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okay,so there's this guy that I like, and I really want him to notice me,but I'm not sure how to do that without making it obvious you know?Please please help give me some ideas! (link)
i mean da most you could do is be yourself because if you look for a guy then he may not be the one for you. YOu should let the guys come to you, but if you want some tips then here it goes: HAve a very cute outfit. im talkin bout a nice short skirt with a cute spaghetti shirt with a nice jean jacket and some shoes. Then if u see one of ur friends talkin to him try to have your friend help you slip in the conversation. Make the conversation about something he know and you know. For example he may have done good on a test that you didnt or vice versa. Talk about that and say that you need a tutor or you'll be gladto tutor. if that doesnt work then just try to casually bump into him adn make a fit about sumthin. then yall sjhould start talking.


I need to save a one page essay to a floppy disk, and I'm at a loss on how to do it. I know my computer has a floppy drive, and I have an empty floppy right next to me. If I bring the essay up, what do I need to do to make it save to a floppy? Also, which, side goes into the drive? The one with the circle or the blank?


Your help is appreciated! (link)
after you bring up da essay go to file under file u should see save. click save. a little box hould appear on the top of the box dere is alittle rectangular box that says documents and next to it is an arrow. CLick on the arrow and go down to floppy disk. type wat u wanna save it as in do botton recatngular box den click save. After click save with for about 2 mintues or however it takes den take up floppy. In the bottom of the computer you should see something that says how long it would take for your thing to save. P.S. to insert a floppy disk use the side with the silver part.


Ok, well... my best friend is a guy, and his name is Chris. He's really awesome, and we're really close. I've always thought of him as a brother to me. But lately everyone has been asking me, "Are you two going out?" and "Do you like him?" and everytime my answer is "no." but lately I've been thinking, and I feel weird whenever I talk to him now. Whenever he comforts me about stuff, I just feel... really really happy. Rediculously happy. Almost..fuzzy inside? I don't know, but I keep thinking that I'm starting to have feelings for him. But we're just friends.. friend's arent supposed to crush on eachother. But I can't help myself.

SO MY QUESTION IS: Am I in love with him? and if I do why do I feel so uncomfortable?

Signed..
JUST FRiENDS (link)
Well lets not say love yet. Its more of a like situation. You never thought of him as more than a friend till people started changing your mind. Now when he talks to you, you don't now what to think. The best thing to do is to keep your relationship as friends because you don't wanna risk getting hurt or losing a good friend. I hope my advice was a great asset to your life.



okay..here it goes..((kinda longg))

me and my boyfriend have been dating for about a year now..and last night was our anniversary..it was also our first night "together"..yess..we waited a whole year..well..he suprised me..we had dinner at his apartment..he made it..and then he blindfolded me..and we went into his room..he took off the blindfold and the room was lit with candle light and the bed was covered in rose petals..it was like straight out of a movie..well..he closed the door..and came over to me..he started kissing me..and then started to lift my shirt..he unclipped my bra (( 36dd )) and he started rubbin them slowly..it felt soo good..then he started lickin and suckin my nipples..then i started takin off his pants..and i started suckin his cock..i started lickin the head slowly..get it all hot and wett..i made him soo hard..then we got on the bed..and he put it in me..missonary..it felt so0o good..he made me orgasm 3 times...in 1 NIGHT..it was the best sex i ever had..now i wanna suprise him..in the most sexiest way ever..any tips..i rate high =]

thankie you
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Well wat you do i think uyoutake a whole rack of naked pictures and leave it in places he mostly looks. (places only he would look) leave notes tellin him to meet you somewhere dat you think is special to both of yall. Dress up in a little waitress outfit and ask how can you survive him. Start by rubbing his back and give him sexual questions like "it seems like ur tense you want my to ease dat big head of yours." Then tell him you feel like playin hide and seek. tell him to count to 10. go on ur bed naked sittin with your legs wide and just caressing urself. Make sure he doesnt touch you. Make him feel tempted. den slowly walk over to him touching him gently. and sit down on him. start giving him a lap dance. Tye his hand to a chair so he really cant touch. den work your magic from there.


ok so my periods started today, agh what a pain. but im supposed to go to a theme park tonight and i LOVE rollercoasters and going upside down and stuff. if i wear a pad (cant wear tampons for some medical reason) would i like leak going upside down or something? haha idk really i was just wondnering if itd be stupid or something
haha
thanks to anyone who can help :-D (link)
No it will not leak. nuttin is going to happen to you. Da only thing is you can't go in the pool. i always go on rollercoaster when im on my period and nuttin happens.


no one knows I like this guy stares when I ignore him to shy to say a word wat do I do? (link)
just start talkin to him. Say hi wats up. if he stares at you den he must like u to.


