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Hey! This is Mandy and Tish!!! Muahahahaha! We rock.. hard
Gender: Female
Location: The Good Ol' State of TexAs!
Member Since: March 22, 2005
Answers: 78
Last Update: March 28, 2005
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I have a friend and she bosses me around. Sometimes she talks to me in a mean way. Once she asked my why I was talking in a negative voice. I hate that because she acts like she is my mom. I not sure if I even want to be her friend any more. Right now she is one of my best friends. I need a wasy to tell her with out actualy hurting her feeling or making her mad at me. How should I tell her?
Signed,
Angry but sad (link)
Ok.... what i would do... i would talk to her about it... i kno its easier said then done... but dont be afriad!!! if she is a real friend she wont be mad for too long. I mean she will prolly be mad but not for long. If she's a good friend, she will listen to wat you say and try to stop being bossy and mean!
Hope i helped!
And i kno everything is easier said then done!
MaNdY!


i just became friends with a girl again and she used to be mean and when we gave her a second chance she started to be mean again.im worried she will be like that again what should i believe? (link)
TALK TO HER ABOUT IT! be like "Oh we need to talk about something" and just go strait out and ask her. She will understand and not be mad for a long time if she is a good friend!
And if she just doesnt understand, she is not the friend you thought she was
I kno its easier said then done!
Hope I Helped!
MaNdY!


Im on my period right now and i am so angry for some reason and i get pissed off so easily right now and i dont know why? and today this girl told me something and i ended up cussing her out and every one thought i was gonna hit her in the face so please tell me how i can be nicer why im pmsing (link)
It's ok thats what happens when yu have your period. It's totally normal!

TrIsH*


I have a problem with boys, none of them like me. If one of my friend's tells a boy I like them they pretend to gag and stuff. Well I was at a dance and there was this really hot boy and my friend asked him to dance with me and he said no so my other friend asked him and he said I have a girlfriend as an excuse to not make me feel upset. What can I do to get boys to like me? (link)
Well, first of all... DO YOU EVEN LIKE IT WHEN YOUR FRIENDS TELL YOUR CRUSHES THAT YOU LIKE THEM? that may be the prob... and if you dont like it tell them!! Just be yourself around boyz, because boyz should like you for who you are and not like you for someone your not!
Hope i Helped!
MaNdY!


I use to date a guy named Jimmy, but we started becoming less and less b/f and g/f so we decided we shouldn't go any farther in our relationship and we can just be friends. i have another boyfriend and i know Jimmy is jealous of him. He keeps on saying he isn't my type and that he probably is using me, but i know him very well and he wouldn't just use me because i know a couple of his friends too. what should i do about this problem? how can i tell him to get over our relationship without hurting his feelings?

-taylor n. (tgrl3791)-
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Ok.. first of all tell him to stop talkin trash about jon!!!!! lol anywayz, if he is a good friend he will listen and hopefully stop. Good friends listen and try to help you. So if he is a good friend, he will stop!
Hope i Helped!
MaNdY!


I need to get in shape for this summer-like so bad..I've tried almost everything..Dieting and crunches didn't help..eating less and less didn't help..Not eating for almost a whole day didn't help..and I couldn't really keep up with the eating healthy thing..I just want to look greeaattt in a bikini for this summer..Does anyone know any ways to get in shape? Thanks (link)
WHAT EVER YOU DO DONT STARVE URSELF ITS BAD FOR UR BODY!!!!!!!!! try going on bikerides with friends or exercise! remember no 1 looks perfect! so dont try to be like the people on TV that look super hott(no 1 looks like that)

TrIsH*


Whenever i have like.. time to myself, i always seem sad, and sometimes even when im with friends, family, or people in groups im in.. i never talk..because.. well im just sad. sometiems there are no reasons, and i always wonder why.. but other times, its because since im adopted.. i never met my parents, and sometimes i just want to meet them so bad that i dream about who i would be if i never got adopted and stuff.. then i start crying... can you help me stop this, or find out.. why???
THANKS IF YOU ANSWER!! (link)
Ok... your parents put you up for adoption to give you a better life that they could not give you. They were tryin to make your life the best. And try keeping a diary and writting down how you feel about things. Talk to your parents and call your friends more often even if you just wanna talk!!
Hope i Helped!
ManDy!


Tonight I have to babysit for two twin girls who are 5. I cant keep them busy and in my control. Can anybody give me some pointers?
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try settling them down. Dont give them alot of sugar. give them Milk to drink so they wont be hyper. Try putting in there favorite movie. Let them take naps or play quite games.

Trish*


ok i really like this guy and he likes me back, were practicially going out and we see eachother on weekends and in school. but now all of the sudden i feel like he doesent like me as much as he used to and we are fighting a lot more than we used to and i just feel like im going to loose him over something stupied.We had a fight a few weeks ago and i cried so hard i couldn't even breathe but then i gave him time to really think about everything and our relationship and he said he still loved me and i just don't think he does.I tried talking to him bur he just doesent understand. what should i do? (link)
OK.. if he isnt listenin to you then he is not the one for you, because a good friend/boyfriend really listens to you and tries to help you out with your probs. But really try talking to him and putting it in a way that he will understand!
Hope i Helped!
MaNdY!


for a myspace page, how can u change the font color and make a backround? can someone give me like.. step by step directions?

