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say it was 3 thin layers of clothing. He did ejaculate and I noticed that there was a wet spot on my shorts around the top of my private area, I am not sure if it went through my underwear or not, but my underwear was also wet, but that was probably my stuff. I am really scared that I will get pregnant. I will get my period approximately around Feb 9 so that is where I stand. I am really worried, what can I do?

Don't worry you're fine. As soon as it hits the air it dies almost instantly.

--social suicide

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Ok so i like this boy. Hes pretty shy and doesnt talk much in real life but when im online with him he talks so much! He kind of flirts with me and i flirt back but i still dont know if he likes me..my friend imed him and asked me if he would ever go out with me and he just said 'dunno'. :\ what are some ways that i can tell if he likes me :)

thanks

I'm a pretty shy person, too.
But shy people have a hard time being bold and blunt, and the interent is a good way to be bold/blunt without the physical communication
so if he 'flirts' with you on AIM, then I'm pretty sure he does indeed like you
But I can bet he likes you if he shows more attention to you in reallife, or if you catch him staring at you.

--socialsuicide

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does anybody know any sites that i could find music for an xanga ? ... i rate high ! and answer this a.s.a.p thanks ! ...

depends on what you like
so i'm going to pretend you like what I like
www.xanga.com/iiitunes

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theres a up coming tour called taste of chaos its kinda like warped tour but smaller..i really wanted to go and everything but i dont think mysparents will let me.i wanted to go with my friendand her parents let her go and they said as long as she finds a ride and someone to go with her..(its a hour away) but i really really want to go.can anyone give me something to work with and try and convince them to let me go?

p.s. my dad doesnt even let me go to the mall alone with my friends..ughh this is going to be hard

I, for one, went to TOC
it was splendid.

but the things I said were "we'll be with a lot of people" "do you know how many undercover people they put in the general admission place!?" "I got my grades up for no reason, did I?" "If you'd like you can stand next to me" "get me stadium seats if you're afraid of the moshpit!"

g'luck

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i know how to play the string bass in orchestra, so would it be easy for me to learn to play the electric bass or are they really different?

I've been playing electric bass for a year now
yeah you'll adjust easy

--socialsuicide

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Okay I don't know if this is sex or something but like i've been getting this white snotty stuff in my underwear. I don't know what it is or what it's from. I'm 13/f to if that will help.

discharge.
Say hello to 'womanhood'
it'll be knocking at your door soon.

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what does it mean to pop someones cherry? or something like that..

Basically to take someone's virginity.

Woman have a thin layer of skin in their vagina and when it 'pops' blood comes out, hence the cherry thing.

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1) i'm confused about my sexuality. i think i'm bi.. because i really like one of my best friends who's also bi.. but my boyfriend gets mad about it, when he was the one geting me mad about it in the first place..
2) i'm losing interest in my boyfriend because of it..

help me please..

Alright
1) your boyfriend is dumb.
a bisexual girlfriend will never work to your disadvantage
and
2) if you're loosing intrest, than that means you should probably break things off with your boyfriend. Well, talk to your 'friend' first and get her view and how she feels of you.

--Social Suicide

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what is a booty call?

uhm
a perrson that just means nothing, you just call them up with you're feining for sex.

--Social Suicide

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how can i get more guys to like me without being a slut?
asap help!!
i'll rate 5!!

Depends on what 'type of guys' you're trying to impress.
but in all honesty guys like girls that are real. so just be yourself to the max.

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How do you shut down an xanga?

Once you shut it down, can you start it up again?

Well, sign on and go to Account Info
and then 'shut down site'
and then it'll give you this little quiz
which basically says you wont be able to log on, you wont be able to re-use that xanga name, and you wont be able to comment/e-prop people.

kbye

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I get really bad headaches all the time..i take advil and they go away..should i go to a doctor and see if there is anything wrong with me?


14/f is that helps

Well this could have a few causes
stress
bad eye site
or just that sinus bullhonkey.

a lot of docotors can't do anything about this, because most headache medacine isn't tested/prescribed for anyone younger than 18.
but, if Advil takes them away then keep that up.