Sometimes I like a guy for a while, then I REALLY like him, then I don't think I like him at all and I see him again and I like him...agian. This all happens in one day. Is this normal? (link)
Hormones. YOu dont know wat to think. it happens to me all they time and im 16.


about a couple weeks ago i got a sour or blister thing in my mouth. now a couple days ago i got another one on the right side of my tongue. it hurts a lot. i read something about herpes online and i really think its herpes. ive only gave my boyfriend head once with a condom and once without a condom. im really scared. do you think i have herpes? and if so, how can i treat it or make the pain go away?? please help (link)
Well im sorry to tell you that but you. Im not sure how you can treat ti but i think you should see a doctor bout that cause that can be real serious. you may even have a diesease if your not careful.


How much do ppl who r anerioxic eat a day or how many calories or w/e (link)
They barely eat. If they its at a mininum


lately i've had this huuuuuge crush on this guy, but i dont think he likes me... its really bugging me becuz he sends me all the signals a boyfriend would to send to his girlfriend at school. i really like him and hes really cute. i'm gonna invite him to my halloween party, but i'm not sure how to tell him about it. (link)
Easy. make invitations. pass one out to people all around him so when you get to him you can say something as, hey, im havein this halloween party. if u aint busy,you come and chill with us.


ok, well theres this girl im not friends with anymore. her name is kelsey. last night i was with a guy who im not going out with but its almost like i am. kelsey and me arent friends anymore because of a stupid fight we had in march. its really stupid so i wont explain. so just to spite her, when i was with steve (the guy) and he had me pushed against a wall and then i started making out with him. im almost sure that she saw because she was the only one other than us in that hall and she walked right by us. i thought it was really funny last night at the dance but now i have a weird feeling about it. she might tell her mom that i was acting like a slut, and im afraid that her mom would tell my dad. i kind of regret this... my question is... how should i handel this all...? what if my parents do find out... i need some sort of explaination... or answer (link)
I don't think she would that and if she does then that just means she's jealous. I think wat you did was nice. Just handle it as if nothing ever happened. If shestoops that low then something is really wrong with her. If your parents find just say that it the kiss was an accident and that they guy you met isreal nice. Try to make seem like you found someone that makes you happy and isn't that what should be more important and that your ot havingsex like other people.


I'm having a Halloween/ Birthday party today and I rented Amutiville Horror and Texas Chainsaw Massaccre. I was wondering are they really scary, like should I be watching the,? (i'm 13) (link)
The Texas Chainsaw was good. If your a type of person that gets scared easily then i advice you to don't watch it. The horror was a nice mvie also. But if you do decide to see them, you'll probably have a good laugh. If you like scary movies go right ahead and watch them.


ok well i really like this guy and he wants me to go over his house and i want to (hes been to my house before and lets say me n him kissed **a few times**)but everytime he hangs out with a girl something happens weather its just a kiss or sex. and i wouldnt have a problem with this but after i found out that he only likes me as a friend and that he likes my cousin things changed...a few weeks ago before i found out that he didnt like me or before i found out that he liked my cousin he told me he wanted to finger me and i said ok but now that he likes my cousin should i go over his house when i no something is gonna happen? (link)
This is something i went through once. I decided not to interact because you never may know if your cousin may like him. Also, wat if you do go over there and yall do have sex. You can engage with diseases or pregnancy. You have to think of all eonsequences. YOu going over his house knowing that he doesn't like you is saying i dont care if he don't like me i'm just going to do him cause i went to. That makes it seem like your easy. Don't ruin your reputation.