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Ok you go to Column settings and then click on the link for the background... and then look for those and b4 you look at them read the directions!!! lol that helped me a lot. and for the colors, click column settings, and just scrolll down and read! lol
Hope i helped!
MaNdY!


hey does anyone kno if sharpie(permenent marker) is bad for your nails??

this has nothing to do with it but whats the best way to get a guy who goes to a diffrent school and you like never see and talk on the phone with to like you because like i flirt better in person so... plz help (link)
Well, i dont think permanet marker is bad for your nails. Avril Lavine colors her nails with black permenant marker! So i dont think its bad. And for your other question, i would ask him if he wants to do something with you and some of your friends and some of his friends! it could be fun!
Hope i Helped!!
ManDy!


Hey guys and gals, i was wondering if someone would be considered anorexic if they only ate once a day, or even nothing all day and maybe once the next?
Thanks (link)
NO!!!!!!! NEVER EVER become Anorexic! it can hurt your body! you can become VERY sick or it can even lead to deth! so my answer for you is NO dont become anorexic!!!!


TrIsH*


hey I know someone who cuts themselves and it is starting to scare me! I used to be her friend but now were not as close. I think her parents know but I dont know what to do because I think she still cuts herself so please help!!!- needs advice (link)
I would tell your mom or a teacher. They will definitly help. Or just call her and talk to her about it even tho you guys are not so close anymore. I kno everybody is prolly telling you wat im tellin you... but that is the only thing you can do!
Hope i Helped!
MaNdY!


The last couple of weeks i've been noticing that I have been eating A LOT!! now i'm afraid i'm gonna gain a lot of weight. i eat when i get home from school up till dinner and no matter how hard i try, i can't stop!! does anyone have any suggestions? if u do please help!! (link)
Well, you can try eating fruit!!! i think its awesomely cool to eat fruist :'P!! Or play sports or just go outside with friends and walk around the blocks a couple times with them and talk!! Its quite fun i've dont it b4!
Hoped i Helped
MaNdY!


HELP!im 14/f..here it goes..in like october i started kinda fooling around with an eating disorder but didnt really realize i was. since then ive collapsed twice..im really getting scard somethings really wrong with me bc of this! my sister knows & she thinks i told my mom and that im all good now. i feel guilty that im basicly lying to my sister when she asks me how its going and im scard ive done some kinda permanent damage to my body! i really dont want to be known as that girl with an eating disorder but its hard not to be! (link)
You should tell your mom, so youn feel guilty about lieing to your sis or have any problems with the eating.


~trish


OK f/13/
i go to a privet school ok but don't think i am a prep. ok i have long blond hair and blue eyes, and i am short like maby 4'8" or 4' 9" and none of the guys in my grade(7th ) like me and its like i just feel realy left out some times from my friends and all the "popular" girls just go out with guys to have a boyfriend i think and i am like not desperat but i want to like some one and and want some one to like me with out it being grows . is this normal or am i just a freak over reacting. help and what do guys like in girls at the age about 13. (link)
Its normal!!!!!! screw the pops... they can suck duck lol the pops at my school are really clicky and stuff and everybody feels that way about friends, boyz, and the pops at their school. I go to a catholic school and like its the same way for a lot of people. Like i feel that way sometimes and so do my friends! Dont worry its AWESOMELY NORMAL!
Hope I hElped!
MaNdY!
P.S. Any pops that read this.... no offense


i can talk to guys fine in person i just sound so stupid on the phone i need some pointers on how to like start in depht conversations oh im 13 female (link)
Talk about school, people lol try not to say nothing bad, teachers, sports, any kind of school actvitiy thats going on or just ANYTHING! just pretend your talkin to one of your best friends that is a girl!! But make sure you dont talk about girl things to him :')
HoPe i HelPed!
MaNdY!


Well, I was best friends with this girl (lets call her A), and then me and A started hanging out less and now we don't hang out at all anymore. She even has another best friend now. How do I get her back to being my best friend? I rate high! (link)
Call her or talk to her online and be like "Oh we havent dont anything in a while! Maybe wanna see a movie (or whatever you want to do)" Then bring up old memories and times that you guys have together to make her remeber how much fun you guys had. Or bring up inside jokes or ANYTHING that reminds of how much fun you guys had!
Hope i Helped!
MaNdY!


hey im doing this concert thing at school as like a treat for everyon for raising over 10000 dollars from the fundraiser.. does anyone know any good duets for boyfriends and girlfriends?? ((im doing 2 duets with my boyfriend))
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Wow thats really nice! Anywayz, i would sing "Aint no mountain high" Its not a duet, but you can easily make it into one!! and it has a good message for couples!
Hope I HeLPed!
MaNdY!


Ok well i came on a trip to my cuzins house and i met his friend Robie well Robie is very cute and now i am going out wit him.Well that is all good and all for while i am here but ten again i live in California and he lives in Oklahoma. I am afraid that this is not going to work out but i want it to sooooo bad because i hella like him but what should i do i am considering moving back here but idk if i can so please help me!!! (link)
I would tell him how you feel and then ask him how he feels about it. Im sure you guys will figure something out if you tell him how you feel!
Hope i Helped!
MaNdY!




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