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I'm a mom of 3 kids in a long term relationship. I like to think I'm fairly smart(IQ 131), but I definitely don't know everything. I work a regular job, finished high school, but dropped out of my first year of college. I'm not religious, but I think of myself as pretty spiritual. I'm always watching and reading new things that interest me, because I love to learn new things. I guess you can really ask me anything, I love to give advice. I'm sure the people that will benefit best from my advice are other people like me, but don't take my word on it ;)
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This weekend a whole big ordeal was formed at my house, because i lied to my parents about something. But then i got really upset and they gave me a little pill of valium friday night and then another one saturday night so i could calm down. They hid them from me, but now i'm going crazy looking for them, i feel like i need them. I loved the way it made me feel, and i'm even looking through the internet for other pills that give you the same effect. is there a possibility that i'm addicted to valium?
First of all, your parents should have never given you a pill like that. two days is not gonna make you addicted. You obviously liked the way it made you feel, but a pill is only a temporary fix. It is not a healthy way to relieve yourself. I suggest finding some other ways to calm down when you are upset. Putting some headphones on with some calm music you like, and lying on your bed. Do some deep breathing and meditation.
I will start by saying that I am self diagnosed. as a child as young as 5 i remember staying up crying in bed because i thought I was dying and in the 80s when AIDs was becoming more known I was positive I had it (I was only 8).I am in my twenties now and I still go through periods of extreme paranoia and obsession with some life-threatening problem I believe I have. it most often starts out with something that actually is physically wrong but it escalates in my head a lot. (i.e cyst on my chest becomes cancer, chronic sore throat is throat cancer, heart palpitations is heart attack.) sometimes i get so paranoid that i convince myself i am going to die that night or by the time my son is five or whatever. Its ridiculous. the only things that can ease my mind is telling my boyfriend or bestfriend about whatever problems i have and then having them tell me they have had it or know that it is going to be okay. thing is, they are at the point they do not want to hear it anymore, and i don't blame them because oh man I am crazy. i love my life, i do not want to die, and i try every day to convince my brain that i am in good health and will live a long time. i need some advice on how to overcome this myself, because I cannot see a doctor for financial reasons (although i would love someone to talk to) and i am absoulutely against medication for any kind of mental disorder. (just for myself, i do not judge others), thanks
A good way to start, is knowing that death is not bad, it is not the end. When people that are really sick die, it is a relief for them because they are usually in pain. Death is not the end of life, it's the start of another on the other side. Many illnesses like cancer and aids, dont mean death anymore. There are many resources now and government aid you can get, especially if you have a child. Support groups are many times free, you just need to find them. I suggest working on a stress free life. Get some yoga and meditation videos. When you feel panic coming on, take some deep breaths in and out, while you count in your head to 60. Distracting your mind when you feel a panic attack coming on will help stop it. I can't think of anything else at this moment that could help you. I just urge you to get government aid since you have a child. You could get insurance coverage, and other help like free daycare and food assistance.
i work at a daycare and i work with 3,4, and 5 year olds, and we have a girl who loves to hit the other kids a lot, it seems like nothing we do works to get here to stop even when the other kids hit her back she just tells them it did not hurt, i mean she is 3 years old i just dont know wat to do any ideas,
do you guys do time out? A time out mat, chair, or corner? The kids should not be allowed to hit eachother ever. Time outs, with full follow through, EVERY TIME, is the only way she is going to listen. If she knows she can get away with it even one time, then it's over, it won't work then.
Do you reward the kids when they behave too? Positive enforcement for positive behavior will accelerate things some. Eventually they will know, if they behave things are more enjoyable. Kids that hit and act that way, are hurting and angry inside, there is most likely a lot of fighting and instability at home. Creating a controlled and stable environment at the daycare will give them some relief, and they will enjoy being there.
Mkay..
Well i dont know if this is in the right catagory but i need help.!
