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Hey Im 18 years old and a sophmore in college. I love helping people out with there problems. Believe it or not my childhood and now my small but so far hecktic adulthood has been horrible. But I grin and bear it and just smile because i know somewhere out there someone is in a worse situtation then me...I am told that Im really good at giving advice expecially about relationships and family problems. But it is also well know that I cant take my own advice to save my life. I've saved my bestfriends marrige and her life...and Im here for anyone and everyone who needs a helping hand...you can always email me Im always checking that, have a great day!

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Age: 18
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hii. i think i am fat i weigh 141 and i dont like the way i look so im thinking about becoming anerixic for just a few weeks to shed some pounds. But i heard it can be dangerous

dont do that, u say your only going to do it for a week but once you start doing it you cant stop it dont do that. just work out everyday and stay away from candy food products with alof of sugar...stick to salads and all meats and cheese...dont do that whole anerixic thing...oh and do as many sit ups as you cant it helps i promise

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Ok so i have this friend ...honest this is about a friend ...and she has this boyfriend my friend is older then me by like 4 years ...i look up to her like a sister and when i met her boyfriend i got this horrible vibe from him ... he made me nervous and i dint like it one bit ... i told her about the vibe because everyone i asked said i have to tell her as a friend so i did and we are fine all that happend was she reasured me he was a "good one" ...little did i know my vibe was right
today i found out that one of my good friends saw him at a resturant standing in line with another guy and two girls ..one of the girls he was like nibbling her neck and holding her hands and stuff (i guess this could be a friend ship thing but not when you have a girlfriend) ...i dont know if i should tell my friend or not ..i know telling her would be the "right" thing but it will break her heart in half because this is the first guy shes ever honestly been abale to say she loved ...and then hes out cheeting on her while shes at work ?? ... i dont know what to im goin crazy trying to make my mind up ..please help me out ill rate high for any answer i just need some kinda of guidence thank you

put it like this. would you want to be in a relationship with a guy who was cheating on you? of course not...and wouldnt you get even more mad if you knew that your best friend knew? you need to get it out in the open and off your cheast she probably wont believe you but she can now have reasons to suspect the whole situation...it's okay to tell friends those things, it actually saves them alot more pain!

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ok i have this friend and hes my ex but we are still good friends and for a week iv had the same dream when im snuggling up to him really close and we are kissing and some other think (holding hands...) but i dont know what this means! is it something thats wrong with me? should i ask him out again? if its any help i still have a cup he drank out of from my best (girl) friend's b-day party and her party was in June! please help im desparete im afraid ill do something stupid!
**sleepiesheep**

if you really care about him that much then i guess you should ask him out again? REMEMBER THIS...."if it didnt work out for you the first time, why would it the second time?"

just some words of advice hope i was of some help...xoxo goodluck

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i sweat alot and i use good deodarant but i find that i stink by the end of the school day and i wont take off my hoodie. whats hould i do?

i sympton of sweating that much is from a lack of water...meaning your dehydrated...so just drink alot of water and change to the addias deodarent...its awesome i use to have the same problem...

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Alright...weird question..but oh well. My boyfriend always likes to like suck on my nipples...(heh)...and now like a week later I have a weird scab thing and its never happened before..and we've been together to a year..so umm why did this happen now?

yeah it sucks...but what it is, is a hickey. You know what a hick is I'm pretty sure, where the blood rises to the surface...well this certain hicky got raised to the top layer of your skin...which turned into a scap nothing bad put some cream on it to make it heal faster...it should be soon asap

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Well ive been cruching on this guy for like EVER! well tonight i finally told him. and we didn't get to talk anymore about it b/c someone walkied around the corner. but i just want to know if it was stupid of me to tell him or not? he is like always staring at me and what not, or he was idk if he still is but i need help!

hey, what is there to lose. you dont have him as anything more than a friend right now, so if you tell him you like him its going to make or break you. He will say no and you'll be bummed but luckily your not head over heals inlove with him. If he says yes then there you go...go girl. Good luck dont bring it up to him anymore wait for him to bring it up...


xoxoxoox

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Ok I am in High school and I have 3 freakin rumors going around the school about me and my best friend. This girl is telling me that me and my best friend are lesbian lovers, which is so not true, because I am straight, and now I have people talking about me, and also I have another rumor which isn't as bad, but that one is that I am going with this boy, and that I am a slut. Its going around the whole school, and it upsets me, and makes me want to cry. I don't know what I should do. I haven't had these problems, til I met this one girl.

I know nothing anyone says is going to make the feeling of people talking bad about you behind your back any better but relax. I went through this a million times in high school i actually graduated a year early so I could get away from it. You need to ignore it...if someone says something to you be like uhm I dont know where you heard that but get your story straigh and walk away. What people are doing is talking crap about you so that you will freak out and make a scene its sick that people get a pleasure from that but they do. So just rise above them and laugh and just be like "well im glad i can rise about the high school drama, but its obvious you cant so when you grow up then i'll hold a normal conversation with you." dont be rude but i know you cant be nice because your upset. If you think these rumors started when you started hanging out with your friend you need to stop hanging out with him one day at a time until you guys dont hangout anymore. because if you just drop her as a friend she will start more rumors than already started...if someone says your a lesbian shrug it off, all that matters is what you think about yourself dont let the little people who are way under you make you upset.


xoxo i hope i was of some help

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