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what is sex? (link)
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Sex is an act between a man and a women (or i guess between two man or women depend on how you see it). Sex is when the man takes his penuis and slides it into a womens vagina whole, thrusting in out. Sex is also what makes babies and shouldnt be done until a older age or until your ready. You should always protect yourself while having sex by using a condom or taking birth control. Both are the best protection. Hope this helps!
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So i have dated this boy for 3 months, until he went to Florida, and texted me breaking up with me. When he got back he got another girlfriend right away. He started texting me "i love you, i miss you" and songs, and quotes, anything sweet. But i didnt want any of that, i was trying to get over him. But then one day he texted me telling me to f off, and to stop texting him, when i never did. I showed his new girlfriend the texts, and she started crying. This has been a pattern with him, he's done this to basically all of his girlfriends. I feel cheated, and unloved. And i honestly have no idea what to do with myself, im in desperate need of help :( (link)
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Kick his ass to the curb! It seems like this boy really has no sence of guilt, and with boys like that they need to be told it is not acceptable and they cannot push women around like that. My advice for you is to ignore him, hopefully the girlfriend will be smart enough to tell him off and dump his sorry ass. You shouldnt have to put up with that kind of crap. You need a MAN not a boy like him, someone who will treat you the right way and would never make you cry or hurt you. Good luck with him.
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Hello.
I need some real down to earth advice. I am a 23y/o mom who only gets to see my 3 y/o daughter once a week and even then its no fun cause all she does is push me away. I have been contemplating suicide for many many weeks now and have truly given up on life and everything about it. I was diagnosed with lvl 2 Bipolar Disorder since I was 14 but the downside is I have no insurance to get/stay on meds. Washington Mental Health care sucks!!! I have a crappy relationship where I feel like I am just the personal driver and house cleaner... I have struggled for 3 years to get a job and now I have been tryin to file for state disability but I seemed to of signed away my Medical records rights... I cannot go on living like this anymore... People always say oh think of your daughter, think of this, think of that... My daughter is living a wonderful life with her grandparents who hate me. I have nothing ever positive in my life and am done putting up with it. I have no family to help me, no friends, not even any money... WTF did I do to deserve this kind of life... Anyone have something good to say to try to keep pushing on??? (link)
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I am sorry to hear this and there is nothing you ever did to deserve this. I understand where you are coming from about the think about your daughter, but look at it this way, its true that she is pushing you away now but when she gets older, how are her grandparents going to explain to her that she will never see her mommy again. She is going to miss you so much when she gets older. Yes her grandmother will be there but your the one she is going to want to talk about her first crush with and all the fashion trends, puberty because YOUR her mother. I am telling you that suicide is not the way to go. And i agree with AlienHumanologist you need to focus on the positive. I hope you reconsider the suicide, If you ever need to talk about this please feel free to email me at cbestudent96@gmail.com
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Hi I want to die but I can't bring my self to do it I am crying while I write this message! My girlfriend after 3 years dosent want me anymore I ant got anything with out her I gave up so much and I dnt have anything (link)
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Hello
I first want to start off by saying PLEASE DONT HURT OR KILL YOURSELF. I know that when things get really bad in life and you have no one to turn to, hurting yourself can seem like a better option. Its not trust me I have been there. I know what its like to feel all alone and not want to live anymore.
Firs thing I suggest is calling hot line, such as kids help phone - 1 800 668 6868. They have many places you can talk to people can help. But if you dont want to talk directly you could try the website. Here is a link to the suicide part of the website http://kidshelpphone.ca/Teens/InfoBooth/Emotional-Health/Suicide.aspx
You could also try talking to a doctor, this may be some phsycolodical problem thats causing this. If not then try talking to a parent/teacher/a close friend.
