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Last Update: August 14, 2004
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okay so i knoe how to kisss but ive never realy made out with a guy... so idk wut to do when i make out? where do i put like my hands? and how do i bring up the subject that i wanna make out with a guy?

you don't have to bring up the subject. just move in closer to him and he'll get the idea. as for your hands? you can put 'em anywhere. find out where his "spots" are and make it a point to touch them while making out. don't touch them too much though, leave him wanting more.

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ok consider this situation

your rubbing your b/fs "thing" (not in the pants) and you knew he was wet and you really didnt feel it that much and you masterbated in front of him to turn him on am i being stupid or can i get pregnaunt and even if i did have his stuff on my fingers it wouldnt even be hardly any i duno and i also have a problem where im always parinoid........? can some one help me with my parinoid prob and dont say "see a doctor" because i cant im only 15 and i dont want to tell my parents....help?

you can't get pregnant like that. i mean, you can, but the possiblity for something like that to happen is like a million to one. seriously, i looked this up before i answered; i did some research. even if it WAS on your fingers, there won't be enough on there to get you pregnant. so don't worry about it, you'll be fine.

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is it possable to get pregnant before you get your first period?

yes. i just read in the paper about an 11 year old girl who got rushed to the hospital because of severe stomach pains, and turns out she was pregnant and gave birth right there. she'd never had her period so she didn't know she was pregnant.

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do most girls shave on the pussy lol?

it depends on the girl. some prefer to shave, some wax, some just trim. it's all on how the girl feels about it.

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okay well im 13 years old and all of my firends have made out with a boy.. I never have... its really weird... my best friend since forever and I WERE the only ones who hadnt made out with a guy untill she went out with this kid joe... so now im the only one who hasnt... and everytime im going out with someone and the subject comes up i get really nervous... idk im just really scared to show affection... like I will hug my boyfriend without a problem but when it comes to holding hands and kissing im scared... i have been kissed but never made out... i know what to do but at the same time i dont please help me!

Kati

to tell you the truth, i think you're special. maybe it's not that you're scared, maybe you're just not ready and that's your heart telling you "no". know what i mean? don't be like "Well i'm the only one of my friends that hasn't made out with.. da da da da da" because just think; you have something that they will never have again. wait for someone special to come along, wait for the right time. when it's the right time, place and person, you'll know it.. then, when it finally happens, it'll be the best kiss ever. don't kiss someone just because they're pressuring you, okay? you'll know when you're ready.

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Heey I needddd some help!! I've been trying to find out wut kina pills I can take to make me feel high and/or hallucinate. (I do this to have fun..and ik its pathetic) I've gotten only a couple awnsers..But Idk how much I need to take to feel it..or if i need a presrption for this stuff?? If ANYONE knows ne thing about it..or knows a good website that can help me find sum info about it (not a drug problem site) then plz leave me sum awsners!!

honestly, i have to tell you that for asking this question you are stupid. you sound like you need help. talk to a doctor, talk to your parents... something. but don't go around looking for pills to give you a high for a couple of hours, when it could just screw you up forever in the long run. it's not smart. rethink yourself.

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when i tt my boyfriend my stomack flips like when your going down a rollarcoaster it feels really weird is it love?

when it's love, you'll definitely know it. you won't have to ask.

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I was doing Capoeira (brazilian karate) and I hurt my leg and it's getting worse. What should I do?

go to the doctor.

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Ok..my friend always talks about her ex BF. Ive heard about him soo much and im tired of it. i mean shes not dating him nemore! I try to laugh it off and say..oh no ur talking about justin again but it doesnt she just keeps talking about him!..what should i do?

i rate

ask her to please stop talking about him with you. just tell her the truth, she should understand.

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My parents and my bro dont get along at all. My parents have disagreed with my bros choices for years. My mom and dad dont want nething to do with him really. They are tired of him expecially mom. But my bro still wants to have a relationship with me (sister and bro). Should i stick with my parents or form a relationship with him.

