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My name is Valerie.
I'm 14 and i currently live in Maryland.
But I act a lot older, and am a lot wiser that a normal girl my age
I'm Italian so i have dark hair and brown eyes.
I love to play the guitar, and sing.
I've been dancing since i was 3 years old and i
I love music.
Its my life and there reason why im here.
I enjoy giving advice,but when it comes to giving advice to myself... it doesnt work.
If I made you laugh, or helped you out, rate me and I'll answer any questions you have. :)
Oh and one more (random) thing.
labels are for cambell soup, not people.
Have a nice day. :)

Website: A little bit more about me
E-mail: valzpro@yahoo.com
Gender: Female
Location: Maryland
Occupation: none
Age: 14
AIM: Shegotrevenge xx
Member Since: July 30, 2005
Answers: 48
Last Update: September 17, 2005
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My boyfriends aunt like hates me. Now we can't hang out because of her and i really love him and he really loves me ut it's so hard because we'll neever see each other. I never even did anything bad or wrong she just hates me for some reason.well maybe because i broke up with him 2 times for VERY good reasons. What could I do to let her let us hang out? Or at least see each and hang out somewhere! thank you! (link)
chocolate. send her chocolate.


is it wrong if you are 15 yrs old and have a 25 year old boyfriend??everyone tells me that its wrong.. (link)
yea..somewhat. 10 year age difference. He prolly is prolly just using you.


how do u give head (link)
here let me show you...? haha no. Ask your mom.


Ok, now get this. I'm a 14 year old male, turning 15 in October, I'm 6' 2", and I weigh 130. I'm not skinny, as most people think when I say that. I do have a 30-31 inch waist, but I also have a large six pack, large chest (100+ lb. bench press, free weight, 180-190 machine), good biceps (35 lb. one-arm curl, 75 lb. two-arm), my forearm is larger than my elbow joint sideways, and my shoulders and neck are worked pretty well (40 pushups are nice and easy). I don't have any stats for my legs right now but I have really large upper legs and calves about the same size. I play baseball and I can run a 4:40 MILE easy (to give you an idea of my legs). But I want some more weight. I have all the size I need but I'm gonna start working with the football team soon for the next season (b/c I'm obviously too small right now) and, well, yeah, I need some more weight. Protein shakes aren't my favorite recommendation, to me they're like a legalized form of steroids. And they basically just build muscle - not the strength with it. But I'm thinking about 'em, but if I did do protein shakes, I'd only do one round. But chyeah, any suggestions on ways that I could go from 130 up to around 160 or 170 within the next few months (before the end of this year)? And hopefully to around at least 200 lbs. by the end of this school year (next May)? Oh yeah, and I'm at least 97-98% muscle and I'd like it to stay that way. Thanks for any and all suggestions I might get. ~All 4 Him 4eva~ (link)
omg... you sound hott. lol
I'd say eat more italian food. And mexican food. Carbs. heck, spend the day at taco bell.Another at McDonalds. Or you could just like.. live there for a while... play on the jungle gymish thing for entertainment when you need a break from eating... check out any girls that walk by i guess. But they will mostly be around 5 if your going to the jungle gymish thing...

sounds like fun to me. =]

anways, rate me if i helped or made ya laugh or somethin.

peace mon


i like this guy a lot. i use to like his best friend, and i still kind of do, but im kind of starting to like him more. and my friends witch are his friends say that he likes me too, but hes really shy, and im not sure if i want to belive them, because he ust doesnt seem like he likes me, but hes friends keep saying he does. and im not sure hat to do. because im not sure if he will tell me he likes me because he is so shy, and im afarid to tell him i like him, and have him not like me and i will feel stupid. thanks so much
b!! (link)
i know how you feel about being afriad. But think about it.If you dont go up to him, in 2 months from now your going to wonder what would have happened between you two.So if he doesnt like you, atleast you tried. And you can move on. Its his loss if he doesnt think your are special and a great girl.Most guys are not good at showing their feelings, and 95% of them want girls to make the first move. So get out there, get yourself a guy sweetie. You'll be glad you did. And if he doesnt like you, there is always his best friend right? Or..younger brother?

rate if i helped!


My question is: My eldest son is in grade 5 and has never had a problem with his school work until this year. We unfortunately had to move to my mothers house because of financial dificulty. In the begining of this year we had to put him in another school closeby sothat my mother can look after him and help him with his schoolwork. But he failed his first trimester. Me and my husband thought we will then put him in a bording school because my son and my mother does not get along very well. We talked to him and explained that it will be better for him and more peacefull. We got his report back today and he failed even worse. What do you sujest we do? How can we help him if we work from 06:00 to 19:30 every day exept saturdays and sundays. (link)
You say you put him in a new school. Did he have a lot of close friends that he hasnt seen?Has he made any new friends.Is he bullied or teased? Have you talked to his teachers? Does he not know the information, not pay attention? Or just not care? Maybe, if he is missing his old friends, try to set up a play day with them. Or get him involed in school activies, interact with the other kids. If he is really against going to boarding school, i wouldnt send him. You dont want to make him more upset, because then it will get worse.(not to scare you)Maybe you could get one of the teachers, or other students to tutor him after school or even during lunch or play time. You could hire a professional tutor, but those companies cost lots of money and he may not get the help he needs. You also said your short on money so that may not be an option.

Maybe he is developing a learn disablity. Like Dyslexia. So i think you should also get that checked out, even more so if family members have history of learning disablities.

I hope i helped and things get better. Please rate me if i did anything for you.
The best of luck, im sure everything will be fine in time.


I'm 14/f. Me and my best friend are in a big fight. She blocked me on aim and refuses to talk about me when my other friends bring up me. I messed up a lot of things last year and i understand why she's mad at me. But we were always there for each other. And when i went through this, she told me that i should get some help because she obviously wasn't helping me. She would then sign off (on aim). I've tried everything to atleast get her to forgive me. I'm not that interested in a friendship. I just hate having people mad at me. Any ideas???
I'll rate high for GOOD advice. (link)
I believe, she doesnt want to talk to you. So dont try to talk to her.Do what she wants. If you've told her your sorry then she knows and you dont have to keep saying it over and over again.
This may not be what your looking for in an answer, but just leave her alone for a while, when she wants to talk to you, she will. She might even what to be friends with you again. I know the feeling about having people mad at you. But just say, she isnt mad at me.She is on vacation and cant call me cuz there arent any phone around. Might sound corny but it works for lots of people. So give it a try, it couldnt hurt.

Rate if i helped.
hope everything works out for you. If not, she wasnt worth your time and must not have been a good enought friend for you, and you deserve better friends.


I am 12 and a half and 4 weeks ago I hooked up with a boy named Luke and I really like him. Although I am supposed to go out with him I am really scared because when my mum will pick me up if she sees him, that she will abandon me from seeing him. I am scared to tell her that I have a boyfriend because I am scared that she wont allow me to see him. Please help! (link)
Your young, there is lots of time to have boyfriends.Hun, i'll tell you now all the pain that they put you thru being assholes all the times sometimes isnt worth it. The sweetest guy is a jerk. I swear that to you. If i were you, i would ask your mum if your aloud to go out with boys. If she says no, ask her if you can go out with them in group dates (dont call it group dates when you ask) call it.. a bunch of friends hanging out, and the guy you like will be there. Don't sneek around, when she catchs you (and she will catch you) she wont trust you and then everything will suck after that.

If i was any help to you please rate me.

Thanks hope everything works out. Is he cute? :-p




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