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What are some good Rooney songs that i could download on itunes. i'll rateee

One of my all time favorites--shaking

kbye

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I've started seeing a guy and I have fallen totally head over heels for him. He assures me he feels the same, and as they say, actions speak louder than words and he clearly does love me to bits.
The problem is, that I just can't understand what he sees in me and find myself doubting the relationship all the time, and I can't let myself relax because I'm so sure he'll break my heart. This isn't his problem, it's completely about me, but how can I get over this without ruining the relationship, and without him thinking I am completely neurotic!

Alright, I have this problem all of the time.

In order to have a relationship, you have to have trust. not only in him, but in yourself. Without the confidence you're second guessing yourself.
and gaining self confidence isn't just a 1 man game, he needs to give you constant reassurance, and you need to accept that.

kbye

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Whenever my boyfriend fingers me, it feels like I have to fart. I havent actually farted yet, but how can I prevent this feeling?
Please help!

hahahaha
lolzz
--Social Suicide

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I'm a 16 year old girl.

Ok. So I like my eyes and all but when guys try to get me to go out with them just by telling me that they like my eyes it totally turns me off even if the guy is really hott or nice. Here is an example of what most guys say: "Your eyes have taken over my soul."

The whole "your eyes see into my soul" thing is getting very old. My question is, can't guys come up with some original pick up lines?

Of course not.
They have penis'.
--Social Suicide

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Hey guys..well i have a question..obviously. Im obsessed with the band Good Charlotte, and have been for about 4 or 5 years..but people always tell me stuff. Im tired of them thinking my music sucks more then theirs because its not "poser" music. I feel like i got more balls then THEY DO cause its harder to admit you like music that will get people to tell you crap the it is to be the crap talker. What should i do?

I would rather watch a vietnamese stripper, orgasm to bestiality porn while eating vomit and digging around in a pool of organs
than listen to Good Charlotte.
Listen to better music.
--Social Suicide

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what is a scene person or whatever. like the label. or whatever its called. =] j/w. thanks. i have an idea wat it means but im not sure.

Haha.
SCENE is another way to say emo.
--Social Suicide

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I am a dark, pessimistic, negative person. I feel totaly hopeless and that both the good and evil forces are against me. I try to be the positive, outgoing type, but that realy isnt me. Im realy pained inside with doubt and hiddin secrets. I have a crush on someone and today I was thinking about the girl, the way she acts when I flirt with her, the way she is so outgiong. Those happy, warming feelings turned cold. I have been doubtful about myself, I feel like I cant start a close relationship, not even a close friendship. Its more than that, but it would take forever to explain things. I feel weak and helpless. Can you help me?
--Caden--

Only you can help yourself.
God I sound like Dr.Phill.

As I say
Think of the future. Don't dwell in the present.

But yeah. I kind of feel for you on this one.
But only you can make yourself outgoing. And only you can make yourself feel "happy"

Stay strong.
--Social Suicide

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I asked a girl to the winter formal dance a few days ago. She got really excited and was taken totally surprised and started bragging to all of her friends. Her actual words were "Let me check my schedule to be sure that I don't have something, but it sounds like a lot of fun." Oh my goodness thank you for asking me. Hug. Here I am thinking SCORE!
Well, aparrently not. The next day she pulls me aside and says that she's really sorry but she has something that night that she absolutely cannot get out of (independly confirmed, she really does have something that she can't get out of). Oh my goodness, she's so sorry, she was so excited to get asked that she told all of her friends. I'm a really nice guy. If there was another dance ("You're a Junior, right?" read: PROM) she'd be honored to go. She feels so sorry and she's really bad at this because she's never been asked to anything before and she's so sorry she doesn't know what she's doing. I made her day/week/month. Etc. Etc. So I mention that maybe there's something else she might want to do another night. She says "Well, there's plenty of time to think about that." Bounds off.
I am really confused. Do I cut my losses and move on or is she interested? How do I approach the situation when I run into her tomorrow? If she's interested will she come after me now or what? I don't want to be the guy that can't take the hint, but at the same time... I really don't understand what just happened.

Uhh
This girl kind of annoys me
and I don't even know her.
But uh...
Just go up to her and be all
"Hey what's up"
I'm pretty sure she'll fill in the blanks if she's interested.
--Social Suicide

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