Help

do what your heart tells you to. it will never steer you in the wrong direction.

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ok , i dont kno what to do anymore . im babyysitting this 4 yr. old little boy . i came at 9:30 this morning and like 10 min. after the mom left for work , he's throwing his toys at me , one hitting my chin , then he took some statue thing the parents hav and starts biting on it . nd i cant control this kid . can u help me pleasE

talk to the parents of the kid. maybe THEY need to get that kid settled, not you.

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hi my name is jessica and my friend thinks i called her jerk when i didnt now she started a big fight i said sry but i think shes still mad at mewhat should i do!!! PLZ HELP

give her time to cool off. if she's a friend then she'll get over it soon enough. don't worry about it.

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okay, well i'm a 14/f and i hate my thighs cuz they're pretty fat *im a size 9* i've tried eating right, i usually run 2.8 miles 2-3 times a week, i play sports almost everynight and i do thigh excercises in bed..nothings working...does anyone know of any really good excercises i could do to slim down the tops of my thighs? thanks, and i will rate all advice.

you could try to ride bicycles or do bicycles on the floor. they strengthen your legs and slim them down at the same time. it's a pretty good work out, and it works your stomach.

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My friend Cecely smell`z reallyy bad ---ยป realllyyyyyyyy bad - and i want to tell her to take a shower so badly.. but i feel if i tell her .. she will get mad. please help! PLEASE

hey, the truth hurts. don't be mean about it, but tell her. there's not really a nice way to put it so just be as... i guess as good about it as you can.

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How do you break up or, tell a guy you dont want to be thier gf without hurting them??

it's not possible to do that and NOT hurt them, unless they don't like you to begin with. you're better off just telling the truth! they'll appreciate it more in the long run, and you won't feel guilty about lying.

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What are some good sex website that show you like positions and ways to spice it up?

i wouldn't go to websites like that. you get lots of pop ups and spam, lol. i'd go to a book store and check it out. they have some good stuff.

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what do u do if u like ur EX-girlfriend and u know u cant get her back but yet u cant get over her or stop thinkib bout her?

are you POSITIVE you can't get her back? if you're not 100% sure, then i'd say you should talk to her about it first. see what she has to say; it may surprise you. :) there's always hope. but i mean what do you do? sit around and do nothing but think about her? if that's so, then you should get out of the house and do something. occupy yourself and keep busy. that's the best way to do it. :) good luck.

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wut do i do to play hard to get???? plz give me some tips to get the guy i lyk to notice me
thanx,niki

i don't know WHY every girl out there has this morbid thought in her head about having to GET a guy to notice her. that's not the way it works girls. people who do that are classified as whore, usually. if you want a guy to notice you, then TALK TO HIM. it's not that complicated, and you don't make yourself out to be something you're not. if you want to talk to him, just do it! and if he shoots you down, then hey, maybe he's shy. just give him time then. but don't be something you're not just to get him to notice you.

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ok, Mel, I have Herpes, and my friend has Ghon, we don't know what to do,we go for our vacs. thats just not enough! please help us!

Well to start off with, i think i'm just gunna call you "Herp" for now, is that alright with you? Hope so, because if not then that's just too bad. Well "Herp"... i think you are going to have to be 'put down' after a few more of them vacs. they don't always work. my senses are tellin me that you & your buddy aren't gunna live but another few months. glad to be of help! later "Herp"!

LOL!! Jessica you're crazy! PSYCHO. how's that for a nickname? lol get outta here.

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alright well im still scared haha but i have a tiny little belly button and i think it will really hurt...lol i dont know how to get myself to go in there and get it done cuz i want it sooo bad but ahh THE PAIN!!

no, honestly, it doesn't hurt too bad. a bee sting. period. if you've ever been stung by a bee, then you already know how it's going to feel. it's mind over matter here. if you're that scared, then either you're not ready or you're going to have to convince yourself to go in there.

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