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yesterday my boyfriend of about 4 months told me this girl who hes been friends with for about 3 years randomly called him and asked him if he wanted to hang out tomorrow. he told her that hes workin because he works almost everyday and when he doesnt hes with me. hes not the kind to hang out with friends outside of school anyway, except me [but we go to diff. schools]. should i be worried? im pretty sure he wouldnt cheat on me bc were very open and honest about that but im already kind of a jealous person bc im always scared hes gonna end up likin another girl and leave me for her. but he promises he wouldnt. but anyway thats beside the point. does it sound like i should be worried about her? i dont know who she is and im not really worried about him likin her im worried about her likin him.
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You don't trust him enough because if you did then you wouldn't mind him talking to her.
Some women hate there man talking to other women i can't remeber what its called but look it up on the internet it might give you some tecniques to be more relaxed when you man is around other women.
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i kno girls arent nsupposed to ask guys out, but i like this guy and im almost positive he likes me back- im gonna see him friday night i think so what do i say to him? (link)
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Men like women who are confrontational (e.g asking a person out in person), let him know how you feel about him for all you know he might feel the same way.
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Well... (im a girl)ever since about a year ago, ive reckoned i was gay.In year 5(im now in year 8 and im 13)i yoused to sort of make out with this girl when we slept over each others houses but i just put it down to experimentation. Now i really like girls and dont really like guys and i keep having dreams and watch movies with lots of gay/lesbian people in them. Im not to bothered by the fact of being gay but i was wondering that seeing as i dont have a girlfriend and im not about to tell my parents anytime soon, what should i do? (link)
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Your confused about the way you feel so i would just experiement or don't worry because during time you will determine if you are gay or not.
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Guys laugh at me and are really mean to me and don’t treat me well at all. It’s because I talk weird, I’m too opinionated, I have a brutal sense of humor, and I only listen to musicals and Sondheim……
For example, they always snicker whenever it’s time for PE….I’m the most not-athletic person in my whole class. I can’t even run a mile. I was telling my friend about how un-athletic I am, and this guy overheard and goes, “Yeah, you sure are.”
And when we were working in groups, and this guy whispered to the other girl in my group, “do you actually expect her to do anything?”
Lots of stuff like that every day. And more,
And I’m not being paranoid. I gave it the benefit of the doubt; but when I discovered that half of the guys blocked me on AIM, it’s pretty obvious that the guys hate me.
I know I should be strong and I shouldn’t care about what those morons think of me, but it still hurts. I bet they wish they could make fun of my body as well, but fortunately, I’m not overweight, and I don’t have any really ugly features that they could laugh at.
It really, REALLY hurts my feelings. I know I shouldn’t be so sensitive, but it makes me feel awful.
What should I do? I can’t tell a teacher, that would only decrease my reputation. And my school counselor doesn’t know squat.
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I don't really know what to say sorry, except that why don't you try to find out why the dislike you or you can just ignore them completely and be brave then eventually they will go and bug someone else.
Sorry i couldn't be more help.
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Is it bad to just hook up with someone even though you're not with them? It makes me feel like I'm doing something wrong. I just need reassurance that it's okay. Please let me know! Thank you. ♥ (link)
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Let the other person know how far you want to go in your relationship and let him know what kind of relationship you want.
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ok...15/f...(if that helps)
so my birthday is on monday and i have this really close guy friend, lets call him john. and so i really want him to get me a b-day gift, but i dont think he will. like i know that hes my friend and all but if a guy gets a girl a gift and they're not going out, it makes people talk. and also he would just not want to be bothered with that. and like basically i cant ask him to get me a gift and i cant really hint to him that i want one b/c even if he did get me a gift it would only be b/c i asked him. (link)
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Make your feelings known to him then he might get you a present if he feels the same way, if your already friends then he might get you one anyway.
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well before basketball practice everyday i go like a hour and a half early, well my crush stays after for the weight room. & we contantly like play fight, and stuff. Well he had hit me to i went to run away and he chased me, then he cornered me in a doorway. & put his nose to mine then kissed me and we had started making out. Then i kept being a tease and either not kissing back or grabbing his hand leading him away, slipping a little tounge and pulling away again. Then hes like can i use your cell phone to call my mom, I was like no and i smiled & then we started to kiss somemore. Then we walked out of the hallway we were in and a bunch were down at the other end then his friend jake was like are you to dating and I was like ask him & then I went to practice. Do you think I was to easy, he knows I like him alot & do you think were dating ? (link)
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You just confused him a little so he doesn't want to say the wrong thing to upset you, ask him where your relationship stands at the moment.
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13/f
well i have this campfriend that is a year older than me. we have been flirting online since this summer and i starting liking him. i kind of stopped liking him a couple weeks ago. yesterday he told me that he really likes me. i was kind of happy but then i realized that he has been with ALOT of other girls and i heard he cheated on one of them. but he is SUCH a sweet guy and we are really close too. so im seeing him this weekend and yesterday he asked me if i wanna hookup with him. ive never hookuped and my friends keep telling me to wait for the right person. i like him but i don't like him THAT much anymore and i don't want to be just another girl to him.
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You and him should have a discussion about him 'cheating' in the past but don't implie he has just say i heard it then that should clear up and worrys you two my have, let him know how serious you feel he may feel the same way.
