast you get more hungry during the day, and i used to never eat breakfast and i would always be extrememly hungry when i got home and then i would feel lousy because of all the food i ate. So for the last few days ive been waking up earlier and eating breakfast but I'm still just as hungry. I have lunch at 11:30 and get home at about 3:15. Is there anyway I can be less hungry during the day?|
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umm yea bro u just eat alot of breakfast lol.
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There is this guy that probably use to like me cause he kept talking to my best friend about me and he told her that he really likes me. I thought it was kinda weird since he is like the really popular jock and I'm not that great looking at all. I assume that he probably got over it since itz been a while. why is it that the guys that flirt with a lot of girls don't really make a move on the girl that they actually like? (link)
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its easy. the guy that likes a girl flirts easily around other girls but if when he is around the girl he likes he gets a little bit more nervous and thoughtful of his actions and stuff like that. hope it helps.
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I met This Guy in Church and he's really hot I got his number from one of my friends so i called him but he said that i am too young but my friend called him and told him he made me sad an he said for me to call him and we will talk but he doesn't want to tell my friend what he is going to say.By the way he's 17 going on 18 and I'm 14 going on 15. What do you think he's going to say and should i call? (link)
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just go with the flow and things will work out great. just be yourself thats all a guy can ask and all a girl can give. good luck.
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