I hope you really reconsider this! Just think of how many people you would devaste other then yourself. Think of how many people love you and would miss you dearly! Also if you ever feel down in the dump about this and even remotely think about killing yourself you can send me an email at cbestudent96@gmail.com
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Hi everybody,
I'm a teenage girl (18). I went to the doctor yesterday about some issues going on, and they told me I had minor depression. I won't get into the details.. but they gave me medicine and also a lot of tips/ideas for me to become happier. They mentioned writing in a journal or article, in order to express my thoughts and get them out of my system. Well I don't really like the journal idea because 1. i'm scared someone will find them and I don't want people I know to see them. 2. I prefer typing rather than hand writing.
So I guess i'm asking if anyone knows a website where I can publish online articles/journals? It has to be free though. I don't want to pay anything. also, if it has an anonymous option, that would be amazing!
Oh and I'm kind of stuck on something.. I'm not sure if I want "comments" on my articles. Because I have seen some serious articles and people have commented on them saying horrible things like "go die" and "you suck".. the last thing I need right now is people to make fun of my writing and bring me down. So if there is a comment feature, please make sure that only good comments are available.
thank you!
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I understand what you mean about the comments and how harsh people can be. I have this website where you can enter an article or "diary" entry type thing. I find it helps release a lot of stress and makes you feel better. This does have an feature allowing you to keep it private or you can make it public. And yes its completely free. Enjoy it nd hope the depresion goes away.
http://www.my-diary.org/
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My period ended 2 wks ago, which means I'm expecting it again in 2 wks. My boobs usually get sore a week beforehand, but never this early. I am sexually active, 17/f, but we are very safe. I know that's still possible but it's probably too soon to tell for pregnancy, right? So, is it normal to get sore weeks before you get your period? It hasn't really happened thiiiis early before, but I guess its always possible. (link)
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OK, this can be a sign of pregnancy but the chances are low. I guess it depends on what type of birth control you are using. Are you just using condoms or are you using the pill as well. This is probably nothing more then a coincidence.Sore breast before or after the period is a very common thing. Since the period is getting ready for a baby, your breasts would be making milk. This process itself can put pressure on the breasts and cause pain. But you really need to wait till your next period to tell if this could be a possibility. Your really worried about it, you should either take a test or talk to your doctor/parents.
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So tonight one of my guy friends (weve been tight for awhile) was being a huge a$$ to me. We were at a party and he wanted to dance with me, which was totally fine and all but then he started getting a little too handsy and a little too into it and I have a boyfriend so I wasn't too comfortable with it, nor do I like him like that. I told him I was thirsty, and done dancing and I went off to go find my bf. My friend followed me, grabbed my wrist and pulled me (not in like a vioent way) up to him. But then he started whispering in my ear about how much he wanted me and that we should go to his car and I was stunned. I have NEVER led him on or EVER given him that kind of impression. Yes, he was a little bit under the influence but this party had like, a tiny tiny tiny bit of alcohol, most people weren't drinking so I don't think he was that drunk... and I tried to push him off of me and said very clearly "Let go, stop it" but he wasn't letting go and he actually grabbed my other wrist and was pulling me towards the door. Then he put both of my wrists in one of his hands and started sliding the other hand to my crotch so I kneed him in the nuts... He fell to the floor and I just walked off, competely pissed. I haven't talked to him but it was like an hour ago and I asked my boyfriend to take me home, and I told him about it and he was kind of pissed at the guy but he sounded shocked when I said I kneed him. I don't know what kind of shocked it was... like that it was bad I did it or if he was just suprised I did it cause this kid is like my good friend... or was... My question was, was this out of line? I mean he had my arms restrained so I coudln't really hit him... and he wasn't listening to me! And I just got so mad! But he did look like he was in a lot fo pain... he's okay, one of my other friends said they saw him leave a little later. But I do feel a little bad... but still angry. what do I do??? I'm seventeen, female. (link)
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No you were absoloutly not out of line when it came to this. He had no right to touch you or act the way he did towards you. If there was no way you could get you hands free, and he wasnt listening to you, then you had to do something about him. And the way he tried to touch you was in apropriate. Good for your!