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My social studies teacher hates me. He's the leader of a club for gay pride. I don't think that he's gay, he says that he's married. Ever since the beginning of the year, he's always been crabby but only to me. I mean, once we were working on a worksheet that he said we could work in groups on, and he comes over to me and yells at me and tells me to go and work alone in the hall, but I wasn't doing anything bad. And once I called someone a fag (I was just kidding, no one actually means what they say, you know what I mean?). He gave me 2 detentions and tried to get me suspended, but the principal didn't let him. My teacher has probably heard me telling gay jokes and saying stuff about gay people. What can I do to deal with this or make it stop. I hate him because he's nice to everyone else but it's only me that he gets mad at. (link)
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I would say when you next have your social studies lesson go in and do nothing wrong and i mean nothing then i would either tell your principal or your mom that you are getting harrassed, make sure you have witness's.
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i performed oral sex on a guy i know and now i don't know what to do he was my first and i feel akward around him...
why do i feel this way?
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Your just a little bit embarrased because it was your first time and you wanted to please him, over time you will feel more comfortable around him.
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Well, I am 13/f.This might sound stupid but I found a guy on the computer and I was wondering how I could find out if he is cheating on me or not?Also wondering should i still go out with him even tho he is off the computer? Thanks. (link)
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The chances are he is cheating because if he met you in a chatroom then how many other girls has he gone out with?
He could be lying to you saying that he's 13 when he's 21 or something.
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Hey,theres this girl i like and i wanted to do something special to ask her out.There was two things i was thinking about and i was wondering if someone could help me decide.The first one was for christmas i was going to get her a card and get a pack of green and red gum (christmas colors) and a pack of her favorite gum and put them all on the card,and get her a bracelet and get one of them gift tags and out it on the bracelet saying i love you more then you can imagine .. will you go out with me?.
The 2nd idea is for valintines day i was going to make two big hearts and put them together with a opening in it and on them write "inside is all the things i love about you"on it then fill it up with little hearts saying all the things i like about her and put the bracelet in the heart.and put a bigger little heart in the middle of the bracelet tied to it by string saying "All the little hearts added together is how much i love you..will you go out with me?
i really like both ideas lol..can someone please help mee??
Thanks :)
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Both ideas are good, i would suggest that you do both but for the secound idea put the word everything instead of a list of things.
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Ok we are always moving and we never Get ANY THING planed I just want to get my mom to understand how hard it is to get attatched to people and then move.
And How do I let myself go out with some one when Im scared a move is going to be around the corner?
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You need to discuss this with your mom and explain how hard it is for you.
You can still be close to someone even if you move, if your ok with a long distance relationship.
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im 14, a freshman, and have never had a boyfriend. its odd. i feel so left out since so many people have lost their "IT" (lol) already. i mean i dont want to do that. but i want a bf and plus, i've never kissed anyone either, i know its because of my looks, i mean i've tried everything. i've even tried annorexia. i KNEW it was the wrong answer, so i stoped while i was ahead. oh im a girl, but i guess you caould have figured that out.
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It just means that you've missed out on getting hurt a hundred times or so, think your self lucky.
I wouldn't worry anyway because it just means you haven't found true love yet, its better to have found true love in one go then to sleep around in a hundred goes.
You need to learn to be more independent then you will be happy with who you are.
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ive been fingered.. and i masturbate and stuff.. what are the chances of my hymen bein broken ? (link)
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A fairly good chance.
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im in love with my best friend..
the only problem is, right now she is in a serious relationship.
But somtimes she acts like she likes me (which confuses me ALOT)
I would do anything to be with her.
She means the world to me, and i just want to see her happy.
What should i do?
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You should tell her how you feel and make it clear to her that if she's happy with this other guy then you are happy for her.
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I have a great job & my supervisor is amazingly nice. She has a younger brother who also works in our store (he's 19, i'm 18) and me and him have become close. He recently told me he wants to be more than friends and I was excited. My supervisor is actually supportive about all of this. The thing is, I'm scared of what would happen if we broke up and weren't on good terms. I don't want to jeopardize my job and my supervisors opinion of me but I really like this guy. (link)
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If your really worried then ask your supervisor if it would jeopardize your job being with him and then breaking up.
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This is weird but please bear with me. My ex-boyfriend was my first love & now we're friends. He had this car since we started our relationship years ago. This car has so many memories and meant alot to me. The car was practically a part of our relationship. Recently, he got into an accident and the car is destroyed. I'm devastated, even though we're not together, this car holds so many memories of my first real boyfriend and it hurts. I don't know why I feel this way but I can't move on from it, he isn't even that upset! (link)
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First loves can leave you feeling like that all i can say is time will help you feel better.
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okay, i wrote something on this site a couple of days ago about a guys that i liked that liked me back etc. well yea i was talking to him the other day on the phone and everything was good, and he said i love you before we got off the phone and it was soooo cute=] and well i thought everything was good. but i guess not, because the next day i found out that he was going out with someone.. and well i was obviously mad at the fact that he had a g/f and didnt tell me, and that he still said i love you to me, but what made me even more mad was the fact that it is a girl that i HATE!!! and so i called him to confront him abotu it, and i started to cry=[ well, he wants to talk to me now, and he told me to stay after to talk to him and so i did but he hasnt talked to me yet.. what should i do??? (link)
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You and him need to at some point have discussion about where your relationship stands wether it is as friends or as something more intimate, if you do decide to talk to him make sure you don't send the wrong signals, if you don't talk to him then you may never know what he is really feeling.
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Hi, I gotten a job and Like it. there guy there he very nice and I hard he is funny. so now I am not in High school anymore hoply be different then hig school. i want know how and make shure i be come friend with this guy how to be friendly and not lead him on and think I am crushing on him. I don't want runie it. (link)
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Have a party or something and invite him so it won't look like that you are crushing on him.
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