Mkay..
my hair has been greesy alot..
like i would wait a week to wash it and the next two days its greesy again..
like i take a shower everynight like wash my body but i heard that the longer you wait the longer it will not get greesy!
like my sister and my moms hair is just normal i never see theirs greesy but its really starting to get on my nerves..
please help me!
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It's okay to go every other day washing your hair, especially if it's dry. When it's greasy, you should wash it. Going a week isn't going to change anything. The greasiness has to do with your scalp. The only chance you have of possibly changing it, is working on making your scalp as healthy as possible.
I am going to try using tampons for the first time. Is it ok to practice putting one in when you dont have your period?
i wouldn't advise that. when your vagina is drier, the tampons won't go in as easy. When your menstuating, the tampons go in much easier. When you use it, slide the applicator along the bottom wall of your vagina, so it is pointing to your lower back. You'll get plenty of practice the first period you use them. Also, make sure to wear a panty liner and change the tampon every 4 hrs to 6 hrs. Tampons are definitely not leak proof, and some brands work better then others. Just try a few different brands until you find one you like the best.
OK! I am 20/f I have a bf who is the love of my life and he is the only person I have a real relationship with, the only person I can call. But I understand that he has his own life nad sometimes I feel like I am taking too much of his space and i don't want to drive him away. I need something to do so I don't feel like i always have to call him or be with him. I am outgoing I just don't have any friends! People I work with are nice but there are all atleast 5 years older than me and we cant go out, we don't have anything in common. I tried yoga but I am not very good at it and am still trying to get better! I need something more time cosuming that will be imoprtant to me not something I am forcing myself to do. I jsut need some ideas for hobbied so please help. I don't have much money so I cant go out and like buy a bunch of stuff for my new hobby I just need something to do!!! Any ideas????
I'm not sure what kinds a things you enjoy. I don't have a lot of money, and no friends outside work and family. My hubby and I keep entertained by playing online computer games. They can be addicting, and should always be played sparingly cuz they can consume you fairly easy. There are many free ones, but the free ones are never as good as the ones you pay for. Most are $10-15 a month. A lot cheaper then going out every weekend. stores like bestbuy have large selections, and some you can download straight from the internet. Other ideas could be reading, or doing something crafty like scrapbooking. What about a pet, like a bird, rabbit, or rat. They are all social animals that like attention, and are quite fun. Hope that helps some.
This is usually what I eat, but I don't know if it's a good diet or not. It's low in calories and fat, but according to TheDailyPlate.com it's high in carbs and sometimes sodium. Let me know what you think.
For breakfast, I usually have either a VitaMuffin (google them!) with fruit, or a Dannon Light & Fit yogurt. Sometimes instead I have the yogurt with fruit. For lunch, I have either a turkey sandwich on whole-wheat bread with fruit, yogurt, or sugarfree jell-o, or a veggie dog. For dinner, I usually have a whole can of vegetable Campbell's Select Harvest Light soup with a piece of toast, a boca burger mixed with some bell peppers and egg whites, or low-calorie Lean Cuisine or Smart Ones meals, usually being a chicken or shrimp dish.
You get the general idea. Please give me as much advice as possible.
carbs are not a bad thing, unless you are eating over processed carbs. Anything whole grain or multigrain, and not white, is generally healthier. You need carbs to generate energy, and you should also be having 5-7 servings of carbs a day generally. Looks like your eating a pretty balanced diet. Just remember, when it comes to fruit and vegetables, you can eat as much as you want, there really isn't a limit. I would fit some snacks of fruits or veggies in to get more natural vitamins in your diet.
okay, so me and my boyfriend have been together for about four months now. and we hook up all the time. we don't have sex, but we do other things.. but the problem is, he cant make me orgasm. we've hooked up countless times but by the fourth time when he didnt do it, i faked it. and since then ive been faking it. I mean, i can make myself cum when im by myself, but he can never get me to that point.. what should i do?
you need to show him how to make you orgasm, you should never fake it. Whatever works for you when you masturbate, you need to show to him, so he can please you for real. It shouldn't be uncomfortable for you to explain this to him. Anyone at that point in a relationship should feel comfortable with each other.
