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one of my friends may be on the verge of killing herself
She won't tell me what's wrong with her ... she's ignoring my calls and when she answers, she hangs up.
On myspace, she reads my messages but wont reply
she was happy at school and is all depressed now...
anything I could do to squeeze the truth outta her? (link)
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First of all, congrats on taking care of your friend like that! Never ignore her, if u think shes on the verge of killing herself. Go over to her. Go to her house. Sit down with her. Tell her a bit about your day. DONT ask her *whats wrong with you?*. It makes her feel like she is doing something wrong. (she is, but dont tell her that). Start talking on, how you will be there for her. Point out all the positive things in her life. Friends, grades, love..etc. Then slowly, she might brake it out to you. Hope you can help her!!!
If you cant even get over to her, cuz she might not even let her in, then send her a postcard or just a card, and write down all what i told you to do. Let her read it, and tell her, you WILL come over on this certain date. She might be ignorant, but just ignore her, when she tells you you cant come. If nothing works, get help immediately!!!
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Ok so my dad just got one of those Total gym's or whatever those are called so now we have that and a tredmill and i was just wondering if anyone knew any good workouts i could do with the tredmill and total gym system thing please and thankyou in advance oh and any suggestions cause i'm 13 f (link)
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Im not quite sure what you mean with the *total gym's, but what you can do, is figure out how everything works. Then take some paper, and write down your goals (like arm strengthening). Then put down how many times you would like to lets say run for 10 minutes a day. And everyday when you do that, tick it off. If you dont understand this, then what you can do is go to your local ymca or recreation center, and rent dvd's specially made for that.
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well we had to do this square dance at my school and they had to pick partners will i got stuck with someone i didnt like then we had to make a square i was by my crush then we had to hold hands and i was about to let go but then he grab it again and keep grabing it was so cool and then he stared to come closer to me talk to me make me laugh and everything does that mean he likes me? (link)
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Does he actually know you exist? It does not mean he likes you. He has a crush on you. Lol. Well, like and crushes are kinda the same, but i wont get into that right now.
Make sure that he does not do that only in dances. If he makes you laugh during school, or afterwards, then maybe yes, he MIGHt like you. Or it depends, does he keep wanting to hold your hand? If yes, then maybe he wants more than just a friendship. If you hang out with him, and he does not quite act like he wants to hold you, but you still laugh, then he probably just wants you as a friend
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14/f
since arond the middle of feburary ive been eating healthier and trying to give up sweets and junk. the past half a month ive actually been eating 3 meals and healthy snacks inbetween. i gave up sweets for lent and i dont eat any junk food anymore. i am eating well and i havent cheated at all. i think i lost a few pounds because my scale said i was around 120 but now its more like 115ish? i also have a thinner stomach and a few friends told me i looked skinner which is good. im just curious though, i havnet goten my period in over a month. i got it last feburary 15ish and its not here yet. my period is really weird at times, like one day it will be heavy and the other its not even therre (its normal for me though). but its really late and im curious that it might be because of my new eating style? (link)
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Hi
Its nothing to worry about. Because you are only just 14 you probably have an irregular timing. And your eating style does NOT affect your perioud. it sounds like you eat healthy. Just remember to excersise too. Some people dont even get their period for 3 months. If you still dont have it after 3 months i would go see a doctor
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