i think im pushing people away but i dont know why. ive only liked a couple of guys in my lifetime (im 17/f) and what happens is i really really like them, but then when they start to like me back, i begin to find them repulsive. for no reason at all. i dont understand. nothing about them changes at all, i just decide that i hate them. why do i do this?? (link)
I think you act like that is because you look at the outside of the guy. When you find interest in them you dont see anything wrog butwhen they find interest in you, they try they hardest to impress you which doesn't work. You should more deeper into a guy. What you might think is not cute can actually make you feel good in the end.


my best friend is a guy. he has been going out with a girl in our group of friends (who i can't stand) for about a month. whenever she isn't around, he is goofy and talkative and fun. but when she is there..it's like i'm invisible. he'll answer whatever i say to him with a short answer..but he'll never say anything to me besides that. after a meeting for our dance (we are both on the committee..along with his gf) i tripped him as he was going out the door. usually he would grin and say something clever..but he just kept walking and didn't say a word. i was talking to my friend about it and i decided i would just go along with it while we were waiting for our rides and see what he does. so we just stood there and talked..like right next to him. i didn't say a word to him. once she left, he came over to talk to me. i didn't want to be mean, so i would answer him..and eventually i was talking. i want to talk to him about it..but i don't want to make it seem like i'm jealous..even though i pretty much am. i just don't see why i have to be completely invisible. what should i do? (link)
The reason the guy is acting like that is because he doesn't want to play arpund with you alot and have his girlfriend think she's cheating on him. If he does they the things you want him to do then he's afraid his girl would be like i can't believe you so he thinks maybe when sh'es around i wont talk to you that much until she leaves. Also, the way he acts around yall, he might think thats not the way he should acts around his gurl. Its all about showing the true you something he shouldn't be scared to show.


when your writing a magazine title in a sentence what do you do? underline it or bold it or italicize it? thanks ! (link)
You make it in your own creation. YOu can bold it,italicize itbut just dont underline it or put in in quotes.


ok for halloween im gonna be like a punk fairy, and i have a really good shirt, awesome arm warmers, and shoes, but does anyone have any ideas of where to get a skirt, or even how to make one, also, somewhere to get really small black wings, thanks for anything (link)
The best store to go for punkish rock is hot topics. THey got THE NICE CLOTHES AND GOTHIC THINGS TO. You shoul take dat place out


My best friend and i have known each other since 3rd grade but now she is HORRIBLE! She tells her other friends that she hates me and says mean things about me to other people! At scholl she ignores me and she is rarely nice to me! She is not as loyal and truthfull and just nice as she was! I need help! Also we have each others secrets! Please no smart ass comments! thanks
~Me (link)
Well its simple shes changed and she aint da gurl she used to be. The easiest thing to do is forget her and just stay to yourself. I mean if she acting like that den she must of not been a good friend to start out with.



In the last week or so, my one guy friend started flirting with me. And on Friday he sat with me and my friend at lunch. He sat by me and kept flirting by me, but I wasn't really thinking of it as flirting cause I didn't think he liked me. Turns out that night when we were IMing each other I said something like who do you think I should go out with and he said me. And i was just like...? And he was like you know I'm serious didn't you notice me flirting with you at lunch today. Then he asked me out and I said yes. Like an hour later he IMs me right when I came back from being away and said hey (my name) i was thinking and I like another girl too. And I don't wanna be going out with you when I like another girl too. So sorry but i guess its over. Does anyone have any idea why he did that in the first place? Or if it was just a joke? Or what?

I'll rate for good answers! (link)
There you go right there. He is in the seventh grade. he doesn't know what he wants. He is so confused because he is experiencing things that he never did before that he doesn't know how to handle it. You just just lay low and aim for guys your age or older because younger guys is not gonna acut it for you.


i am researching a topic for one of my classes and i need information. I've tried google, msn, ask jeeves..all that..but I need more. So does anyone know the effect of gunpowder before, during, and after it's invention. how did it change the world? anymore info would be appriciated. I rate everyone a 5 if they give appropiate answers..thankyou so so soo much! (link)
Before the invention people used ropes and spears that didn't do much damageif it hit a person in a certain place. During the invention it was olny used in battles. Now adults, teens and kids use it to get revenge or to prove that their the baddest thing around. Guns are the reason why most adolscence die these days.




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