I just bought a strapless dress for prom. I tried it on and it fit perfectly. The thing is the dress is very heavy and I was wondering if anyone knew any tricks on how to keep it up. It wouldn't fall of my chest, but it falls lower than it should.
This may be hard to find, but there is double sided tape and products like it that are for holding clothing in place. Why do you think the movie stars and models look so perfect? lol If you can find it, it will hold the top the the dress in place where you want it, and not have to worry about showing a lil too much.
Hi,
I'm a fifteen year-old sophmore in High School and there have been some problems in my relationship. My boyfriend of almost a year and a half is from Italy, he has been living in the US for most of his life and now his mother has been offered job back in Italy and they have a good chance of going back in less than six months. My parents have told me that I'm not allowed to visit him in Europe. I am really distressed. Even though I am fifteen I still believe I know what love is. We have also been fighting quite a bit but I've been trying to make it work. Should I still be trying if there is a good chance I won't see him for the next 2 (or more years), or should I just give up? Please help me. (Thanks)
I don't think you should give up, but I don't think you should try very hard either. You both know that it will end, which is why you are most likely fighting, and you should try your best to keep it positive. Work on forming a good friendship out of this, so you will stay in speaking terms with eachother when he leaves. You guys will be able to keep in touch over the internet. As long as you guys separate on a good note, and keep in touch, that will give you more of a chance of a relationship later on when you are adults. Love is a very strong emotion that can withstand time and distance. If he loves you as much as you love him, then down the road there may be a future together.
18/f
My boyfriend and I started having sex last weekend. He is really big and I am really small. The first time I bled a lot! There was blood for almost the whole rest of the night. The second time I bled for about an hour and then I was ok.
We just had sex again last night and I bled a tiny bit less than the second time.
Does this seem normal? How many times should I bleed before I go see a doctor?
The first and second time were a little painful, but the third was not.
Help! Thanks!
it is perfectly normal. your bleed when your hymen tears. It may have not been fully healed when u had sex again, and that would cause bleeding again.
How hard is it to potty train a siberian huskey? How do I train them? btw im 13/F. Ive trained my chihauhauh to stand on his hind legs and spin on command and to sit on hand command and also to hop and walk on hind legs. So how hard would it be for me to train a siberian huskey? (puppy)
Oh, and do u think renesemee (RA-nez-za-may) is a good name for a girl puppy?
I see you read the twilight saga, nice name! If you don't wanna kennel train, then paper train. Put the puppy on paper very often until they potty on the paper, and keep up with it. When they go only on the paper, move the paper outside. Once you work with that for a while, they will eventually go outside. Also, any weather is fine for huskeys. Just give them plenty of shade and water. They dont need ice. They shed a lot of hair in the summer, so keep a good shedding comb handy. They will need to be groomed sometimes twice a day.
when i masterbate, i gently rub my clit. it feels amazing, but i also sometimes experience pain, but like a good pain. is this normal?
its very normal. The pain maybe from directly touching your clit, which is a nerve ending. It can be painful, thats why it has a hood of skin over it protecting the nerve.
okay so i do gymnastics every wensday thursday and friday. the class on wensday and friday is a half hour and thursday is an hour. i do roundoff back handsprings. everytime i leave my wrists really hurt like 81/2 9 on pain. i cant even move them and i cant open doors. she does wrap my wrists when i am at the gym. and when i came home the other day i put ice on it but it didnt help. i put ace bandages on it and after a little bit they started to help. im 16 by the way and i am driving with a permit. so when my wrists hurt i drive and they feel better. should i buy some sort of wrist suppporters for when i tumble? oh i switched my wensday class to monday. any advice? Thank you sooo muuch
You should probably support your wrist with ace bandages, or something, when you tumble. It sounds like they are strained, and not having time to heal. Keep icing afterward all the time, and maybe try warming your wrist with a heating pad before hand to help the blood flow and stretching.