Let him know this tomorrow, he could have been more intoxicated then you thought but then again he could be just coming onto you. Make sure you find out what happened that night. Although it might be a good idea to have your boyfriend with you just incase he tries to get a bit hansy.
HOPE IT WORKS OUT! LET ME KNOW IF YOU NEED ANYMORE ADVICE ABOUT HIM OR OTHER GUYS!
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Im 13 and my friends talk about their girlfriends quite often. they ask if iv'e got a girlfriend and I reply "iv'e never had one".
WHY IS THIS!
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First things first, i think your a bit to young to be worry about that but who am i to judge! So the reason youve probably never had a girlfrined is because us girls are really shy when it comes to making the first move. Both guys and girls are really embarrased when taking the first step in a relationship. Try talking to a girl you like, the important thing is to develope a friendship first. Then again you may have not found the right girl. And trust me there is nothing to be embarrased about because I am 15 and still have not had a boyfriend. So just keep your eye out for the signes from girls, because I gaurentee there will be a girl just try to drop hints here and there. GOOD LUCK!
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Name key (fake names):
Me: Annabeth
Boyfriend: Jaysyn
I'm 16, a sophomore in high school. My boyfriend, Jaysyn, is a senior, 18. He's really sweet, and it didn't take me long to fall head over heels for him. I met him last year when I was a freshmen and he was a junior, and we started dating one month later. He was always very sweet and understanding about the whole sex thing: he wanted it, but every time I tried, I told him the truth--I'm no where near being ready for that, even if I might want it. Every time I said so, he was really sweet, saying he understood and wouldn't dream of making me do anything I wasn't ready to do. Lately, he's been going back on that promise. He's been getting kind of physical about it, too. Pushing me and shoving me and stuff; a couple of months ago we were at his house watching TV in his room because he gets free movies on his XBox through netflix, and he started kissing my neck and touching my leg and stuff. He was getting really touchy, and pushed his hand away and told me to stop, and he got really mad and he raised his hand as if he was going to hit me, but instead he just pushed me away from him, and I almost fell off the couch. I left when he did that and I went home. He called me five times an hour all night after that, and almost ten times the next day. Since then, he's been getting more violently, and touchy feely and rough, and when I deny him sex he gets really pissed. Last night I got up to leave and he grabbed my arm so hard I thought my wrist would break. Then he pushed me and I fell into the table--my knees are bruised. He called me a whore and a tease and told me I was being a bitch, and I left. This morning we had a date, and I didn't expect or want to go on the date after last night, but he showed up at my house right on time. I told him to go away and started to close the door, but he forced his way into the house and apologized for last night and got my oat from the closet and we went out and actually had a good time. He was really sweet, and he acted as though last night never happened. What do I do? (link)
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I get that you like him and all but you have to get out of the relationship befor eit gets worse. Guys like that dont learn they expect girls that like them to do whatever they want when they want. It doesnt end untill he either gets what he wants (sex, whether your willing or not)or you leave him. It is important that you have someone with you for when you dump him and for the next couple of days so he can cool off. A good suggestion would be a close guy friend or parent/teacher. The most important thing is to get out of this relationship before he gets to violent. PLEASE BE SAFE. AND HOPE THIS HELPS!
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My boyfriends parents are divorcing and I want to give him a kiss and hug him and tell him its all going to be alright. But we havent kissed yet. We have been dating for four years, How should I go about doing this? (link)
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I know how he is feeling. When my parents went through their divorce I wasnt really in the mood for kissing my BF. I understand where you are coming from aswell about wanting to show him your there for him but i dont know if a kiss would be the best way to go about it. Try hugging him and just letting him know you care and will stand by him no matter what. Although if you are determined to actually kiss him,whether it be for support or other things ;) , the most important thing is to make sure he is up for it. Try leaning in to give him a kiss, slowly, so he understands what your are trying to do. He should respond by also leaning in and kissing you. Whatever his react you shouldnt try and push yourself onto him. If you have to, try waiting untill this mess is over.
GOOD LUCK AND HOPE YOU GET THE KISS ;)
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