ok i got my period like 3 weeks ago had unprotected sex like 2 weeks ago and after that i took the morning after pill. Last week i was bleedin a little for 3 days and now im realy gassy and im really worried i mite be pregnant...HELP ME PLZ>>>
Did they say how effective the morning after pill is? I don't know much about it, but if they hand it out I would think it always works. So, I wouldn't freak out until you have a positive pregnancy test. The morning after pill is also just a concentrated dose of birth control. So you can and most likely will have some side effects that birth control would give you. Which from what I read about this pill is, bloating, stomach pain, bleeding, back aches, breast tenderness, and possibly more. So I would guess that you are most likely having side effects, and not pregnant. But take a test if you really wanna know for sure.
i have lke a 36d i think. cause i fit in those sometimes but the bras im wearing are dd. so im around there. well there a lil saggish. how can i get my boobs to be normal and perky? please help me. thankyou so much in advance. oh. and im 16 if that helps any
you cant reverse sagging. I have large D breasts also. They sag because of the weight. Your skin also plays a factor. Some people have very elastic skin that keeps it shape better, and some don't. The most you can do is wear full support bras as much as possible, even when u sleep if u can find a comfortable one. The bra holds the weight of our breast and stops the skin from stretching. My boobs were great coming outta high school. But, through time, and 3 kids, gravity and stretching take its toll. For larger breasted women, bras are a necessity, so pick ones that you feel comfortable in, and try not to go braless too often.
what is the normal pay for people that work in the entertainment business? like people that are casting directors?
I had a hard time finding some info, but I finally found this page.
http://blogs.payscale.com/salarystories/2006/12/salary_info_cas.html
Seems like most jobs in the entertainment business fluctuate a lot. It really depends if its small time names, or larger more well known names you are working with.
I am 23 F. I have been having weird stomach pain for a year now. I have tested my diet, but I still seem to get very nausiated even if I eat a piece of fruit. Anything I eat or drink will cause me to vomit or have severe pain like I just got kicked in my stomach. I have lost alot of weight very quickly, and I faint because of loss of nutreints from not eating. I have been rushed to the hospital many times, but they refuse to help me because I have no insurence. I cant work because I cant even stand up straight. I cant get medicaid or ssi because they said Im not blind, so Im not disabled. I am at my end, and I just want to give up. I am basically dieing by starvation and dehidration. Does anyone know what I can do?
I found this link, if may be of help.
http://www.merck.com/mmpe/sec02/ch007/ch007b.html
You need to look into government assistance. There are many places that treat uninsured patients for free or discounted amounts. Theres also many available insurance plans for very low prices. Look into what is available in your state. You should be able to find it all out on the internet. Good luck, and take care of yourself.
Why do you have to go to the gynecologist once you've become sexually active?
I'm very curious. I've read everywhere online about the gynecologist and when you should go, and it says once you become sexually active you should go see the doctor each year (even if you're under 18). Why? I thought you only have to go if you're having problems or something.
Please help! I'm getting confused.
when you become sexually active, you have the chance to expose yourself to STDs. Some STDs spread even with condoms(genital warts i.e.). It is very wise to have your bf/gf tested for STDs, if they are sexually active before you, to make sure they are clean before you start having sex with them. Women are also at higher risks for vaginal infections while sexually active, and also pelvic inflammatory disease. These aren't STDs, but the exposure to more bacteria in that part of your body increases this risk. Hope that helps some. :)
so there's this guy who's like me for a loooooooong time, and now we're finally going out. he's kissed way more girls than i've kissed boys, i have kissed, just not a lot like him. everytime we talk, he tells me how much he wants to get with me. well we finally did, and later when we were on the phone he was like, i got light headed after that kiss. i asked him why, and he said he didn't know. why do you think that happened? should i take it as a compliment, insult or neither?? help....
Lol! Remember to breath! Sometimes you get so caught up you dont breath as much as you should, and it results in light headedness. It's no big deal, it happens all the time. In a way, it can increase the effect of your kissing.
yes i know what the question meant... i was refering to that he most likely wasn't breathing enough while he was kissing.